You are sure he is into you. It’s a relationship! Here are eight bonehead moves NOT to make if you want it to last.

1. Needy baby greedy baby. Don’t become too dependent. Don’t abandon your friends and family and depend on him for all of your emotional needs. It’s dangerous and honestly, it’s unattractive.

2. Great expectations – it’s not just the name of a movie, it’s a relationship killer. Of course you should expect certain things: respect, civility, etc. But don’t think your relationship is a cure-all. And surely don’t expect your lover to lavish you with gifts, even if he got it like that.

3. Remote control – don’t hog the remote control, meaning don’t be the one making all the decisions all the time.


4. Jealousy. This is a big no-no. First of all, it’s scary. And it’s not healthy. He is going to have friends and family that he will want to spend time with, too. Slow your roll. Don’t be possessive.

5. Flirting with other people. It’s not nice. It’s disrespectful. It’s most likely to piss off your date and start a fuss. All for what? Make sure that you and your partner have boundaries and you know what makes him feel uncomfortable.

6. Boring. Be a little spontaneous now and then. Don’t be so predictable all the time and put your relationship into a rut.

7. Expecting change. Oh what a big killer! Do not expect your mate to change for you. Like and love ‘em for who they are, not what YOU think you can turn him into.

8. Ultimatums. “If you don’t do this, it’s over.” It will be. Communicate your concerns or wants. Don’t be demanding. If there’s a problem, be supportive without being pushy.

A good relationship is a balance act and one of compromise on the part of both people. Don’t commit murder and kill the buzz before it has even had a chance.


Source: www.farrahgray.com/8-things-men-find-unattractive-wont-tell

Okay.. I haff hear

Noted.

Nice post, tnks @posted.

K

Yeah! Understood.

I just updated this link on my Facebook wall. My beau is a Nairalander so I hope she'll see it. We've been incommunicado for 3 weeks now 'cause ,as usual, she gave me ultimatums and I detest them, so I have stayed away from her even though I miss her very much.
LADIES, YOU'LL HELP US BE BETTER LOVERS IF YOU DO AWAY WITH THE ULTIMATUMS.

TheSonOfMark:
I just updated this link on my Facebook wall. My beau is a Nairalander so I hope she'll see it. We've been incommunicado for 3 weeks now 'cause ,as usual, she gave me ultimatums and I detest them, so I have stayed away from her even though I miss her very much.
LADIES, YOU'LL HELP US BE BETTER LOVERS IF YOU DO AWAY WITH THE ULTIMATUMS.

Okay...good then!

Now go end it with her officially and come for me cos I'm officially wooing u


If that's u on ur dp then it a pass mark 4u

I luv the way u line ur beards

irishCream:


Okay...good then!

Now go end it with her officially and come for me cos I'm officially wooing u


If that's u on ur dp then it a pass mark 4u

I luv the way u line ur beards

Yes, it's wholly me on my dp.

By the way, I saw 'Land of Promise' as your location. You reside in Uyo, Akwa Ibom state like I do, I suppose?

irishCream:


Okay...good then!

Now go end it with her officially and come for me cos I'm officially wooing u


If that's u on ur dp then it a pass mark 4u

I luv the way u line ur beards

Lol. Thanks. Yes, it's wholly me on my dp.

By the way, I saw 'Land of Promise' as your location. You reside in Uyo, Akwa Ibom state like I do, I suppose?

TheSonOfMark:


Lol. Thanks. Yes, it's wholly me on my dp.

By the way, I saw 'Land of Promise' as your location. You reside in Uyo, Akwa Ibom state like I do, I suppose?

Yep I'm in akwa abasi ibom land

irishCream:


Yep I'm in akwa abasi ibom land

Good. I knew my inkling about your location was right.
A UniUyo student too?

irishCream:


Okay...good then!

Now go end it with her officially and come for me cos I'm officially wooing u


If that's u on ur dp then it a pass mark 4u

I luv the way u line ur beards

I can smell scam. Thesonofmark, watch ya back.

Liamm:
I can smell scam. Thesonofmark, watch ya back.

See jealosy...

Sorry have already chosen him

TheSonOfMark:


Good. I knew my inkling about your location was right.
A UniUyo student too?

Nop!!!

Sorry u are wrong this time

Top of the morning to u...

irishCream:


See jealosy...

Sorry have already chosen him

and you think i'm in for you huh?
it's a shame the only surviving means you can think about is scamming people. There's no need trying to hide. Your strategies have been bursted. Better get a life and quit scamming

irishCream:


Nop!!!

Sorry u are wrong this time

Top of the morning to u...

Oops! My bad! My presuppositions were only going to take me that far.
And, yes, a beautiful morning to you too, Missy.

Liamm:
I can smell scam. Thesonofmark, watch ya back.

Erm...here's the thing missy/sir? (no rudeness intended - your gender isn't indicated on your profile): Inasmuch as I like socializing, I can only put up as much details of myself on a public forum as I would allow on my Facebook page. And what's the benefit of a scam if money isn't being extorted?
I'm an optimistic realist. I'm guessing irishCream isn't going to go down that lane you hinted at... Thanks for looking out for a brother.

irishCream:


Yep I'm in akwa abasi ibom land

Lolz
see my sister...

Abadie mfin?

TheSonOfMark:


Erm...here's the thing missy/sir? (no rudeness intended - your gender isn't indicated on your profile): Inasmuch as I like socializing, I can only put up as much details of myself on a public forum as I would allow on my Facebook page. And what's the benefit of a scam if money isn't being extorted?
I'm an optimistic realist. I'm guessing irishCream isn't going to go down that lane you hinted at... Thanks for looking out for a brother.

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