Tolexander:
You can continue. But try to find out if the lady really loves you and not after the connection and popularity around you as stated in your post.

Shydon:
There's this cute girl that we both agreed to be friends on Facebook; unknown to us initially, that we are residing in the same neighbourhood/area. We got chatting the next day and in no time realised that fact. But due to the fact that I hardly spend much time at home because of school couple with the fact that she recently relocated with her mom; we both don't know each other..even after exchanging pix.

Thereafter, she took it upon herself to dig deep into my background..she got obviously impressed with the findings. I understood this because of her sudden change..she became nicer and more committed even before meeting me in person. It was surprising..she took the friendship which was at that time not more than two days old to the next level..she literally toasted me! I kept enjoying the show on my own part..told her what her ears wanted to hear..no dulling!

Sallah break came, and I travelled home. While at home we met frequently..not a day would pass without us seeing each other. She was nice and sweet to be with but, no matter how I try to reciprocate the love, I just can't. I couldn't feel any love.. in fact the little hope I had for the relationship hit the rock the very day I learnt of her family background. They can be classified as lower class. Don't get it twisted, I am not materialistic or expecting to get any financial or economic benefits whatsoever from my bride's-to-be family. My family: we are neither upper nor middle..because we have the connections and popularity around.

Prior to this experience, I used to think that ones class does not really matters in a relationship as long as there is love..was I right? Should I still give the relationship a chance? Have you experienced something similar?

missberrypop5:
The kinda class i think you're talking about doesn't matter. Do you think they'll remain at the lower region forever?
As for me, when i date, i look at what's in da head, Potentiality, and how hardworking you are, your zeal to do things right, see someone who's got a future. You may meet her at the lower class, as you put it, what will happen tomorrow? You may see her higher than you are. So don't let present circumstances make you lose a diamond when you're busy collecting stones.

missberrypop5:
The kinda class i think you're talking about doesn't matter. Do you think they'll remain at the lower region forever?
As for me, when i date, i look at what's in da head, Potentiality, and how hardworking you are, your zeal to do things right, see someone who's got a future. You may meet her at the lower class, as you put it, what will happen tomorrow? You may see her higher than you are. So don't let present circumstances make you lose a diamond when you're busy collecting stones.

mesoade:
Class kor? ,lecture theatre ni!

xynerise:
Yes, she must be in SS3

#EPIC

xynerise:
Yes, she must be in SS3

Shydon:
There's this cute girl that we both agreed to be friends on Facebook; unknown to us initially, that we are residing in the same neighbourhood/area. We got chatting the next day and in no time realised that fact. But due to the fact that I hardly spend much time at home because of school couple with the fact that she recently relocated with her mom; we both don't know each other..even after exchanging pix.

Thereafter, she took it upon herself to dig deep into my background..she got obviously impressed with the findings. I understood this because of her sudden change..she became nicer and more committed even before meeting me in person. It was surprising..she took the friendship which was at that time not more than two days old to the next level..she literally toasted me! I kept enjoying the show on my own part..told her what her ears wanted to hear..no dulling!

Sallah break came, and I travelled home. While at home we met frequently..not a day would pass without us seeing each other. She was nice and sweet to be with but, no matter how I try to reciprocate the love, I just can't. I couldn't feel any love..in fact the little hope I had for the relationship hit the rock the very day I learnt of her family background. They can be classified as lower class. Don't get it twisted, I am not materialistic or expecting to get any financial or economic benefits whatsoever from my bride's-to-be family. My family: we are neither upper nor middle..because we have the connections and popularity around.

Prior to this experience, I used to think that ones class does not really matters in a relationship as long as there is love..was I right? Should I still give the relationship a chance? Have you experienced something similar?

3coins:
op,read what you wrote again. . .does it make sense?

Shydon:


I would advice u learn how to vamoose from people's thread anytime u hv nothing meaningful to say, pls..tnx!

obongproff:


Bros, am disappointed dat ur bragging abt ur family's connections and popularity. U obviously hav a lot to learn in life.

And ur thinking like dis as a student. How will u be thinking when u hav started making small money?

U shd decide if it is her u want to date or her family. Maybe when u do, you will know beta.

Wot if d table was turned? Wot if her dad or uncle was a serving senator or minister and as such she tot ur family was not classy enof?

Day sed man's pomo is anoda man's bonga fish but sometimes d oda man's bonga fish is beta for u becos fish is proteinous and pomo no day give u anytin for body. Do u undastand?

Shydon:
There's this cute girl that we both agreed to be friends on Facebook; unknown to us initially, that we are residing in the same neighbourhood/area. We got chatting the next day and in no time realised that fact. But due to the fact that I hardly spend much time at home because of school couple with the fact that she recently relocated with her mom; we both don't know each other..even after exchanging pix.

Thereafter, she took it upon herself to dig deep into my background..she got obviously impressed with the findings. I understood this because of her sudden change..she became nicer and more committed even before meeting me in person. It was surprising..she took the friendship which was at that time not more than two days old to the next level..she literally toasted me! I kept enjoying the show on my own part..told her what her ears wanted to hear..no dulling!

Sallah break came, and I travelled home. While at home we met frequently..not a day would pass without us seeing each other. She was nice and sweet to be with but, no matter how I try to reciprocate the love, I just can't. I couldn't feel any love..in fact the little hope I had for the relationship hit the rock the very day I learnt of her family background. They can be classified as lower class. Don't get it twisted, I am not materialistic or expecting to get any financial or economic benefits whatsoever from my bride's-to-be family. My family: we are neither upper nor middle..because we have the connections and popularity around.

Prior to this experience, I used to think that ones class does not really matters in a relationship as long as there is love..was I right? Should I still give the relationship a chance? Have you experienced something similar?

nabsprada:

@bolded,I really don't know what your cute girl fell in love with after her findings but there,you said it,you don't feel anything! At least not what she hopes you feel

Give the relationship a chance? Really Everyone deserves to be loved but not out of pity or as a favor...you obviously love the attention but do you love her?

Does class matters in a relationship? I wish I could answer this but I can't cause my heart has been programmed to love only my kind of persons even if you are Dangote's son,if you ain't my kind of person,my heart ain't looking your side,class is class when you see it as class!