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Why Is Marriage Seeming So Weird To Me? by Nobody: 8:09pm On Nov 28, 2014 |
I really seem not to understand, forme the idea of bringing in another adult into my house(an adult like me with two legs, two arms, two eyes, not in anyway handicapped), and start taking care OF her, seeing to every other needs really freaks me out, forme it seems so weird and incomprehensible, I find it difficult coming to terms with it. Most of my friends are married (I happen to have chaired most of their c ' tee of friends), when I discuss this with them, and try asking them how they cope with that, they will burst into hysterical laughter, and will never address my question...... Please nairalanders I need answers .... is it (marriage) not a weird idea? Or my the weird one here? Honest answers needed. |
Re: Why Is Marriage Seeming So Weird To Me? by Nobody: 8:16pm On Nov 28, 2014 |
because you're weired 2 Likes |
Re: Why Is Marriage Seeming So Weird To Me? by dein77(m): 8:26pm On Nov 28, 2014 |
You're the weird one. Life's all about making others happy; for in their happiness lies yours. 2 Likes |
Re: Why Is Marriage Seeming So Weird To Me? by lebesgue(m): 8:28pm On Nov 28, 2014 |
From your post, I concluded that you do not live in France, for marriage is not weird for us over here. If you do live in France, then you should consult an online babalawo. 1 Like |
Re: Why Is Marriage Seeming So Weird To Me? by Nobody: 8:37pm On Nov 28, 2014 |
you are an alien that's why |
Re: Why Is Marriage Seeming So Weird To Me? by Tymax(m): 8:39pm On Nov 28, 2014 |
killerman47:Don't mind them jare. They want you to first enter am before they talk. I really don't know what's wrong with my married friends. They be forming wise old men for no reason. 1 Like |
Re: Why Is Marriage Seeming So Weird To Me? by saintvc(m): 8:48pm On Nov 28, 2014 |
U are abnormal |
Re: Why Is Marriage Seeming So Weird To Me? by Nobody: 9:17pm On Nov 28, 2014 |
killerman47: Brother, wallahi, I tell you, you're not the only one. I truly, sincerely see no point in it. Especially with the rate of marital failure. People seldom enjoy the contraption called marriage, it usually gets sour with time and they endure it! Reading some diaries on the diary section further confirms that to me. Like, when I sit to think about it I seriously don't ever want to get married. I have only one life why trap myself in something I don't enjoy? When I mentioned it to my mother she shouted "god forbid!" people think it's weird but..... I may just be young and experiencing a phase, I hope. 2 Likes |
Re: Why Is Marriage Seeming So Weird To Me? by Nobody: 9:20pm On Nov 28, 2014 |
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Re: Why Is Marriage Seeming So Weird To Me? by Nobody: 9:25pm On Nov 28, 2014 |
OPp I feel u joor; I'm in same bus with you. 1 Like |
Re: Why Is Marriage Seeming So Weird To Me? by Cholls(m): 9:48pm On Nov 28, 2014 |
killerman47:my brother u will have to change that sim card of yours cuz there network is always bad |
Re: Why Is Marriage Seeming So Weird To Me? by Craigston: 10:30pm On Nov 28, 2014 |
killerman47:Me too. And I hate it when my mother and my siblings talk about. It irritates me. They talk about crap like marriage, someone having a flat ass (which I find okay) and many others. |
Re: Why Is Marriage Seeming So Weird To Me? by Nobody: 10:46pm On Nov 28, 2014 |
killerman47: Even though I share your concerns about marriage, we have got to admit you are the weirder one. If the majority among a population thinks marriage is ideal for a man (and a woman), then the outsider has got to realize he is on a different course, and a weird one at that. |
Re: Why Is Marriage Seeming So Weird To Me? by Charles4075(m): 11:26pm On Nov 28, 2014 |
Hmmm, Marriage wahala. Don't enter if you're not ready ohh or else two things will be involved.. Either it kills you or makes you crazy and loose.. Ask me why Op |
Re: Why Is Marriage Seeming So Weird To Me? by Adaeze003(f): 11:49pm On Nov 28, 2014 |
Guys can whine ehn... smh... marriage is weird? heck, what's the fuss? DON'T GET MARRIED!!! You won't be the first... |
Re: Why Is Marriage Seeming So Weird To Me? by kelvinmuffins3(m): 1:13am On Nov 29, 2014 |
Ask the god of iron |
Re: Why Is Marriage Seeming So Weird To Me? by lebesgue(m): 2:12am On Nov 29, 2014 |
goofyone: I disagree. If the majority is willing to go into an institution with 50% failure rate, then they are the crazy ones. |
Re: Why Is Marriage Seeming So Weird To Me? by Nobody: 5:55am On Nov 29, 2014 |
Thats because marriage is weird. How does 2 completely different individuals, with very different upbringing become 1? That is strange! 1 Like |
Re: Why Is Marriage Seeming So Weird To Me? by Nobody: 7:00am On Nov 29, 2014 |
goofyone:bro I utterly disagree with you sire; what u mean is ; if one does not go in same thought process with the baandwagon; then he's weird. Bro u know that's real false; and far cry 4rm the truth; the crowed doesn't always mean right. Charles4075:why sire? 1 Like |
Re: Why Is Marriage Seeming So Weird To Me? by Nobody: 4:19pm On Nov 30, 2014 |
Raymondenyi:well done sir I seem to like u, can we become online Buddies? |
Re: Why Is Marriage Seeming So Weird To Me? by Nobody: 4:30pm On Nov 30, 2014 |
Raymondenyi:you guys are weird including the op,just that you guys are stingy,you dont wanna spend your money taking care of someone else hehehehehe. |
Re: Why Is Marriage Seeming So Weird To Me? by Nobody: 4:33pm On Nov 30, 2014 |
@op marriage is so sweet if you find the right person for you,i am into one and i really thanks God my husband never regret we married.#you are really wierd not marriage change the way you think about it. |
Re: Why Is Marriage Seeming So Weird To Me? by Evina(f): 4:45pm On Nov 30, 2014 |
So your idea of marriage is that you are "taking care" of another adult? Is it not the women that should be more afraid? We cook for you, do your laundary, keep the home tidy, bear you children, raise them and still make financial contributions. You really are weird. |
Re: Why Is Marriage Seeming So Weird To Me? by Nobody: 6:52pm On Nov 30, 2014 |
If you feel a little left in the dust when it comes to the marriage thingy, you are not alone It's ok to not want to get married It's ok for you to have other priorities than marriage- it doesn't make you weird Not everyone can/will get married Even the word of God makes it clear that an individual can remain unmarried |
Re: Why Is Marriage Seeming So Weird To Me? by Nobody: 7:54pm On Nov 30, 2014 |
Evina:what is there in fixing domestic chores? I really wonder why n how women see that as a tasking job? I'm single and my house is always very clean; my laundry well tidy; just so u know; I don't have a maid; so u don't need the extra ordinary intelligence of eistein to know; I do those myself; I never see that as tasking; it is just my daily routine... |
Re: Why Is Marriage Seeming So Weird To Me? by realtem(m): 7:57pm On Nov 30, 2014 |
xcapizt:i swear , this is me. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Why Is Marriage Seeming So Weird To Me? by laimo(m): 11:22pm On Nov 30, 2014 |
Can be really scary. I feel the same way, maybe because I'm not yet married. I guess it's like anything not yet experienced, the fears, concerns but when you get into it,it becomes easy. Like an exam,a journey to a new locale. |
Re: Why Is Marriage Seeming So Weird To Me? by Exjoker(m): 12:49am On Dec 01, 2014 |
Raymondenyi:Which route are you guys taking make i know perhaps i go join una... |
Re: Why Is Marriage Seeming So Weird To Me? by Exjoker(m): 12:50am On Dec 01, 2014 |
killerman47:I don't expect you to have a girlfriend |
Re: Why Is Marriage Seeming So Weird To Me? by nickz(m): 7:31am On Dec 01, 2014 |
op you are not alone on this one marriage seems a means to NO end |
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