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Nigerian Men by Laurnetta(f): 12:52pm On Sep 18, 2008 |
I have been in 3 relationships in my life. 2 of them were with Nigerian men and sadly this has been the worst experience of my life. when i made up my mind to love again after the first time, the second one came and totally shattered me. unfortunately, they are the only nationality of people that i meet on a day to day basis from my work to my friends and to friends of friends. i have a good job,i'm independent, i don't have any children or extra baggage. i cook, clean and make sure my bills are paid at the right time. i am not disrespectful eventhough at the same time i want to be respected. is this too much to ask? once my ex boyfriend verbally ab used me in front of his friends because i was inquiring about his whereabouts. not like i'm the jelous type or we dont spend time away from each other or anything. I am currently on my annual leave but the period is very miserable for me because i was supposed to be visiting nigeria now with my boyfriend. he;s in jail. i did not know what types of things he was in to because i go to work during the week and see him mainly on weekends. i know most of what i am saying does not make sense but i guess i am just looking for comfort. |
Re: Nigerian Men by Easybaby(f): 1:01pm On Sep 18, 2008 |
e ya . .sorry o ![]() ![]() ![]() maybe, the fourth one will treat well ![]() |
Re: Nigerian Men by Laurnetta(f): 1:03pm On Sep 18, 2008 |
This is why i hate to tell my story. I really dont like been pitied. ![]() |
Re: Nigerian Men by spikedcylinder: 1:05pm On Sep 18, 2008 |
It can happen with any man. Your boyfriend is in jail, does this mean all his jail mates are Nigerians? Does this mean only Nigerian men break hearts? Where are you from? Nigerian men have their wahala but I'm sensing a lot of people are going to come here and bite your head off with this your post. Sorry o. ![]() |
Re: Nigerian Men by buttercop(m): 1:11pm On Sep 18, 2008 |
@ poster laurnetta u are in 4 a lot let trouble like spikedcylinder said. let the likes of "u know who" ![]() |
Re: Nigerian Men by Cayon(f): 1:22pm On Sep 18, 2008 |
@poster Go on your vacation and clear your head. you have your whole life ahead of you (assuming you are young) Take a break from boyfriends to figure things out. I am single for over eight months, by choice. Everyday i give God thanks and praise for taking me this far in life without depending on anyone. I am able to support myself in a job I enjoy. My kid is fine and I am happy. Yes, i'll like to have another kid and surely not as a single parent. However, at this point of my life - I am not in any rush to get laid or jump in any relationship. I am still young and have my life ahead of me. Sometimes you just need some time for yourself. Take a breather ![]() Here is an internet hug (((((((Laurnetta )))))) Peace |
Re: Nigerian Men by MissyB1(m): 1:27pm On Sep 18, 2008 |
Laurnetta: ![]() |
Re: Nigerian Men by Laurnetta(f): 1:33pm On Sep 18, 2008 |
thank you canyon. i cant go to nigeria again cos it would be would too traumatizing. but your words have comforted me. thanks. |
Re: Nigerian Men by spikedcylinder: 1:33pm On Sep 18, 2008 |
Cayon: True |
Re: Nigerian Men by Cayon(f): 1:41pm On Sep 18, 2008 |
Laurnetta:C'est la vie |
Re: Nigerian Men by ndumart: 1:52pm On Sep 18, 2008 |
Some Nigerian men are heartless just like men from other nationalities. It was just unfortunate that u met the wrong ones.There are very good Nigerian men. However don't close ur heart to love. I will advise u take a break from relationships, refresh yourself, redefine what u want in ur new relationship and hope for the best. You must however know that there is no perfect man anywhere in the world. Just hope u find the one that will respect u and give u the attention and affection you deserve. All the best |
Re: Nigerian Men by hixxx1(m): 2:05pm On Sep 18, 2008 |
Nigerian women nko? |
Re: Nigerian Men by arramyjay: 2:22pm On Sep 18, 2008 |
Sweetie shit happens sometimes you knw,but it is ok u wil be fine and i am blaming for your lst relationship u dnt knw wat kind of job he does and you were dating him that is very sad,i hope from tht u have learnt a lesson and like your singanature reads live is meant to be lived so girl drop tht i dont want to love anymore attitude you have no control over love dear so let it happen and this watch very carefully.u will be fine. |
Re: Nigerian Men by princeonx: 2:37pm On Sep 18, 2008 |
I'll be back in about a year or two maybe you'll be making sense then! mainwhile, try other culture/country or better still your own! don't you have one? |
Re: Nigerian Men by Laurnetta(f): 2:41pm On Sep 18, 2008 |
prince_onx: i tot i explain that i live, work and commute around nigerian men? meeting people from other cultures is hard because they have infested this place. |
Re: Nigerian Men by opsydudu(m): 2:47pm On Sep 18, 2008 |
what is this thing with Nigerian Men, Don't tell me you were so dumb not to know what your boyfriend does for a living, WTF?? i bet you got so carried away because he was hitting your spot just the way you want it. Spare me cock and bull stories, feel sorry for your stupid mistakes. Nigerian men indeed! |
Re: Nigerian Men by whitelexi(m): 2:50pm On Sep 18, 2008 |
Sadly i dont pity u, infact. . . IT SERVES U RIGHT! When better people approach u na shakara u go dey do, when all those craze people come u go quick quick accept them dash them your whole heart. It was your decision to date someone u dont even know jack about, your decision to ask too many questions, your decision not to go to naija. . . All your decisions oh! so carry the wahala wey follow am. Next time, shine your eyes - fine boy is not = to correct boy ![]() |
Re: Nigerian Men by opuro(m): 2:53pm On Sep 18, 2008 |
Laurnetta:omo this your tory eh? you be oyinbo ni abi wetin you think you be sef? you say you are not rude abi, read all your post once again with this type of habit, naija guys go gensh you and run away |
Re: Nigerian Men by Laurnetta(f): 2:57pm On Sep 18, 2008 |
whitelexi: i appreciate your reality check. thnaks. |
Re: Nigerian Men by izeek(m): 3:54pm On Sep 18, 2008 |
if u dated a nigerian more than once even when u got burnt previously, shows how much the nigerian man has over his counterpart. am not sorry for u, its a matter of bad choice not nationality. dont insult my sense of belonging on my own land. abi u no know say this nah e-nigeria(n-land). |
Re: Nigerian Men by richo(m): 4:02pm On Sep 18, 2008 |
Laurnetta:baby girl dnt talk like that, some nigerian guys are good! if u wire some money to me, i swear i will also go to naija (big sacrifice just to make u feel happy), we can meet in the airport or sumthin and i'll take u around, we'll have fun and i'll knock some of the memories of the good old times back into ur head. ![]() ![]() ![]() |
Re: Nigerian Men by spikedcylinder: 4:04pm On Sep 18, 2008 |
richo: Aww. . . . . .listen to him linger. ![]() |
Re: Nigerian Men by richo(m): 4:06pm On Sep 18, 2008 |
wat? i just want to go visit my motherland and also make an angel feel loved na!!!!! ![]() ![]() ![]() |
Re: Nigerian Men by izeek(m): 4:10pm On Sep 18, 2008 |
richo, def good idea, cos am guessing she has high affinity for naija guys. if u no meet her standard ( bad boy) drop am for mushin she will have a wide choice to pick from. |
Re: Nigerian Men by jgirl3: 4:15pm On Sep 18, 2008 |
Awwwwwwwwwww. . . . .I am sorry. However, I think you should take the time off. You need your single time. |
Re: Nigerian Men by richo(m): 4:17pm On Sep 18, 2008 |
me ke? once she send me cash i go use am go relax for palawan an exotic philippine island ![]() ![]() izeek: @poster u sed two of the three men u hav dated were from nigeria, since the 3rd is from niger republic, u can call all of them nigerians |
Re: Nigerian Men by tpia: 4:18pm On Sep 18, 2008 |
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Re: Nigerian Men by jgirl3: 4:22pm On Sep 18, 2008 |
tpia:Even Nigerian women have problems with Nigerian men. If foreigners have the same problem, then we know it's the Nigerian guys being ridiculous. They need to learn how to treat women in general. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Nigerian Men by izeek(m): 4:23pm On Sep 18, 2008 |
well i dont think the naija guys went about forcing the alledged victims to sleep with them. it was a consented thing, moreso if the going had been good, she no go come broadcast am. we no dey wen una start, so make una no involve us for the breakup. |
Re: Nigerian Men by Gamine(f): 4:27pm On Sep 18, 2008 |
Choi!! Nigerians Have INFESTED the area ![]() omo we don suffa oo!! ![]() |
Re: Nigerian Men by richo(m): 4:28pm On Sep 18, 2008 |
dnt mind them! am sure after complaining they still go looking for hot nigerian guys ![]() ![]() izeek: |
Re: Nigerian Men by topup: 4:35pm On Sep 18, 2008 |
I guess you just have to up your standards and make these men prove to you that they are worth dating before you go out with them. I am not saying making an impermeable list, but you need to have expectations, you need to know the guys very very well before you begin dating them, all these things may not prevent heartbreak but then decrease your chances, if you know the guy very well first then you are more likely to see the warning signs in advance. It is not an excuse not to know what your boyfriend does, you need to, because some of it could endanger your life and livelihood. I will offer sympathy though because nobody deserves to be treated like that, please don't be so trusting in future, I don't mean suspect all your boyfriends, but really don't assume that you are only attracting the good kind of men. All the best in future, when you meet the love of your life, all this struggle will have been worth it. |
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