I swear it feels like hoes are winning these days...

he called me his lover boy (not sure what that means)

erin94:
[i]Ok so there is this guy at work that I've been talking to for at least a month trying to figure him out. I work through drive through and he is a food prep. One day out of the blue he yelled out that he had something to say to me...so he picked up a headset and said that I was FINE (good looking) and from then on he's been flirting with me...the signs: he stares at me 24/7 when I'm around and smiles, he said I had cute dimples (which is shit because I don't have dimples XD), he said I was cute/adorable, he always makes me laugh, he's always touching me and not in a bad way...like he'll in to me/wrap his arms around me/ hug me/etc...,he called me his lover boy (not sure what that means), he called/calls me pooky and baby, when my friend said that she was going to set him up with me she said he started blushing and laughing/smiling in a good way, he looks at gem like I'm the most beautiful thing ever...and that I can tell is real...but then their are some downfalls (but not many)...the downfalls: he can be a dick sometimes and today he came through drive through and it was storming...he literally walked up to the window and asked for some drinks...so I gave it to him and afterwards I asked him why he was standing out in the rain and his reply...word for word was "maybe you shouldn't be so concerned about my life and worry about yours." Now I'm the type of female who can see right through ones bs but this guy is just confusing me? I can't read him...maybe he was high? (which happens a lot)...maybe he's using me. I don't have his number so the only time we talk is when we see each other at work. But last night he and a bunch of my other co-workers went to smoke so I flaked out because I've never smoked or drank a day in my life...and my friend told me there was this girl practically throwing herself at him and rumor has it that they bleeped around and "did it" (keep in mind this chick has a fiancé and is also fucking someone else at work) I literally started crying!!! Which is unusual for me because I feel nothing when i know/feel like the guy is using me or cheating...I swear it feels like hoes are winning these days...anyway...but yeah I'm confused by this guy...is he playing me? does he like me? is he shy? or is he afraid to be in a committed relationship with me? Help please.

Aprime:
Your post is starving of intel.

I don't know you.

I don't know him.

How should I know if he loves you or not.
BTW, You're having doubts already. It's a big sign he maybe don't.

andromida:
I think you should take the position that when a man is sending mixed messages it simply means his interest in you is weak. Most likely he is not interested in a committed relationship with you but will be happy with having you as a fun time gal i don't mean to be harsh but forget this dude and keep enjoying your life.

You are already crying for a relationship that is non existent please don't invest in this again a part of you already knows that men who want committed relationship from you will not act like this so let this go.

Mobebi:
be urself all d time... hoes ain't winning. they cry in d end.

also, u know dis guy gets high with weeds Ur drugs, from Ur story,u seemed a nice lady, so why must a nice lady even think of getting loved by a guy who gets high? he end up hurting u.

wait till a cool headed guy comes.