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Re: What Is Your Orientation As To Non-ijebu Yourbas Marrying Ijebu Citizen??? by armyofone(m): 7:49pm On Oct 07, 2014 |
I heard Ijebus, not sure though. You know how things can be twisted during arguments ![]() theLORDreigns: |
Re: What Is Your Orientation As To Non-ijebu Yourbas Marrying Ijebu Citizen??? by Nobody: 7:53pm On Oct 07, 2014 |
Re: What Is Your Orientation As To Non-ijebu Yourbas Marrying Ijebu Citizen??? by shizzle11(m): 7:54pm On Oct 07, 2014 |
My in-law had a friend (an ex-class mate) in the university who got married to an ijebu guy immediately after graduation. Need i say she didnt make it alive from the marriage, with less than a year into the marriage, she caught a strange illness and never recovered. Up till this moment, what killed that lady remains a mystery. The only daughter to her parents, no child...nothing That was the first time ever i heard the scary story about ijebu people, i even argued with my inlaw then on the stereotype about ijebu people cos i've had plenty of yoruba friends but never heard about it, and she laughed at my naivity. Down the years i have heard such sentiments resonate over and over again and even expressed by yorubas themselves. Times have changed and still changing, we really need to get rid of these cultural stereotypes still in practicse in some places ![]() |
Re: What Is Your Orientation As To Non-ijebu Yourbas Marrying Ijebu Citizen??? by Joy83(m): 7:59pm On Oct 07, 2014 |
Hmmmmmm, learning seriously... What you don't know can send you to where you don't like... Ignorant is not an excuse! |
Re: What Is Your Orientation As To Non-ijebu Yourbas Marrying Ijebu Citizen??? by shizzle11(m): 8:05pm On Oct 07, 2014 |
coogar:my thoughts too. Funny thing is the so called osu's are always very beautiful, even many of their men are said to be very rich and succesful, so i heard. I was discussing with a friend days ago, and told him him that if i find a girl to marry and she happens to be osu, ill go ahead even if my parents objected for instance. He then reminded me that the ummunna will disassociate themselves from anything concerning the marriage, of course this got me thinking...... I have the feeling that 'some' of the pretty girls who are of marriageble age who you see in marriage seminars may be the osu thingy denying them marriage, cos sometimes you begin to wonder why such a beautiful girl isnt married ![]() In 's voice, May God help us all ![]() |
Re: What Is Your Orientation As To Non-ijebu Yourbas Marrying Ijebu Citizen??? by tpia1: 8:20pm On Oct 07, 2014 |
Is coogar no longer jamaican? Where is he claiming now? |
Re: What Is Your Orientation As To Non-ijebu Yourbas Marrying Ijebu Citizen??? by coogar: 8:29pm On Oct 07, 2014 |
tpia1: are you going to tell me or not? one more denge-posing from you & i will twist your lower lip. shizzle11: if i come across any osu chic, i would loan her a protruding belle. the umunna & umuada can't do nada. i will first do a change of name for her - give her an itshekiri or an ijaw name. they won't be able to trace jack. transport fare is expensive these days, no one would risk their lives to go to asari dokubo's domain & catch the stray bullets of ijaw terrorists. ![]() moca: ituku ozalla till the second coming..... ![]() |
Re: What Is Your Orientation As To Non-ijebu Yourbas Marrying Ijebu Citizen??? by TV01(m): 8:33pm On Oct 07, 2014 |
Stillfire: ...I'm sure your sister will learn the courtesy demanded of Ijebu women and pass it on to you...otherwise, there is also an outlaw section. She can't go too wrong with a Jebusite. Funny, I've known groups of sisters to all marry Ijebus. I'm sure you won't dull ![]() TV |
Re: What Is Your Orientation As To Non-ijebu Yourbas Marrying Ijebu Citizen??? by TV01(m): 8:34pm On Oct 07, 2014 |
coogar: Cheers TV |
Re: What Is Your Orientation As To Non-ijebu Yourbas Marrying Ijebu Citizen??? by Nobody: 8:37pm On Oct 07, 2014 |
Joy83: Believe all these superstitions at your own peril... |
Re: What Is Your Orientation As To Non-ijebu Yourbas Marrying Ijebu Citizen??? by shizzle11(m): 8:43pm On Oct 07, 2014 |
coogar:. LWKMD ![]() ![]() ![]() ituku ozalla till the second coming.....Pls where is that? ![]() |
Re: What Is Your Orientation As To Non-ijebu Yourbas Marrying Ijebu Citizen??? by Nobody: 9:14pm On Oct 07, 2014 |
strawgirl: I no fit talk pass this one. Because I dey fear the ijebu people wey go come this thread. ![]() |
Re: What Is Your Orientation As To Non-ijebu Yourbas Marrying Ijebu Citizen??? by Nobody: 9:30pm On Oct 07, 2014 |
sandijey: Don't fret, say whatever you want to say, no one is going to attack. I only came on the thread to post something positive, to create a balance, with the negative energy. Which I did before the resident Ijebu stalker decided to quote me about some id.iotic chest-beating. When marked folks do that, you just have to serve them lol. Anyway, aren't you half-Itshekiri? Well, most of your people have Ijebu ancestry. And a lot of semi-autonomous Itsekiris still maintain their Ijebu links. Also your language is allegedly closer to the old Ijebu language, than the current one. That is why it is always great to study history and migration patterns. |
Re: What Is Your Orientation As To Non-ijebu Yourbas Marrying Ijebu Citizen??? by Nobody: 9:43pm On Oct 07, 2014 |
moca: I have a link with both! Ijebu people are very nice people, spent a chunk of my childhood there and I must say they are really cool. but then again, there are good and bad people everywhere. @op, if you know your partner well enough and she'a good enough for you, then by all means go ahead! |
Re: What Is Your Orientation As To Non-ijebu Yourbas Marrying Ijebu Citizen??? by coogar: 9:46pm On Oct 07, 2014 |
shizzle11: i have been ostracised already - marrying an osu chic will not put me further backwards than where i am at presently.
enugu south! |
Re: What Is Your Orientation As To Non-ijebu Yourbas Marrying Ijebu Citizen??? by shizzle11(m): 9:56pm On Oct 07, 2014 |
coogar:Really? funny you, i hope so ...lol ![]() enugu south!yeah, looked it up already. Where we have the UNTH ![]() |
Re: What Is Your Orientation As To Non-ijebu Yourbas Marrying Ijebu Citizen??? by shizzle11(m): 9:59pm On Oct 07, 2014 |
alutacontinua:Interesting! which of your parents is from ijebu? |
Re: What Is Your Orientation As To Non-ijebu Yourbas Marrying Ijebu Citizen??? by coogar: 10:01pm On Oct 07, 2014 |
shizzle11: i am covered.
my favourite hunting ground. ![]() |
Re: What Is Your Orientation As To Non-ijebu Yourbas Marrying Ijebu Citizen??? by Nobody: 10:07pm On Oct 07, 2014 |
Coogar, im suspecting u U r now a jamaican! Nairaland funny gan! ![]() ![]() Hmmnn, why d hating people? Any ijebu person here pls dont mind them. Nigerians and hating since independence! Aluta nne, i like ur combo. I wish im even ijebu plus mbaise plus fulani combined ![]() Such a powerful combo! ![]() 1 Like |
Re: What Is Your Orientation As To Non-ijebu Yourbas Marrying Ijebu Citizen??? by shizzle11(m): 10:07pm On Oct 07, 2014 |
coogar:lol...niqqas been aiming 'holes' since 1906 ![]() |
Re: What Is Your Orientation As To Non-ijebu Yourbas Marrying Ijebu Citizen??? by coogar: 10:12pm On Oct 07, 2014 |
moca: moca, why na? we hail from the same LGA. your village is about 8 minutes walk from yours. how can i be from jamaica when i am being prepared to become the next igwe of ituku ozalla? |
Re: What Is Your Orientation As To Non-ijebu Yourbas Marrying Ijebu Citizen??? by Nobody: 10:27pm On Oct 07, 2014 |
coogar: Shebi u said somebody( i wont mention name abeg o b4 she will behead me ![]() ![]() And i concur! I dont believe u any longer! ![]() ![]() |
Re: What Is Your Orientation As To Non-ijebu Yourbas Marrying Ijebu Citizen??? by coogar: 10:41pm On Oct 07, 2014 |
moca: moca, she was just trying to pull my legs na. ![]() ![]() 1 Like |
Re: What Is Your Orientation As To Non-ijebu Yourbas Marrying Ijebu Citizen??? by Nobody: 10:42pm On Oct 07, 2014 |
SirShymex: Ewo oooo. So in other words. Am ![]() ![]() |
Re: What Is Your Orientation As To Non-ijebu Yourbas Marrying Ijebu Citizen??? by Acidosis(m): 11:13pm On Oct 07, 2014 |
Ijebus are stingy to themselves, family, and humanity. 1 Like |
Re: What Is Your Orientation As To Non-ijebu Yourbas Marrying Ijebu Citizen??? by Nobody: 11:37pm On Oct 07, 2014 |
sandijey: I think a certain Prof. Sagay is one of the foremost Itsekiri historians out there. You can get some of his works on Itsekiri history on google scholar. Off the top, I know Omadino and Ugborodo clans of Itsekiri migrated from Ijebu waterside. And they still maintain their Ijebu links by being semi-autonomous. There are a few others. Then you have Ode Itsekiri, Ode Ijebu or flip it to Ijebu Ode, and Ode Remo. One big family but you can post the stereotypes if you want lol. Itsekiris were also big slave traders like the Ijebus lol. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: What Is Your Orientation As To Non-ijebu Yourbas Marrying Ijebu Citizen??? by ladygogo: 11:38pm On Oct 07, 2014 |
Lol. This thread funny die.! ![]() Lol. @alutacontinua. Bad azs combo. ![]() I bet kanwulia is from space. ![]() ![]() The stereotyping is worse amongst ekiti people. Even my Dads driver(an ekiti man) will tell you he can't stand ijebu people.lol |
Re: What Is Your Orientation As To Non-ijebu Yourbas Marrying Ijebu Citizen??? by yokiti: 11:42pm On Oct 07, 2014 |
Joy83:Ijebu and Akoko; what a great combo! |
Re: What Is Your Orientation As To Non-ijebu Yourbas Marrying Ijebu Citizen??? by Missy89(f): 12:46am On Oct 08, 2014 |
SirShymex: Dominating other sub groups in Ogun state, maybe! Whole SW? not so sure ![]() |
Re: What Is Your Orientation As To Non-ijebu Yourbas Marrying Ijebu Citizen??? by itstpia1: 1:16am On Oct 08, 2014 |
anyway, its my understanding there are old families in lagos who are descended from a mixture of akoko and ogun indigenes originally, although they are mostly now lagosians. so, the combination is not new, not sure why the op is trying to make it appear so. |
Re: What Is Your Orientation As To Non-ijebu Yourbas Marrying Ijebu Citizen??? by Nobody: 4:24am On Oct 08, 2014 |
SirShymex: See as u just open my people yansh for here. ![]() |
Re: What Is Your Orientation As To Non-ijebu Yourbas Marrying Ijebu Citizen??? by Nobody: 4:47am On Oct 08, 2014 |
Missy89: Lmao...not interested in that anymore, Miss Big Head. ![]() Apparently, I read somewhere that your Ondo folks despise the Ijebus that most. Why's that? - please educate me. And from my scholarship, I think Ijebus are somewhat historically closer to a few Yoruba subgroups in Ondo. For example: every time I read about Ijebu arts and crafts, they're always compared to Owo's. Most scholars allude to the similarities between the two. Then you have Mahin/Ilaje who're also somewhat close to Waterside Ijebu and Itsekiris. Let's turn the thread into a history session. I wanna see if your knowledge of Yoruba history is as extensive as what you know about international politics. ![]() |
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