crackhaus:
You wouldn't believe me when I say these stories are what most men and young guys are already aware of. I mean, who do the married women cheat with?

Abeg you people should say something we haven't heard and seen before?

cococandy:
and some guys were arguing with me yesterday that it is not in women's nature to desire multiple men.

kreamidiva:

Arochukwu. Abia state.

It's one of their numerous beliefs that still holds water till date.

cococandy: Eh? so you guys already knew that polygamy isn't the 'exclusive preserve' of guys, why do y'all like to argue otherwise here on NL while real life studies show otherwise?

crackhaus:
Really though, I have to see that thread to believe some guys would argue that it's not in a woman's nature to desire multiple men. Delusional!

If any woman I'm with dares to tell me she doesn't have at least one man she desires apart from me throughout the entire duration of our relationship till that point, I instinctively develop the feeling that she can cheat on me.

That kain lie will never fly with me at all...

crackhaus:
I've never said or argued this before...not on NL, not in the real world, not in my dream.
If some guys on NL did, definitely not me

cococandy: I just pity men who think women are incapable of infidelity.

50calibre:

You are living in a fantasy world, and you know it. Women are not built to have multiple partners, it's not female nature.

cococandy:

eh? so you don't read posts where guys be like it's in men's nature to desire multiples but not in women"s nature hence cheating men can be excused?
ah. you must be on holiday those times when those threads came up.

well thank God you're grounded in reality.

wait i dey come

scribble: First of all you have to comprehend that men and woman are wired differently.No we are wired to want as many beautiful women as we can afford....

crackhaus:
Men are polygamous by nature, women are not.

We're talking about desiring the opposite sex. Of course it's a human thing (both men and women) to desire or find something in the opposite sex attractive. Isn't this your argument?

What is polygamy?
It's in man's nature to be polygamous, but not in a woman's nature because society doesn't condone it...except in places like India.

cococandy: if you have a man and still desire another one or two or three outside because of whatever reason you may come up with,what can we call it?

you're right about society. but society is not nature. and many many women have proven times without number that it is in their nature to desire multiple men at once.

anyway that's none of my business sha.
just be real with your expectations that's all.

Silkmoth33: polyandry

cococandy: polyandry/polygyny both are subsets of polygamy.
you are the guy forming English teacher for me yesterday abi?
I just ignored you because I was busy dealing with 50calibre.

now educate yourself.

polygamy refers to both man and woman collectively
but when one is talking about a particular gender, you use polyandy and polygyny for female and male respectively.

50calibre: @cococandy cheating is not naturally part of the female nature, it's an acquired behaviour.

A woman who's happy won't cheat, even many unhappy ones still won't cheat. The minority of those who cheat, cheat because they're not happy, so they resort to other means of satisfaction & happiness.

Most of the time, they're just following the evil counsel of their friends.

Whereas a man doesn't need to be unhappy before he cheats, I don't think you understand how the male brain works.

Even if I have beyonce as wife, I still want to smash that hot chic I see outside, it's nature.

Silkmoth33: no its polyandry and polygyny for males and females respectively...

Not the otherway around

cococandy: Ok. so majority of Nigerian wives are not happy according to this study I stumbled upon.
it is well


I don't claim to understand men o. far from it


just want you guys to realize that you don't understand women that much either.

or haven't you seen men who do EVERYTHING for their wives yet got rewarded with unfaithfulness?

[size=35pt]it's a big wide world[/size]

50calibre: @cococandy cheating is not naturally part of the female nature, it's an acquired behaviour.

BananaBender:

This makes no sense.

cococandy: if you have a man and still desire another one or two or three outside because of whatever reason you may come up with,what can we call it?

you're right about society. but society is not nature. and many many women have proven times without number that it is in their nature to desire multiple men at once.

anyway that's none of my business sha.
just be real with your expectations that's all.

BananaBender:

This makes no sense.

cococandy: i didn't realize it was getting so late.
goodnight y"all

don't be mad me dudes
i'm not the DNA expert or the durex company that's exposing your cheating wives.
just fast ans pray
everything will be alright

50calibre:
Shut up!! I see the tautology, you should know it's an error.

BananaBender:

Bwahahahahaha

Calm down with the insecurities boy, I was talking about the intended message of the sentence.

crackhaus:
Where is this coming from?

Women...always gotta make snide comments

crackhaus:
Be real? Expectations?
Pass the message you want to pass across clearly, I don't understand what you trying to say.

cococandy: Ok. so many of Nigerian wives are not happy according to this study I stumbled upon.
it is well


I don't claim to understand men o. far from it


just want you guys to realize that you don't understand women that much either.

or haven't you seen men who do EVERYTHING for their wives yet got rewarded with unfaithfulness?

it's a big wide world