TahariX:


If the love between us is genuine, he won't expect me to be submissive and he won't think of himself as the boss in the relationship.

My dear, every ship must have a captain.

Sapphire86:


Yes! She is still a guest after all.

then she shoudnt make herself @ home...don't you think?

pasqal09:

My dear, every ship must have a captain.

Neanderthal 101

TahariX:


Neanderthal 101

What's that?

pasqal09:


So u agree with submission and character? But, how can you show these when you won't even cook for him?

I said dt based on dt adage..submission and character works properly in marriage..in dating..cooking for u always is simply not an example of submission and character..u wnt to win dz argument..lol

TahariX:
I personally will not cook for anyone I'm not married to. I can cook for you if you're coming over to visit but going to someone's house and cooking for them is just a no-no. I'm not your wife bruh.

girls like you...cook with your own money...so stop the needless pretence#nobody cares

TahariX:


If the love between us is genuine, he won't expect me to be submissive and he won't think of himself as the boss in the relationship.

Pls..permit me to ask this ?.
How old are u..?

nomabeeee:
lol..ur opinion shaa

And you know I got you there.
Some things are just norms in a society, same way you go out with the guy and always expect him to foot the bills same way he expects you to cook anytime you come around.
My final two cents

Equado:
girls like you...cook with your own money...so stop the needless pretence#nobody cares

What's wrong with cooking with your own money?

Needless pretense? Ok

nomabeeee:
I said dt based on dt adage..submission and character works properly in marriage..in dating..cooking for u always is simply not an example of submission and character..u wnt to win dz argument..lol

How's it not an example of it?

ERCROSS:


Pls..permit me to ask this ?.
How old are u..?

Is my age relevant to the discussion?

Gloria3389:

lolzzz... I can see you've not met a good cook before....

One of my ex don put salt inside indomie for me before! I be like WTF!

Na kick I kick her comot for my kitchen that day!
I tell her say if she dey find who she go kill, make she go kill her papa or brothers for house!

TahariX:


What's wrong with cooking with your own money?

Needless pretense? Ok

you're a girl its your job by nature...the best I can do is provide the food stuff

TahariX:


What's wrong with cooking with your own money?

Needless pretense? Ok

you're a girl its your job by nature...the best I can do is provide the food stuff

Nairalanders and their arguement.. Make una go sleep ohhh

deuce7:
@Op I have some friends who dont even allow any girl cook for them expect a relative. That your cooking for your 'love' should give you joy and he too can be able to do the same for you. If you feel too big to do some things for the one your dating then, your mind is not there a 100%. There should not be laid down rules regarding issues like cooking in a relationship.

.u dnt expect me to take care of ur cooking all the time..hun..lol..

Lol see all dem ladies sayn no oh tufiakwa i cnt cook for my man, me? Impossible..godforbid...arant nonsense..how can i stoop so low...chai... I dey laff all ov una in 4D.. Mk una boyfrnds catch una dey post this kyn tin, no more brazilian hair for the next one yr..lol.. Na joke ooo biko...just for the fun of it...

TahariX:


Is my age relevant to the discussion?

I guess it does.
Coz with ur contributions thus far on this thread.
U sound inexperienced..

Anyi3:


And you know I got you there.
Some things are just norms in a society, same way you go out with the guy and always expect him to foot the bills same way he expects you to cook anytime you come around.
My final two cents

oh no u ddnt sweery..am simply enjoying everyones opinion..I still stand my ground dt ladies shuld nt always cook for d man dy re dating..

ERCROSS:


I guess it does.
Coz with ur contributions thus far on this thread.
U sound inexperienced..

Lol. Ok boo.

nomabeeee:
.u dnt expect me to take care of ur cooking all the time..hun..lol..

It should be like this...
Me: baby I wana eat egwusi soup today o, am going to the market to buy the condiments
You: will you like me to cook it for you?
Me: I will be gald baby
You: let me know when your back so I will come over.
Me: thanks love

Op is anything wrong in the above?

deuce7:

It should be like this...
Me: baby I wana eat egwusi soup today o, am going to the market to buy the condiments
You: will you like me to cook it for you?
Me: I will be gald baby
You: let me know when your back so I will come over.
Me: thanks love

Op is anything wrong in the above?

yes..

Ok.. I dn hear

pasqal09:

No, but its a criteria for getting a guy to fall completely. Guys hate ladies that aren't submissive.

Abi. Even for a guy like me who loves food, its a big criterion.

nomabeeee:
I find this very interesting to discuss here..and I will go straight to the point..I don't think its advicible for a lady to always cook for the man she's dating anytime she's visits him.if you visit him 5 times,u can cook two times or once for him..its important that we ladies should know our place in our man's life..if you are his friend,you act like his friend..if you a re his girlfriend ,you act like one and if you a re his wife..you also act like one..A woman is meant to be explored..if am dating/courting you and during the course of that I cook all my delicasies for you,..what threat wil I give you when we get married?hmmm I can't find myself loitering around a man's kitchen when am not his wife..whats ur opinion ladies?men are also free to air their opinions too...reasonable comments please..thanks

It seems itz only food you have to offer your future husband ¿

Babu wani Abin da wani ya ba zai ji....

nomabeeee:
yes..

What is wrong with it? That means your not ready to give your all in the relationship.

sauceny:


It seems itz only food you have to offer your future husband ¿

Babu wani Abin da wani ya ba zai ji....

and it seems u wil hv issues with understanding ur future wife..odiegwu ooo

Equado:
then she shoudnt make herself @ home...don't you think?

What if na only bed the guy get no chairs nko?

Sapphire86:


What if na only bed the guy get no chairs nko?

sapien:
One of my ex don put salt inside indomie for me before! I be like WTF!

Na kick I kick her comot for my kitchen that day!
I tell her say if she dey find who she go kill, make she go kill her papa or brothers for house!

hahahahahahahahahahaha.... u for teach her na....

pasqal09:


Permit me to ask this....
You are currently in a relationship right?

Yes.... getting a boyfriend's heart is not by cooking bro....anyway, we have different pple with different principles....the adage myt apply to u but not everyone.......may I ask if u are married??

nomabeeee:
I find this very interesting to discuss here..and I will go straight to the point..I don't think its advicible for a lady to always cook for the man she's dating anytime she's visits him.if you visit him 5 times,u can cook two times or once for him..its important that we ladies should know our place in our man's life..if you are his friend,you act like his friend..if you a re his girlfriend ,you act like one and if you a re his wife..you also act like one..A woman is meant to be explored..if am dating/courting you and during the course of that I cook all my delicasies for you,..what threat wil I give you when we get married?hmmm I can't find myself loitering around a man's kitchen when am not his wife..whats ur opinion ladies?men are also free to air their opinions too...reasonable comments please..thanks

This is why you are still single and seriously searching.