mkpekes make una no do guy about cooking for BF here. a guy would only allow a gal cook for him if he is sure about d babe (fear of efo is the beginning of wisdom) - so its a privilege to cook cos the guy trust you with his food -meaning he can marry u. so make una park well

nomabeeee:
I find this very interesting to discuss here..and I will go straight to the point..I don't think its advicible for a lady to always cook for the man she's dating anytime she's visits him.if you visit him 5 times,u can cook two times or once for him..its important that we ladies should know our place in our man's life..if you are his friend,you act like his friend..if you a re his girlfriend ,you act like one and if you a re his wife..you also act like one..A woman is meant to be explored..if am dating/courting you and during the course of that I cook all my delicasies for you,..what threat wil I give you when we get married?hmmm I can't find myself loitering around a man's kitchen when am not his wife..whats ur opinion ladies?men are also free to air their opinions too...reasonable comments please..thanks

That's deep and we'll said. Good stuff! It's very true..Most girls forget to play thier role.

kissochristo:
Only ladies who r nt sure of demselves in dia guys life will say d won't cook in his hux end of story

if u read the post well the OP clearly stated that

I find this very interesting to discuss here..and I will go straight to the point..I don't think its advicible for a lady to always cook for the man she's dating anytime she's visits him.if you visit him 5 times,u can cook two times or once for him..its important that we ladies should know our place in our man's life..if you are his friend,you act like his friend..if you a re his girlfriend ,you act like one and if you a re his wife..you also act like one.

Where did u get the part of "dont cook at all" from?

See question o. Meanwhile Op u need to do the needful to some grammatical mistakes up there.

Princecalm:
Look at what girls of this days are turning into.Imaging you went to your BF house and you met him cooking and instead of taking over the cooking from him you sit and watch him do the cooking and still serve you.Even the whites which you guys are emulating have not started doing this.

are u Ghanaian?

Sapphire86:


Congrats to your bride then!

my take on ladies dat always talk this way..they don see fire from different guys wey dey fall for.make una no vex.there r still alot of good men out there.winks

ochallo:
Well cooking for him would not make him marry you, as a matter of fact, you may be cooking for his other girlfriend.

LMAO!!!!!

TahariX:
I personally will not cook for anyone I'm not married to. I can cook for you if you're coming over to visit but going to someone's house and cooking for them is just a no-no. I'm not your wife bruh.

OK we've heard u but don't come on here opening a thread ranting when u r close to 30 saying "why are guys so heartless?" lol.

Bible says wives be submissive not girlfriends plssss. Cooking for him while u are not married isn't right. Men its worth waiting for, visit her and she will cook dat way u will know how good she is if that's wat want to know

can you c d mistake ladies are making, well from the op's post what she is against is d act of always cooking, but majority of ladies who has posted are saying they can't n won't do it @all, d truth is there is a whole lot more to the role of a wife beyond cooking, n dat u cook at anytime doesn't mean you've started playing the role of a wife, u are only making d guy c u relevant in his life, n if u are good @ what you do, that can make a guy conclude to marry you so you can perform the complete roles of a wife, n if the guy u are dating, u should want that.
more so a reasonable guy will not want to turn u into a Cook as a girlfriend, cos depending on how u have played your game as d babe, u should command a level of respect. but u don't have to begging to react as tough its some kinda taboo to cook for him.
I use to organise cooking contest for me n my babe, cos I cook well too, n she counts it a privilege whenever I ask her to cook. so ladies, calm down , there is no big deal in that, but just be sure u are Ewell appreciated n not taken for granted . dats my take on this, n trust me if your guy thinks you are good enough for him, he wants to take u out n show u off to friends n family, so the whole time u will use to cook will hinder that, so whatever time you have to be good to him, pls be, cos those are the things that sums up your CV n help him decide the way forward. cooking for him @ reasonable intervals will not harm u, trust me, it only endears you to his heart. but you have to be sure u are with the right person.

NB: with me u cook as my babe o, u no cook o, oho. it makes no diff, but just be sure u know how to for peace to reign.

See all dis Mumu gals wey no sabi anything, it is not like you are going to your bfs house everyday to go and cook for him, so why would u think cooking for him is a taboo.... Tho Op stated once in a while but all dis oda smal gals wey Neva 18 dey talk about how relationships work, wat do u know about relationships with all dis smal smal boys u re jumping on up and down?! Answer me?!

I put it to sum of u guys dat u people re wrongd. If she dosnt cook 4 d guy who will? Is it only to be collecting money dat she is gud at? Some of guys re saying wat u dnt knw.

Princecalm:
Look at what girls of this days are turning into.Imaging you went to your BF house and you met him cooking and instead of taking over the cooking from him you sit and watch him do the cooking and still serve you.Even the whites which you guys are emulating have not started doing this.

white don't cook

4me my boyfriend am dating now doesn't allow me do anything cus he believes when am.not dere he will b lazy. It's cool dat way

Is this suppose to be a question?

TahariX:


There is no boss in a relationship. -_-

Why did God make us the head then?

gboss4sure:


But you will open your legs to someone you are not married to right? or are you a virgin

LMAOOO!!! Idiot!

It depends on hw we all see it.....diff pple with diff mentality tho.....to me it isnt a big deal cos i actually enjoy cooking aside d fact dat we ll both enjoy d meal

pasqal09:

No, more like the potential madam of the house.

O please sometimes they are even the side chick. Thank God girls are becoming smart these days. Say no to slavery

mascot87:


I bet ur bf got no class,no be by mouth o but with people like me, na u go dey beg to cook for my house even while dating

really pity dat girlfriend of urs

ikaboy:


na your type de cook pass.

I love how you idiots always make the silliest assumptions:*

you

TahariX:


If the love between us is genuine, he won't expect me to be submissive and he won't think of himself as the boss in the relationship.

wow. Its like u lyk having ur way.

immature is u girls prob...wats d xtent of dating...jus to go der & kpiansh abi....sorry oooo...u girls are stil far frm d true meaning of relationship....me i cook & he cook too wen i visit...d most sweetest of it all is wen am cookin,hes bhind me wit his hands round my waist...somtimes throw fish in his mouth....u girls grow up.

cooking for d guy is a big deal but d guy been in charge of her responsibility is good so as to know whether d guy is capable of taking care of his family responsibility. there is God o. what is good for d goose is good for d gander.

sleeknick:
Hehehehe...I laff at dis post @op na em be sey u neva jam pesin like me. So, I go dey cook for u while u go siddon dia dey watch big broda africa... Anyway as for me dis is what I will do;
1. Call anoda girl to do d cooking in ur pressence
2. Me and d girl will eat d food in ur pressence
3. We will straff in ur pressence
4. Eat nite food in ur pressence
After doing all these in ur pressence, u will shamefully cry and leave in our pressence.

@op shey too much foreign movies and social network garbage don dey affect ur african mentality ni.

I rest my case for now.

Abeg who get small pin charger!?

Guy u jt b my kind of person y waste my precious tym on her wen she is nt serus

I can only guess that most of the girls on this thread are below 25.

pasqal09:



Ok, she'll keep remaining a guest while another lady will become the wife.

Nice one!!!
@op. Sure, another person will, if you won't cook for him.

pasqal09:



Ok, she'll keep remaining a guest while another lady will become the wife.

Nice one!!!
@op. Sure, you don't have to, but don't be jealous if you see the touch of another woman in his home.

She will not only cook for me. She would cook for my mum and siblings too

Gloria3389:

thought I was the only lady who had that policy... my male friends Don abuse me tire...if u come to my place I'll cook for you but coming over to cook in your Place is a NO for me.....

how many of us dey .... you?

Reading the first few comments on this thread makes me feel jealous of those that are married. It seems those still available are mostly rubbish. You can't cook for the guy you are dating? Perfect that. Some of you need to seat your mothers down and ask her what she did for the husband ( your father ).

Later you all call it "modern age" even the oyinbos cook for their boyfriends when they are in his house.