slimmy05:
You still don't get it. What in the case the wife dies before the old age? Have a valid point of argument and stop the unnecessary back and forth. being single doesn't mean you can have as many child as you want man. Think outside the box

...an organize human prepares for his death...

Wishing you a quick recovery...

traware:
Hmm...you sound exactly like me.Women must have shown you hell like they've also shown me.From my personal experience,marriage,women and children are a total waste of time and energy.Married men are slaves to their wives and children.My advice to young men out there is to never ever get married instead,use that energy to build a business or concentrate on better endeavours.Louis Vuitton,Harley Davidson,Steve Jobs even Lipton,these are all men who are dead and gone but their legacies live on.Do you think I'm lying?Pray tell,what is the name of Chinua Achebes' wife/wives?How many child/children does he have?There is no such thing as 'happily married',its an oxymoron.its like saying a person is 'happily dead'.Read the book "The Manipulated Man" by Esther Vilar and learn more

Who told you that Chinua Achebe is not married?

check this source out: https://www.premiumtimesng.com/news/134850-achebes-family-under-fire-for-handing-over-late-writers-burial-rites-to-govt.html

networkrecharg:
A very poor man lived with his wife. One day, his wife, who had very long hair asked him to buy her a comb for her hair to grow well and to be well-groomed.

The man felt very sorry and said no. He explained that he did not even have enough money to fix the strap of his watch he had just broken.

She did not insist on her request.

The man went to work and passed by a watch shop, sold his damaged watch at a low price and went to buy a comb for his wife.
He came home in the evening with the comb in his hand ready to give to his wife.

He was surprised when he saw his wife with a very short hair cut. She had sold her hair and was holding a new watch band.

Tears flowed simultaneously from their eyes, not for the futility of their actions, but for the reciprocity of their love.

Moral of the story: To love is nothing, to be loved is something but to love and to be loved by the one you love, that is everything.

Chai! this is TRUE love, having each other at the back of their mind always.

Dude, your life must be really messed up for you to have posted this crap here

The op is absolutely very wrong, marriage is sweet.

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Bulgarian woman sets herself ablaze outside president’s office (GRAPHIC VIDEO)

A 38-year old woman stepped out of a taxi near the government building in central Sofia before pouring flammable liquid on her body and hair and setting herself alight.

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Life is too short. If you prefer a life a bachelor/ette-hood, then def go for it! There's absolutely no point squeezing yourself into a box you've no desire to fill.

africanrapper:
OP, look in front of where you are standing right now. There is a bar.
Go inside that bar and take a bottle of HEINEKEN for my head. No, take the whole crates of HEINEKEN. I WILL PAY.

Just last week, I was contemplating getting a girl on a contract of 5 years to have 2 kids for me (1 boy and 1 girl). I have everything I want to make my life happy. Must I get married to be happy?

The wahala of staying with a nagging woman is frustrating. I have lots of friends who no longer go home at night to their families, instead they join me to bars here in Port Harcourt till 12AM. Why? Their wives nag them to almost death situation.

#africanrapper

africanrapper:
OP, look in front of where you are standing right now. There is a bar.
Go inside that bar and take a bottle of HEINEKEN for my head. No, take the whole crates of HEINEKEN. I WILL PAY.

Just last week, I was contemplating getting a girl on a contract of 5 years to have 2 kids for me (1 boy and 1 girl). I have everything I want to make my life happy. Must I get married to be happy?

The wahala of staying with a nagging woman is frustrating. I have lots of friends who no longer go home at night to their families, instead they join me to bars here in Port Harcourt till 12AM. Why? Their wives nag them to almost death situation.

#africanrapper

killjoy:


my skin is over a mile thick, wot pipl think bout me is non of my bizness. I just downloaded the book. its a 69 pages book. hope its complete. share with me the other books plzzzzzz

Include me in ur books cos am with u guys

Bastard... Dickhead.. Maybe u are gay... Rubbish talk,... God forsaken slowpoke...

Some people will say Marriage is sweet and vice versa....


I pray for my Marital Life to be enjoyable according to God's Standard and a role model for others.

merit12:
I wowo abi?

No problem.

No makeup and you still say I wowo


Me nor dey do e-fight God forbid






They say eilove is blind but I dey see am for your e-face

Black-Fowl

Don't mind that guy. You are indeed a true beauty. One man's meat is another man's poison. I like your dark skin. You are pretty in my eyes.

Jolaoshot:
Bastard... Dickhead.. Maybe u are gay... Rubbish talk,... God forsaken slowpoke...

hahagaha. try again. is DAT d best u got

zoeee:

What true feeling? U're talking bunk... Let happily married men say all this n maybe I'll believe....

The guy is right. Marriage benefit us much more than the menfolk.

traware:
It depends on the format.As long as its complete,no problem.The other books' name is 'Sperm wars' by Robin Baker.Its also a fascinating read

I just downloaded it a 188 pages.

Eneze1:



I hope you have all the qaulities you listed above?

No, I don't...and I'm sure no woman alive has all the qualities I listed...Abi you get them?

I only tried to buttress the fact that I will never get married.

Op...your post is just real and thats the fact. It all boils down to going back to our fore fathers method of marriage.

I do not buy into such idea, certainly a coin has two side but my Christian belief and my cultural up bringing about marriage is what I can never throw away.

sorry for the writer, despite the enormous challenges, getting your marriage right and marrying aright is one of the best thing that can happen to man.

I have no apology for getting married and even if I have another world after this I will still marry.

Depending on what side of the coins the writer has chosen to turn to I will always look at the brighter side of the coins.

addiephilips:
Hmmm...OP so your point is enjoy life being single, fornicate to satisfy your sexual needs and in the end die and go to hell huh? Toh, I can only wish you good luck

So married men go to heaven? Haha..funny pple!

[b]yeah i was just speaking to one of my dudes. he wants to get married because everyone around him is married. i am looking at this dude like, are you crazy ? you will willingly commit yourself to prison because others are doing it lol ? i think it is a case of the grass being greener on the other side. those who are married want to get out of it and those who are not married want to be married. there is no happiness in marriage unless two people who are completely independent in their thinking and ways and are totally happy and content being alone and actually prefer being by themselves, as in they are both loner types, if these two people meet and marry, this is the only time a marriage can work because these two types will afford each other the space required for sanity, like for example, they will get seperate rooms from the beginning of the marriage without thinking about the norms associated with seperate rooms. seperate rooms is good for privacy and you want your own stuff in one room not mixed together. plus times when you want to be alone you are not lumbered in the same room with your partner etc etc etc[/b]

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killjoy:


well I'm a Nigerian if dats wot u wanna knw. plus wen u said black fowl , I tot u meant a fowl DAT has black feathers n everything black. did u actually mean a fowl from Nigeria hahahaha. very funny. take a look at Monica. I'm black

OP if u make some dudes here decide not to marry again and u later go marry, the kind THUNDER when go fire u eeeh...na heaven sent.

killjoy:
readers discretion adviced: this is a long post. get a bowl of popcorn and your glasses. turn off the TV , you don't want to get distracted. if it took me time to write such a lengthy post, I wonder why you should complain about reading it. below are the reasons.

1. We're too different to live together: women love people and relationships, men love objects (like cars, houses, gadgets, game consoles etc), a man's lot is his career, a woman's is marriage (according to the curse after the fall of man), women are indirect, men are always direct, men want sex before they develop feelings for women, women can't have sex without emotional attachment first(unless they r who.res, even if they are who.res lolzzz), a man wants to hv sex, a woman wants to make love (I swear she doesn't even mind just cuddling), men see having dinner as a time to quench hunger, women see having dinner as time for bonding, let me continue? A married man without money feels unfulfilled, a wealthy woman without a man feels similarly, I can go on and on! But no time, my point, you need a lot of patience, tolerance, understanding, endurance, compromise etc to survive in marriage. But life is too short, stay single and be free to be urself or get married and spend the rest of your life struggling to be another person. Continue reading, this is just one of seven.



2. Love doesn't exist: if you intend to stake your future with a woman on an emotion as erratic as love, then you need to have ur head examined. Love is an emotional convulsion which, like other sicknesses, are recovered from with time. Experience has thought me that a woman's love is only skin deep, but you can accentuate it with money. Ohhhh how women react to the smell of cash. Bleep love and go make some muller.

3. You don't need a child: the world will remember you by the kids you left behind. That's a big fat lie!! You don't need a carbon copy of yourself roaming the earth after your demise to ensure your immortality. Instead, the world will remember you by the feats you surmounted! Obama will be remembered not as the father of, I don't even know his child's name and I don't give a fvck bout it! But as the first black US President. Mother Theresa never had a child, Einstein's legacy is not his kids but his discoveries. My point! You are not remembered by the kids you had but the records you set. But if you badly want a kid, adopt one, or get a baby mama and impregnate her but never, never get married just to have kids. marriage is too great a price to pay.

4. There is absolutely nothing new marriage has to offer you: just be honest with yourself. A family? You already belong to one (or do you think you just appeared out of thin air?), love? Your mother loves you like die, trust moi. A woman to manage your home? Get a maid! pay her well and she will manage your home without complications like disrespecting you, PMS, etc. Sex? Gone are the days men marry for sex ooo!!! Sex is damn cheap, you don't need marriage to enjoy it. By the way, what makes you think getting married entitles you to sex when you want it, ie, if at all?? U never jam female Hitler. Continue reading, I'm not even close to the end.

5. Marriage is expensive: a woman's problems end when she gets married (at least on financial level), while a man's problems just begin. Most ladies don't have plans of making money(some stop after getting married). for a woman, after graduating from uni, a husband is top on d list above a job ie, if a job is on the list. Guys, stay alone and worry for one. Apart from financially, marriage drains you emotionally. You have to deal with a partner suffering from PMS five days in a month for life (by the time she reaches menopause, you'd be probably dead) and when she ain't suffering PMS, its worse cos she is pregnant!! Don't forget regular mood swings, test games, among other complicated female emotional ailments. Plus wait till you get divorced before you know how much financially and emotionally expensive marriage could be. That brings us to...

6. It may end up in divorce: possible causes of divorce. She gains weight, sex with one person for years gone stale and boring, the love (or whatever dumb ass name you call it) fades, you want a new woman, (men are polygamous by nature, hard truth. Deal with it), she is no longer the woman you married, (true, women do change after marriage for many reasons, that is story for another day), you cheat on her, she cheats on you, many many more. Don't scar yourself with a painful divorce. Stay single and happy.

7. You get to focus on your dreams without distractions. Like I said earlier, a man's career is his lot (or curse). As s man if you haven't got a successful career, you will probably die unhappy and unproductive. The compromise you have to make to keep her happy will retard you from achieving your dreams to the fullest. Pleasing a woman and pursuing your dreams are mutually exclusive. don't get married.

disclaimer: its ironic when people say honesty is a virtue yet can't bear to hear (or read) the truth.

nota bene: I am not prejudiced towards women. I hate all equally.

story for the gods

Even the Bible said marriage is not for everyone.... I wonder why people are killing themselves on this issue with the Op...he made his choice and gave reasons.

Everyone's emotional setup is different... some want to get married, some don't!..It's simple.

There is nothing wrong with marriage, it's actually a great institution.

The real problem is, and I know I am going to get totally canned for this, being married to one woman for your whole life. This was never supposed to be the way of things. Every single ancient culture was polygamous, even in the old testament kings of Israel were polygamous. Yet Europeans in their so called wisdom woke up one day and decided to force monogamy on everyone, when it clearly goes against the most basic nature of man. Just look at all the 'Men of the cloth' who still have affairs. Man is a POLYGAMOUS creation, with intense urges to reproduce. it's what he was created for, that's why he's always looking at young fertile woman and wants to have sex with them. It's simply his DNA kicking in. Properly managed polygamy can be a wonderful thing,there are even reality TV programes in the US that feature happy polygamous families. This was our tradition in Africa, but as usual we must listen to the white man, throw away everything that was ours, and now what do have? Loads of Nigerians divorced before their 40's. Fair polygamy is the way forward.
#OneManManyWives

As much as i 4 like ur write up,ur no 4 reasons.i dnt quite agree by family? U 've belong 2 1 already.dnt u tink if ur family tink ur way? U wont exist 2 brainwash other single men in d work.......oga ade maintain ur lane o

N.B: DO NOT QUOTE MEN.B: DO NOT QUOTE MEN.B: DO NOT QUOTE ME

SOME PPU(E.G OP) JUST COME AROUND AND COME UP WiTH A COMPOSITION BASED ON. THEIR FRUSTRATION,EXPERIENCE AND CHALLENGE AND PUT IT HERE FOR ODA PPU TO BELIEVE AND ACCEPt. WORSE STILL THE MODS MOVED IT TO FP.

MY QXNS FOR OP

HOW OLD ARE YOU?


HOW MUCH HAVE U SEEN IN LIFE?


WHAT ARE UR EXPERIENCES?


WHO ARE THE PEOPLE U'VE BEING ASSOCIATED WITH?


WHAT HAVE U BEING LEARNING ALL DIS DAYS oF YOUR LIFE?


EVEN. IF URE AS OLD AS METHUSELAH, WHO KNOWS WhETHER UVE BEING PRACTISING MADNESS! In ODa WORDS WE DON'T NEED YOUR COUNSEL! KEEP It To YOuRSELF!







MY ADVICE FOR POTENTIAL OPs
CONSIDER WHAT U WANT TO TYPE HERE VERY WELL(LEST U ARE USED BY THE DEVIL) COS U MIGHT MISLEAD HUNDREDS OF THOUSANDS READING IT

MY ADVICE FOR DEAR READERs
NoT EVERYTHING YOU READ IS WORTH BELIEVING! GUILD YOUR HEART WITH ALL DILIGENCE!

MY ADVICE FoR MODs/SUPERMODS
WHAT KIND OF PERSON ARE U?










ARE U ATHEIST?






POLITICIAN?









UNCONCERNED FELLA?













AGENT OF THe DEVIL?







MIND WHAT U POST ON FP!!!







BTW!


#DONT EVEN TRY TO BAN ME oR SOMETHING! YoU'LL PAY FoR It IF U EVER TRY!

enkay4love:
The write-up can't jst stop amasing me.

But this op supports feminism...stay on ur own no be una stand again?

so u're nt getting married@op?

me support ur write up bt i fit mary oooo cos am in love. Oh! wen u gt the money all dis illusion go commot from ur head