MizMyColi:



And owh, Ty. It's okay to subtly blow your trumpet every once in a while.

[s]I am Mizmycoli, I am Intelligent, beautiful and strong, I think I have a beautiful heart. I believe the world is a better place because I'm in it.[/s]

Thanks
Happy Holidays

Tymax:

I'll be the judge of that, thank you.

Besides, what you wrote was anything but subtle. Now you have your chain of boyfriends drooling in admiration.

Not just the male folk, the female folk too. It's a mutual sontin

Plus, why don't you summarize your thoughts? I believe you are aware of concise alternatives to your "epistles". Perhaps you wouldn't want your ideas to appear curt but please dear, terse doesn't translate to rude now, does it?

True, you'll be the judge of that.

I'm permitted to judge myself too innit?

Owh, those glowing accolades I wrote about me?
They're actually different people's opinion of me, over the years

What's the point anyway, if I cannot believe/say that about myself

Sometimes, yes.
In some scenarios.

Besides, I believe it's basically about using my discretion when trading with words.
Short cuts it at times.
Epistles Long cuts it better, other times.

When expressing a heartfelt opinion, I try not to hold back, chiefly because, I think it might spur/inspire another viewer.

Trust me, as a very worded individual, that was "summary"
It's left to the viewer to read or not to read


Just being Mizmycoli: Repping her kind, Everywhere she goes

MizMyColi:


True, you'll be the judge of that.

I'm permitted to judge myself too innit?

Owh, those glowing accolades I wrote about me?
They're actually different people's opinion of me, over the years

What's the point anyway, if I cannot believe/say that about myself

Sometimes, yes.
In some scenarios.

Besides, I believe it's basically about using my discretion when trading with words.
Short cuts it at times.
Epistles Long cuts it better, other times.

When expressing a heartfelt opinion, I try not to hold back, chiefly because, I think it might spur/inspire another viewer.

Trust me, as a very worded individual, that was "summary"
It's left to the viewer to read or not to read


Just being Mizmycoli: Repping her kind, Everywhere she goes

Tymax:

Another epsitle. I believe it reflects your desire to be understood. As I dey look you, hmmm you'd be a perfectionist.

A mild one, I think

Yeah, you're right.
In as much as I desire to be understood, I've learned or rather, I'm learning to, seek more to understand than to be understood.

Atmmachine:
Yes !!!!!
In the dream

nickz:
women practise the highest form of gender narcissism.....always the perfect one
they always feel men should take on everything spending inclusive but at the end they cry "gender inequality"

inequality my ratasss

AfricanApple:
there are lotta girls out there who would love to spend on their bf, but they know if they do, u guys will begin to look down on them and will think they want to track u down with d spendings. as I small reach like dis I know wetin I don do for guys, not bragging thou

neoapocalypse:


Which kind pride be that , if you can't spend on your guy as much as he spends on you then I'm afraid you're a gold digger. Imagine a girl expects you to take her shopping and trip her on such occasions as Val's day and probably spend as much as 50-100k on that day for her while she gives you a pair of boxers costing about 2k , where is the pride in that. If I'm dating a girl and I can spend as much as 50k on her for an outing , she should at least spend 30k on me.

chimerase2:
just keep shut, why do u girls see everi relationship as a job opportunity if its only guys
If I insalt u nw dem go say dis man of God wicked but I won't

MYAs2011:
Generous ladies that are ready to carry me to lime light ,here is my number 08123163293..... My pix attached below lol.....my BlackBerry Pin 7E0FEF11....holla

blackprowler:


You are right. That's why Nigerian problem is the society. The society's standards and values. People align themselves to what their society has defined as right. If you decide to stand on what you believe is right, you'll run into A LOT of problems, one of which you just outlined. Nigeria is a sick country; sick society. Our problem is not government. Bad government is one of the end result of our sick society

AfricanApple:
there are lotta girls out there who would love to spend on their bf, but they know if they do, u guys will begin to look down on them and will think they want to track u down with d spendings. as I small reach like dis I know wetin I don do for guys, not bragging thou

MizMyColi:



@Tymax Hey!

@cc thanks for that vote of confidence joor.
I wonder why many guys see spending money on a girl's part as such a big deal.

One's left to wonder exactly what kind of girls they've been coming across.

Lemmee share a scenario - this happened Yday.

So, there's this guy, who works for one of the top companies in our line of work.
I met him last week and sold a few wristwatches to him.

So he called me up yday to request for more. One thing led to another and somehow, the issue of my tribe geographical location came up. I put forth a sound argument on why we should never judge people based on tribe, but as individuals, how this whole tribe issue might have been as a result of conditioning e.t.c.

He was amazed at my level of intelligence and wanted to talk more with me. But he was low on airtime at the time. He requested that I call him back, the manner in which he said it clearly showed that he wasn't expecting me to.

So I ended the call and called back, we spoke for Good 15 minutes.
I could have lasted longer on the call, but I just wasn't finding the discussion as stimulating enough.

He called back though and he started confessing how he never knew I was that kinda person, appearance wise et al. He asked my age and when I told him, he let out a scream and was like "Your reasoning gives you off as a thirty sumtin"

I was like, thank God it's my reasoning, not my appearance

What's my point here?
Enough of these ladies bashing topics.
Enough of these destructive criticisms.

There are few ladies out there who are worth celebrating.
Let's take out time and appreciate them, you never know how far reaching that might turn out.
Let's not keep throwing out the child with the bath water.

Thanks for your time.
Happy Holidays

firstEVA:
is it a competition? Why should she spend on you because you spend on her?

sauceny:

Chai

*Shaking My Head Soliloquizingly*

Pardon my asking please; But,




What brand of Elephant Grass and Skunk are You High On, this morning?

Tymax:

Story. So you just want to show us that you can call a guy for what? 15 minutes? I hope your readers realize that the guy was in fact acustomer who had previously bought wristwatches from you. Do you realize that your highly touted 15 minutes is actually nothing compared to the price of those goods?

Madam, talk another tin abeg!

My theory still holds. Ladies are "benevolent" only when a guy has done (or will do) exponentially more.

MizMyColi:


Chai

*Shaking My Head Soliloquizingly*

Pardon my asking please; But,




What brand of Elephant Grass and Skunk are You High On, this morning?

MizMyColi:


Chai

*Shaking My Head Soliloquizingly*

Pardon my asking please; But,




What brand of Elephant Grass and Skunk are You High On, this morning?

sauceny:

Lolest

I see you're so pained, you had to quote me twice

Btw, How old are you?

emusmith:

Thank You, Dear Adviser Namagbe

sauceny:


Haba maconzi
Abin da kake yi ba kyau.

My sista go to d market & get ur boi friend/man a 2014 Mercedes Benz G65 for $300,000,then u free to cum on nairaland & b a braggadocio.

After all pple like;
Genevieve Nnaji
Angelina Jolie
Beyonce Knowles Carter
Linda Ikeji
Jennifer Lopez...Et cetera
Are all known to hav gotten sum1 in their lives an expensive toy...

MizMyColi:



Thank You, Dear Adviser Namagbe

emusmith:
#smh#

Please keep at it until it falls off.

MizMyColi:



Please keep at it until it falls off.

emusmith:
Thanks.

You're welcome

MrsBreezy:


Oh I'm sorry I didn't mean to offend you... I was kidding too

neoapocalypse:


It's not a competition but it's a two way street , if one side is doing all the heavy spending don't you think it's a bit odd. I'm not saying while you are about to spend on her she should also have her own cash to spend on you at the same time , no be market una dey buy , but over time if the man has been doing the heavy spending and she has hardly spent on him save for a few boxers and a couple of shirts then he has to reevaluate his relationship with her. Every six months let him bring out his calculator and add up all he has spent on her and also add up all she has spent on him ( including recharge cards and the occasional eat outs ) , if she has only spent a fraction of what he has spent on her then he's on a long thing. If in a period of six months he has spent about 200k on her and she has only spent about 5k on him he needs to take a hike , if a man has spent that much he deserves at least 60% of that sum back. The only exception to this rule is if she earns way much lower than him , he can be of help until she gets a good job or her income increases , this is also a two way street and the lady should be prepared to help her man out by spending on him if he doesn't have a good job.
This is however different in marriage as a man should be ready to pay all the bills for his family regardless of what the wife makes but she should be ready to help him if his obligations are too much without expecting a refund. I have heard of cases where a wife will lend money to the husband for household expenses when he doesn't have and collect it back as soon as he collects his next salary. There was a case a young man posted on Nairaland a few years back where the fiancée wanted to lend him money to do their wedding ( not his wedding o but theirs ) after the man had just cleared out his account to secure an accommodation for then to the tune of about a million and half naira because the landlord gave him a quit notice from his former apartment. The lady insisted he pay back as soon as he collects his salary because to her a real man takes care of all the bills ( and she could afford it ). Some ladies are just too stingy and can't afford to dote on a man she calls her own.
I want a wife who will be a helper and supporter and not one who will be a dependent and baby machine.