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My Relationship Dilemma, I Need Your Advice by vivaciouzz(f): 3:40am On Oct 08, 2014
since my first year in the university, I hv dated just one guy and we love each other so much but recently I got a new male friend whom I hv been crushing on since my sec school days.

I just felt like visiting him only to go and fall deeply for him.Just because of him,I broke up with my bf of 3yrs.D guy also felt something for me but my bf won't let me go..he keeps on saying dat d new guy will not love me d way he does.he has been calling n threatening d guy to leave us alone.

Another reason y I broke up with him was dat I was tired of his cult activities but deep down,he is a good guy n kind hearted.he is ready to do anything for me.

Recently, he threatened my new bf again telling him he will find n kill him if he continues seeing me.

My new bf has begged me not to compromise n leave him but I don't know if he truly loves me.I need ur advices coz my heart is confused. I don't want to b greedy by keeping the both of dem

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Re: My Relationship Dilemma, I Need Your Advice by equlibrium(m): 3:47am On Oct 08, 2014
vivaciouzz:
since my first year in the university, I hv dated just one guy and we love each other so much but recently. I got a new male friend whom I hv been crushing on since my sec school days.I just felt like visiting him only to go and fall deeply for him.Just because of him,I broke up with my bf of 3yrs.D guy also felt something for me but my bf won't let me go..he keeps on saying dat d new guy will not love me d way he does.he has been calling n threatening d guy to leave us alone.Another reason y I broke up with him was dat I was tired of his cult activities but deep down,he is a good guy n kind hearted.he is ready to do anything for me.Recently, he threatened my new bf again telling him he will find n kill him if he continues seeing me.My new bf has begged me not to compromise n leave him but I don't know if he truly loves me.I need ur advices coz my heart is confused. I don't want to b greedy by keeping the both of dem
grin
elders are sleeping.
they will be here soon

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Re: My Relationship Dilemma, I Need Your Advice by Pdizzle(m): 3:48am On Oct 08, 2014
i would not advise you to jump into the other guy's arms like that, also think about your safety, keep it low key for now. Time will tell

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Re: My Relationship Dilemma, I Need Your Advice by Blitz4real(m): 3:54am On Oct 08, 2014
equlibrium:

grin
elders are sleeping.
they will be here soon
were grin grin

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Re: My Relationship Dilemma, I Need Your Advice by henryhemon(m): 3:56am On Oct 08, 2014
You are greedy already by not being contempted with what you had?what's crushing on someone?you didn't love the poor guy before,what you called love was infactuation,what qualities did ur new dick have that the other doesn't have. Aint advising kids like you,continue jumping from one D to another and call it luv. You don't know what luv is,for people like you,its the highest spender.

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Re: My Relationship Dilemma, I Need Your Advice by equlibrium(m): 4:06am On Oct 08, 2014
henryhemon:
You are greedy already by not being contempted with what you had?what's crushing on someone?you didn't love the poor guy before,what you called love was infactuation,what qualities did ur new dick have that the other doesn't have. Aint advising kids like you,continue jumping from one D to another and call it luv. You don't know what luv is,for people like you,its the highest spender.
on the face of it, ex is a cult guy
dats a no no
thats a yes reason anyday anytime to ditch his twisted arse

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Re: My Relationship Dilemma, I Need Your Advice by justmag(m): 4:07am On Oct 08, 2014
henryhemon:
You are greedy already by not being contempted with what you had?what's crushing on someone?you didn't love the poor guy before,what you called love was infactuation,what qualities did ur new dick have that the other doesn't have. Aint advising kids like you,continue jumping from one D to another and call it luv. You don't know what luv is,for people like you,its the highest spender.

Ouuch!!

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Re: My Relationship Dilemma, I Need Your Advice by justmag(m): 4:08am On Oct 08, 2014
Leave them both n take ya asss to church. You need jesus!

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Re: My Relationship Dilemma, I Need Your Advice by henryhemon(m): 4:11am On Oct 08, 2014
equlibrium:

on the face of it, ex is a cult guy
dats a no no
thats a yes reason anyday anytime to ditch his twisted arse
All of a sudden she remembers he is a cultist,all along she was enjoing d D she didn't know?what's the guarantee the new guy isn't? Girls usually don't know what the want.

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Re: My Relationship Dilemma, I Need Your Advice by equlibrium(m): 4:15am On Oct 08, 2014
henryhemon:

All of a sudden she remembers he is a cultist,all along she was enjoing d D she didn't know?what's the guarantee the new guy isn't? Girls usually don't know what the want.
hahaha
she nvr mentioned the D man
drop it

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Re: My Relationship Dilemma, I Need Your Advice by kozaic(f): 4:32am On Oct 08, 2014
Hmmmm. I hav a feeling dat d new guy is after just one thing! B kiaful Nne

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Re: My Relationship Dilemma, I Need Your Advice by Bigcake: 5:07am On Oct 08, 2014
equlibrium:

on the face of it, ex is a cult guy
dats a no no
thats a yes reason anyday anytime to ditch his twisted arse
Was she not living with the cultist and fvcking his rough dick all this while? Only to meet ''Doro Bucchi'' a better spender and tag it a crush just to create a lee way to vamouse. Babe, you are joking with fire. As for the new guy, he simply sees you as an'' Awoof'', because na only you walker come meet am. My advice, go back to your former guy for peace to reign. If still interested in droping him on cultism grounds then look for a subtle way to do that.

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Re: My Relationship Dilemma, I Need Your Advice by slap1(m): 5:28am On Oct 08, 2014
You can't truly love two people at a time; because if you really love the first, you won't need the second.


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I know you won't take my advice but I'll just give it anyway: LEAVE BOTH OF THEM!
Why? You are sitting on a time bomb by dating a cultist. ( What kind of girl are you self?!)

I also feel the second guy knows you're crushing on him and is waiting to crush you back.

For safety sake, leave the second guy completely and pretend you still love the first one...maka ndu gi.

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Re: My Relationship Dilemma, I Need Your Advice by eph12(m): 6:30am On Oct 08, 2014
There's an easy option. Just stay away from both!

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Re: My Relationship Dilemma, I Need Your Advice by Sanchez01: 6:36am On Oct 08, 2014
My Dear, stating the obvious, you're in a nasty situation. Crushes don't last and like someone said you are greedy; you put yourself before your man. I'd recommend you walk out on your crush, call your ex who is a cultist and tell him you want to be alone.
True, the new one won't love you like someone who knows your flaws and strengths, likewise, your old one is also a flop because of what he has his hands on. Both relationships are a mess. Stay alone for a while.

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Re: My Relationship Dilemma, I Need Your Advice by Nobody: 6:44am On Oct 08, 2014
My advice for you will be to go back to your cultist boyfriend you might need his backup someday like when you get your sorry ass in dip shiit he'll be there to rescue you.

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Re: My Relationship Dilemma, I Need Your Advice by jmoore(m): 6:51am On Oct 08, 2014
Please, leave the new guy before he gets killed.


If the cultist is good deep inside, why quit? Confusion.
How can a cultist be good?

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Re: My Relationship Dilemma, I Need Your Advice by vivaciouzz(f): 7:49am On Oct 08, 2014
Bigcake:
Was she not living with the cultist and fvcking his rough dick all this while? Only to meet ''Doro Bucchi'' a better spender and tag it a crush just to create a lee way to vamouse. Babe, you are joking with fire. As for the new guy, he simply sees you as an'' Awoof'', because na only you walker come meet am. My advice, go back to your former guy for peace to reign. If still interested in droping him on cultism grounds then look for a subtle way to do that.
yea,I know he was a cultist all dis while but I hv trying to save him from being known..only few pple know abt it..its not as if I got into a relationship coz of dat.I knew so many tinz I stopped him from doing like smoking.. I made him take his studies serious.. I really helped him..hez d quiet type n recently has been having issues with the school security, n I don't want to get involved dats y I want to leave ..d oda guy doesn't know dat I had a crush on him n hez loving me now..n hez in anoda school coz assuming hez in my school..dunno wat would hv happened to him n I didn't start my new relationship with se.x..I just wanted someone dats free from problems n who I can b with without being afraid dat something bad might happen to him

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Re: My Relationship Dilemma, I Need Your Advice by mcdreeezy: 8:47am On Oct 08, 2014
Ehya....sorry oh

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Re: My Relationship Dilemma, I Need Your Advice by Emmysteve(m): 9:16am On Oct 08, 2014
Face your studies

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Re: My Relationship Dilemma, I Need Your Advice by equlibrium(m): 9:23am On Oct 08, 2014
Emmysteve:
Face your studies
best advice so far
young ppl tend to regret 80-90% of their relationship decisions soon as they are out of school.
no one ever regrets working harder at school.
young geh, face ya book oh

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Re: My Relationship Dilemma, I Need Your Advice by Abbey2sam(m): 9:24am On Oct 08, 2014
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Re: My Relationship Dilemma, I Need Your Advice by ayusco85(m): 9:24am On Oct 08, 2014
vivaciouzz:
since my first year in the university, I hv dated just one guy and we love each other so much but recently I got a new male friend whom I hv been crushing on since my sec school days.
I just felt like visiting him only to go and fall deeply for him.Just because of him,I broke up with my bf of 3yrs.D guy also felt something for me but my bf won't let me go..he keeps on saying dat d new guy will not love me d way he does.he has been calling n threatening d guy to leave us alone.
Another reason y I broke up with him was dat I was tired of his cult activities but deep down,he is a good guy n kind hearted.he is ready to do anything for me.
Recently, he threatened my new bf again telling him he will find n kill him if he continues seeing me.
My new bf has begged me not to compromise n leave him but I don't know if he truly loves me.I need ur advices coz my heart is confused. I don't want to b greedy by keeping the both of dem

U were sent to school to read and make first class or 2.1 and u went there to date a cultist ba. It haff be for u. I only advice students with academic or career issues. I feel like whooping ur silly bottom. I pray he kills u both cheesy..... *just kiddin*

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Re: My Relationship Dilemma, I Need Your Advice by Abbey2sam(m): 9:25am On Oct 08, 2014
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Re: My Relationship Dilemma, I Need Your Advice by DonaldGenes(m): 9:25am On Oct 08, 2014
I pray Yøu don't come out with 3rd Class at the end of Yøur Romantic Journey and be coming Here to Put your fingers into Yøur nose with another Thread
Wishing Yøu Good Luck Ebele!!!!

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Re: My Relationship Dilemma, I Need Your Advice by ammyluv2002(f): 9:26am On Oct 08, 2014
tolaxin:
Yeah, Jesus has a big dick
smh

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Re: My Relationship Dilemma, I Need Your Advice by Nobody: 9:26am On Oct 08, 2014
Hoes aint loyal!

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Re: My Relationship Dilemma, I Need Your Advice by justmag(m): 9:26am On Oct 08, 2014
tolaxin:
Yeah, Jesus has a big dick
shocked shocked shocked shocked woooow!!

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Re: My Relationship Dilemma, I Need Your Advice by jnrbayano(m): 9:26am On Oct 08, 2014
Hanging on to any will present a precarious situation...

Your parents that sent you to school presented a golden opportunity for your betterment. They never envisaged their child on a cliff-hanger.

I am sure they wouldn't even understand what the phrase "to crush on someone" is and will marvel at it being place over their monetary committments and benefits of an undistracted schooling.

Like others before me have advised, please leave them both and thread carefully henceforth.

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