sonofananimal:


NOT THAT YOU DON'T GIVE A THOUGHT, YOU ONLY TRY TO FORGET IT, THIS ARE ONE OF THE LIES WE TELL OUR SELF.

IT WILL SOON COME BACK SOMETIME IN LIFE.



I AM SURROUNDED WITH SO MANY NAIJA GIRLS AND THAT IS NONE OF MY BUSINESS

Insidous:


I don't try to forget anything. I know it or only a matter of TIME

Do me a favour. G somewhere without Nigerian girls and if you can't you know the other option, don't you? It is that easy and cheap

Allureoftheseas:



You ugly piece of shit, lmao, I gat loads of money though, if you want some we can hook up for real let me spoil you since you don't like broke guys, I won't take you serious but we can have fun, there is more than enough money and I gat more from where it came from , you ready? Broke ass bitchh hit me up for real.

queensmith:


you know i agree with this 100%, unfortunately i'm not sure most of the (non sensible men which alot of women are unfortunate to come across) think the same.

I think as a default the woman should assume the guy isn't interested in long term, and stick around long enough to find out whether she's interested in playing his game with him.

littlemistress:
Most ladies at one point or the other exhibit one or more of these characters.. would u keep dumping & changing 'em?

On the issue of listening to friends, i choose to believe a girl who lets her friends take decisions for her is immature intellectually.

Boring?! Dang! some guys are boring too.. some ain't even adventurous! spare the ladies please!

If ur bae asks whr u are., is it wrong? bt it shouldn't really be the first question unless you've given her reasons to doubt ur whereabouts.


If a lady asks u for money all the time, guess she knows you've got it.. dependency is nt good in every sense of it. work for ur money, spend it & feel good


Well, I've got some female friends that's got bad mouth!! it's nt cool. saying 'thank you' goes a long way.
dear men, learn to appreciate ur ladies too. *thenkz*


Some just don't forgive & forget. I as a lady can forgive u for hurting me bt if it's abt cheating?! I'll never get it off my mind. guess it applies to some ladies too.

DrGroove:
You spread your legs too much,too often,too regularly


You make yourself too available,thus choking him.


You make him know that you love him too much like your life is dependent on him



You try to get too close to his friends and family members



An average typical guy will dump you!

misssclassy:

It's on my profile

Minet16:

Minet16:

vizkiz:

1. Women listen to their friends too much: We understand the need for female friendship. But when you start letting your single girlfriends (who constantly run guys off or haven't dated since the time of John the baptise) get into the business of your relationship, that's asking for trouble.

2. Too boring: come on! You have to work better on your communication skills! everytime we chat on phone 50% of your replies are "one word replies" (kk,k,aiit,nop,hmmmn) what the ff?
Even when we are together, 70% of your time is spent on korean movies. (Still waiting to kill the morafuker that invented those movies!)

3. Is this a relationship or a prison sentence?: We expect parolees to give an account of where they've been almost all the time, and who they've been with. Parole officers check to see if the parolees actually report to work. Most of the girls we have around nowadays are just like parole officers!

She calls you and the first qustion is "where are you?" (Give me a break!)

4. Being too dependent is not a good thing: We want a grown woman who can handle her business, but still let us know that there's a place in her life for us that only we can fill. You're not a child, and we don't expect to treat you like one or take care of you like one. If you come to a guy for every single thing! Money for Your hair, your phone, airtime, new cloths, butt pad etc...baby is this a relationship or a job oppurtunity?
well, one day he make make up his mind and be "unavailable"

5. Don't you ever have anything nice to say?: Yeah, we mess up from time to time (and it may seem that those times run pretty close together). But can't you just say something nice!
There was a time I bought somestuffs home from the market and my ex said "these things are too expensive now,I would have gotten it at a cheaper price" (dafuq? Can't she just say that nicely? Or even say "thanks" )
Psychologists call it "positive reinforcement." Men call it "giving us a break."

6. There's no future in the past: We've all made mistakes. The thing is to learn from them, not live in them. if your man made a mistake, and you've agreed to forgive him for it, then do that. Don't bring it up and keep beating him over the head with it. If you keep bringing up the past, then be prepared to talk about your man in the past tense, as in "ex."

Of course, this isn't a complete list. This is just a payback thread!

kandiikane:


Lol but from experience, that game doesn't end well tbh. I guess it tends to be difficult for individuals who don't do the "spur of the moment" relationships. But you always know don't you, like from the beginning, that there is no future there, so like you said, it's up to her to see whether she can wait long enough for any changes.

DanielGb:


correct.
At least u get sense pass federal govt.

For other ladies[MY PRAYER]: Receive sense!

littlemistress:


No, i dont. How do u mean??

banjicom:
waiting for a counter thread!

ireneony:
after all these, what do guys have to offer

littlemistress:
Most ladies at one point or the other exhibit one or more of these characters.. would u keep dumping & changing 'em?

On the issue of listening to friends, i choose to believe a girl who lets her friends take decisions for her is immature intellectually.

Boring?! Dang! some guys are boring too.. some ain't even adventurous! spare the ladies please!

If ur bae asks whr u are., is it wrong? bt it shouldn't really be the first question unless you've given her reasons to doubt ur whereabouts.


If a lady asks u for money all the time, guess she knows you've got it.. dependency is nt good in every sense of it. work for ur money, spend it & feel good


Well, I've got some female friends that's got bad mouth!! it's nt cool. saying 'thank you' goes a long way.
dear men, learn to appreciate ur ladies too. *thenkz*


Some just don't forgive & forget. I as a lady can forgive u for hurting me bt if it's abt cheating?! I'll never get it off my mind. guess it applies to some ladies too.

otunsman:
Stop calling guys derogatory names.like cheats.Cos you are not faithful too.

littlemistress:




Come off it.. we all hv sense.

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