There is no straightforward answer to this question.

It simply boils down to your personal school of thought.

Thus, this is a JAMB quest

faithugo64:
and your wife? I belive you will marry someone that you love, does it mean you are not going to sleep with her?

thank u very much 4 dat answer...pple lieing since mary slessor stopped d killing of twins...

Its impossible not 2 think of such, its a natural tin taking vividly into consideration u guys are no way related by blood...but dat LOVE dat exist b/w dem will hlp curb such desires

Boyooosa:

i can neva vote you for dis ur SILENT comment.... you did not communicate at all.

am sorry sire...you can pardon me this time.....i'd work on my communication skills...thanks for the correction.

faithugo64:
most ladies believe that a guy who loves you would never want to sleep with you untill he marries you.so here is my question

is it possible to love someone and not have the DESIRE to kiss,hug or have sex with him/her?

Please i don't mean having sex with the person,i mean is it possible not to have the DESIRE(wanting) to be intimate with that person.

NOTE: HERE AM NOT TALKING ABOUT AGAPE LOVE O!!!

If you are not sleeping with the girl you said you love, there is possibility of sleeping with another girl elsewhere (cheating). So, if you truly love someone and you are cheating on him/her, the love is questionable.

Someone you love actually is the person you will have the highest sexual attraction...but not sexual lust tho........just imaging kissing your girlfriend or boy friend(your body go move like madt) but you respect it......somtin like that sha

It's possible. Most men would rather have pre-marital sex with a hoe or random women than do it with a lady they love and plan to marry.

chibwike:
Yeah, i can't sleep with a girl i truely love...
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Pals i need ur votes in the ongoing Mr NL 2014. God bless you as you do so.

www.nairaland.com/chibwike

because you want votes u dey lie sey no go bleep. What are you contesting for again?

Rhapsodi:
Yea its very true, cos wen real love is involve it comes from the heart, so ur feelings and emotion won't let u have sex nt even think of it. Am in such a relationship

AnD z possible for such event not to occuR?and If it does Won't it happen

izaray:
@Poster, don't let any body deceive u, cos many people have been into a relationship,

that involves sex, and still end up getting married.

Your prayers should be, God should lead to d right person!

Tho, some guys can still love u and do without sex o,

but is very rear to get in dis century

Really sorry to say this but my girlfriend in Nigeria has never had sex with me and it's 2years now..and we are planing to get married soon.HAHAHAHA,my girlfriend?whom i never had sex with i must be joking to think she will still be a virgin when i get back.hmmm. gosh what mistake did i make{am wronged}..i regret why we never had sex- our love should be stronger.HAHAHAHA..we are still planing on marriage God knows @ when am dead!?. ,,,if you noticed i corrected some of your writing damn am really good being a doctor cause am through..

chibwike:
Yeah, i can't sleep with a girl i truely love...
*modified*

Pals i need ur votes in the ongoing Mr NL 2014. God bless you as you do so.

www.nairaland.com/chibwike

then someone else will plug and oil her for you

Anny-pie:
its possible to love sm1,and not be sexually attracted to d person..exclusive to agape love.i would never wanna get intimate with sm1 i don't love though,i just feel love not matter how superficial should be a prerequisite 4 sex. BTW she-bi they say sex is different frpm making love ni

what is BTW? huh

Etetejake:
That type of luv died with Romeo and Juliet.

[i][/i]....lolz..yea ryt

cc150615:

the op isn't talking about whether u will do it or not, we all know some responsible guys like to wait, but what he's asking is while you're waiting, are there times that you have this urge to get really physical with her considering you really love her nd probably plan to marry. so I need more honest responses: Can u love someone nd not have the urge to get intimate? Offcos u might have the urge But decide to discipline ursef nd wait. Oya dudes I'm waiting

It's happening to me now crying am here and somebody else is fucking my girl in Nigeria all the name that i refused to sex her..nice WiFi today really fast

Rhapsodi:
Yea its very true, cos wen real love is involve it comes from the heart, so ur feelings and emotion won't let u have sex nt even think of it. Am in such a relationship

eventhough na another man remain am for u? I pity u, don't pray to marry my leftover babe, believe me I no leave their engine intact, I scatter inside too much.

I hate this mentality . U think ladies wants to stay till their wedding night? Most times , u have to be fucckking your girl before u cAn guarantee her stay. If u don't fucckk her , someone else will do it for u. It's a fact, some ladies are into a relationship because of the sex. Sex is wat keeps most relationship not the love. D truth is bitter.

Why will I not fucckk my babe, with all dis eminado boys everywhere who are ready to chop any girl they see. Intact I will leave my signature there if possible.

chester47:
It's happening to me now crying am here and somebody else is fucking my girl in Nigeria all the name that i refused to sex her..nice WiFi today really fast

no need to cry, the hoe doesn't deserve u, You'll find someone else that does

As for me , I love all women, as long as she has thick and muscular bumbum and very big blom blom. Then , I love her.... Shikena. Dats my thought

oloworulz:
I hate this mentality . U think ladies wants to stay till their wedding night? Most times , u have to be fucckking your girl before u cAn guarantee her stay. If u don't fucckk her , someone else will do it for u. It's a fact, some ladies are into a relationship because of the sex. Sex is wat keeps most relationship not the love. D truth is bitter.

your short sightedness baffles me tho.... kids everywhere on nl

When you have real sex with you girl her love will increase and the relationship will b more strong. .. some times I wonder what peeps that are into a relationship without sex are missing wen they call each other on phone saying ''I miss you so much can't wait to be wait you' just asking tho..

It's possible.

congy fit kill 2 of them

izaray:
Now u are happily


writing dis, later on, u will come and cry to nairaland for advice dat ur babe dump u, and i will be d first person dat will flog u wit koboko lo

so does it mean that if u sleep with ur girlfriend or boyfriend he wont leave u. Who will leave u will leave u whether or whether not full stop.

izaray:
@Poster, dnt let any body deceive u, cos many people have been into a relationship,

dat involves sex, and still end up getting married.

Your prayers should be, God should lead to d right person!

Tho, some guys can still love u and do witout sex o,

but is very rear to get in dis century

the right person is rear indeed

It's not a must to comment

Overpowered by so much love for a particular girl, a guy would rather refrain from sleeping with her as he tends to see having sex with her as an act of using the girl for his own sexual gratification only since most women rarely experience climax!
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However, another guy will see to it that his homies get a share of a girl who thinks she is a f.uckaholic and can't get enough or close her legs!
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He and his homies will strategize and pass the unsuspecting h.oe of a girl around themselves for the DO!

faithugo64:
most ladies believe that a guy who loves you would never want to sleep with you untill he marries you.so here is my question

is it possible to love someone and not have the DESIRE to kiss,hug or have sex with him/her?

Please i don't mean having sex with the person,i mean is it possible not to have the DESIRE(wanting) to be intimate with that person.

NOTE: HERE AM NOT TALKING ABOUT AGAPE LOVE O!!!

is not possible, at all..... Love comes with sexual attractions and compatibility, that's a fact.

THAINDIVIDUAL:
Sexual attraction is one thing you can't remove when it comes to love but its not the all and all. When you love someone, you have this chemistry between two of you.

Men can wait till marriage and not have sex with their spouses doesn't mean they don't feel it except they're practising sister and brother love where they'll only talk about church things.

When you start sharing your feelings with a woman you love, saying how she makes you feel. You'll start having the urge to kiss and touch her.

So, saying sexual attraction is not love is false because to love a woman romantically, there'll be romance except its just friendship where emotional things are not shared, just normal daily life gist.

Don't mind some of dem jawe, dat is d way some of dem ave been program to tink by d books dey reads wen in the actual sense u can't love somebody u are not sexually attracted to!!!!!

Story of the gods...... Body no be fire wood except him joy stick no dey stand

cc150615:

your short sightedness baffles me tho.... kids everywhere on nl

short sightedness indeed , y don't u go to a church and marry a priest and stop looking for hot guys on the street,if truly u don't want to be fuckd. I know am a small Boy , but I also know I can get u pregnant.

eph12:
Loving someone and having sexual urge are two different things and are not related in any way.

Yeah dey are not related! But can u love a gal and not want any sexual intimacy wif her