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~ladies: Reasons Why Your Guy Dumps You For Other Girls~ by vizkiz: 5:29pm On Jun 30, 2015

1. Women listen to their friends too much: We understand the need for female friendship. But when you start letting your single girlfriends (who constantly run guys off or haven't dated since the time of John the baptise) get into the business of your relationship, that's asking for trouble. angry

2. Too boring: come on! You have to work better on your communication skills! angry everytime we chat on phone 50% of your replies are "one word replies" (kk,k,aiit,nop,hmmmn) what the ff? angry
Even when we are together, 70% of your time is spent on korean movies. (Still waiting to kill the morafuker that invented those movies!)

3. Is this a relationship or a prison sentence?: We expect parolees to give an account of where they've been almost all the time, and who they've been with. Parole officers check to see if the parolees actually report to work. Most of the girls we have around nowadays are just like parole officers!

She calls you and the first qustion is "where are you?" (Give me a break!angry)

4. Being too dependent is not a good thing: We want a grown woman who can handle her business, but still let us know that there's a place in her life for us that only we can fill. You're not a child, and we don't expect to treat you like one or take care of you like one. If you come to a guy for every single thing! Money for Your hair, your phone, airtime, new cloths, butt pad etc...baby is this a relationship or a job oppurtunity? angry
well, one day he make make up his mind and be "unavailable"

5. Don't you ever have anything nice to say?: Yeah, we mess up from time to time (and it may seem that those times run pretty close together). But can't you just say something nice! undecided
There was a time I bought somestuffs home from the market and my ex said "these things are too expensive now,I would have gotten it at a cheaper price" (dafuq? Can't she just say that nicely? Or even say "thanks" angry)
Psychologists call it "positive reinforcement." Men call it "giving us a break."

6. There's no future in the past: We've all made mistakes. The thing is to learn from them, not live in them. if your man made a mistake, and you've agreed to forgive him for it, then do that. Don't bring it up and keep beating him over the head with it. If you keep bringing up the past, then be prepared to talk about your man in the past tense, as in "ex."

Of course, this isn't a complete list. This is just a payback thread! tongue

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Re: ~ladies: Reasons Why Your Guy Dumps You For Other Girls~ by DanceVille: 5:30pm On Jun 30, 2015
Nice write-up dude...You're right!
Lemme add mine...
1.Always trying to know where he is 24/7.
2.Requesting of money excessively as if he's an Atm machine.
3.Jealous of every Ladies around him.
4.Taking his photo to Cele church without his awareness.
5.Always nagging him whenever he wanted to kiss you.
*Some text missing*.

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Re: ~ladies: Reasons Why Your Guy Dumps You For Other Girls~ by Slimzjoe(m): 5:31pm On Jun 30, 2015
I seriously Detest Ladies who can't make The Right decisions for themselves and Always Listen to What Friends have to say!
And the ones that think The way Things are in the movies is the way it is in Life undecided

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Re: ~ladies: Reasons Why Your Guy Dumps You For Other Girls~ by Nobody: 5:32pm On Jun 30, 2015
Na u sabi.
Re: ~ladies: Reasons Why Your Guy Dumps You For Other Girls~ by banjicom(m): 5:36pm On Jun 30, 2015
waiting for a counter thread!

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Re: ~ladies: Reasons Why Your Guy Dumps You For Other Girls~ by ireneony(f): 5:37pm On Jun 30, 2015
after all these, what do guys have to offerundecided

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Re: ~ladies: Reasons Why Your Guy Dumps You For Other Girls~ by IamLEGEND1: 5:38pm On Jun 30, 2015
abeg tell dem...

na so some of dem too dey act like zombie.

if their friends start to dey bad-mouth u, ur own don finish be dat. coz slowly but surely, she go start to dey nod along and even join dem to insult u (behind closed doors)

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Re: ~ladies: Reasons Why Your Guy Dumps You For Other Girls~ by Tallesty1(m): 5:38pm On Jun 30, 2015
Don't talk about the future until it is time to talk about the future.

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Re: ~ladies: Reasons Why Your Guy Dumps You For Other Girls~ by stan241(m): 5:39pm On Jun 30, 2015
This is actually pretty cool.....was "fortunate" enough to be with someone in that no1 category and it wasn't just funny, was practically defending myself every other day for some one reason or the other
Re: ~ladies: Reasons Why Your Guy Dumps You For Other Girls~ by stan241(m): 5:39pm On Jun 30, 2015
This is actually pretty cool.....was "fortunate" enough to be with someone in that no1 category and it wasn't just funny, was practically defending myself every other day for one reason or the other
Re: ~ladies: Reasons Why Your Guy Dumps You For Other Girls~ by MsBliss(f): 5:39pm On Jun 30, 2015
hmm
Re: ~ladies: Reasons Why Your Guy Dumps You For Other Girls~ by stan241(m): 5:41pm On Jun 30, 2015
ireneony:
after all these, what do guys have to offerundecided
Actually quite a lot unless of course you keep being around "boys"

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Re: ~ladies: Reasons Why Your Guy Dumps You For Other Girls~ by stan241(m): 5:43pm On Jun 30, 2015
IamLEGEND1:
abeg tell dem...

na so some of dem too dey act like zombie.

if their friends start to dey bad-mouth u, ur own don finish be dat. coz slowly but surely, she go start to dey nod along and even join dem to insult u (behind closed doors)
Yea exactly, its the worst kinda relationship a guy can be in honestly
Re: ~ladies: Reasons Why Your Guy Dumps You For Other Girls~ by jamex93(m): 5:43pm On Jun 30, 2015
tell dem jor
Re: ~ladies: Reasons Why Your Guy Dumps You For Other Girls~ by vizkiz: 5:45pm On Jun 30, 2015
ireneony:
after all these, what do guys have to offerundecided

love and solid dick! angry

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Re: ~ladies: Reasons Why Your Guy Dumps You For Other Girls~ by czarr(m): 5:47pm On Jun 30, 2015
ireneony:
after all these, what do guys have to offerundecided
....our diicks!!

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Re: ~ladies: Reasons Why Your Guy Dumps You For Other Girls~ by banjicom(m): 5:49pm On Jun 30, 2015
ireneony:
after all these, what do guys have to offerundecided



Our Dick and Money!

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Re: ~ladies: Reasons Why Your Guy Dumps You For Other Girls~ by ireneony(f): 5:52pm On Jun 30, 2015
vizkiz:


love and solid dick! angry
if i hear...

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Re: ~ladies: Reasons Why Your Guy Dumps You For Other Girls~ by vizkiz: 5:58pm On Jun 30, 2015
ireneony:
if i hear...

why will you go out with a broke guy in the first place?
Answer: he's gat a big and strong condo! angry

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Re: ~ladies: Reasons Why Your Guy Dumps You For Other Girls~ by Mhizizzy(f): 5:58pm On Jun 30, 2015
Counter thread

Nice one tho
Re: ~ladies: Reasons Why Your Guy Dumps You For Other Girls~ by naijaboiy: 6:01pm On Jun 30, 2015
please I need a link to the attack thread grin

Vizkiz help.
Re: ~ladies: Reasons Why Your Guy Dumps You For Other Girls~ by Nobody: 6:05pm On Jun 30, 2015
naijaboiy:
please I need a link to the attack thread grin

Vizkiz help.

It's on my profile undecided
Re: ~ladies: Reasons Why Your Guy Dumps You For Other Girls~ by naijaboiy: 6:08pm On Jun 30, 2015
misssclassy:


It's on my profile undecided
Ok.
Re: ~ladies: Reasons Why Your Guy Dumps You For Other Girls~ by vizkiz: 7:48pm On Jun 30, 2015
naijaboiy:
please I need a link to the attack thread grin

Vizkiz help.

you don see am?
Re: ~ladies: Reasons Why Your Guy Dumps You For Other Girls~ by littlemistress: 6:11am On Jul 01, 2015
Most ladies at one point or the other exhibit one or more of these characters.. would u keep dumping & changing 'em? undecided

On the issue of listening to friends, i choose to believe a girl who lets her friends take decisions for her is immature intellectually.

Boring?! Dang! some guys are boring too.. some ain't even adventurous! spare the ladies please!

If ur bae asks whr u are., is it wrong? bt it shouldn't really be the first question unless you've given her reasons to doubt ur whereabouts.


If a lady asks u for money all the time, guess she knows you've got it.. dependency is nt good in every sense of it. work for ur money, spend it & feel good cool


Well, I've got some female friends that's got bad mouth!! it's nt cool. saying 'thank you' goes a long way.
dear men, learn to appreciate ur ladies too. *thenkz*


Some just don't forgive & forget. I as a lady can forgive u for hurting me bt if it's abt cheating?! I'll never get it off my mind. guess it applies to some ladies too.

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Re: ~ladies: Reasons Why Your Guy Dumps You For Other Girls~ by anex4life(f): 9:09am On Jul 01, 2015
nice 1
Re: ~ladies: Reasons Why Your Guy Dumps You For Other Girls~ by opedaydydx9(m): 9:17am On Jul 01, 2015
littlemistress:
Most ladies at one point or the other exhibit one or more of these characters.. would u keep dumping & changing 'em? undecided

On the issue of listening to friends, i choose to believe a girl who lets her friends take decisions for her is immature intellectually.

Boring?! Dang! some guys are boring too.. some ain't even adventurous! spare the ladies please!

If ur bae asks whr u are., is it wrong? bt it shouldn't really be the first question unless you've given her reasons to doubt ur whereabouts.


If a lady asks u for money all the time, guess she knows you've got it.. dependency is nt good in every sense of it. work for ur money, spend it & feel good cool


Well, I've got some female friends that's got bad mouth!! it's nt cool. saying 'thank you' goes a long way.
dear men, learn to appreciate ur ladies too. *thenkz*


Some just don't forgive & forget. I as a lady can forgive u for hurting me bt if it's abt cheating?! I'll never get it off my mind. guess it applies to some ladies too.

Re: ~ladies: Reasons Why Your Guy Dumps You For Other Girls~ by Nobody: 9:43am On Jul 01, 2015
Most ladies are just too dull and they always want their guy to take them as if his life depends on them, making unrealistic demands and expect the guy to act on it immediately.

They don't know how to make any sensible conversation. They want to equal with men and at the same time want men to treat them as women.

Some even want to isolate u from ur friends, they talk freely with other guys but won't allow u talk with girls.

Some babes are block heads sha...

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Re: ~ladies: Reasons Why Your Guy Dumps You For Other Girls~ by opedaydydx9(m): 3:51pm On Jul 05, 2015
I wish 2 of my bitches could read this, prolly I might get to marry one :s.....

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Re: ~ladies: Reasons Why Your Guy Dumps You For Other Girls~ by tinuolababy(f): 3:59pm On Jul 05, 2015
Welldone op. Nice piece

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