Lolarez:
Smh @Op

wetin apn

Forgot to add that I'm new on nairaland! Any welcome parry for me?

enkay4love:
Its obvious somethng is definitly wrong with u,& better still u have issues with marriage.Pls,its not by force to comment & don't quote me AGAIN!!!! GOT IT?

Yea, not marrying...and urs is relying on marriage to exist.

MrsBreezy:


True. But you can make realism optimistic. After reading this(if I was a man) I wouldn't want to get married.

You mean this post could have made you say NO to marriage? Excuse me! The post didn't even move me an inch. Maybe the OP should improve his argument next time

Lolarez:
Forgot to add that I'm new on nairaland! Any welcome parry for me?

yea der is. if ur a gal d party is at my house, if ur a guy d party is at d bottom of ikpoba river. so shud I expect u

Lolarez:
Forgot to add that I'm new on nairaland! Any welcome parry for me?

No!

Olutola88:
You mean this post could have made you say NO to marriage? Excuse me! The post didn't even move me an inch. Maybe the OP should improve his argument next time

or maybe u shud improve ur reasoning capacity next tym

killjoy:


see ehn on dis matter of God creating us I'm yet to wrap my head around it o. yes God is perfect, yet he regretted creating man cause of d pain man caused Him. let's nt argue God plz before we blasphem .

Exactly bro. I av an already writen article regarding dis issue bt i made up my mind nt to publish it coz sum ppl here will take d issue wrongly so it won't lead to blasphemy

killjoy:


or maybe u shud improve ur reasoning capacity next tym

Gentleman be careful! You don't just insult people anyhow. I'm not one of the ludicrous nairalanders you can use epithets on. Look before you leap man! I never insulted you, I only told you to improve your argument. I don't deserve to be bitten by a dog that has rabies

Olutola88:
Gentleman be careful! You don't just insult people anyhow. I'm not one of the ludicrous nairalanders you can use epithets on. Look before you leap man! I never insulted you, I only told you to improve your argument. I don't deserve to be bitten by a dog that has rabies

OK. OK. u hv a point. noted. kpele

killjoy:


OK. OK. u hv a point. noted. kpele

. BETTER

Misogynist2014:

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-Women delight in the fall of a man and are mostly money-oriented.

-Don't be emotionally(love) attached to a woman and make sure its either a commensal or saprophytic relationship.
Women are naturally submissive, until external forces act on them to make them change their natural instict turns them to something that's not desireable.



Its not that I hate women, I'm only being critical about them. It is when you know the bad side of people, that's when you are able to tolerate and appreciate them the most. bro these creatures have done you many strong things you have really suffered in their hands

my good God you are absolutely 100% correct!! i just remembered many instances these scenarios happened like a flash of light...it happens too in the family even in religious ones...ladies please change ya ways!!

ferdiii:

Yea, not marrying...and urs is relying on marriage to exist.

if u're not marrying,hw's dat my problem?ur life,ur bussiness!

enkay4love:
if u're not marrying,hw's dat my problem?ur life,ur bussiness!

toor...y d bitching then?

ferdiii:

toor...y d bitching then?

u really have time oo,I see why u're having issues wt marriage.SMH.

Olutola88:
Gentleman be careful! You don't just insult people anyhow. I'm not one of the ludicrous nairalanders you can use epithets on. Look before you leap man! I never insulted you, I only told you to improve your argument. I don't deserve to be bitten by a dog that has rabies

but u told him to improve his argument next time...how is his reply an affront?

enkay4love:
u really have time oo,I see why u're having issues wt marriage.SMH.

u don't have time....every man has marriage issues... go figure. If u like shake ur pun.ny

killjoy:


and finally eminentme has evened tins up, I'm happy to announce we hv a draw! dis in indeed a fierce battle. let's see who takes d next attack.

dude, mind your own biznex

eminentme:
dude, mind your own biznex

u wan includ ref for una fyt?

ferdiii:

u don't have time....every man has marriage issues... go figure. If u like shake ur pun.ny

ur headache,ur bizness! Ur type is rare.See me see case oo.

merit12:
I wowo abi?

No problem.

No makeup and you still say I wowo


Me nor dey do e-fight God forbid













































































































They say eilove is blind but I dey see am for your e-face

Black-Fowl

Hahahaha oh my days!!
This is wickedness ohh
U r a meanie

GUY u no dey happy @ all ooo

killjoy:
u knw dis is an anonimous forum so u can tok shit, meet me on d street n repeat these words nigger, if blood doznt flow out of ur head, call me a mad man

I gave your posts likes and share them to my peeps but let me tell you what I feel :

A written experience is always adverse and horrible when you never experienced good moments e.g your parents were separated which would have cause some psychological trauma in you as a child of broken home ...

The same trauma was what you transferred to your relationship with girls which made you to be possibly dealt with by them !!

A child of unbrokened marriage and non-gory relationship experience might not think the way you did !!

I don't write when my brain never experienced the sweet/bad tales cuz I would be biased !

For some, Marriage is sweet and such fellow never regret ever knowing their spouse and their marriage.... Infact , some folks would have become nothing in their life without their significant other !!

Op, I think you lived solitary life as a kid and perform better on your own w'out distraction ... It doesn't work like that for others !

for some, marriage is horrible because they never experienced the sweet side !

It takes two to tango and one to dip .... Compatibility is key !!


Majority of bad/wicked folks you see out there killing, bombing, pickpockets,maiming,robbing,raping,terrorism,suicide,ritual etc are mostly children of failed marriage as well as one night stand lacking parental care and love in a sane matrimonial environment then the next available bastard show such kid some love and you abide by his/her ideology then the net of wicked souls keep expanding !!

Marriage is a very strong institution constituted to maintain sanity in the society but due to the irresponsibility of the present generation marriage has failed to achieve its result also the economic woes aint helping matters since globally, majority of folks are frustrated and psycologically disturbed and such is what we all transferred into our marriage , why would it not fail !

The men has failed to do their jobs and the women has failed too also Globalisation aint helping matters as well as capitalism .... It is a competitive world ... In the olden days Nigeria a man can live a happy family life with mere SSCE but nowadays M.sc/MBA/PhD are still running to keep their marital-life together !!

Conclusion : The ills of society would escalate without marriage ......... Majority of problems in our societies is caused by failed marriage/relationship !

As for me I will marry a woman who shares my mentality and compatibility to hell with love I belief in responsibility : Do your Job and I do mine ....

In a simple wrd, i like dz guy. i can sense brilliancy hovering around him. Nice write. up

traware:
All the books' versions are readily available on the net for free.It will shock you.I will give you the name of another book when you're ready.You have to be aware our views are very unmainstream so be ready to be labelled all sorts on this thread...homo...,psycho...weirdo...creep...sicko

we are simply what we read and philosophically relate with !!

Bokoharam members were also brainwashed and radicalised with what was taught them and what 'they' made them read so is Islam/Christainity and pro/anti-marriage !!

Whatever make some feel better surely may make others feel worse ....... Such is life !!

I'm a critic thus before adhering to the philosophy of an author , I would have known the author and reviewed his/her work against any form of material/psycological bias before adopting such work as my module of life ...

You can only get what you want , where something is good but you don't want it , you would tose it away !!

Jaycob Jaycob my guy.... I have read thru your original post and I find it very interesting. Interesting because you spoke the minds of many youths today. Interesting because you are typing with conviction and belief in what you are writing about. But after reading it carefully I must point out the fact that your analysis is heavily flawed

I will not go into the details because it is useless. Useless in the sense that a man would believe what he wants to believe even in the face overwhelming evidence. The only thing I can say is this, no matter the circumstances, no matter the pain, once a man puts his hope and trust in the wrong things, he is finished.

Marriage was created for a purpose we all knw that but we have allowed mainstream media and other modern ideas to redefine it to be what it is not.

In conclusion killjoy my guy, not every woman on the face of the planet who is of marriageable age is bad. There are good ones out there but the problem is do they see you as a good guy?

I don't think beautiful girls wanna marry killjoy dude too ....... He's over-reacting and with his mentality , the best bet he already fashioned out for himself is to quit marriage because he's not up to making matrimonial home a success !!

Lol this guy is nuts from all view point....You are just the perfect Architype of a Child who'd run away from home to avoid scolding and constant correction. Why are you even wasting ur time do you even think for a minute that these morons applauding this write up; I'd admit that it has a touch of Eloquence to it. They'd end up getting their a$$ hooked They can't stand the pressure- from society, from family and from themselves. You scared already you needed support, to boost ur theory of loneliness, of miserableness so you had to share and of cos you're getting the support,cos misguided donkeys like you are all clamouring patiently waiting On what to Be told next. Such a shame! Regardless the futile flaws of Marriage, there's this innate tendency in each and everyone of Us yes! Including You 'killJoy' to get married sometime. off cos no one here on NL probably knows you to ur house we'd love to keep a record of ur existence and how'd you'd turn out 20 years from now I'd particularly love to see you practice what you preach. So U are very welcome to come out all stubborn and "hardguy" on ur so called realistic opinion. If you were realistic you Wouldn't be here wasting precious Minutes of ur life chelping about some obvious reasons to not get married like it changes anything. This is why Nigerian pastors are making it big gathering followers is now so easy Nigerians are so naïve, so gullible that they inadvertently want someone to think For them. If You have a problem With marriage you do yourself a favour and keep it to Yourself it won't hurt. I honestly doubt your sanity. I have a brother just like you he detested the troubles of women concluded he wouldn't get married but funny He just got married to an Ethiopian lady and he's 2 years short of 40. Negative thoughts like This only depicts how irrational your thinking is and how responsible you are and how responsible you wish to be. now tell me being single for the rest of ur life doesn't have its flaws? you want to keep banging whores and mastubating when you're 40, 50, 60, even 70. Dude that's shallow and shameful show some self respect, some dignity, some fear of God most importantly. Grow up and stop wasting ur time. Nairalanders he'll get married he's just one of those indecisive and confused Nigerians who "form" online and give u d impression of what they're not. You're smart killJoy U should get productive maybe write novels...and propose to that sweet girl you'll fall inlove with ehn. Happy married life in advance....Silly Chicken PS we forgive u already for bringing up this junk thread of "hate" on ur wedding I'd forget you ever said such ugly remarks about marriage like who planned it is a fool God doesn't know what He's doing atleast that's what you think.

Dapo777:


Exactly,I have had similar experience with girls too. I came to realise that It's not about how much you love a girl that matters But how much benefits she can derive from you.

I swear, some girls can claim to die for me because they know I am ambitious, I have a plan and I am following the plans to be "very" rich. They act like their lives depend on me just to brainwash me into thinking they love me. And I play along.

I have three sisters and they let me know What they make men go Through, one of my sisters told me once she gets another richer guy into her life,she would ditch the old one. I was like wow,am lucky I have sisters telling me the truth about themselves.

There is Nothing like love. Women hurt the people they claim to love So much,they break hearts and play the victims.

They manipulate the minds with tears and emotions. Women aren't soft. They are game players. A man who still thinks women are weaker vessels is still under the veil of the emotional blackmail from women.

Be warned.

To the guys: you can get married If you trust your lady, no qualms It's ur life.

It is far better to be feared than loved. Love is maintained by gratitude and obligation; which humans, wretched in nature can willingly hurt the person who is loved by them, While fear is guided by dread of consequences, which is at the discretion and disposal of THE PRINCE. (Nicolo Machiavelli)

SavageGarden:
Lol this guy is nuts from all view point....You are just the perfect Architype of a Child who'd run away from home to avoid scolding and constant correction. Why are you even wasting ur time do you even think for a minute that these morons applauding this write up; I'd admit that it has a touch of Eloquence to it. They'd end up getting their a$$ hooked They can't stand the pressure- from society, from family and from themselves. You scared already you needed support, to boost ur theory of loneliness, of miserableness so you had to share and of cos you're getting the support,cos misguided donkeys like you are all clamouring patiently waiting On what to Be told next. Such a shame! Regardless the futile flaws of Marriage, there's this innate tendency in each and everyone of Us yes! Including You 'killJoy' to get married sometime. off cos no one here on NL probably knows you to ur house we'd love to keep a record of ur existence and how'd you'd turn out 20 years from now I'd particularly love to see you practice what you preach. So U are very welcome to come out all stubborn and "hardguy" on ur so called realistic opinion. If you were realistic you Wouldn't be here wasting precious Minutes of ur life chelping about some obvious reasons to not get married like it changes anything. This is why Nigerian pastors are making it big gathering followers is now so easy Nigerians are so naïve, so gullible that they inadvertently want someone to think For them. If You have a problem With marriage you do yourself a favour and keep it to Yourself it won't hurt. I honestly doubt your sanity. I have a brother just like you he detested the troubles of women concluded he wouldn't get married but funny He just got married to an Ethiopian lady and he's 2 years short of 40. Negative thoughts like This only depicts how irrational your thinking is and how responsible you are and how responsible you wish to be. now tell me being single for the rest of ur life doesn't have its flaws? you want to keep banging whores and mastubating when you're 40, 50, 60, even 70. Dude that's shallow and shameful show some self respect, some dignity, some fear of God most importantly. Grow up and stop wasting ur time. Nairalanders he'll get married he's just one of those indecisive and confused Nigerians who "form" online and give u d impression of what they're not. You're smart killJoy U should get productive maybe write novels...and propose to that sweet girl you'll fall inlove with ehn. Happy married life in advance....Silly Chicken PS we forgive u already for bringing up this junk thread of "hate" on ur wedding I'd forget you ever said such ugly remarks about marriage like who planned it is a fool God doesn't know what He's doing atleast that's what you think.

Looks like insulting your opponent in a debate argues for intelligence on your part. Or if somebody captures your Queen in a chess game, you'd get up and throw a bottle at him. Op presented his points, you do the same, you don't need to throw stones here

donroxy:
I gave your posts likes and share them to my peeps but let me tell you what I feel :

A written experience is always adverse and horrible when you never experienced good moments e.g your parents were separated which would have cause some psychological trauma in you as a child of broken home ...

The same trauma was what you transferred to your relationship with girls which made you to be possibly dealt with by them !!

A child of unbrokened marriage and non-gory relationship experience might not think the way you did !!

I don't write when my brain never experienced the sweet/bad tales cuz I would be biased !

For some, Marriage is sweet and such fellow never regret ever knowing their spouse and their marriage.... Infact , some folks would have become nothing in their life without their significant other !!

Op, I think you lived solitary life as a kid and perform better on your own w'out distraction ... It doesn't work like that for others !

for some, marriage is horrible because they never experienced the sweet side !

It takes two to tango and one to dip .... Compatibility is key !!


Majority of bad/wicked folks you see out there killing, bombing, pickpockets,maiming,robbing,raping,terrorism,suicide,ritual etc are mostly children of failed marriage as well as one night stand lacking parental care and love in a sane matrimonial environment then the next available bastard show such kid some love and you abide by his/her ideology then the net of wicked souls keep expanding !!

Marriage is a very strong institution constituted to maintain sanity in the society but due to the irresponsibility of the present generation marriage has failed to achieve its result also the economic woes aint helping matters since globally, majority of folks are frustrated and psycologically disturbed and such is what we all transferred into our marriage , why would it not fail !

The men has failed to do their jobs and the women has failed too also Globalisation aint helping matters as well as capitalism .... It is a competitive world ... In the olden days Nigeria a man can live a happy family life with mere SSCE but nowadays M.sc/MBA/PhD are still running to keep their marital-life together !!

Conclusion : The ills of society would escalate without marriage ......... Majority of problems in our societies is caused by failed marriage/relationship !

As for me I will marry a woman who shares my mentality and compatibility to hell with love I belief in responsibility : Do your Job and I do mine ....

Points presented in a diplomatic way- argues for intelligence on the writer's part

blakky97:


Looks like insulting your opponent in a debate argues for intelligence on your part. Or if somebody captures your Queen in a chess game, you'd get up and throw a bottle at him. Op presented his points, you do the same, you don't need to throw stones here

I'm afraid This doesn't look like a debate to me bro. Besides Who makes the rules. The OP is a reprobate He needs help. Xorry for the insults all the same.

ferdiii:

but u told him to improve his argument next time...how is his reply an affront?

You have to be sagacious to be able to read between the lines.