Adaeze003:


Not true jor! U think our parents(yes they dated) slaved away 4 each other b4 marriage?

nikkyshyne:
There is absolutely nothing wrong in cooking for your boyfriend when you go over to his place. Afterall, you are both going to eat the food.

The only thing that should be limited or outrightly eliminated is washing his clothes and having sex.

Adaeze003:


Not true jor! U think our parents(yes they dated) slaved away 4 each other b4 marriage?

Pamcrest:


Precisely! Communication is very essential in relationships....each person knows from d get-go what to expect, what s/he can give and each other's limitations. But some dickhead can't comprehend that!
My humble submission

seangy4konji:
Na everything u go do. U don talk nice con use dat one spoil am.

Sapphire86:


Yes! She is still a guest after all.

maggdon:
.... Hahhaaha wud ve loved to gv u handkerchief but take as u gv is d law

DailyNews:
Even the white ladies they are trying to copy from cook for their partners with joy. At least, I belong to a group like that on fb that's basically about Nigerian dishes, and majority of the members of that group are foreign women- Australians, Americans, Indians, Chinese, Germans, etc...trying hard to learn how to cook Nigerian meals for their various partners, and our dear sisters are here forming James Bond online, kai...our sisters are indeed awesome!!

OpraMenu:

Ask dem

Olaone1:

Trust me, dem dey do all. With glee sef

seangy4konji:
Na everything u go do. U don talk nice con use dat one spoil am.

Adaeze003:
Btw, to each his own sha... There's no hard n fast rule about this.

Live your life like YOU want. If u want to cook, fine! I have a friend who coiks 4 her bf n seeing them, they're like kids with each other and that's cute.

Just be urself I guess...

Adaeze003:
Btw, to each his own sha... There's no hard n fast rule about this.

Live your life like YOU want. If u want to cook, fine! I have a friend who coiks 4 her bf n seeing them, they're like kids with each other and that's cute.

Just be urself I guess...

Osode:

Its just a disaster...
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They're not Black women anymore... And they're certainly not White women either. They are something ...inbetween.
Like the products of a deliberate western 'Brainwash Experiment', that ensures that in a few years from now, neither Black men nor White men would be able to stay with any them.
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Its a disaster...

nikkyshyne:
Sorry to disappoint you. Haha!

Adaeze003:


I'm sorry, who is a black woman? Go back even to the stone age, you will never see it as acceptable to treat a bf as a husband... ehm r we even meant to date or be in relationships? Ehn? R those not white concepts?

A black woman btw is who ever she says she is! We are much more than the list in your head...

OpraMenu:


One other reason. Husband: honey isdre no fud in ds house?
Wife: I cant kuk today, Ijust fixd my nails

seangy4konji:
I disappoint urself. Wetin concern me and u

Adaeze003:


Ehn na, then he cooks 4 himself!

I once asked on this forum, why must a woman cook 4 u? And I didn't get one reason why, just guys running around the question. Lol... is it coz its tradition is is there some logical reason? topic 4 another day I guess.

seangy4konji:
Make I come load you proper you must come from a poor background to think that way. The time weh I deh uni?na powerful men pikin deh happy to come ur small bq come cook for you to eat and wash your clothes and sweat while u deh knack am. the things she no see do for house. Not village girls of nowadays weh enter town just see mugu say can't cook for boyfriend.

I deh tell you ooo. Na joy for rich man pikin to cook concotiln rice for u dat time for u and ur friends make u chop after smoking kukuye and wash d plate con lie down to knack am before go hostel again.

Village girls forming Omo mummy.

nikkyshyne:
O yea, When u were busy quoting me cox according to u "I spoilt it with my last paragraph" you didn't know it was non of ur damn business what I think enh? So tell me, wetin concern me and you?

nikkyshyne:
Speak english please. What is all these jagons

Princecalm:
Look at what girls of this days are turning into.Imaging you went to your BF house and you met him cooking and instead of taking over the cooking from him you sit and watch him do the cooking and still serve you.Even the whites which you guys are emulating have not started doing this.