I suspect that this woman is feeding you..maybe she also gave you money to pay for her bride price

egbedore:
My wife just told me now that she has a boyfriend that sleeps with her and that there is nothing ℓ̊ am going to do.

ℓ̊ had earlier suspected she is sleeping with her doctor and one of the parent in her sch. She confirmed to me tonight that she os cheating cos cheating is fun!

What do ℓ̊ do

Now before Ɣøû comment,let me give Ɣøû a little background to our issues. ℓ̊ was involved with other ladies at some point in our marriage,of which she knew and ℓ̊ confessed to her. ℓ̊ don't do that anymore but she said she want to cheat so that ℓ̊ can feel what it feels to be cheated upon. Now she is sleeping around and tell it to my face that she is cheating and will continue without hiding it and there is nothing ℓ̊ can do!

Nlanders what do ℓ̊ do?

Dont u like the truth?

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MissSlimbody:
Two wrongs can never make a right.

What you did,is in the past, since you've repented of ur deeds, I see no reason why she should engaged herself in such a shameful act.

Your wife is not morally sound, I must say.

That a man cheated on me is not reason enough 2 turn me to a cheat.

What to do






Miz my coli you're needed here.
Abeg, wetin make him do?

God bless you ....you are a virteous woman

bring your pastor home if u have one to councel both of u

beeevan:




If you decide to be rude, don't cry foul when i get back with no regards for anyone or anything you hold dear. Lay off my case, i wouldn't have bothered responding if I knew I was replying a complete dunce.

U are a rude b?
U are crying foul fool

Sophyrocks:




His english sef is horrible. chai!

You look horrible

GoodFaith:

You look horrible

Thanks.

Give her rats poison jo for her to rest in peace

my advice is be patient with her then start all over with her start doing favours to her and start retoasting her has you did earlier before she accepted to marry you she will have a rethink has time goes on

IYANGBALI:
Give her rats poison jo for her to rest in peace

No killing please
U don't want the blood of any person in ur hands
Divorce

sorry it is happening to you but take it or leave it your wife is not an honest and disciplined person. yes it's true to cheat just as it is true to do the wrong things but that does not make it right to do. for me when it happened to me i was very angry did like her anymore seing her makes me angry and what ever she said annoys me but i had to learn to get over it cos i couldn't stand breaking any girl's heart even though i was a victim. Just had to ask god to please help me get over my weakness against her.my guy help yourself in the best way if she thinks it is right to do such a thing to your face and confront you with it then if it is really true you are in big trouble.don't fight about it but maturely talk to her and let her be and move on.wish you the very best.

Emaprince:
I suspect that this woman is feeding you..maybe she also gave you money to pay for her bride price

I don't think so. Probably gave him money to buy MB to use in posting this trash.

bentechcomputer:
my advice is be patient with her then start all over with her start doing favours to her and start retoasting her has you did earlier before she accepted to marry you she will have a rethink has time goes on

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After already paying bride price? Or OP you haven't paid?

No retoasting anything. She's worse because almost all Nigerian cultures allow polygamy.

Name one 9ja culture that allows Polyandry.

A cheating wife is a threat to her husband's life because her boyfriend can make her murder her hubby.

A man can love his wife & still have a girlfriend or other wives. Men can balance it emotionally.

King Solomon, King David and many other blessed people did.

Is any of us better than Abraham, Solomon, David or Jacob?

Jezebel on the other hand was cursed.

OP you seem a weak & indecisive guy. She should be with her parents already.

If she was a decent lady, she had the option of ending the marriage after you played away.

While stay in the marriage & be vengeful? Simply evil.

Hehehehe... na wa oo. I witnessed such too. The woman was raking for the man, blaming him for what she did. The man was just looking at her. So when my boss now asked the man to talk. The matter fall our hand ooo. I was ashamed on her behalf. A part of me blamed the man, but no level of a man's cheating streak/spree should make you go on yours. As in, we are pillars for a reason. I don't get how this happens and what goes through their minds. But if you ask, they'd give their reasons too. A cheating wife doesn't deserve to be in a marriage.

I'm unmarried and I can cheat if I so desire, but when a married woman sleeps with men outside of her marriage. She should be ashamed of herself. she has lost her self esteem in the eyes of the husband, the family and even the person she is cheating with. You are just telling the person that 'look at me, you're next!'

I am yet to understand why some persons take sides with the woman. If she had cheated in return without his knowledge and informed him about it later as a way of getting even, that may be acceptable. But telling him to his face and DARING him while indulging in the act is disrespectful and unacceptable. It's either the story is not true or the couple are not based in Nigeria. Most persons can forgive a repentant cheating spouse, but only a few will forgive his/her spouse if the act is being done in his/her home or on their matrimonial bed...because of the disrespectful manner the act was committed. This can be likened to wife's case and she has no justification for that.

This is really how people end up missing or dead. I cannot imagine how someone can boldly say to either spouse they have another partner without expecting some type of backlash.
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OP,

You fit get yourself the following instead of coming here to write a fictional Nollywood script.

A life!!!

Well be great full cos is just a boyfriend not another man's BABY..

eshope:
Well be great full cos is just a boyfriend not another man's BABY..

Be grateful for what?
if they have kids, she might have had the kids for other men?
Only DNA can tell

egbedore:


If ℓ̊ want to cheat,ℓ̊ wouldn't say in the post that ℓ̊ am married,ℓ̊ wouldn't say in the post that ℓ̊ have kids,ℓ̊ wouldn't say the ages of my lovely kids. For the fact that ℓ̊ mentioned that,means ℓ̊ am not hiding anything and ℓ̊ just needed someone to talk to. And when it comes to matter as this,the women folk can be more attentive and knows what to do.

u mean ur wife is doing this just because she cut u cheating hmmmmm it a petty as for me that not enough reason to do that I also cut my husband cheat but I had to forgive him do u know why?cus I love him,cus I have a fulture with him,cus GOD forgives me of my sin so I never cheated on him nd will never my brother ur wife is not a gud women no matter what u do she should be there to forgive nd make sure ur @ home nd in another womans arm she is gradually Pouching you out of ur house to another womans arm.

Just allow her do her 'thing' because you asked for it. But my brother, you know one thing? Your wife doesn't respect you nor have shame. If I were you, I will start looking for another wife and do away with any form of extra marital affairs and stick to her " hook, line and sinker" for life. Wish you well.

Just allow her do her 'thing' because you asked for it. But my brother, you know one thing? Your wife doesn't respect you nor have shame. If I were you, I will marry another wife and do away with any form of extra marital affairs and stick to her " hook, line and sinker" for life. Wish you well.

GoodFaith:

I am a rude son of a gutter slut
And also a crying foul fool

Oh yes, that's who you are .

That's too bad for both of you but there is a way out. Look for alternative wife.

Just allow her do her 'thing' because you asked for it. But my brother, you know one thing? Your wife doesn't respect you nor have shame. If I were you, I will do away with her and marry another wife and refrain from any form of extra marital affairs and stick to her " hook, line and sinker" for life. Wish you well.

beeevan:





Oh yes, that's who you are .

Big gutter slut
I don't want u, dumb ass B

shoefreak:
Hehehehe... na wa oo. I witnessed such too. The woman was raking for the man, blaming him for what she did. The man was just looking at her. So when my boss now asked the man to talk. The matter fall our hand ooo. I was ashamed on her behalf. A part of me blamed the man, but no level of a man's cheating streak/spree should make you go on yours. As in, we are pillars for a reason. I don't get how this happens and what goes through their minds. But if you ask, they'd give their reasons too. A cheating wife doesn't deserve to be in a marriage.

I'm unmarried and I can cheat if I so desire, but when a married woman sleeps with men outside of her marriage. She should be ashamed of herself. she has lost her self esteem in the eyes of the husband, the family and even the person she is cheating with. You are just telling the person that 'look at me, you're next!'

You are a very sensible woman.

GoodFaith:

Big gutter slut
That's who mama is

i am sorry to say dis?is your dick working

Longman313:
i am sorry to say dis?is your dick working

ur sick lol