miztola:

Uncle,I didn't say so,what I said that drew me into this talk was,in quote,"ladies for the love of God,stop giving bfs husband privileges"
Husband privileges in this context may include cooking,washing,sexx,having babies and what have you(there are some unmarried young men and women who do this)
I don't see cooking for my man a big deal,I can cook at intervals for him but he shouldn't take it as a right cos after all,we are neither married and I'm still a guest with him.
I never said "don't cook but have sexx.

sunnedee:
Check this out guys..
The " I can't cook for my bf" team.

What do they have in common?
"Hogliness"

** Don't want to write the correct form of the term before them go say I no sabi spell correctly **

zoe123:
my experience: met this guy in my 1st year in sch.loved him like mad.wen am in his house which was like always, I will cook, clean do laundry n of course fvck am, 3yrs down d line I discovered his screwing my Bestie n she's pregnant. everyone told me to leave it to God everything has a reason.1.5yrs later bros died in a car crash, my friend is now a young widow.but I learnt a lesson a man won't marry u cos ur doing all those stuff for him.if he no love u he no love u.my policy now, if u dey my house I go give u food if I dey ur house u can either cook or we eat out.

Olaone1:

Now, let me move closer for a warm hug jare.

This post is better and a breath of fresh air going by what girls are posting here

foxxynik:



You're sounding like my gf... She likes it when she's cooking and am behind her..kissing and gisting and perhaps helping her with the cooking...like opening the maggi, grinding pepper n crayfish. She'll ask me to taste the meat and we'll playfully finish cooking without even knowing!

There is fun in it...you know?

TahariX:


My parents/ family are the only ones who spend money on me.

TahariX:


My parents/ family are the only ones who spend money on me.

Pamcrest:
Interesting topic. Methinks it depends on d lady. I never cooked for my bfs, I never saw d need to visit him n start cooking....for what naa...that isn't in d T&Cs of our relationship. When we are hungry we go out to eat or just nibble on snacks around his house. When he visits me, same thing. It used to amuse me when I see my friends cooking, cleaning n doing laundry for a bf! And then after some months, d affair is all over, so what was d essence of all that labour of "love"? It's more rewarding cooking for my husband n kids.....taking good care of my family, not slaving for a "waka come waka go"

eminex:


but u can lie oooo. lolzzz. u said u can both eat out if he can't cook when u come around. so who is doing d spending? I tire for u. u be proper chop & clean mouth. lolzzzz.

pieces2:
Na wetin all this ladis aspiring to be wife dey yan here Sef, you can't cook for you bf because e never marry you but u can kiss him, Sm**sh him,maybe on the side have s*x with him and e never marry you .
Also e never marry you bt e dey pay your bills at least money for recharge card dey and salon dey fall steady. Why not wait till e marry you to do all this things too as u be alakpa Ike
Mind you na BF go turn husband one day (that's for the serious BF's way ready to settle )
Ladise I think we should have a change of mind cooking or not cooking for your BF does notmake you his house help or maid it jst mean say ur mama teach u well and you collect training. [color=#990000][/color]

einsteino:
ok i get this, you are right though so long as you also realise he shouldn't be responsible for your bills, afterall he is not your father

miztola:

I'm not dating a guy so he can pay my bills.

pasqal09:
Miztola! Not you too?

creamy1990:
pls do u av N1000 naira note with u?

TahariX:


You've said this 200 times now but they'll still keep bringing it up.

emiraty:


Before nko? Of course! So we should be cooking for u because we have to prove our selves worthy of being married to. Funny enough most of you have other ladies set aside as the main chick and she doesn't even cook as you do worshipping and over shopping
.Una don see glorified house gal shey?
No lady should enter kitchen with out a ring a ring on her finger.

bams01:


You see these small small girls enh.

Pamcrest:
Interesting topic. Methinks it depends on d lady. I never cooked for my bfs, I never saw d need to visit him n start cooking....for what naa...that isn't in d T&Cs of our relationship. When we are hungry we go out to eat or just nibble on snacks around his house. When he visits me, same thing. It used to amuse me when I see my friends cooking, cleaning n doing laundry for a bf! And then after some months, d affair is all over, so what was d essence of all that labour of "love"? It's more rewarding cooking for my husband n kids.....taking good care of my family, not slaving for a "waka come waka go"

miztola:

What I do? *keeps innocent face*

TahariX:


When did I say this? I need a direct quote.

eminex:


u said ur parent/family only spends on u. den in conclusion, in ur relationship history if only there is any, u guys haven't gone out on dates & he hasn't sent u airtime & d likes.
except if u mean he(boyfriend) is a family member. lolzzzz

pasqal09:

So you won't cook for him too?

einsteino:
for Pete's sake people dont realise there are certain details you should leave out when in a public forum, did you really need to announce that you fvcked him?

miztola:

I can cook; but my cooking has conditions to it.

Sapphire86:


Would rather wait for when society terms it my duty than now that it is seen as just 1 of those things.