UniqueGem:
Auntie!! Pick that chair there, sit down and listen attentively.
First And Foremost, i'll like to notify/inform you that you and that guy ain't in anything serious, he's probably just toiling with you while you think you're having fun. So i think i understand all your input on this discussion.
SECONDLY, A good woman who wants the progress and success of his husband to be (fiance) will NEVER subject to him buying junks for them to feed whenever she's around. She'll always want to impress him with everything she knows INCLUDING COOKING SKILLS. I personally will NEVER marry a woman who always flies with me to eat at KFC or sweet sensation, any sane man wouldn't.
LASTLY; I think the problem of most ladies on this thread is Ego problem. There is no biggy in cooking for a fiance/boyfriend. Afterall the OP who opened this thread said she cooks once in a while. Also, those of you saying there is no boss in a relationship, that explains your egocentric nature. Because there is no associAtion on earth that doesn't have a head. Your fiance is your OGA as far as you're still together.

lolz... Thanks for taking your time to write this but all boyfriends can't be thesame ... besides,I'm not going against his command Cos he never asked me such...
that's all I can say

emusmith:

Are you a Learner? Two ways to a man's heart: food is one, and seex is another. I don't support sx though...

lips sealed

Janetozi:
men friends? Not even 1, now i understand. Going to their house one by one will be too stressful. I think u should reduce the number.

lol.. I think u guys should stop thinking otherwise.... I was only trying to say that I don't like cooking in a guy house be it friend of boyfriend

pasqal09:
Nomabeeee , gloria3389, mondisweets, tahariX
As much as I hate to admits this, you guys were right and I was wrong. I don gree

OK...nice one

nomabeeee:
I find this very interesting to discuss here..and I will go straight to the point..I don't think its advicible for a lady to always cook for the man she's dating anytime she's visits him.if you visit him 5 times,u can cook two times or once for him..its important that we ladies should know our place in our man's life..if you are his friend,you act like his friend..if you a re his girlfriend ,you act like one and if you a re his wife..you also act like one..A woman is meant to be explored..if am dating/courting you and during the course of that I cook all my delicasies for you,..what threat wil I give you when we get married?hmmm I can't find myself loitering around a man's kitchen when am not his wife..whats ur opinion ladies?men are also free to air their opinions too...reasonable comments please..thanks

All this silly,dumb,brainless girls claiming they can't cook for their bf
bla bla bla! in his house are still the ones that will go to his house
and spread their legs wider than those curves in economic text
books!! but you claim you're just his gf and you're not a house
girl!!biatch!

Beey:
It's ok.For me,I've never been the kind of girl who expects a lot from a boyfriend because am not his wife.I don't expect him to buy me clothes or pay for my hair because again girlfriends shouldn't be getting wife privileges.I consider dating as a time to go out & have fun & get to know one another.It's not a time to cook & do laundry or buy clothes & pay for hair.Trust me it gets to a time when you are expecting seriousness from dates & not jokers because you are getting too old for games.Such times you don't get into a relationship expecting it to break.You hope things will work out & hopefully lead to marriage.As for boyfriend giving money,let him give because he wants to nut not because it's an obligation.She's a girlfriend , not a wife.

I'm happy you used "Hope"... It means expectation of things you're not sure of. I'm happy you're the type that don't go in to relationship and expect things from the guy. But I know you will agree with me that most of the girls here that are saying they can't cook for bf are the type that expect the boy to take care of their needs

merit12:
Freedom of weed expression


Baby girls good point


*gather all the babes ,matching along rounabout ringroad (benin)

Singing

No more cooking for boyfriend(2x)
Because they are benfiting what they have not pay for



Hmmmmm


For me it different somehow
Cos if I love him I will take good care of him and show him I can cook ,he is not going waste his money marrying me or teaching me how to cook


Besides na 2 of us go enjoy the food .oh


All the d movement

Nor use ya jamz spoil my blues oh




Op are you black


Sig....never give up if you wanna try

God bless you.

Gloria3389:

lolzzz... I can see you've not met a good cook before....

If u're a good cook, den Wot stops u from showing him Wot u know how 2 do best at his place. I don't wanna argue, some of dis debaters do beg 2 cook or even buy food stuffs 2 cook at their bf's place.

Godmother:
I see no biggy in it. If I go to my boyfriend's house I will cook. Even my best male friend, whenever I go to his place I cook for us both to eat. If the house is dirty we clean-up together. However, the day I don't feel like doing anything I will sit and cross my legs and we will sort ourselves out by buying boli and groundnut or something else if he cannot cook

U make brain.

Godmother:


We have been friends for over ten years so I don't really think that's true

Okay

Certifiedboss:



I'm happy you used "Hope"... It means expectation of things you're not sure of. I'm happy you're the type that don't go in to relationship and expect things from the guy. But I know you will agree with me that most of the girls here that are saying they can't cook for bf are the type that expect the boy to take care of their needs

I know what you mean.Thanks.

nison:

If u're a good cook, den Wot stops u from showing him Wot u know how 2 do best at his place. I don't wanna argue, some of dis debaters do beg 2 cook or even buy food stuffs 2 cook at their bf's place.

hmmmm...now tell me the correlation btw what u quoted and what u posted.....

Gloria3389:

hmmmm...now tell me the correlation btw what u quoted and what u posted.....

With your poor looks and your broke bf. I don't know what's wrong with these gutter bread girls of these days. Very ugly and they keep forming. I bet in your house you can't boast of 3square meal, so broke you can't even have a good hairdo.

Ah! If she can't cook ,what else? There is absolutely nothing wrong in a lady cooking for her guy.
If a guy can trust you to the extent that he will allow you cook for him ,count yourself fortunate.

slimmy05:
With your poor looks and your broke bf. I don't know what's wrong with these gutter bread girls of these days. Very ugly and they keep forming. I bet in your house you can't boast of 3square meal, so broke you can't even have a good hairdo.

Brozz.....relax! Its a forum! You don't have to display such vulgarity, simply becoz she aired out her opinion!

Thanks for ur understanding!

As if all this gals can cook sef

Gloria3389:

lolz....Sorry,I have lots of male friends... cos everything I'm doing including my discipline has to with working with guys... so stop thinking otherwise...

I completely understand. But next time don't call them "male friends" they're boys so scrap the male friends and call them boy friends which is what they're

foxxynik:



Brozz.....relax! Its a forum! You don't have to display such vulgarity, simply becoz she aired out her opinion!

Thanks for ur understanding!

Then who the hell are you?

slimmy05:
Then who the hell are you?

Does it really matter? Perhaps you should go ahead and flaunt ur fatuity!

And I have never underestimated the power of stupid people in a single fold.... So do ur best to impress me!

I don't think it has to do with mentality. What works for you might not work for another, there are exceptions to some rules. As for me, whether boyfriend, male friend or elder brother, when I go for a visit, I cook if I please and sometimes they do d cooking while I help out or watch t.v and at times we eat out. It's a matter of personality, in my own view.

kayciano:
this is y most of u are not MARRIAGEABLE neither do MARRIAGES last again...
TOO MUCH MOVIES..
MY CANDID ADVICE:
-dont even bother cooking...because most of u feed us with OTAPIA PIA...(RODENTICIDE).
MEN hardly reason well again ..because u ladies have damaged our brains with only INDOMIE....
MEN now eat only SNACKS...
HARDLY can u get a lady that can prepare VEGETABLE DISH..
D other day, one dat visited me was GOOGLING how to make common YAM PORRIDGE..
DON'T COOK PLEASE...

Lol

foxxynik:


Does it really matter? Perhaps you should go ahead and flaunt ur fatuity!

And I have never underestimated the power of stupid people in a single fold.... So do ur best to impress me!

And what has these rantings got to do with me? Seems you need to take your med.

Butterphly:
I don't think it has to do with mentality. What works for you might not work for another, there are exceptions to some rules. As for me, whether boyfriend, male friend or elder brother, when I go for a visit, I cook if I please and sometimes they do d cooking while I help out or watch t.v and at times we eat out. It's a matter of personality, in my own view.

Nice one. Please, we need more of sane people like you here on nairaland.

pasqal09:

Then how would she graduate to become a wife?

help me ask am. by the way, if she no cook another girl go come cook.

slimmy05:
With your poor looks and your broke bf. I don't know what's wrong with these gutter bread girls of these days. Very ugly and they keep forming. I bet in your house you can't boast of 3square meal, so broke you can't even have a good hairdo.

Sorry, is that the description of all the girls you've met in your life?.... or a. simple description of yourself

symbian03:


I completely understand. But next time don't call them "male friends" they're boys so scrap the male friends and call them boy friends which is what they're

and you are a boy too.... right?

voodoo85:


What about whites? I would never marry spoilt boy who doesnt cook himself and is dependent on woman. After all we r grown ups and can take care of our selves. I would ask if he needs help with cooking but wouldnt allow leave me cooking alone. No way! If he comes to my house - i would cook. Same case is for him

it is also part of romance when both of you stay in the kitchen and cook

Certifiedboss:



I'm happy you used "Hope"... It means expectation of things you're not sure of. I'm happy you're the type that don't go in to relationship and expect things from the guy. But I know you will agree with me that most of the girls here that are saying they can't cook for bf are the type that expect the boy to take care of their needs

Yea....I agree with u,some ladies are just so stupid..
when u turn your boyfriend to money making machine then be ready to be his food cooking machine and sex making machine.. ...else you'll be maltreated and start disturbing nairaland with your predicament caused by you...
for goodness sake...BOYFRIEND IS NOT YOUR FATHER....if u can understand that then relationship assault will reduce

Gloria3389:

and you are a boy too.... right?

Before nko? I'm a boy and not a girl you may decide to call me your boy friend as well which is gonna be just perfect. Happy new week

symbian03:


Before nko? I'm a boy and not a girl you may decide to call me your boy friend as well which is gonna be just perfect. Happy new week

hmmmmm.... nice one.. happy new week too

Gloria3389:

Sorry, is that the description of all the girls you've met in your life?.... or a. simple description of yourself

getaway lowlife locust

TahariX:


This is exactly what I was saying. I'm open to cooking for you if you're coming over to my place but I won't go to your place and cook for you. But all these close minded and ignorant goats want to jump down my throat lol

Sorry I'm quoting you! But I think it's time we get some verification on these claims.

I'm pretty sure these girls saying "I don't cook" don't have their bf's on NL! If you guys do! Can you please get them to confirm these claims?

It's a relationship for C. Sake! Since s*x is mutual beneficial! What else will make up for the bills he is footing on you? And why should he do so if a little appreciation in cooking is a tabooo for you? Anyways, it depends on thetype of kitchen your bf has and the hardwares in it. If you see my kitchen ibet you will want to cook without being asked to!