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Turning 30 And Feeling Depressed! by BankoleNco: 5:47am On Oct 07, 2014 |
Hey guys, I don't know if this is the right place to post this, but I'd go ahead and post here as it is related to health (depression). Well, I don't want to bore you with long sermon-esque writings, so I'd skip the fancy stuff and go straight to the point. I'd be turning 30 mid next year and its really eating me up! I feel depressed and old! Its been giving me sleepless nights and middle of the night insomnia I wake up 4.00 am for no reason nowadays and just stare at the ceiling lost in thought and scared as hell with thoughts of being in the twilight of my youth, knowing I'd have to get married pretty soon, just 10 years away from 40, no more clubbing, no more spontaneous Saturday drives. The worst part is I spent MOST of my teenage and youth life in self development and didn't have time to indulge in ![]() Did any of you guys currently 30 and above experience same? Would really help if someone said something. *sigh* 21 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: Turning 30 And Feeling Depressed! by slap1(m): 6:27am On Oct 07, 2014 |
My first guess is, 'This guy wants to have it all!' Bro, you can't have the best of both worlds. How long do you wanna club and drive spontaneously? Life comes in stages and you have to condition your mind in readiness for each stage. And who says 30 or 40 is old? Have you heard that life begins at 40? You spend quality time thinking of tomorrow and end up wasting today. Live one day at a time! Good luck! 144 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: Turning 30 And Feeling Depressed! by phreakabit(m): 6:28am On Oct 07, 2014 |
Relax mate shi happens. . . Same ship here. You can't fight age/aging. In due time you'd get used to it, just make some minor adjustments before 33 ![]() 14 Likes |
Re: Turning 30 And Feeling Depressed! by Funjosh(m): 6:32am On Oct 07, 2014 |
hOW SURE ARE YOU THAT YOU ARE DEPRESSED ![]() 2 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Turning 30 And Feeling Depressed! by BankoleNco: 6:36am On Oct 07, 2014 |
Funjosh: Its been+ Lost interest in my friends football , work and most things I used to enjoy doing. . . Is that depressed enough? |
Re: Turning 30 And Feeling Depressed! by PAO429: 6:36am On Oct 07, 2014 |
I will advice u to take a vacation trip probaly out of nigeria, surround urself with Loved ones,because depression works more when been lonely..find a companion,try 2 do only stuff dat will make u happy....I think u will get better a bit...as me,m also kinda depressed because m into something I don't like that is my school and I ll be graduating nxt Month..I can't just wait 4me 2get out 6 Likes |
Re: Turning 30 And Feeling Depressed! by phreakabit(m): 6:44am On Oct 07, 2014 |
I feel op's pain 30 is the actual start of Adulthood in some sense. . . Its really scary and to think that just next year you'd be 30 is a nightmare trust me. Turning 18-27 is fun once 28 you start changing, 29 depressed and then 30 game over! You must become an adult and get ready to start a family. . Spend the remaining [size=18pt]70%[/size] of your life with [size=18pt]1[/size] woman ![]() 51 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Turning 30 And Feeling Depressed! by PAO429: 6:59am On Oct 07, 2014 |
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Re: Turning 30 And Feeling Depressed! by Gboliwe: 7:23am On Oct 07, 2014 |
Wow! Never knew that living life stops at age 30! I have to make the most of what is left before I hit 30 then. Seriously, some people like to create psychological problems where there shouldn't be any. Why someone will feel depressed for attaining 30 beats me. I guess attaining 50 will be suicidal! God help me! 15 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Turning 30 And Feeling Depressed! by Nobody: 8:50am On Oct 07, 2014 |
Why nau? Its sounds really weird |
Re: Turning 30 And Feeling Depressed! by mrvance(m): 8:51am On Oct 07, 2014 |
Coming soon....Nairaland |
Re: Turning 30 And Feeling Depressed! by lilprinze: 8:51am On Oct 07, 2014 |
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Re: Turning 30 And Feeling Depressed! by ebolablast: 8:51am On Oct 07, 2014 |
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Re: Turning 30 And Feeling Depressed! by jjwaterfalls(f): 8:52am On Oct 07, 2014 |
Eya sorry, I can imagine hw it feels ![]() 1 Like |
Re: Turning 30 And Feeling Depressed! by Richardjemedafe(m): 8:52am On Oct 07, 2014 |
I met this girl on fb and we ve been chatting for 6 months now. Today, i logged in and i saw her online, and we started chatting immediately. ME: Hello dear HER: happy independence. ME: same to u dear HER: so where is my independence gift? ME: Habba! Big girl like u is asking for independence gift?. HER: Abeg oo. Me am nt a big girl oo. U wnt to deny me independence gift abi? ....I quickly went to buy N500 card and sent the pin into her chat inbox.... ME:Dear manage this pls. HER: noo, pls am only joking. I will nt take that. ME: pls pls. HER: and i refuse. I cnt take anything from u. ....i quickly loaded the card and transfered it into her line acct... HER: u think u are smart eh? ....a minute later heard an alert msg tang-tang..''N1000 is transfered to u from...'' ME: whats the meaning of that? HER: i told u, u shldnt. ...(this girl wan show me big girl abi?) i used my last N2000 to buy card, load am, making N3000 and send it to her. ....Some minutes later, an alert, tang- tang..''N6000 is transfered to u from....'' chaiii..this girl wan try me? And i dnt hv any money again! I called my friend and borrowed the N6000 he was keeping for his landlord, i told him i will be expecting N24,000 in the next 5min and i will pay him back...i quickly buy card of N6000, and sent her the N12,000..and i kept my phone close to my ear expecting alert... Ten minutes later, instead of msg alert, it was a call from her...''Hello dear, jst call to thank u for the independence gift..we'll chat later''.... Omo see likes 139 Likes 11 Shares |
Re: Turning 30 And Feeling Depressed! by Nobody: 8:52am On Oct 07, 2014 |
You can be scared if you've not achieved anything, btw it's not too late, in five years time if you remain the same then you can worry. This plot of Land is still not for sale, trespassers will be used for pepper soup. 2 Likes |
Re: Turning 30 And Feeling Depressed! by holyboss: 8:52am On Oct 07, 2014 |
Hmm! 30 ![]() Just get a wife 2 Likes
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Re: Turning 30 And Feeling Depressed! by olayincar(m): 8:53am On Oct 07, 2014 |
:Just reading d comment |
Re: Turning 30 And Feeling Depressed! by MrRhymes101(m): 8:53am On Oct 07, 2014 |
Get busy!! n Stop thinking of marriage its d major cause of ur depression...Also wen u r less busy make sure u bleep any babe u see, ur neighbors, ur street babes, ur church gals, landlord's daughter, any babe at alllllll........it works like magic. u will testify to over-excitement instead of depression ![]() 10 Likes |
Re: Turning 30 And Feeling Depressed! by viazi: 8:54am On Oct 07, 2014 |
Are U sex starved? If yes start fucking your girl seriously, it helps a lot. 4 Likes |
Re: Turning 30 And Feeling Depressed! by bigt2(m): 8:55am On Oct 07, 2014 |
Why depressed ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() 2 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Turning 30 And Feeling Depressed! by justi4jesu(f): 8:55am On Oct 07, 2014 |
Get a job I dont get!! Do you want to Club forever ![]() ![]() ![]() 1 Like |
Re: Turning 30 And Feeling Depressed! by ratiken(m): 8:55am On Oct 07, 2014 |
Pele. Take a trip to Vegas and spend a month. Marry a relatively younger lady who is ready to explore life and fun. Quit worry, it never solves anything. |
Re: Turning 30 And Feeling Depressed! by plainmirror(m): 8:55am On Oct 07, 2014 |
A picture speaks thousands of words. This should lift your spirit though .... 18 Likes 4 Shares
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Re: Turning 30 And Feeling Depressed! by pweetixandy: 8:56am On Oct 07, 2014 |
Ok 28 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Turning 30 And Feeling Depressed! by adepiero: 8:56am On Oct 07, 2014 |
Forget all the sermons in the comment box. I know exactly how you feel even though am not thirty yet. what you want is a lasting memory of your twenties. something you can always remember, smile, and say I can't believe I did that. well you have all the time in the world for that! my advice, make a list of things you want to do and explore them! other things you least expected too might happens. just have fun bro. *But don't forget, life is in stages and at some point you have to man up to your responsibilities which includes getting married, raising a family* 8 Likes |
Re: Turning 30 And Feeling Depressed! by Complexalfa(m): 8:56am On Oct 07, 2014 |
Ok? |
Re: Turning 30 And Feeling Depressed! by Nobody: 8:56am On Oct 07, 2014 |
I'm 22years but I feel the same way bro...It's eating me up badly... |
Re: Turning 30 And Feeling Depressed! by austinbrown: 8:56am On Oct 07, 2014 |
Its not easy dear |
Re: Turning 30 And Feeling Depressed! by bigfat12(m): 8:56am On Oct 07, 2014 |
why? |
Re: Turning 30 And Feeling Depressed! by clefstone(m): 8:57am On Oct 07, 2014 |
I can relate with what u r saying OP. Felt same way when I was turning 20, not to d extent of having sleepless nights though. I feel its cos we set targets for ourselves as to what we hope to hv achieved at the turn of a new decade in our lives but such high targets r hardly met in entirety that we always wish for more time. Good tin is tht we eventually gey used to our new age wen it finally hits us. I will be 30 next year nd I am already worried tht I'm not married. By d way, u r not depressed. 5 Likes |
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