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Re: Do Ladies Ever Spend For Their Boyfriends? by Tymax(m): 10:45am On Oct 06, 2014 |
MizMyColi:I'll be the judge of that, thank you. Besides, what you wrote was anything but subtle. Now you have your chain of boyfriends drooling in admiration. ![]() Plus, why don't you summarize your thoughts? I believe you are aware of concise alternatives to your "epistles". Perhaps you wouldn't want your ideas to appear curt but please dear, terse doesn't translate to rude now, does it? |
Re: Do Ladies Ever Spend For Their Boyfriends? by cc150615(f): 11:01am On Oct 06, 2014 |
watching in 3d,what I know is that the kinda guy u are will determine the kinda girls u attract, there's no big deal in a lady giving money to a Guy If she has enough nd thinks he needs it,it doesn't even have to be a bf not to talk of when it's her bf. y'all complaining of ladies seeing a relationship as job opportunity, Na u coss am o cos when u were toasting her u kept trying to prove to her how much u can spend for her so whenever she finally agrees how do u expect her to erase that thinking. Anyway Na una sabi the kinda girls wey una get around u sef, waz my biznes. |
Re: Do Ladies Ever Spend For Their Boyfriends? by MizMyColi(f): 11:03am On Oct 06, 2014 |
Tymax: True, you'll be the judge of that. I'm permitted to judge myself too innit? ![]() Owh, those glowing accolades I wrote about me? They're actually different people's opinion of me, over the years ![]() What's the point anyway, if I cannot believe/say that about myself ![]() Sometimes, yes. In some scenarios. Besides, I believe it's basically about using my discretion when trading with words. Short cuts it at times. When expressing a heartfelt opinion, I try not to hold back, chiefly because, I think it might spur/inspire another viewer. Trust me, as a very worded individual, that was "summary" It's left to the viewer to read or not to read ![]() Just being Mizmycoli: Repping her kind, Everywhere she goes ![]() ![]() ![]() 1 Like |
Re: Do Ladies Ever Spend For Their Boyfriends? by Tymax(m): 11:53am On Oct 06, 2014 |
MizMyColi:Another epsitle. ![]() |
Re: Do Ladies Ever Spend For Their Boyfriends? by MizMyColi(f): 12:07pm On Oct 06, 2014 |
Tymax: A mild one, I think ![]() Yeah, you're right. In as much as I desire to be understood, I've learned or rather, I'm learning to, seek more to understand than to be understood. 1 Like |
Re: Do Ladies Ever Spend For Their Boyfriends? by AfricanApple(f): 1:01pm On Oct 06, 2014 |
there are lotta girls out there who would love to spend on their bf, but they know if they do, u guys will begin to look down on them and will think they want to track u down with d spendings. as I small reach like dis I know wetin I don do for guys, not bragging thou 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Do Ladies Ever Spend For Their Boyfriends? by ijechikky(f): 1:09pm On Oct 06, 2014 |
Atmmachine:wch dream? Evn tho I nevr spend much mony 4my bf,i don spnd reach 15k ![]() 1 Like |
Re: Do Ladies Ever Spend For Their Boyfriends? by blackprowler: 2:23pm On Oct 06, 2014 |
nickz: This is the result of a very dumb and ignorant society with sick value system trying a poor imitation of modern society. Let most keep deceiving themselves; the fact remains that if the Nigerian woman fully understand the meaning of gender equality as pushed for by women in advanced societies, they would absolutely reject it. Alas, the "modern" Nigerian woman wants to have the best of both worlds. To those who scream "generalisation," I really can't help you. Help yourself by reading more about the world and try to develop your commonsense too. There will never be 100% in description of any human activity. The attitude of the majority defines the whole. 2 Likes |
Re: Do Ladies Ever Spend For Their Boyfriends? by blackprowler: 2:52pm On Oct 06, 2014 |
AfricanApple: You are right. That's why Nigerian problem is the society. The society's standards and values. People align themselves to what their society has defined as right. If you decide to stand on what you believe is right, you'll run into A LOT of problems, one of which you just outlined. Nigeria is a sick country; sick society. Our problem is not government. Bad government is one of the end result of our sick society |
Re: Do Ladies Ever Spend For Their Boyfriends? by Nobody: 9:29pm On Oct 06, 2014 |
neoapocalypse:is it a competition? Why should she spend on you because you spend on her? 1 Like |
Re: Do Ladies Ever Spend For Their Boyfriends? by Nobody: 9:31pm On Oct 06, 2014 |
......lol... Girls spend too......It must be a circle... You spend...I spend...We both spend.....We both enjoy....We both lose when we break up.... 2 Likes |
Re: Do Ladies Ever Spend For Their Boyfriends? by Nobody: 9:34pm On Oct 06, 2014 |
chimerase2:#yawns |
Re: Do Ladies Ever Spend For Their Boyfriends? by benjsniper33: 10:23pm On Oct 06, 2014 |
MYAs2011: omo olóbè |
Re: Do Ladies Ever Spend For Their Boyfriends? by Miramee(f): 10:28pm On Oct 06, 2014 |
Yea...we do |
Re: Do Ladies Ever Spend For Their Boyfriends? by AfricanApple(f): 11:33pm On Oct 06, 2014 |
blackprowler:u are so right @ u will run into alot of problems I'm telling u it will take like a thousand years to solve dis issue |
Re: Do Ladies Ever Spend For Their Boyfriends? by NaMe4: 12:28am On Oct 07, 2014 |
AfricanApple: Even if their bf spends crazy on them? I'm not saying she must reciprocate, but the thoughtfulness in doing little things which would involve spending would go a long way in defining the sort of individual the lady is. Though, if she doesn't have what to spend, that would be different. |
Re: Do Ladies Ever Spend For Their Boyfriends? by Nobody: 3:20am On Oct 07, 2014 |
MizMyColi: U really funny tho! It seems u wanna put up a placard,indicating you literally made your first ever long call of 15mins that didn't take up to N300...I mean,its nothing compared to when girl rolls out cash,i thought you would have said,that you dashed him a wrist watch or something. Am still waiting to find a Nigerian girl that would buy an expensive item;like a car,a house or something for their man. Nigerian girls has been stingy right from inception. 4 Likes |
Re: Do Ladies Ever Spend For Their Boyfriends? by Nobody: 5:57am On Oct 07, 2014 |
firstEVA: It's not a competition but it's a two way street , if one side is doing all the heavy spending don't you think it's a bit odd. I'm not saying while you are about to spend on her she should also have her own cash to spend on you at the same time , no be market una dey buy , but over time if the man has been doing the heavy spending and she has hardly spent on him save for a few boxers and a couple of shirts then he has to reevaluate his relationship with her. Every six months let him bring out his calculator and add up all he has spent on her and also add up all she has spent on him ( including recharge cards and the occasional eat outs ) , if she has only spent a fraction of what he has spent on her then he's on a long thing. If in a period of six months he has spent about 200k on her and she has only spent about 5k on him he needs to take a hike , if a man has spent that much he deserves at least 60% of that sum back. The only exception to this rule is if she earns way much lower than him , he can be of help until she gets a good job or her income increases , this is also a two way street and the lady should be prepared to help her man out by spending on him if he doesn't have a good job. This is however different in marriage as a man should be ready to pay all the bills for his family regardless of what the wife makes but she should be ready to help him if his obligations are too much without expecting a refund. I have heard of cases where a wife will lend money to the husband for household expenses when he doesn't have and collect it back as soon as he collects his next salary. There was a case a young man posted on Nairaland a few years back where the fiancée wanted to lend him money to do their wedding ( not his wedding o but theirs ) after the man had just cleared out his account to secure an accommodation for then to the tune of about a million and half naira because the landlord gave him a quit notice from his former apartment. The lady insisted he pay back as soon as he collects his salary because to her a real man takes care of all the bills ( and she could afford it ). Some ladies are just too stingy and can't afford to dote on a man she calls her own. I want a wife who will be a helper and supporter and not one who will be a dependent and baby machine. 6 Likes |
Re: Do Ladies Ever Spend For Their Boyfriends? by chibwike(m): 6:47am On Oct 07, 2014 |
yes yes....My gf spends alot on me |
Re: Do Ladies Ever Spend For Their Boyfriends? by MizMyColi(f): 6:54am On Oct 07, 2014 |
sauceny: Chai ![]() *Shaking My Head Soliloquizingly* Pardon my asking please; But, What brand of Elephant Grass and Skunk are You High On, this morning? ![]() |
Re: Do Ladies Ever Spend For Their Boyfriends? by Nobody: 7:15am On Oct 07, 2014 |
Tymax:I thought I was the only one observing her egoistic display... What rare breed? Eagles are rare NOT pea hens...I'm not hating... There's nothing you are doing differently... Don't get head over heels or "Over hyped". Keep a cool head and improve on yourself... |
Re: Do Ladies Ever Spend For Their Boyfriends? by Nobody: 7:30am On Oct 07, 2014 |
MizMyColi: Ms maconzi or makurdi. I neva knew elephant grass had various categories,since u accustomed to takin it as well,i jst want u to knw that am nt degradin ur vry best,by makin a 15mins call. Maybe u shuld try an hour call & i promise to giv u a round of applause for tryin #Don'tBlameMe 4 Likes |
Re: Do Ladies Ever Spend For Their Boyfriends? by Nobody: 7:46am On Oct 07, 2014 |
MizMyColi: Haba maconzi Abin da kake yi ba kyau. My sista go to d market & get ur boi friend/man a 2014 Mercedes Benz G65 for $300,000,then u free to cum on nairaland & b a braggadocio. After all pple like; Genevieve Nnaji Angelina Jolie Beyonce Knowles Carter Linda Ikeji Jennifer Lopez...Et cetera Are all known to hav gotten sum1 in their lives an expensive toy... |
Re: Do Ladies Ever Spend For Their Boyfriends? by MizMyColi(f): 7:53am On Oct 07, 2014 |
sauceny:Lolest I see you're so pained, you had to quote me twice ![]() Btw, ![]() |
Re: Do Ladies Ever Spend For Their Boyfriends? by MizMyColi(f): 7:57am On Oct 07, 2014 |
Re: Do Ladies Ever Spend For Their Boyfriends? by chibwike(m): 7:57am On Oct 07, 2014 |
sauceny:Do you have a gf? 1 Like |
Re: Do Ladies Ever Spend For Their Boyfriends? by Nobody: 7:58am On Oct 07, 2014 |
MizMyColi:#smh# |
Re: Do Ladies Ever Spend For Their Boyfriends? by MizMyColi(f): 8:00am On Oct 07, 2014 |
Re: Do Ladies Ever Spend For Their Boyfriends? by Nobody: 8:07am On Oct 07, 2014 |
MizMyColi:Thanks. 1 Like |
Re: Do Ladies Ever Spend For Their Boyfriends? by MizMyColi(f): 8:10am On Oct 07, 2014 |
Re: Do Ladies Ever Spend For Their Boyfriends? by godofwar666(m): 8:26am On Oct 07, 2014 |
MrsBreezy:no you didn't we are just having fun |
Re: Do Ladies Ever Spend For Their Boyfriends? by Nobody: 8:53am On Oct 07, 2014 |
neoapocalypse:smh for men of this generation, u want to be head but when it comes to money to want it to be a two way street, issokay. |
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