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Re: Is It Possible To Love Someone And Not Have The Desire To Sleep With The Person? by UjSizzle(f): 7:28am On Nov 13, 2014 |
eph12:True that. There's a reason we have the word "lust". |
Re: Is It Possible To Love Someone And Not Have The Desire To Sleep With The Person? by eph12(m): 7:29am On Nov 13, 2014 |
olami100:that you want to have sex with a girl doesn't mean you love her. |
Re: Is It Possible To Love Someone And Not Have The Desire To Sleep With The Person? by onlymase(m): 7:29am On Nov 13, 2014 |
I beg broda, lemme ask my daddy |
Re: Is It Possible To Love Someone And Not Have The Desire To Sleep With The Person? by shortgun(m): 7:30am On Nov 13, 2014 |
UjSizzle:I tell ya. |
Re: Is It Possible To Love Someone And Not Have The Desire To Sleep With The Person? by awa(m): 7:30am On Nov 13, 2014 |
@Poster, It's relatively possible depending on what the main interest is in the relationship. What we often call love might exist due to personal interest(this you may call decision) and when such interest is not in tandem with sex then the desire will only flash once in a while. Additionally, the physical or emotional closeness of both parties can equally factor out or in the desire or urge to have sex. So, on one hand it is possible not to "have" the desire especially if sex has been ruled out by both parties from the beginning and on the other hand, it is not possible due to our sinful nature that the slightest desire or urge to have sex won't come up if you are seeing each other in compromised places. |
Re: Is It Possible To Love Someone And Not Have The Desire To Sleep With The Person? by eph12(m): 7:30am On Nov 13, 2014 |
UjSizzle:finally someone understands me! thanks |
Re: Is It Possible To Love Someone And Not Have The Desire To Sleep With The Person? by babeflenz(f): 7:31am On Nov 13, 2014 |
abi she go dey happy cef, say i dey respect her virginity, till we marry. |
Re: Is It Possible To Love Someone And Not Have The Desire To Sleep With The Person? by babeflenz(f): 7:32am On Nov 13, 2014 |
abi she go dey happy cef, say i dey respect her virginity, till we marry. Wetin D̶̲̥̅̊ε̲̣̣̣̥γ̲̣̣̥ worry virginity?? |
Re: Is It Possible To Love Someone And Not Have The Desire To Sleep With The Person? by eph12(m): 7:32am On Nov 13, 2014 |
adedayourt:what about you see a lady down the street with big bo.obs and nyash and you be like wow i wanna hit that.. i guess that's love speaking |
Re: Is It Possible To Love Someone And Not Have The Desire To Sleep With The Person? by eph12(m): 7:33am On Nov 13, 2014 |
babeflenz:are u not supposed to be a female? |
Re: Is It Possible To Love Someone And Not Have The Desire To Sleep With The Person? by Mrjamestech(m): 7:34am On Nov 13, 2014 |
izaray:gbam, u said it all.. |
Re: Is It Possible To Love Someone And Not Have The Desire To Sleep With The Person? by KingAdeOluomo1(m): 7:34am On Nov 13, 2014 |
Some people go just cum here dey talk nonsense Nairaland need to do brain n lieing test for some people ooo If not dis site go just crash soonest
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Re: Is It Possible To Love Someone And Not Have The Desire To Sleep With The Person? by UjSizzle(f): 7:35am On Nov 13, 2014 |
koolg:Lol maybe it isn't that kind of love It's not a desirable state though. I really can't imagine being with someone I'm not sexually attracted to. |
Re: Is It Possible To Love Someone And Not Have The Desire To Sleep With The Person? by olami100(m): 7:36am On Nov 13, 2014 |
eph12: Accepted! |
Re: Is It Possible To Love Someone And Not Have The Desire To Sleep With The Person? by adedayourt(m): 7:38am On Nov 13, 2014 |
eph12: That is kugi preparing to rest u in peace She migth jus be one of dos dat wud wake in d middle of d nite nd strt staring @ u while u sleep 1 Like |
Re: Is It Possible To Love Someone And Not Have The Desire To Sleep With The Person? by UjSizzle(f): 7:40am On Nov 13, 2014 |
awa:Hmmm this makes a whole lot of sense. Qualifying sexual urge to mean love, when the urge is the only reason you actually feel something for said person. But the other half of your post though So if two people rule out sex, it still shouldn't mean the desire dies off. It may not be the primary focus of your relationship, but the thought of it (whenever it does come) shouldn't be repulsive. I think that's what the op meant when she asked if it were possible to love someone, yet not desire them. 1 Like |
Re: Is It Possible To Love Someone And Not Have The Desire To Sleep With The Person? by Lekison(m): 7:43am On Nov 13, 2014 |
temigracie:True talk |
Re: Is It Possible To Love Someone And Not Have The Desire To Sleep With The Person? by UTEWUOJO: 7:46am On Nov 13, 2014 |
Its not possible |
Re: Is It Possible To Love Someone And Not Have The Desire To Sleep With The Person? by Seunaj05(m): 7:48am On Nov 13, 2014 |
I hope our ladies will tend to understand this, guys tend to tolerate the sexual ground/view of the gal they have plans to marry while and average guy dates a gal for sex. The gal u date is quite different from the one u have plans to marry. Though,bthe guy ll b ready to spend for both of these gals |
Re: Is It Possible To Love Someone And Not Have The Desire To Sleep With The Person? by jearile(m): 7:48am On Nov 13, 2014 |
oracle009:Wisdom is profitable to direct. Wisdom demands that we do not play with fire because we're presumptuous of not getting hurt. Desist from compromising situations (close door location or romantic advances etc) that can trigger fire (the urge) we might not be able to quench on time. 1 Like |
Re: Is It Possible To Love Someone And Not Have The Desire To Sleep With The Person? by MarieSucre(f): 7:48am On Nov 13, 2014 |
sometimes what we term as love is lust in a hamper. Some guys just wanna tap it and clean mouth. So analyze that ish properly. |
Re: Is It Possible To Love Someone And Not Have The Desire To Sleep With The Person? by beeevan: 7:52am On Nov 13, 2014 |
You can't express erotic love without having the urge to make it. There is nothing Agape about the kind of love that brings a man and woman together. |
Re: Is It Possible To Love Someone And Not Have The Desire To Sleep With The Person? by Nobody: 7:55am On Nov 13, 2014 |
verry possible |
Re: Is It Possible To Love Someone And Not Have The Desire To Sleep With The Person? by bosun11(m): 7:57am On Nov 13, 2014 |
bidexmat: i knew this man wont take it lightly...na joke sha....anyway have a nice day..... 1 Like |
Re: Is It Possible To Love Someone And Not Have The Desire To Sleep With The Person? by enespat: 7:57am On Nov 13, 2014 |
Having a desire is diff from having sex it self if you love some1 you may hv d desire of sex bt because you value d love more dan d sex you can discipline ursef until ur weeding nit. |
Re: Is It Possible To Love Someone And Not Have The Desire To Sleep With The Person? by 100Cents: 7:58am On Nov 13, 2014 |
faithugo64: Yes nah. I don experience am. No matter how short her clothes were, I never felt like touching her but she was always hugging me, slapping me and patting my laps.. |
Re: Is It Possible To Love Someone And Not Have The Desire To Sleep With The Person? by micynute94(m): 8:02am On Nov 13, 2014 |
@ OP.. It's natural to have this desire to wanna express your feelings to your partner be it kissing, hugging, touching or even getting into the act.. Lets be sincere for once and try to understand the question the Op asked.. There's no way u won't have a desire to express physically except your desire has been overridden by a powerful belief or emotion with Its root from religion, mode of upbringing or education, social psychology etc. Even with that, the desire still rear up its beautiful head once in a while.. |
Re: Is It Possible To Love Someone And Not Have The Desire To Sleep With The Person? by Nobody: 8:05am On Nov 13, 2014 |
ocheu: Does he? Even when he gets it elsewhere? austelright: |
Re: Is It Possible To Love Someone And Not Have The Desire To Sleep With The Person? by rman: 8:07am On Nov 13, 2014 |
Hypocrites everywhere on nairaland! How can you claim you love someone(opposite sex and not family) and not feel sexual urge for that individual? Impossible! For those claiming holier than Jesus saying till after marriage, where will the sexual urge come from after marriage when it was not there before marriage? @OP, Sexual urge is a major requirement for being in love in humans of opposite gender. In fact, for ladies,in most cases, it is ultimate show of love for them. |
Re: Is It Possible To Love Someone And Not Have The Desire To Sleep With The Person? by weezii(m): 8:10am On Nov 13, 2014 |
A good number of people mistake good se.x as love. But left for me, if ur searching for true love don't have sex just yet cos if u do, you get attached and you'll feel you're in love whereas na LUST dey carry you forward. |
Re: Is It Possible To Love Someone And Not Have The Desire To Sleep With The Person? by Ositawap: 8:11am On Nov 13, 2014 |
As for me I no I love a girl wen I dont have sexual feelingx for ha...not la I dot feel like dowie it...buh cherishs ha.to wait when till shes ready |
Re: Is It Possible To Love Someone And Not Have The Desire To Sleep With The Person? by Nobody: 8:12am On Nov 13, 2014 |
100Cents: Tell me u couldn't read those signs! You must be one of the guys who gets turn on with short skirts! I gotcha!!! |
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