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Re: When Should A Lady Move Out Of Her Parent's House?? by kandiikane(m): 2:59pm On Oct 29, 2014 |
crackhaus: Bullshyt! Give a valid reason. 1 Like |
Re: When Should A Lady Move Out Of Her Parent's House?? by crackhaus: 3:00pm On Oct 29, 2014 |
kandiikane:I find my man-cave quite cozy and warm with an endless supply of gorgeous women and cold alcoholic beverages - do you have a problem with that? 2 Likes |
Re: When Should A Lady Move Out Of Her Parent's House?? by crackhaus: 3:03pm On Oct 29, 2014 |
kandiikane:I know how much you long and desire to be a man with a working c0ck.. News flash: It's never going to happen ![]() 4 Likes |
Re: When Should A Lady Move Out Of Her Parent's House?? by crackhaus: 3:07pm On Oct 29, 2014 |
sassygal:Really? Please tell me something I wasn't thinking. |
Re: When Should A Lady Move Out Of Her Parent's House?? by TV01(m): 3:11pm On Oct 29, 2014 |
Crackhaus you liberal ![]() I have a different view. And note from my openeing post, I was sex-neutral on this, so I differ from Cracky on that point to. sassygal: sassygal:Which would be the same even if she lived with you. The fact that a mother is unable to understand that an adult daughter who resides with her is to be permitted certain leeway is not a bad mark against the principle itself. Or will you claim this friction only manifested when you were able to live by yourself? sassygal:This also is about an individual, not about a practice per se. Plus, we have no idea of your motivations for making the decisions you did, so we can't necessarily fault you mother for her objections. So yes, molehills ![]() Again, looking for a spouse - unless you are avowedly against marriage - is something to be considered in a timely fashion if marriage and kids are a priority. A mother has a duty to higfhlight that - wherever her child lives - I lived 6hrs away from my mum and it felt like the whole tribe was on my case ![]() sassygal:Again, this has nothing to do with the principle of singles being better served by being with their parents until they nest sassygal:Good, then don't fight, acquiesce were possible and patiently explain where it's not. Your choice of solution has nothing to do with the principle sassygal:Which of these can a single person not learn to do at home with their parents? Or in other words, what is it one can learn by living alone that they couldn't possibly learn whilst living at home. sassygal:Again, no one stated promiscuity as the sole or main benefit of children living with parents until they nest. TV |
Re: When Should A Lady Move Out Of Her Parent's House?? by sassygal(f): 3:19pm On Oct 29, 2014 |
@crackhaus, trust me, most Nigerian homes are run like military boot camp, especially those with females of marriageable age with no immediate prospects. I have friends with stories, you can never tell unless you live within. So while men deserve more freedom, women dont? Like I said, I learnt to be independent quite early in life, so would probably have gotten my own place irrespective 2 Likes |
Re: When Should A Lady Move Out Of Her Parent's House?? by sassygal(f): 3:20pm On Oct 29, 2014 |
crackhaus: "I find my man-cave quite cozy and warm with an endless supply of gorgeous women and cold alcoholic beverages" |
Re: When Should A Lady Move Out Of Her Parent's House?? by crackhaus: 3:21pm On Oct 29, 2014 |
TV01:Liberal? With my favourable stance on ladies staying with their parents until most absolutely necessary not to? Conservative says I. ![]() |
Re: When Should A Lady Move Out Of Her Parent's House?? by sassygal(f): 3:25pm On Oct 29, 2014 |
TV01: Herein lies my response [quote author=alutacontinua post=27538479] Sometimes, I feel like engaging you but you too dey attach emotions to your debates. In other words, you argue like a woman. That's why I mostly pass by when you utter statements like the above. If someone tries to discuss with you now, small time, you go turn am into competition of who fit throw subtle jabs best. ![]() ![]() /quote] 3 Likes |
Re: When Should A Lady Move Out Of Her Parent's House?? by TV01(m): 3:28pm On Oct 29, 2014 |
sassygal: I know I pivoted off your post, but I was actually responding to Cracky. I should have made that clear. TV 2 Likes |
Re: When Should A Lady Move Out Of Her Parent's House?? by Tallesty1(m): 3:35pm On Oct 29, 2014 |
kandiikane:I said "too much freedom". And try read the comment that I quoted. |
Re: When Should A Lady Move Out Of Her Parent's House?? by TV01(m): 3:37pm On Oct 29, 2014 |
crackhaus:ATBE, it's only "absolutely necessary not to" when they get married. TV 1 Like |
Re: When Should A Lady Move Out Of Her Parent's House?? by Abaniwealth(f): 3:45pm On Oct 29, 2014 |
only wen she feels like to stay alone,or to live alone......besides,a woman don't suppose live alone.........d question shld on man. |
Re: When Should A Lady Move Out Of Her Parent's House?? by crackhaus: 3:49pm On Oct 29, 2014 |
sassygal:@bold text... when you put it like that and make it about man vs. woman, my heart breaks ![]() It's besides the point and not my true stance, but I can't help it when you ladies start taking my comments out of context. Would you date or take very seriously a young man who lives under the roof of his parents? Okay yeah, you may date him...but I'm talking long-term. Alternatively, I'm yet to meet a man who has a problem dating a lady who still resides under the safety and guidance of her parents'. You say most Nigerian homes are run like military boot-camps? You may be right but I'd rather not dwell on that. Asides your obvious exaggeration in using most, what exactly is/are the negative consequence(s) in living with parents as a young woman? 2 Likes |
Re: When Should A Lady Move Out Of Her Parent's House?? by Nobody: 3:49pm On Oct 29, 2014 |
See them, talking from the two sides of their mouths. So an unmarried man can move out but an unmarried lady can't? So, the ability to "move out" now lies in the cork?. . . Irritants! 1 Like |
Re: When Should A Lady Move Out Of Her Parent's House?? by crackhaus: 3:57pm On Oct 29, 2014 |
Phema:It's for your (women) own good, this actually comes from a place of love. Don't burst a nerve on my/our account... 4 Likes |
Re: When Should A Lady Move Out Of Her Parent's House?? by crackhaus: 4:01pm On Oct 29, 2014 |
TV01:Hope you don't run your home like a military boot-camp? ![]() |
Re: When Should A Lady Move Out Of Her Parent's House?? by TV01(m): 4:04pm On Oct 29, 2014 |
crackhaus:You mean there's another (better) way ![]() TV |
Re: When Should A Lady Move Out Of Her Parent's House?? by sassygal(f): 4:06pm On Oct 29, 2014 |
crackhaus: ![]() ![]() 1 Like |
Re: When Should A Lady Move Out Of Her Parent's House?? by sassygal(f): 4:07pm On Oct 29, 2014 |
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Re: When Should A Lady Move Out Of Her Parent's House?? by Acidosis(m): 4:31pm On Oct 29, 2014 |
as long as she's ready to accomodate male visitors on a daily basis; especially those who visit at night when the weather is cloudy (while the main dude is making money for marriage in another state forming trust-induced long distance relationship) ![]() ![]() ![]() |
Re: When Should A Lady Move Out Of Her Parent's House?? by Nobody: 4:32pm On Oct 29, 2014 |
crackhaus: Burst a nerve on your account? You must think very highly of yourself. Abeg, kontinu your argument with people that care. ![]() |
Re: When Should A Lady Move Out Of Her Parent's House?? by freecocoa(f): 4:36pm On Oct 29, 2014 |
Abaniwealth:What da heck kinda mentality is this bikonu? People actually still think like this? |
Re: When Should A Lady Move Out Of Her Parent's House?? by freecocoa(f): 4:40pm On Oct 29, 2014 |
Someone asked what the consequences of living with one's parent as a young woman are, I laugh at him ![]() So y'all will be cool having $ex in your parents house? Yes I said $sex. |
Re: When Should A Lady Move Out Of Her Parent's House?? by crackhaus: 4:53pm On Oct 29, 2014 |
Re: When Should A Lady Move Out Of Her Parent's House?? by crackhaus: 4:57pm On Oct 29, 2014 |
Phema:Hmmmm...think too highly of myself? The thought never crossed my mind. However, you did refer to me as an 'irritant', hence my advice that you don't irritate yourself into bursting a nerve just because of a comment. ![]() 3 Likes |
Re: When Should A Lady Move Out Of Her Parent's House?? by crackhaus: 5:00pm On Oct 29, 2014 |
sassygal:No answers to my questions? 1 Like |
Re: When Should A Lady Move Out Of Her Parent's House?? by sassygal(f): 5:04pm On Oct 29, 2014 |
crackhaus: Perhaps Google will be your best bet |
Re: When Should A Lady Move Out Of Her Parent's House?? by coogar: 5:09pm On Oct 29, 2014 |
freecocoa: what could be wrong in having sex with you in your parents' house? at least, they know who the culprit is if you get knocked up. better for them to know you are already sexùally active than getting the shock of their lives. |
Re: When Should A Lady Move Out Of Her Parent's House?? by 2CatWoman: 5:10pm On Oct 29, 2014 |
Tallesty1: Please outline some of these consequences. |
Re: When Should A Lady Move Out Of Her Parent's House?? by pickabeau1: 5:11pm On Oct 29, 2014 |
freecocoa: So it was all about having sex away from your parents house? K ![]() 2 Likes |
Re: When Should A Lady Move Out Of Her Parent's House?? by freecocoa(f): 5:14pm On Oct 29, 2014 |
pickabeau1:Someone asked for reasons, I gave one, are you arguing $ex isn't a reason? 1 Like |
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