jidestroud:
I guess i have to count my loss then.
And i really did loved her
life goes on!!!
and ofcos, no more phone giving

Dude just two months after giving her a phone worth 75k and she dumped your sorry as.s......am sorry but she already had it in mind before you have her the phone.
You see why I don't blame guys who use babes and dump their dumb as.s?

Sapphire86:
2 days after the gift, she dumped you? That's cold!

Well, I'd say collect it back but the truth is since u gave her on a day of celebration u can't ask for it back without sounding like a douchebag. So let it go

he dnt even hav the right

OP Here is the solution
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1. Go to the nearest police station and give the sergeant 10,000 Naira

2 Tell the sergeant, she stole your phone (The phone is in your name)

3. Tell them to deal with her mercilessly (a female police officer)

Lastly, if you are not sure of what to do or to scared, PM me I assure you she will spend 2 weeks in panti police station.[/size]

No Op, u don't have to do that.......
you have given, pls leave it at that.... do not let her actions spoil ur person or begin to label other girls as same with her.

this is life for u, its never fair.

Herrmes:
Sweetheart better run away now, this is a crossfire and you're in the middle, they're coming for you. What you said above is it worth 130,000? If the guy read all the posts here, just know you strengthened his resolve if he decided to get it back, that's an insult and maybe he never did the above.

You have to get that phone back. You can still sell it and get over half the money to pay the debt.

Honestly, I feel little pity for the guy. He was not smart about this- to put it mildly.

He wanted to be generous even beyond his pocket. Unnecessary risk.

A lady cannot leave you suddenly without showing prior signs. You would have noticed that she was losing interest in the relationship. Perhaps you did this to buy her attention back. A pity it didn't work.

You are going to spend the next few months paying for your indiscretion. Congrats.

Lessons:
1. Don't spend money you don't have.

2. If you must do this for a female, only your immediate family member (mother, daughter, sister or wife) should qualify for this amount of sacrifice first. Ordinary girlfriend or fiancée can leave you anytime..

What r u waiting for naaaa.... go collect ur phone back joor..... that id**t no deserve recharge card ...talk more of that kin phone..... some babes dey heartless... the thing just dey pepper me.... u don't take things from pple u don't want anything to do with.... for her stupid mind naaaa maga don pay...Devil

Bros nawa o. well, u just hv 2 4get. Pay am, another 1 go pay u 2. Na her luck shine, if na u, u go do d same... Maybe ur forefathers owe her great grandfather money

op,op,op hw many times i call u?
it is better u collect ur fone back n throw it in d lagoon,dash a conductor,dash ur mother or sister or househelp or to an orphanage and still be paying for the nxt 10months, tha n to leave d fone with dt bi*tch....
can u imagine wat she is doin with dt fone rite now with her new bf she is probably sending him nude pics of herself or dem dey use am video demselves as dem dey nack themselves,or mayb,dey r dissn u on their bbm chats!!!! and u ll be payn for dt for d next 10months guy u better stop payn for ur bitterness n torment n pay wat will happy or free ur conscience
but op u no see 25k android fone? have u bought a fone dis xpensive for ur father or mother whose prayer n blessings will last forver? have u thot of investing such monies on landed properties? u knw there is a lot in life to b bothered about than al these vain tinz....get mind rite boy

I now understand why we single guys find it difficult 2 give in relationship. Dats y ladies say we are stingy and I dnt care. If I marry my gf, den I will give all am indebted 2 her. If she will not accept birthday card, small teddy bear, 100 recharge card, nokia 3310, torchlight, bible frm me den she can go 2 hell.

brownlord:


Some people can't reason with their brain, what the need going to ask a beb a gift given to her after breakup, that's will be the last thing on my head, infact even if she return it I won't accept it.

There are some niggas who give their last money to girls. There was one experience I had way back in uni with a guy, I meant him and a girl in restaurant, he had just bought food ( fried rice and chicken ) for the girl 500naira, this nigga walked the girl to her hostel and came to meet me to please giv him 100naira to go eat in a local buca.

I was like, guy you dey mad, you dey find my mouth, no be u just buy takeaway for ur babe now now, the response from the guy was unbelievable.

The guy told me, they both hungry, and someone gave him 5h, he told the babe they should go to a buca they can eat comfortably with the 5h and the girl said she can't, she want friend rice, and the boy went ahead to say.

I don't have any choice now, so I bought her the food, I almost shared tears.

Finally I dint give him the money, so he can learn some lessons

You for slap the bastard join

Ishilove:

Seconded. Op collect the phone and resell it to clear the gbese. Rubbish

Eh collect gini?
A birthday present she never asked for? He gave it to her freewilly.
See the op did not comeout with the whole story. She must have been acting weird towards him as a sign she's nolonger interested. Instead of the op to accept its all over, he went ahead trying to buy her love using the gift.

@op I believe you've never given any of you family members gift worth a 100k, so I will advice you accept your loss in good faith and try not disgracing you further by asking for ya phone.

manuelpepper:
kershley i like you. You speak with a lot of sense, very mature.


If i tell you my own case, you will be move by tears.
Some bad treatment by some guys to ladies are caused by the ladies they have met before.

Imagine a guy showing true love to a girl, and the girl decided to make him a foooool.

That is how it is

I feel bad whn people hurt d ones who truly love them.if im dat guy,I will arrange thugs to go n collect d phone 4rm d girl!

Lol I can't even give an objective contribution to this topic without getting sentimental

Just do whatever your heart desires/what will make you feel better. I do know some people do not deserve your attention, love, heart or gifts. And you will do well not to give yourself completely without being assured of your place in their lives. Obviously she just used you to get that really cool phone (#130k chai) in this your condition.

In future you will do well to guard your heart. Some sacrifices aren't worth it if they are not received with knowledge of your intentions.
You really dont need to prove so much to people and do try to live within your means next time. You might need gifts to sustain love and all that nonsense, but use your head please. Don't take decisions you can't live with when the chips are down, just because you want immediate gratification.

Hope you learned a vital lesson from this experience.

Zedric:
Wait!! U seriously had to ask

Common, find the b*tch and make sure u collect that phone back. She used u, the speed at which she broke up with u says it all. All she needed was the phone and if u don't collect it back, u deserve a plaque for Ur "MAGArious" actions

. Bros pity the guy,he did not play bad guy in those days

*singing(in sound sultan's voice) * I spend my money everyday ontop woman, n I care if she will away to anoda man... I'm ready to b ur mumu ur personal Maga... For life!! *
Oga! U nid ask us? Collect ur fone n shame d devil!
#notanuturalsomething

kellyJames5:

Thanks bro. For that.
But,believe me bro. It is too embracing,and to think I wasn't born that way,is what makes me sometimes,I feel killing myself.

You are welcome!

Did you have accident or how did it happen?

3cycle:

Eh collect gini?
A birthday present she never asked for? He gave it to her freewilly.
See the op did not comeout with the whole story. She must have been acting weird towards him as a sign she's nolonger interested. Instead of the op to accept its all over, he went ahead trying to buy her love using the gift.

@op I believe you've never given any of you family members gift worth a 100k, so I will advice you accept your loss in good faith and try not disgracing you further by asking for ya phone.

So if you were the girl, you would refuse to return the phone?

3cycle:
Okokobioko ....


sucide on point....

I wonder the type of original mugu you are....Confrim mugu..

U don't v d right 2 repo d phone, its a gift remember

wristwatch:
I now understand why we single guys find it difficult 2 give in relationship. Dats y ladies say we are stingy and I dnt care. If I marry my gf, den I will give all am indebted 2 her. If she will not accept birthday card, small teddy bear, 200 recharge
card, nokia 3310, torchlight, bible frm me den she can go 2 hell.

hahahahaha

3cycle:
Okokobioko ....

I wonder the type of original mugu the guy was ....Confrim mugu..

Dis Op funny sha. Me wey I don collect my N500 glo credit back before, not to talk of N130k phone. Lesekese. Sharp sharp.

KingTom:

You for slap the bastard join

Lol, bros some dey do worst.

Please collect ur phone.... let her new boo buy her a note 3 if he can(I doubt) lol ...

Thanks but no u can't

charlesopp:



Like ta profile pix..

Can I knw u

Krystalxxx:


You're only getting a taste of your medicine. Afterall you guys do the same to girls and always laugh upon their pain,don't you? You're even proud of it . So he should enjoy the effing karma.

By d way no guy has bought stuff for me and I don't allow them either. You want me to be in debt like this miss here?

He's forgotten dat he had sex anyhow with d girl. Nonsense

You reason like a pig. So sex is a gift now eh?

He said he will not do it. My friend, why you dey waste our time like this? Take a sharp knock on your empty head.

Maybe you even lied about something--I need to unfollow this thread before I end up insulting you.

BoboYekini:
Dis Op funny sha. Me wey I don collect my N500 glo credit back before, not to talk of N130k phone. Lesekese. Sharp sharp.

Share how you take collect am oooo.

Tymax:

So if you were the girl, you would refuse to return the phone?

If my sister return such gift, I go beat mercilessly, they dated don't forget that

brownlord:


If my sister return such gift, I go beat mercilessly, they dated don't forget that

So the phone is what? Her gratuity?

Guy collect your phone na so one girl wey i just meet dey ask me credit i faasi her ni shey na pus*y i never Bleep