bukatyne:


SO he wants the wife to be a slave to him?

Some husbands sef

Not really. He wants the wife to take full responsibility.

Lmao, this Sagamite is just a trouble maker

iconize:


Not really. He wants the wife to take full responsibility.

That's better than saying he is her slave

Imagine a woman saying that she is tired of handling the bills because she is not his slave?

Choice of words

iconize:


Yeah, he has discussed with his wife though with no seriousness. But the wife still channeled everything to romance.

No offence but I think I'm with sagamite on this one. Lol! Your friend must be a huge joke of a man.

Sagamite:


Homofuuktard, you have already admitted to us that you are a homosexual and part of the homosexual community.

Now confess that your "business man" friend is basically another fuuktard like you that is unemployable.

Do you cook for your boyfriends too?

Homo fagggot, you've been whipped and outshined severally by your God, Iconize.

The last time you got severely beaten, you had to invite your fagggot biatch, Masonkz to plead on your behalf.

Masokz:


Leave saga alone. I love him

Now you tryna troll on my thread to restore your self-esteem
like a boy who got beaten by a girl., but nah!

DukeNija:


No offence but I think I'm with sagamite on this one. Lol! Your friend must be a huge joke of a man.

Lmao!

Yeah, could be love after all.

iconize:


At least a fella with a brain is here, not those asking dumb and irrelevant question(s) over and over again, even after getting a matured answer.

However, the dude is in dire need of advice(s) on how to convince the wife to start making him meals without sounding "unromantic" and probably inciting troubles.

Having played this "wicked romantic" role for long - happily and in good faith, passing through the needle's eye might be easier than convincing his wife .

There's really nothing your friend can do, he has already stamped his own certificate of role swap and has chosen to be the wife. If I were his husband I swear I won't even listen to him, afterall cooking is his role as my wife.

iconize:


Lmao!

Yeah, could be love after all.

Ofcourse, his wife is a lucky woman!

DukeNija:


There's really nothing your friend can do, he has already stamped his own certificate of role swap and has chosen to be the wife. If I were his husband I swear I won't even listen to him, afterall cooking is her role as my wife.

From the look of things, dude hasn't really showed any seriousness in convincing his wife.

Sagamite:


Tell us the fcking truth:

He is loafing she is the breadwinner?

Homo coward, this is the truth from Masokz.

Masokz:


Leave saga alone. I love him

Sagamite:


Homofuuktard, is that not one of your boyfriends?

Masokz:


Leave saga alone. I love him

bukatyne:


That's better than saying he is her slave

Imagine a woman saying that she is tired of handling the bills because she is not his slave?

Choice of words

Your comparison has nothing to do with this matter.

The wife is not the breadwinner of the family, so she absolutely has no reason to consider herself a slave.

Sagamite:


Like you, he was not serious in school and ended up a failure in life?

Loafers calling themselves business men.

Importing 2 tokunbo cars a year from Germany to sell in Nigeria does not make you a business man. It just means you are a jobless hustler.

Fagggot biatch, you must think everybody is a London cleaner like you or perhaps everybody is from Nigeria.

iconize:

At least a fella with a brain is here, not those asking dumb and irrelevant question(s) over and over again, even after getting a matured answer.

However, the dude is in dire need of advice(s) on how to convince the wife to start making him meals without sounding "unromantic" and probably inciting troubles.

Having played this "wicked romantic" role for long - happily and in good faith, passing through the needle's eye might be easier than convincing his wife.

Er, let me just say: I don't like advising folks on what to do in their relationships/marriages because every relationship is unique, and people are different. However, I'll just say what I'll do if I were in his shoes.

Since your friend is "self-employed" - he's definitely going to have time on his hands to help out. And there's no harm in helping a bit. However, when she now makes it his duty, sitting her lazy ar.se down, and expecting the man to do her own duty for her - then it's problematic. You just can't give women that luxury and put them in a space where they can make it a necessity for you to perpetually perform their natural roles for them, all in the name of being romantic. With women, once you lose that respect, it's always difficult to get it back, unless you put your feet down.

I'd say he can't earn his respect anymore - he has to command it. The first step would be to stop the cooking nonsense altogether and, start buying his own food from restaurants. When she starts starving, she'll get her lazy ar.se in the kitchen and start cooking again. You just have to draw a line and dare the consequences...since this madness has gone beyond what they can sit down and talk about.

Sagamite:


You are a homoerotic fuuktard!

What does he do when she goes to work apart from him cooking and cleaning?

Tell us, fuuktard!

Is he running Volkswagen or Deutsche Bank?

Coming from a low-brained, buck-toothed fagggot biatch that practically thinks being self-employed is all about being a petty businessman or perhaps an importer.

Your incestuous momma with gorilla brains should be slaughtered for producing a walking corpse.

Sagamite:


Fuuktard, are you not the one that just revealed to us how you and your friends are loafers while his wife is working?

You sell your but to men to get paid?

Masokz:


Leave saga alone. I love him

iconize:


Your comparison has nothing to do with this matter.

The wife is not the breadwinner of the family, so she absolutely has no reason to consider herself a slave.

I was doing comparison dude

SirShymex:


Er, let me just say: I don't like advising folks on what to do in their relationships/marriages because every relationship is unique, and people are different. However, I'll just say what I'll do if I were in his shoes.

Since your friend is "self-employed" - he's definitely going to have time on his hands to help out. And there's no harm in helping a bit. However, when she now makes it his duty, sitting her lazy ar.se down, and expecting the man to do her own duty for her - then it's problematic. You just can't give women that luxury and put them in a space where they can make it a necessity for you to perpetually perform their natural roles for them, all in the name of being romantic. With women, once you lose that respect, it's always difficult to get it back, unless you put your feet down.

I'd say he can't earn his respect anymore - he has to command it. The first step would be to stop the cooking nonsense altogether and, start buying his own food from restaurants. When she starts starving, she'll get her lazy ar.se in the kitchen and start cooking again. You just have to draw a line and dare the consequences...since this madness has gone beyond what they can sit down and talk about.

Yeah, I talked to him about buying his own food from restaurants but he's trying to pick up fully in that aspect.

However, its obvious the matter can't be settled amicably without inciting troubles. So for being initially dumb he has to take risks and face the consequences.
Though as Camerounian-Dutch, he's trying to avoid making troubles with the wife.

But I can say that the wife doesn't see the "romantic" job she has given the hubby as weird or bad, she sees it as a romantic role. You should know chics.

bukatyne:


I was doing comparison dude

Sure, you were.

bukatyne:


SO he wants the wife to be a slave to him?

Some husbands sef

But in Nigeria we all know that it is the wife that does the cooking in the home. Now any loving husband can cook for his wife from time to time as a loving gesture but a situation where the husband is in the kitchen everyday cooking for his wife is just not normal in our culture.
Imagine the husband's parents coming to stay with them for a few days and then seeing their son in the kitchen everyday cooking and serving the food.
Your friend should sit his wife down and tell her that cooking for her everyday has gone beyond a romantic gesture. When they were courting, their understanding must have been that she would do the cooking in the house and that shouldn't suddenly change in the marriage. If she refuses then he can also simply refuse to enter the kitchen and cook.

akinsadeez:



But in Nigeria we all know that it is the wife that does the cooking in the home. Now any loving husband can cook for his wife from time to time as a loving gesture but a situation where the husband is in the kitchen everyday cooking for his wife is just not normal in our culture.
Imagine the husband's parents coming to stay with them for a few days and then seeing their son in the kitchen everyday cooking and serving the food.
Your friend should sit his wife down and tell her that cooking for her everyday has gone beyond a romantic gesture. When they were courting, their understanding must have been that she would do the cooking in the house and that shouldn't suddenly change in the marriage. If she refuses then he can also simply refuse to enter the kitchen and cook.

I understand you

My grouse is the way he passed his point across

My friend are you sure you are not talking about yourself

RoyalPearl:
My friend are you sure you are not talking about yourself

Lol!
As you know, I'm yet to marry Aranaa.