Ok I've been working in a real estate firm since february this year and being the reserved type I made sure I don't have deep association with my colleagues in the office, not for any malicious reason but I don't just speak when I don't have anything important/productive to say.

Few weeks ago I was just so less busy and hyper-active then I had an informal coversation with one female colleague and that's the first time we have ever spoken ever since then she's been on my neck! She stops at my office whenever she's passing by, she shouts my name from a distant to greet me, what drove me nuts was when she called my phone by 11pm on friday, today she asked me what she should get me for my upcoming birthday. This makes me so uncomfortable in the office and I won't want to give her a hostile reception because that will be highly immature.

I don't know how to tell her I didn't mean to flirt with her that I just had that conversation with her out of boredom and being the reserved type I don't want anything informal to do with a female colleague.

Now due to the fact that she's a much sought after lady in the office my male colleagues now ask about her from me, this drove me haywire but I had to co-ordinate.

Please I need to handle this pretty soon before it gets uncontrollable! Thank you all

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my dear, life has gone beyond d level of dying in silence oh. If possible, sit her down somewhere outside office and tell her ur mind. Simple! It might be she is doing it with a free heart oh. But when u know u aint comfortable with it anymore, dude spill it out ohhh! By the way, bros which one u no dey nah? Its obvious d babe like u nah. To like u na crime? Just kidding sha. Bros, express ur mind. No time to die in silence.

dnt see anything wrong with it. she is just friendly dats all

Start by ignoring her calls and her greetings, no need to act rude , with time she'll notice and let you be that's if she's not into you .

Babe don fall



Dats all

@ opp don't do what u will regret, it obvious she like u, @ opp are u single, if yes then let the game begins.

emperorchedda:
Ok I've been working in a real estate firm since february this year and being the reserved type I made sure I don't have deep association with my colleagues in the office, not for any malicious reason but I don't just speak when I don't have anything important/productive to say.

Few weeks ago I was just so less busy and hyper-active then I had an informal coversation with one female colleague and that's the first time we have ever spoken ever since then she's been on my neck! She stops at my office whenever she's passing by, she shouts my name from a distant to greet me, what drove me nuts was when she called my phone by 11pm on friday, today she asked me what she should get me for my upcoming birthday. This makes me so uncomfortable in the office and I won't want to give her a hostile reception because that will be highly immature.

[b[b][/b]][/b]I don't know how to tell her I didn't mean to flirt with her that I just had that conversation with her out of boredom and being the reserved type I don't want anything informal to do with a female colleague.

Now due to the fact that she's a much sought after lady in the office my male colleagues now ask about her from me, this drove me haywire but I had to co-ordinate.

Please I need to handle this pretty soon before it gets uncontrollable! Thank you all

my brother if you can tell her the bolded then my brother you've won her for life

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Office romance is difficult to control when the red button had been pressed. It can ruin careers. Try and minimize contact with the subject, or tell her plainly you're not interested in any relationship. It's difficult but it helps a great deal. Though things may not remain the same afterwards.

Bros, in this case you need wisdom to handle this case oooo
especially when someone is showing you love

Some ppl are advising you to outrightly tell her you are not interested.. My broda, It's not as easy as people say it


Just try to avoid her or better still, you might start frowning your face when you see her and if she still dsnt get the msg
, maybe you shld take to her about what other Co-workers are saying about both of you with you don't like cos this is a business environment( don't sit her down to tell her you are not interested in dating her oooo

** pls do it in a mature manner so that you will not look like a kid**

Each time she comes around, always talk about your girlfriend(even if you don't have one) in the middle of a conversation. Tell her some made-up stories about the memorable moments you've spent together with the girl (whether imaginary or real), talk about how you love her so much and how no other lady on earth can replace her.
Believe me when you do this for one week, she'd begin to feel uncomfortable around you and gradually let you be.
Source: Experience..

Bigloaf:
@ opp don't do what u will regret, it obvious she like u, @ opp are u single, if yes then let the game begins.

I am single but not ready to jeopardise my freedom. I know what relationships can be like

So she's not your type or what?

do I know you from somewhere?...benincity?

Oh boi...you sure showed some super green lights

Tell her your mind i am sure she will backoff!!

Guyyy! is it dat u dnt like her or what! she no fyn abi she no sexy? or you are not interested in a relationship for now? or ?? cuz alot of guys like me wld want dat kinda lady except the answers to d above questions suggest non-likeability

to answer ur question (before u answer mine) first rule never go rude on a lady who is just being nice! then u can shylishly ignore her and her advances!

Elantracey:
Start by ignoring her calls and her greetings, no need to act rude , with time she'll notice and let you be that's if she's not into you .

Ignoring her greetings! Is dat not rudeness itself?

UnknownT:
Ignoring her greetings! Is dat not rudeness itself?

Not entirely .

Are you gay?

NinoBrown888:
Are you gay?

I'm more straight than an erect joystick

suyamasta:
Guyyy! is it dat u dnt like her or what! she no fyn abi she no sexy? or you are not interested in a relationship for now? or ?? cuz alot of guys like me wld want dat kinda lady except the answers to d above questions suggest non-likeability

to answer ur question (before u answer mine) first rule never go rude on a lady who is just being nice! then u can shylishly ignore her and her advances!

my brother if nicki minaj should see her she will get jealous, she's really pretty. I'm not just game

emperorchedda:
I'm more straight than an erect joystick

lol,
charlie she go want more.

Pelmet:
Oh boi...you sure showed some super green lights

I'm sorry I don't comprehend..speaking to her was a greenlight or what?

u can never run a one man show in d office. stop isolating urself. u may choose not to flirt but try make friends. be free. u will always need ur colleagues to excel. dangote's achievements are not his own ideas alone. flow with pple.

firstEVA:
So she's not your type or what?

not exactly the case, I'm really not interested in an office relationship, we're gonna be seeing each other everyday and that will take away the spice and excitement. Hope I'm lucid?

OP is impotent.... #fact
Person wey gt cap no get head, while person wey get head no get cap.. Lobatan

This op reminds me of someone...

emperorchedda:
my brother if nicki minaj should see her she will get jealous, she's really pretty. I'm not just game

ok just use style style take giv her distance

emperorchedda:
not exactly the case, I'm really not interested in an office relationship, we're gonna be seeing each other everyday and that will take away the spice and excitement. Hope I'm lucid?

office romance is not the best but I really doubt if a man who is into a girl can use that as an excuse. I still feel you're not telling it all, it's either she's not your type or you already have a gf

Dats d problem with being an introvert and at d same time detesting office romance.

Ur major problem is ur introversion. Dats all!

emperorchedda:
I'm sorry I don't comprehend..speaking to her was a greenlight or what?

pro'lly...some girls are pretty fragile, worst if she's been admiring you for a while...psst... #girls_sha