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Re: When Should A Lady Move Out Of Her Parent's House?? by crackhaus: 5:50pm On Oct 29, 2014 |
coogar:Like Jay Z |
Re: When Should A Lady Move Out Of Her Parent's House?? by chucky234(m): 5:52pm On Oct 29, 2014 |
freecocoa:hmmm |
Re: When Should A Lady Move Out Of Her Parent's House?? by crackhaus: 5:56pm On Oct 29, 2014 |
kandiikane:Touché pussycat...so when should I be expecting you? 1 Like |
Re: When Should A Lady Move Out Of Her Parent's House?? by Nobody: 6:12pm On Oct 29, 2014 |
TV01: It amazes me how you remember every single thing that goes on here, even months/years after-how can somebody be so jobless? And oh yeah-some of us don't come here to blow how much we acheive or have achieved in our life or going to achieve, some of us just live a quiet, simple, dignified, honourable life! Meaning what I've done, what I'm doing or what I'm planning to do would never come to your knowledge-cos even if it does, alutacontinua will not be a part of the scheme. Keep your cheers to yourself And just so you know-you're henceforth IGNORED! Maybe on another thread when you make a tiny little bit of sense (cos the good thing is: some of us don't do carry-overs) .........something about maturity 5 Likes |
Re: When Should A Lady Move Out Of Her Parent's House?? by freecocoa(f): 6:13pm On Oct 29, 2014 |
coogar:You need jesus. |
Re: When Should A Lady Move Out Of Her Parent's House?? by pickabeau1: 6:15pm On Oct 29, 2014 |
Aluta ...you too? |
Re: When Should A Lady Move Out Of Her Parent's House?? by Nobody: 6:17pm On Oct 29, 2014 |
Re: When Should A Lady Move Out Of Her Parent's House?? by coogar: 6:17pm On Oct 29, 2014 |
freecocoa: don't we all? |
Re: When Should A Lady Move Out Of Her Parent's House?? by pickabeau1: 6:18pm On Oct 29, 2014 |
alutacontinua: I feel that was harsh.... But youve expressed yourself at least I will put you on my list of those not to offend Lol |
Re: When Should A Lady Move Out Of Her Parent's House?? by freecocoa(f): 6:19pm On Oct 29, 2014 |
coogar:Lol, you need him most. |
Re: When Should A Lady Move Out Of Her Parent's House?? by Nobody: 6:35pm On Oct 29, 2014 |
pickabeau1: Harsh? Naaaaahhhhhhhhhh TV is the king of 'harsh' On top the degree, he now has masters in subtlety......However, I haven't been able to achieve the subtletly part But he can handle it.....just like I was supposed to handle his last sentence in bold and no worries, I didn't type that post, my twin sister did! I'm never gonna let her do that to you 1 Like |
Re: When Should A Lady Move Out Of Her Parent's House?? by coogar: 6:38pm On Oct 29, 2014 |
freecocoa: when should i visit you then? choose a day that everyone would be at home. a full-house suits me perfectly. |
Re: When Should A Lady Move Out Of Her Parent's House?? by lertee(f): 6:41pm On Oct 29, 2014 |
It pays to live with your parents if you are in the same town. No matter how strict or domineering your parents are,they will give you the respect you deserve as a grown up adult. Ofcourse you will still so domestic chores even against your wish but these are things you would still do if you live alone. 1.When you remain with your parents,you can save more money and channel it towards something more productive. 2. You can always control the number of men that visit you,if you live alone,no matter how strict or stubborn you feel you are,guys will always have their ways around you.(if you like carry fire put for head) 3. No matter how mature a girl is,she can never be more mature than her parents and her parents will always give her guidance. |
Re: When Should A Lady Move Out Of Her Parent's House?? by edwife(f): 6:45pm On Oct 29, 2014 |
NL be making case out of nothing.Anyways no one has the right to dispute, disparage or vilify anybody or their opinion.You forget to take cognizance of the fact that opinions are based on perspective and perspective itself subject to life's experiences. Some people have household principle and values that they would like to uphold. We all come here to air our opinions but when some actually do,only for their opinions to be viewed as stupid or ignorant. i personally,would not move out of my parents house,unless it has to be for school or work which i did at @19..... But if anyone else prefers to move out for reasons best known to them,that's entirely their decision and we should respect that. To each their own,please learn to respect other people opinions.We should not be the same.... Shalom... 4 Likes |
Re: When Should A Lady Move Out Of Her Parent's House?? by pickabeau1: 6:53pm On Oct 29, 2014 |
alutacontinua:Hmmm...I know he is capable....just wondered if your response was commensurate with his post Me I gentle o Lol Edwife I have not seen any post where any body was labelled as silly or ignorant |
Re: When Should A Lady Move Out Of Her Parent's House?? by sassygal(f): 6:55pm On Oct 29, 2014 |
lertee: You don't come across as someone with a mind of her own with this your post Let me dissect your summation. - you contradicted yourself when you said a domineering parent will respect you. Quite the contrary. That's why they qualify as domineering. - if you are being 'asked' or forced to do chores as an adult, then you have a lot of growing up to do. - saving more money depends on how much you earn, so that's relative - I have a huge problem with your number 2. You come across as someone with no mind of her own. I can't help but wonder at guys having their way around you with no reservation. Let me tell you how that can happen, you don't give anyone your address when it's not necessary. - I grew more 'matured' before my years as a result of the guidance I received from my parents. Living away doesn't mean they are not in tune with my activities or have a say in my life No offence though. |
Re: When Should A Lady Move Out Of Her Parent's House?? by Nobody: 6:59pm On Oct 29, 2014 |
pickabeau1: That's the concept..... He says it in such a way that everybody is supposed to believe he's just talking mildly.....only his targeted audience understands him. I really dunno how to colour words (maybe I have to start learning from the best ). Anyways, if my words seem harsh, I apologize! It's never my intention to hurt anybody...maybe make them realize they don't have the monopoly of sly use of words but not to HURT! 1 Like |
Re: When Should A Lady Move Out Of Her Parent's House?? by pickabeau1: 7:02pm On Oct 29, 2014 |
I don't get that anyway but what I know is there is a a general trend of attacking people's families on this section Discussions are getiing personal and who knows why Have fun I have agents of shield to catchup on alutacontinua: |
Re: When Should A Lady Move Out Of Her Parent's House?? by lertee(f): 7:06pm On Oct 29, 2014 |
sassygal:Most ladies claim to be strict and reserved when it comes to dealing with guys but they fall easily for the silliest reasons all in the name of emotions. Unless you are a robot,you will surely have an emotion. Most guys,once they know you live alone,they have some sort of relief. Now do not get me wrong,i am not referring to sex when I wrote "have their way",i only meant you would accommodate more guys and be freer with them with the mind that there is no one to caution you and you have your life to live. 2 Likes |
Re: When Should A Lady Move Out Of Her Parent's House?? by Nobody: 7:06pm On Oct 29, 2014 |
pickabeau1: Another episode don happen? I find it difficult to even keep up these days Too much series to deal with.... |
Re: When Should A Lady Move Out Of Her Parent's House?? by edwife(f): 7:07pm On Oct 29, 2014 |
pickabeau1: Pickabeau that was not literally, i am not just talking about this thread,but a lot has been happening in family section these days... It's like a gender's war... i am talking about people who always read meaning to posts.... Can't we just disagree without going personal? |
Re: When Should A Lady Move Out Of Her Parent's House?? by Nobody: 7:07pm On Oct 29, 2014 |
edwife:it seems a lot of people feel the need to validate their beliefs and opinions by getting others to believe them They simply can't accept others may have differing opinions Not only do they forcefeed their opinions on others, they twist someone's words around to make you look foolish They believe that only their opinion is right and nothing else is and if you don't see things from their own perspective, they call you names 3 Likes |
Re: When Should A Lady Move Out Of Her Parent's House?? by babestell(f): 7:08pm On Oct 29, 2014 |
carefreewannabe: True talk. 2 Likes |
Re: When Should A Lady Move Out Of Her Parent's House?? by pickabeau1: 7:13pm On Oct 29, 2014 |
edwife: OK....wanted to be sure it was not this thread On your point...I agree ....ideally points should be made without personality alutacontinua: Toooooo much I am doing falling skies, agents of shield and resurrection Grimm s4 just started Dominion s2 soon Finished strain, last ship Am counting down to start The Walking Dead(from.season 1) Toooooo many series |
Re: When Should A Lady Move Out Of Her Parent's House?? by sassygal(f): 7:24pm On Oct 29, 2014 |
lertee: I understand, you do not mean sex. My point if you do not give them that notion, they won't form that opinion. If they do by mistake, you put them in the right place, they ought to be. Heck, I hardly accommodate girls, not to talk of guys. Anyway, depends on the motive you have for getting an apartment. I regard mine as my sanctuary which should not be desecrated by unwanted guests except at my request. |
Re: When Should A Lady Move Out Of Her Parent's House?? by TV01(m): 8:09pm On Oct 29, 2014 |
alutacontinua:Don't be pained (or is that concern )...my joblessness in no way hinders your world changing endeavors. Unless that endeavor includes challenging opinions such as mine . And I don't remember every single thing, just that I have a mental note to swerve you, which you validated by taking a swipe at me the last 4 times you've quoted/mentioned me - none of which I have beefed you about, simply responded . alutacontinua:Which is the one thing I remember from our very first encounter. Your ambitions to be a person of renown, a world changer and trail blazer in your chosen field. Who would top it all with a handsome husband and two cute as button kids - and, I've no problem with that, in fact, I applaud it. You single-handedly created the "mat-spreading" specialty on this board....for that alone...standing Ovation . If there is a record of me "blowing" about my achievements - which admittedly are very modest and quite pathetic by your "global writ" levels - please feel to point it out. Am I proud of my family? Abso-bloody-lutely, it's possibly the only good thing I've achieved in my under-achieving life. Should I not be? alutacontinua:Ope 0 - no question I'm a big slacker...always needing the patronage of my betters to get what I can't acquire myself. alutacontinua:Carry-overs? I have responded to every one of your swipes - and quite civilly too - even after pointing them out to you. You remain my lovable lil' sis - Yes you ! TV **see you on the next thread ** 2 Likes |
Re: When Should A Lady Move Out Of Her Parent's House?? by freecocoa(f): 8:15pm On Oct 29, 2014 |
lertee:This has got to be the stupidest thing I've read today, I'm sorry, I just couldn't mask my shock. |
Re: When Should A Lady Move Out Of Her Parent's House?? by sassygal(f): 8:18pm On Oct 29, 2014 |
freecocoa: Hahaha I reason she is a teenager |
Re: When Should A Lady Move Out Of Her Parent's House?? by freecocoa(f): 8:23pm On Oct 29, 2014 |
sassygal:This isn't just about being a teenager, I do hope she's one though. |
Re: When Should A Lady Move Out Of Her Parent's House?? by sassygal(f): 8:28pm On Oct 29, 2014 |
freecocoa: She 'has' got to be one! otherwise needs a helluva load of guidance |
Re: When Should A Lady Move Out Of Her Parent's House?? by freecocoa(f): 8:31pm On Oct 29, 2014 |
sassygal:Just saying, even as a teenager, I knew where to draw the line with the opposite $ex. Anyways, with age sometimes comes wisdom sha. |
Re: When Should A Lady Move Out Of Her Parent's House?? by lertee(f): 8:49pm On Oct 29, 2014 |
freecocoa:Ooops,hang yourself then,**i feel threatened** live and let live,you have your opinion which you are free to air while I have mine. If you ain't cool with my opinion then shut your trap and stop sounding like a dunce..you should act your age. 14 Likes |
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