marinel:
@op I also want to be married b4 june so why don't we help each other out. Hmmm

eeewise:
When u prevail with God ,u wil naturally prevail wit men,,start by praying to prevail with God. 2,discard any time line jst let God help u and also wen u start prayin u then begin to have patience in ur spirit.that urge to rush wud leave u. 3,get commited in ur church and talk to ur pastor abt it 4,wait on God,the bible says he that believeth wud not make haste. 5,try makin friends wit females 6,tell pple to help u look for

DEATHMACHINE:
nor be only you ooooo ,my mama don shout tire say wen i go marry

endie44:


Bros! you're on a looong thing.. Don't get it twisted..

Wish you luck and all the best..

skentelelady:
Start by having a conversation with an outspoken girl in your office ur neighbourhood. You need to build your confidence first before you approach a lady

If there is a particular girl you like try to make her your friend first and don't show any sign you want to ask her out. Find out if she has a boyfriend. If she doesn't, show her you care for her not by spending your money. You can always call her to check on her or send SMS.

From her responses you will know she's into you. Then you can build something from there

You should be able to do this within 2-3 months.
All the best

nairadeen:


Don't ever hide your feeling for her. Let her know from the very first day you met her that you are interested in her or else it might be too late when you show your interest.

endie44:


Please explain.. I know some ladies whom ive lost because of yhis singular act.. or i think it was the follow up that went sour..

endie44:
I had been contacted by some nicer ladies on NL.. I replied them and I've not heard from them since... What did i do now.. They've developed cold feet already.. Na wao!! Still on Still waiting for the right one to come my way. There is no tyme anymore.. Its DEcember already then January.. (Fear!,).... LOnely!

OH LORD MY GOD! PLEASE FORGIVE ME ALL MY TRESPASSES.
I SUBMIT TO YOUR MERCIES AND GRACE.

HEAR MY DESPERATE CRY IN NEED.
I NEED MY OWN WOMAN.
THE ONE I WOULD SPEND THE REST OF MY LIFE WITH.
THE ONE I WOULD CALL MY OWN.
THE ONE THAT WOULD MAKE ME WALK PROUD AGAIN.
THE ONE I WOULD BOAST WITH..
MY OWN, MY WIFE, MY DARLING, MY LIFE.
THE ONE WHO I WOULD MAKE CHERISHED MEMORIES WITH.

THE ONE I WOULD CALL MUUMMEEY AND SHE WOULD CALL ME DAADDEEY TO MY DELIGHT.
I DO NOT AS FOR MUCH, JUST WANT TO BE HAPPY AGAIN.

EVERYTHING SEEMS TO BE AT A STOP, CNT FIND A WAY TO MOVE AHEAD..
I CANT DO I ALONE ANYMORE..
I CANT CONTINUE TO LIVE LIKE THIS ANYMORE..
IT HAS GOTTEN VERY BORING AND UNEXCITING.
TRUELY.

I HUMBLY PRAY OH LORD!
IN JESUS MIGHTY NAME . AMEN.
THANK YOU LORD FOR ANSWERED PRAYERS.

endie44:


What would you like me to say!
I sure do agree i THINK WE SHOULD FIND A WAY TO HELP EACH OTHER..

johnstar:
Ar u rili sure u wanna gt married, or is it all abt Bleep

endie44:

I get ur point. but i assure you, i truely luk foreward to havin sumone special in my life now and getting Married. Its not about the wedding fever only.. its just dat i ve gotten to dat stage wen its d major thin on my mind

akpur1:
You dont need a g.f before settling down.

endie44:
My brother cousin, who is my age mate, got married yesterday to his amazing love.

Naturally everyone started telling me that they know my turn is coming soon, at least by next year.. and you i just say yes ooo! Na so na! Meanwhile i dont even have a babe. How will i get one. luv her unconditionally and vice versa Date her and ask her to be my partner for eternity

The problems is that i dont even know how to woo a lady...O Lord God, Please come to my aid. I look to you for Mercy, Grace, Love n Favour for I'm really troubled about this and i need your advice convince a lady to be

damselabi:
Stop giving urself a tym frame 4 marriage, its a lyf tym tin.Try starting as friends, get to knw each oda 1st.A serious girl knws wot she wants doesn't nid to b sweet talked N pls make sure u r sincere urself.

100Cents:


Are you a virgin ?

This one you claim timidity...

100Cents:


I dey suspect the boy.

Some gullible nairaland girls will fall for this..

nekkii:
I think you should have a friend 1st b4 a relationship,to be candid you sound desperate and when you have dat kinda feeling which you do have now you might fall into the wrong hands,so y not pour out your heart to God,be friendly,honest and open and b4 you knw it you'll find d right lady

marinel:
. Okay. Why don't we exchange contact?

Vado:
Bro your intense desperation might be chasing those girls away. No lady fancies an insecure/desperate sissy. You need to relax man. Don't you have buddies? Hang out more often with them on weekends, they should bring their gfs and their friends around too. This way you'd hook up with one & probably fall in love. You have to face that introvert ish and put in some work too.
Being excessively introvert makes one lose out on potentially beautiful relationships one would have built with people.

At age 30+, you should be giving chaps like us OT sef but look at you. You won't be given a wife on a platter of gold unless you want to go for one in you village, have your church pastor arrange one for you, or put in for those mass weddings northern-governors organizes but these aren't good for you self-esteem.