i posted this in religion so as to get matured comments.
i have tried to stop masturbating, but it all prove futile.
So so hurt, and sad.
#sobbing.

Awn i feel so sorry about this u'd just have to find out what triggered it in the first place....but dont let it get u depressed okay.....yes it's an evil thing but still dont let it drive u crazy....i mean this thing is a function of our thoughts...if u watch n read porn u will think about it n get aroused so be mindful of wat u watch...watch Godly things....u are more than this thing so u can overcome and u will....dont give up in the fight n dont give in to temptation wen it comes. We are never tempted beyond our ability to overcome....

well...hmmmm, i use to be like that, even now i am not totally cured of it..but its very rare now, maybe once in 6 to 7 months.. prior to now,it use to be daily basis.. so let see, how did i acheive mine. first, something usually triggers it...mine was porn, i was addicted to porn and after watching i will need to relieve myself thus self service. second, age factor, we get to do this more when we are in the age bracket of 15-25 or 28.. so i actually had to discipline myself with respect to porn, seek God's help with self control and i married quick...then finally i grew out of it.
so my advice to u..pray, stop whatever triggers it, marry fast, practise self control... when the urge comes, force yourself to leave your privacy and go into the midst of people, understand that it is risky when you self service a lot.. God help us...amin.

Pray and fast for the flesh to be conquered, then stop doing things that can lead to self servicing like pornography, and sexual acts... That's all

anikum:
well...hmmmm, i use to be like that, even now i am not totally cured of it..but its very rare now, maybe once in 6 to 7 months.. prior to now,it use to be daily basis.. so let see, how did i acheive mine. first, something usually triggers it...mine was porn, i was addicted to porn and after watching i will need to relieve myself thus self service. second, age factor, we get to do this more when we are in the age bracket of 15-25 or 28.. so i actually had to discipline myself with respect to porn, seek God's help with self control and i married quick...then finally i grew out of it.
so my advice to u..pray, stop whatever triggers it, marry fast, practise self control... when the urge comes, force yourself to leave your privacy and go into the midst of people, understand that it is risky when you self service a lot.. God help us...amin.

Marry fast? Omo see advice. If he does not ave money or is not ready how can he heed to this advic?

@poster pls get psychological help. If u are uncomfortable with what u are doing talk to a psychologist.

Embrace your sexuality. https://www.nairaland.com/1914062/satanist-view-self-service

Glory be to God Almighty and our Lord Jesus Christ.
WHAT IS MASTURBATION?
I dont have to define masturbation in the first instance since todays youths are in most cases familier with it.
WHERE IS IT FROM?
Satan has beaten his hand on his chest that all youth must fall under the boundage of immorality.
It is usually originated by satan to capture humanity and make them disobey God. Hell is the Originator.
IS SPIRIT BEHIND IT?
YES! Spirit is definately behind it.
Since demons are assigned to be in charge of the people who practiced it.
WHY IS DIFFERENT FROM OTHER SIN?
It is different because apart that you are defiling the temple of God which is your body, it is also a PERILIOUS sin(Meaning a sin in the end time.)
HOW DOES IT STARTED?
It usually started in two cases.
1) By willingness: There are people who are doing it and yet rejoicing in their sin. They are proud of doing it and they even introduce it to people. It can also be introduced through bad friends.
2) By been possesed: This started when someone started it as a result of been attacked by demons for the purpose of derailing them from the race of life and from the Heavenly home.
Note: All cases are all possesed.
But you are defferent from the first stage because you did not delight in it, instead you always desire to gain liberty(FREEDOM).
You realize that it is an Error, a Christain failure, a Dissobedience act towards God and been against the word of Christ.
HOW OFTEN YOU HAVE TRIED TO STOP IT?
You have attempted many times to stop it but all seems abortive.
Is like you are now on the battlefield in which you constantly fight in your HEART. Only you realize the battle. Not even your parent, brothers and your sisters.
You became helpless.
WHY CANT YOU STOP IT?
You cant stop it on your own. No, you cant. You have fought the battle in you heart many times but you never prevail. These demons fighting you are much more stronger and powerful than you. Each time you hear the voice of your flesh saying "MASTURBATE". Each time the huge to do it keep comming it and you cant deny the huge. The huge always makes you to crave for the pleasure. And you cant survive pleasure. Pleasure is one of the greatest way in which people are been captured. The huge keeps repeating itself.
You have use your greatest strenght to fight yet cannot overcome. It has leads you to isolation and antipathy towards woman. Each time you do it you always imagine the pictures of women in your memory to imrove the stimulli and the enjoyment.
HOW CAN YOU GAIN YOUR FREEDOM?
Here is the good news. You can be free. But always remember that you have a role to play and God has a role to play. It is not all up to God and certainly it is not all up to you. There is no excuse for you for not overcomming because HE Overcame. Every man is usually been fought in different ways, so you dont have to compare yourself with others because you cannot survive comparism.
That is deffinately your own area of challenge.
YOU CAN OVERCOME! Just fight the good fight of faith. Never give up because Jesus is aware. He wants you to be free. Pray ceaselessly, dont be desperate for answer. Stay away from films, any kind. Widrawl from worldlyness. Dont love pleasures. Have the confident that you can be free. It is not permitted for your destruction but to draw you closer to God. Satan aim is to dethrone you from your sonship with God. Beleive that there is deliverance because you need to be delivered. You can be FREE. Dont ever be tired of getting freedom. Try to have self control. Pray ceaselessly because a break in prayer is a break in faith. Try to have a serious relationship with jesus.
Beleive in Gods prophets.
You are FREE!
If you want to contact me for more councelling.
You can contact me through facebook as SUNNY.BOFS. And gmail has bambeolumide@gmail.com.
I can see you been delivered.
AMEN!

Right believing leads to right living.....

Since you believe you can't stop, you never will.

Why not believe you can and watch what happens...

i pray you just obey Totally what bambeolumide said.pray well and avoid films.also anyone who wants to overcome any sin should pray earnestly for a heart of flesh and a heart of GENUINE REPENTANCE.