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Re: Turning 30 And Feeling Depressed! by Nobody: 11:56am On Oct 07, 2014 |
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Re: Turning 30 And Feeling Depressed! by MrRhymes101(m): 12:01pm On Oct 07, 2014 |
Vikky014:I dint say he shud rape dem na! So if he is a gud toaster n my sista falls, fyn Vikky014:I dint say he shud rape dem na! So if he is a gud toaster n my sista falls, fyn |
Re: Turning 30 And Feeling Depressed! by Vikky014(f): 12:04pm On Oct 07, 2014 |
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Re: Turning 30 And Feeling Depressed! by phreakabit(m): 12:06pm On Oct 07, 2014 |
dancok: He never said clubbing was his problem. . .Read his post again, he said he spent his youth amassing wealth, and didn't have the luxury of most of the youthful pleasures. Its common knowledge that in life you'd regret what you didn't do over what you did. 1 Like |
Re: Turning 30 And Feeling Depressed! by NosaHenry(m): 12:12pm On Oct 07, 2014 |
Nonsense. If you know how many people die before their 30th birthday you will be graceful if you get there. Pray to God to continue to spare your life instead of been depressed for sparing your life. |
Re: Turning 30 And Feeling Depressed! by fireforfire: 12:26pm On Oct 07, 2014 |
hian...... so black man can b depressed i think say na only oyibo depression dey affect... on a serious note, bro take it easy. give thanks to God dat ur even alive to witness 30.. many didnt. besides its a thing of joy to age gracefully . just try n have fun ,forget d age aspect,love evryone around u, keep away frm grudges n troubles. live ur life like nothing ekse matas. dnt wither away in sorrow. it does more harm than good |
Re: Turning 30 And Feeling Depressed! by fireforfire: 12:33pm On Oct 07, 2014 |
bigt2: bro , na d oda way round. "you cant eat ur cake n hv it" |
Re: Turning 30 And Feeling Depressed! by fireforfire: 12:37pm On Oct 07, 2014 |
keppyy: at 22 ur already complaining |
Re: Turning 30 And Feeling Depressed! by Nobody: 12:38pm On Oct 07, 2014 |
Its always like that in a point in ones life. Thank God and motivate yoursef. Then also try and venture into a serious relationship. Am not saying you should rush marriage o. But just get a working relationship. Tht shud make you feel reponsible to some extent. Cheers |
Re: Turning 30 And Feeling Depressed! by Idrismusty97(m): 12:41pm On Oct 07, 2014 |
bjims:And that is your advice for her? |
Re: Turning 30 And Feeling Depressed! by bigt2(m): 12:43pm On Oct 07, 2014 |
fireforfire:i hate agitations and baseless arguments. let me refer you sharply http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/You_can%27t_have_your_cake_and_eat_it |
Re: Turning 30 And Feeling Depressed! by Nobody: 12:45pm On Oct 07, 2014 |
I know a cure, its called weed bro.. say bye bye to sad days |
Re: Turning 30 And Feeling Depressed! by UjSizzle(f): 12:47pm On Oct 07, 2014 |
OP relax, 30 isn't the end of life. You've had a good head start in life even if you don't see it that way. There will always be time to enjoy everything (in your case club etc.). If marriage is next for you, then do just that. Your can have fun with your wife before the children arrive, or after they come. I think you're just perturbed now because we've somehow managed to convince ourselves that your early 20s is the time to have as much fun as you can get. You've done something different and should be happy about that. Chill, there are people who wish they'd spent less time being guys and more doing something valuable with their lives |
Re: Turning 30 And Feeling Depressed! by ReLaTE(m): 12:56pm On Oct 07, 2014 |
op,some of ur mate hvn't achieved anything yet never killed themselves. At 30 from ur post u are comfortable materially just dat u missed the other side. I tell you,at 30 I didn't hv 500k in my account and never married,not that I didn't hustle bt due to circumstances. I hv virtually done all types of occupation. I left secondary school at the age of 17 bt no money to further my education and as the first son I hv to hustle and start helping my parents.I did apprenticeship,i trade,i learn work,later went back to school to do OND.,went back to bizness b4 getting married. You can guess what age I got married bt now am happy and never regret anything even though many of my mates hv stopped child bearing and am still starting.BT I thank God bcus some are dead, some lost their wife and some are living from hand to mouth nw. Pls thank God for ur life and remain grateful to him, forget abt all those things u said u missed during ur youth age,they dnt last.I didn't enjoyed them bt am enjoying both world nw. You will enjoy this world most if you get married to a good wife and comfortable financially, good health and seeing ur kids will gv u the greatest happiness.Starting everything early is good bt it's nt the sure road to happiness, some succeeded while others were regreting. Even,divorce and infidelity is more common on men that married too early than those that were older.Also,getting married from 28-32 is the best age bracket for a man irrespective of some tribes that abhors it.,its still d right age. Just relax and look for a good wife you will enjoy the rest of ur life.Shalom N.B sorry for some of my grammatical errors. 6 Likes |
Re: Turning 30 And Feeling Depressed! by koyyess: 12:56pm On Oct 07, 2014 |
BankoleNco:Then what will the 10yr old who cannot walk say, or those younger than you who are decaying in the grave, or the 70 yr old man fighting for his life in the hospital? It's only human to feel depressed at times. We always define success and enjoyment by how the society sees it only for you to achieve all that and realise that it wasn't that important because it never gave you that inner happiness. You think people Your age and older don't have fun responsibly? Or do you envy all those juvenile deliquent teens? This is your life, take charge of it and live it to the fullest. 1 Like |
Re: Turning 30 And Feeling Depressed! by Nobody: 1:00pm On Oct 07, 2014 |
lestat:do u take it too? |
Re: Turning 30 And Feeling Depressed! by UjSizzle(f): 1:00pm On Oct 07, 2014 |
keppyy:What are you afraid of? |
Re: Turning 30 And Feeling Depressed! by EpicNigerian(m): 1:07pm On Oct 07, 2014 |
HASSANAASIA:You fine well well small. |
Re: Turning 30 And Feeling Depressed! by Nobody: 1:11pm On Oct 07, 2014 |
ReLaTE:bro I so much like ur post,I said it in my earlier post,op did ,nt no anytin,he should be thankful or rather he just wanted to make fp. I will be that 30next year,noting to show, yet to have my uni degree soon,no work nor serious relationship,com may next year I will be 30. |
Re: Turning 30 And Feeling Depressed! by BankoleNco: 1:15pm On Oct 07, 2014 |
dancok: You honestly think I give a rats ass about FP? I am talking about the intricate things of life and here you are telling me about some inconsequential FP shit! What value would it add to me. Not mad at you sorry, just. . . . 2 Likes |
Re: Turning 30 And Feeling Depressed! by koyyess: 1:26pm On Oct 07, 2014 |
phreakabit:'It's the girls turning 30 that should be worried'- That is one of the most deceitful,most delusional and most unreasonable lie I have heard in my life. You rendered your comment invalid with that statement. |
Re: Turning 30 And Feeling Depressed! by Nobody: 1:28pm On Oct 07, 2014 |
Re: Turning 30 And Feeling Depressed! by Nobody: 1:30pm On Oct 07, 2014 |
thando:it is a matter of time sister. Tough time don't last but tough pple do....things wl change for better soon |
Re: Turning 30 And Feeling Depressed! by Nobody: 1:30pm On Oct 07, 2014 |
Yello1: I'm on a break from academic work.. |
Re: Turning 30 And Feeling Depressed! by TWEETFELLA: 1:31pm On Oct 07, 2014 |
BankoleNco:Just count your blessings. You've got a source of livelihood, friends and more. |
Re: Turning 30 And Feeling Depressed! by TEZT: 1:33pm On Oct 07, 2014 |
I'm much more worried than u, I will clock 30 by mid 2016 and really wish to get married @ 30 and I'm d first born wit 3sisters, I'm currently serving now and my fiancee will b 28yrs old by then. I'm just been optmistic even without a job waiting anywhere. 1 Like |
Re: Turning 30 And Feeling Depressed! by Daniel6(m): 1:38pm On Oct 07, 2014 |
keppyy:. U neva get admission? |
Re: Turning 30 And Feeling Depressed! by ReLaTE(m): 1:45pm On Oct 07, 2014 |
dancok:I believe that the only thing that can make a man to be heavily depressed is health condition especially terminal ones. As long as ur healthy, pls thank God. I know a guy though a friend, he wl be 42 this year bt he married at the age of 27 bt no issue up till date, he hasn't killed himself and he's always happy. I also hv a brother extended,he is 34 and deformed on the leg. He has finished school bt no job upon his brilliance, able bodied people never get work less talk of a deformed person. Brother, if you see this guy he's even happy more than able bodied ones and his family is poor. Just believe and be hard working u wl make it. Op,should see ur post to thank God. 1 Like |
Re: Turning 30 And Feeling Depressed! by ayobase(m): 1:47pm On Oct 07, 2014 |
BankoleNco: believe me all ur worries will be long gone the mooment u marry ur better half. marriage is knocking on ur door......be quick about it. |
Re: Turning 30 And Feeling Depressed! by koyyess: 1:48pm On Oct 07, 2014 |
HASSANAASIA:Did you just say you are 30? |
Re: Turning 30 And Feeling Depressed! by Skii(m): 1:49pm On Oct 07, 2014 |
ReLaTE: your post makes sense like your name,,,ReLate! |
Re: Turning 30 And Feeling Depressed! by Nobody: 1:51pm On Oct 07, 2014 |
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