Adaeze003:
I agree with the op...

I seriously aint cooking 4 you in ur abode... u want to know if I can cook, come to my abode... if we're engaged the tale will be different tho.

Even cleaning sef... lemme add, can't even be with a scruffy sm1. lol! I berra not meet ur crib upside down...

For the guys babbling "someone else will do it" ehm, is that meant to scare me? Ehm... o well, I guess ya'll will fall for a lady af far as shez cleaning ur bum after pooping. smh... that's how people fall 4 pretenders.

For em childish boys calling people ugly n posting pictures can we see ur pic pls? Smh...

100% agreed!

LORETA:
amakaileks(f): 6:40pm
4me my boyfriend am dating now doesn't allow me do anything cus he believes when am.not dere he will b lazy. It's cool dat way



amakaileks..i feel sorry for you....am i guy and i am talking from a guys heart..if i dont let you cook for me and tells you its could make me lazy.....i am just deceiving you..because it means i don't trust you with my life and i am scared to show u that we are committed in the relationship..pls try and force yourself to cook for him ohhhh when next u go see him..its part 50 % of u are close to his heart

Initially, I sensed somfin fishy in her post! I'll say, perhaps her first cooking wasn't really impressive and the guy had vowed never to take anymore of her meals...and decided to cook up a story of laziness for her to live with! Just a manly observation!

Sapphire86:


Would rather wait for when society terms it my duty than now that it is seen as just 1 of those things.

why don't you wait when society term having sex with your boyfriend your duty before doing it?

In pato voice dis hoes ain't loyal"... Wats more romantic Dan bin in d kitchen togeda performing magic.. Hogly set of gals wit no attractive physico-mind ppts

maggdon:
In pato voice dis hoes ain't loyal"... Wats more romantic Dan bin in d kitchen togeda performing magic.. Hogly set of gals wit no attractive physico-mind ppts

Are YOU seriously calling people ugly? Irony at its finest.

TahariX:


LMAOO Goodnight

How cute. you sound a whole lot unappealing when you say this. more of the attitude babe!

pasqal09:

What conditions?

-he shouldn't take it as his God giving right
-i won't cook everytime I visit
-cooking for him won't lead to other things like sexx.

TahariX:


What kind of low mentality is this?

Very low mentality

TahariX:


I don't understand what you wrote:/

oh girl u do.... u understand every word I wrote. all am telling u is to stop d lies about not been spent upon.
stop being sneaky about it. we all know how it goes.

story for d gods...naija gals can lie since 1930

TahariX:

100% agreed!

Awww. misery loves company.. lmao

miztola:

-he shouldn't take it as his God giving right
-i won't cook everytime I visit
-cooking for him won't lead to other things like sexx.

So you're not interested in anything that won't lead to sex?

you can jst take those times to learn his ways of meal

Ladies please don't go cooking.Cooking doen't guarantee that he'll marry you. If you cook & do laundry & play the role of a wife, if the relationship doesn't work out in the end it means you gonna feel very hurt & used.If he wonna taste my cooking, I can do it at my place, because I know men wonna know if their women can cook before popping the big question.It shouldn't be an expectation though,I cook coz I want to and under odd circumstsnces such as sickness.However, I promised myself to never be found in a man's kitchen,cooking for him if am not his wife.Boyfriends are not supposed to be enjoying husband privileges.That's why they are just boyfriends.After all,If one is freely getting milk,why buy the cow anyway?#Ladieslearn.

TahariX:

Are YOU seriously calling people ugly? Irony at its finest.

..... Hahahaha if u get me as ur bf (which is not possible).. I wnt even ask twice bf u cook and even beg me to eat.. Get sum class gal.. Cooking shows respect and its reciprocal

Olaone1:

Cool! Since you said he is a "waka come waka go". I have one who also abides by the same T&C you stated

Precisely! Communication is very essential in relationships....each person knows from d get-go what to expect, what s/he can give and each other's limitations. But some dickhead can't comprehend that!
My humble submission

I ASSURE U OF TWO THINGS ANY GAL THAT POSSESSES THIS TOT -WIL VISIT HER MOTHER INLAW SEEING HER SWEEPING WIL WALK PAST HER OR DODGE HER TILL SHE FINISHES SWEEPING. Also The Husband Will Come Home Hungry, Asks For His dinner, discovers the wife didn't cook , asks y? And The Wife Will Reply Him "am i your maid''

See what TELEMUNDO has caused smh......after they will start visiting Signs n Wonders church of God looking for husband.....
If u cant cook u can soak garri......

Midehi:

yea alot of fun & i luv it alot...dnt mind dose girls...dey are just blabbling...them no evn see boyfrend how much more to go him house...na waka waka babes jor

Hehehehe....@waka waka babez!

And she's a REAL cook! Just being so lucky!

maggdon:
In pato voice dis hoes ain't loyal"... Wats more romantic Dan bin in d kitchen togeda performing magic.. Hogly set of gals wit no attractive physico-mind ppts

Seriously?

pasqal09:


So you're not interested in anything that won't lead to sex?

I didn't say so.
I can cook for the man I'm dating all I'm saying is when I do so too often,it becomes like a routine and the day u stop or don't,he takes it to a whole new level.
That's why for me,I don't start what I can't finish to avoid stories that touch.

maggdon:
..... Hahahaha if u get me as ur bf (which is not possible).. I wnt even ask twice bf u cook and even beg me to eat.. Get sum class gal.. Cooking shows respect and its reciprocal

LMAO!!! Wow!!! I'm in tears!

OpraMenu:
I ASSURE U OF TWO THINGS ANY GAL THAT POSSESSES THIS TOT -WIL VISIT HER MOTHER INLAW SEEING HER SWEEPING WIL WALK PAST HER OR DODGE HER TILL SHE FINISHES SWEEPING. Also The Husband Will Come Home Hungry, Asks For His dinner, discovers the wife didn't cook , asks y? And The Wife Will Reply Him "am i your maid''

I'm telling you. The gods forbid that we marry "take away" girls as wives!

OpraMenu:
I ASSURE U OF TWO THINGS ANY GAL THAT POSSESSES THIS TOT -WIL VISIT HER MOTHER INLAW SEEING HER SWEEPING WIL WALK PAST HER OR DODGE HER TILL SHE FINISHES SWEEPING. Also The Husband Will Come Home Hungry, Asks For His dinner, discovers the wife didn't cook , asks y? And The Wife Will Reply Him "am i your maid''

.... So fkin on point... In my mums voice.. Shey Omo dey ni eleyi?.. (Is dis a child)

miztola:

I didn't say so.
I can cook for the man I'm dating all I'm saying is when I do so too often,it becomes like a routine and the day u stop or don't,he takes it to a whole new level.
That's why for me,I don't start what I can't finish to avoid stories that touch.

Its not like you live with him or visit him everyday.
But atleast you should cook for him on the days that you visit. It won't become a routine.

Kassidy90:
See what TELEMUNDO has caused smh......after they will start visiting Signs n Wonders church of God looking for husband.....
If u cant cook u can soak garri......

If cooking for a man is a sure way of getting married,there won't have been single ladies.

TahariX:

LMAO!!! Wow!!! I'm in tears!

.... Hahhaaha wud ve loved to gv u handkerchief but take as u gv is d law

D day my lady put semovita inside freezer coz itz watery, she want it to b more solid... Abi d day she put salt nd locust inside indomie for me...my frnd now came visitin, she wan cuk...cum see d votron speed i take reach kitchen dey beg her mak she no cuk...tnk God he intervened dt day, gas finish, d dsgrace my frnd go gv me go stick for life.... Lazy bones...dey no knw anytin, yet dem dey form jadon... Btw, my lady don improve o, nw she can cuk rice

OpraMenu:
I ASSURE U OF TWO THINGS ANY GAL THAT POSSESSES THIS TOT -WIL VISIT HER MOTHER INLAW SEEING HER SWEEPING WIL WALK PAST HER OR DODGE HER TILL SHE FINISHES SWEEPING. Also The Husband Will Come Home Hungry, Asks For His dinner, discovers the wife didn't cook , asks y? And The Wife Will Reply Him "am i your maid''

Not true jor! U think our parents(yes they dated) slaved away 4 each other b4 marriage?

In addition i think this post is all about a lazy gal cooking up stories.

Beey:
Ladies please don't go cooking.Cooking doen't guarantee that he'll marry you. If you cook & do laundry & play the role of a wife, if the relationship doesn't work out in the end it means you gonna feel very hurt & used.If he wonna taste my cooking, I can do it at my place, because I know men wonna know if their women can cook before popping the big question.It shouldn't be an expectation though,I cook coz I want to and under odd circumstsnces such as sickness.However, I promised myself to never be found in a man's kitchen,cooking for him if am not his wife.Boyfriends are not supposed to be enjoying husband privileges.That's why they are just boyfriends.After all,If one is freely getting milk,why buy the cow anyway?#Ladieslearn.

I agree! These same men expecting a gf to cook for them on another thread will vow not to do certain things for a gf simply because she's not his wife.....hypocrisy or male chauvinism!
When he proposes, then he can expect wifely treatment! Dating n marriage is not d same thing oh
My humble submission

pasqal09:

Its not like you live with him or visit him everyday.
But atleast you should cook for him on the days that you visit. It won't become a routine.

When I get to that bridge,I ll cross it.