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Re: Is It Possible To Love Someone And Not Have The Desire To Sleep With The Person? by olami100(m): 6:09am On Nov 13, 2014 |
Rhapsodi: the only problem I have wif ur write up is wen u said ur feeling and emotions won't let u have sex not even tink of it! I bent to disagree wif u big time! Honestly I will appreciate if u use the word I was “determined” not to have sex wif her until marriage, not ur feelings and emotions cos love is not feelings or emotions cos dey can decieve u a lot okay!!!!! 1 Like |
Re: Is It Possible To Love Someone And Not Have The Desire To Sleep With The Person? by chibwike(m): 6:29am On Nov 13, 2014 |
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Re: Is It Possible To Love Someone And Not Have The Desire To Sleep With The Person? by chibwike(m): 6:31am On Nov 13, 2014 |
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Re: Is It Possible To Love Someone And Not Have The Desire To Sleep With The Person? by coolvitus(m): 6:36am On Nov 13, 2014 |
It is not possible @ all rather the love u have 4 her might supersede the sex urge and u just need to control not to allow the urge overcome u that is all but when u say u don't feel like having sex or doing ds silly things with her it is a lie. |
Re: Is It Possible To Love Someone And Not Have The Desire To Sleep With The Person? by kazmanbanjoko(m): 6:37am On Nov 13, 2014 |
Its horrifying 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Is It Possible To Love Someone And Not Have The Desire To Sleep With The Person? by cc150615(f): 6:37am On Nov 13, 2014 |
oloworulz:in ur wildest dreams, ur spew no reach to get me pregnant, it's too watery, I see it from ur retarded speech |
Re: Is It Possible To Love Someone And Not Have The Desire To Sleep With The Person? by cc150615(f): 6:40am On Nov 13, 2014 |
coolvitus:exactly the point! you're soo right. one sack of popcorn for u |
Re: Is It Possible To Love Someone And Not Have The Desire To Sleep With The Person? by chyckxx(m): 6:40am On Nov 13, 2014 |
its very possible. I don't even have the intentions to sleep with the girls i trully love. |
Re: Is It Possible To Love Someone And Not Have The Desire To Sleep With The Person? by Pain(m): 6:40am On Nov 13, 2014 |
I would approach my answer from the converse angle. It is possible to hate someone and still desire to sleep with the person but it is not common. It is also possible to hate someone and detest sleeping with the person. This is most common. I adopt this explanation because the human psyche is wired to comprehend hate more than love. Most people can express hate better than love. It is a phenomena that really baffles me. |
Re: Is It Possible To Love Someone And Not Have The Desire To Sleep With The Person? by Misogynist2014(m): 6:41am On Nov 13, 2014 |
faithugo64:No |
Re: Is It Possible To Love Someone And Not Have The Desire To Sleep With The Person? by ihedioramma: 6:44am On Nov 13, 2014 |
faithugo64:yes is possible. one's you use the wisdom in you, |
Re: Is It Possible To Love Someone And Not Have The Desire To Sleep With The Person? by Nobody: 6:46am On Nov 13, 2014 |
izaray:dis ur comments is so annoyin cos u just painted a picture dat made it seem guys r d one dat need sex only! Wen infact a lady av bn beggin to come (6hours journey oh) n do d do wit me for almost 6months now n av bn sayin NO! To me these two words dnt hav any correlation wat so eva cos: u can hav sex wit someone u dnt love, u can hav sex wit someone u love, u can withold sex frm someone u love, u can withold sex frm someone u dnt love. So these words hav absolutely notin to do wit each other! LOVE is LOVE! SEX is SEX! 1 Like |
Re: Is It Possible To Love Someone And Not Have The Desire To Sleep With The Person? by Richard6(m): 6:46am On Nov 13, 2014 |
People pretend a lot public, you should please say the truth for once. |
Re: Is It Possible To Love Someone And Not Have The Desire To Sleep With The Person? by Fourwinds: 6:50am On Nov 13, 2014 |
faithugo64:first of all u are a confused person. if it is not AGAPE LOVE, den sex will be involved. now let me answer ur question. do u know dat some guys love deir girlfriends and spend on dem and d girl will say no sex till marriage. d guy humbles himself and says ok.,no problem but meanwhile d same girl is busy bleeping a guy dat does not even take care about her. most girls are very comfortable with dis situation playing smart. who be mumu.? u see y guys may not wait till marriage but rather spend and expect reward in kind. heheheheeeed |
Re: Is It Possible To Love Someone And Not Have The Desire To Sleep With The Person? by rhymz(m): 6:54am On Nov 13, 2014 |
cc150615:babe please stop getting uneccesarily defensive and robotic in your response, unless you are an object with no blood flowing through her veins then we can believe you. It is one thing to say you are able to control the urge and wait for whatever time you have agreed but to claim that you have no sexual feelings or desire towards the one that you love underlies a big problem that would later rear its ugly head when the time finally reaches for it. No man will not cheat on a woman that finds sex an ordeal or is not sexually attracted to him, so no dey for robot woman here for us. There is a kind of openness that sex brings to a relationship that even love can not attain, it takes it to a whole new level of knowing each other and revealing compatibility with each other. 1 Like |
Re: Is It Possible To Love Someone And Not Have The Desire To Sleep With The Person? by Fourwinds: 7:01am On Nov 13, 2014 |
Pain:hmmmmm. u are a professor in dis analysis |
Re: Is It Possible To Love Someone And Not Have The Desire To Sleep With The Person? by Enosas(m): 7:01am On Nov 13, 2014 |
the main reason why most young people go into any relationship is cos of sex. |
Re: Is It Possible To Love Someone And Not Have The Desire To Sleep With The Person? by rhymz(m): 7:05am On Nov 13, 2014 |
Enosas:and what is the main reason old and married people cheat on their spouses is? The mistake any young person will do is to marry somebody whose sex drive is not known. |
Re: Is It Possible To Love Someone And Not Have The Desire To Sleep With The Person? by lordnammy(m): 7:06am On Nov 13, 2014 |
Faithugo64 i love u so so much but i do not want to ve sex with you |
Re: Is It Possible To Love Someone And Not Have The Desire To Sleep With The Person? by kunlevski003(m): 7:09am On Nov 13, 2014 |
Sensual feelings can not be separated from a relationship. You become physically attracted to the person you love...girlfrd,fiance(e) or wife. What remains is for the two parties to decide not to have sex. But not having the desire to have sex is a BIG LIE!!!!! 2 Likes |
Re: Is It Possible To Love Someone And Not Have The Desire To Sleep With The Person? by Nobody: 7:12am On Nov 13, 2014 |
dis ur comments is so annoyin cos u just painted a picture dat made it seem guys r d one dat need sex only! Wen infact a lady av bn beggin to come (6hours journey oh) n do d do wit me for almost 6months now n av bn sayin NO! To me these two words dnt hav any correlation wat so eva cos: u can hav sex wit someone u dnt love, u can hav sex wit someone u love, u can withold sex frm someone u love, u can withold sex frm someone u dnt love. So these words hav absolutely notin to do wit each other! LOVE is LOVE! SEX is SEX! . . . . Abeg Mama Nkechi giv dis dude 6bottles of Big ORIJIN... |
Re: Is It Possible To Love Someone And Not Have The Desire To Sleep With The Person? by karpentar: 7:13am On Nov 13, 2014 |
Example, your sister or brother |
Re: Is It Possible To Love Someone And Not Have The Desire To Sleep With The Person? by holatin(m): 7:18am On Nov 13, 2014 |
yeah if I Ve d motives to use her for money ritual |
Re: Is It Possible To Love Someone And Not Have The Desire To Sleep With The Person? by Polyflexzy(m): 7:22am On Nov 13, 2014 |
eph12: wow. What will say about married couples? |
Re: Is It Possible To Love Someone And Not Have The Desire To Sleep With The Person? by dinachi(m): 7:22am On Nov 13, 2014 |
Please if you do not feel sexual attraction and passion with the one you love, run away from the relationship as fast as your leg can carry you. Na Agape love you get for the person be that! |
Re: Is It Possible To Love Someone And Not Have The Desire To Sleep With The Person? by oracle009(m): 7:24am On Nov 13, 2014 |
jearile:u ar quite onpoint! Itz NORMAL nd EXPECTED to av a sexual urge towards ur gf/bf/fiance/fiancee xcept u r impotent. Bt it nw dpend on d priorities uv set. E.g. My fiance nd I promised no sex til mariage, yet, d day she visitd my family nd slept overnite wt me, d urge was so intense for both of us. We just knew ds isnt wat we planned. We stopped! Nd evryone slept to continue wateva in drimland. So, d urge is scriptural nd biological, bt puttin it under control is a CHOICE 2 Likes |
Re: Is It Possible To Love Someone And Not Have The Desire To Sleep With The Person? by shortgun(m): 7:25am On Nov 13, 2014 |
So many people didn't even understand d question. Chei, so pathetic. 1 Like |
Re: Is It Possible To Love Someone And Not Have The Desire To Sleep With The Person? by SachaelMaris(m): 7:25am On Nov 13, 2014 |
This is my take on this topic. when a guy or girl have a crush on someone, u r said to be sexually attracted to that person. It applies to Love too. Now you can have sexual urge for your partner but your ability to deem it "not necessary for the moment" is Love. I love my girl and I usually have sexual urge towards her but the ability to control myself at that moment and also respect her opinions on that matter is the Peak of it all. So if u really love someone u r expected to have urges cos ur emotions are involved. |
Re: Is It Possible To Love Someone And Not Have The Desire To Sleep With The Person? by UjSizzle(f): 7:26am On Nov 13, 2014 |
I thought I understood the question, but going by some answers here i can feel confusion seeping through ![]() Is the OP asking if it's possible to love someone, yet feel nothing for them sexually ie. No chemistry? OR Is it possible to love someone, have good chemistry with them ie. crazy sexual desire, but still choose not to sleep with them? I thought the former was the question, but most answers I see here are relating to the latter ![]() Anyway, I'd say Yes on both count. |
Re: Is It Possible To Love Someone And Not Have The Desire To Sleep With The Person? by eph12(m): 7:26am On Nov 13, 2014 |
Polyflexzy:you guys are getting me wrong o.. you don't have to love someone to have sexual urge for that person. shikena |
Re: Is It Possible To Love Someone And Not Have The Desire To Sleep With The Person? by UjSizzle(f): 7:27am On Nov 13, 2014 |
shortgun:Comprehension ![]() |
Re: Is It Possible To Love Someone And Not Have The Desire To Sleep With The Person? by adedayourt(m): 7:28am On Nov 13, 2014 |
eph12: Seriously, You gotta be kidding!!!! Mayb u talking bout d love u av for ur sis nd mother. But to d lady u call potential wife? Feelings gonna mark present. But Grace nd Determination wud see u tru. Love of kungi is the dwnfall of..... |
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