ammyluv2002:
7. Never give him money to pay your bride price



Nice write up

dioman:

She can help on other things but for bride price, we have to pay because that's the tradition. A man must marry a woman not contrary.

holatin:
don't use your menstrual blood as money ritual for him

Dreyl:
mtchwwwww

akinsadeez:


A lady already in her thirties should wait Chai. U r wicked o what about her biological clock?

likeseriously:


Too much of Yoruba videos .

OlamiB:

I dunno my sister, u should try to get things to normal

DukeNija:


But the man should give the lady money abi? And buy her gifts like flowers, jewellery, shoes, bags e.t.c right?
He should cater for the woman he loves, but the woman can't repay the favour because she doesn't love him right? So the woman has the monopoly of receiving without giving anything in return right? Mtcheeeeeeewwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww!!!!

ammyluv2002:
7. Never give him money to pay your bride price



Nice write up

OlamiB:
When two people come together in a relationship, it is important that they make certain adjustments. This helps their bond to grow stronger and fonder. But, always remember that a healthy relationship is a two-way street. A place where both partners are equal at all levels. We say so because when you look around you find that it is the woman who makes more than her fair share of sacrifices and compromises for her men. Especially after marriage, she is the one who is expected to make all the adjustments and changes. Ladies, while you might be doing some things happily, there are some crucial aspects in which you should never compromise evem when you are in love. Here are some things that you should never do for your man

1. Ignore Your Dreams

Just because he wants you to spend time with him or be around him always, should not make you feel guilty into turning down that big promotion or the chance to go for thyuat prestigious conference abroad. He should never ask you to make a choice between your dreams and him. There should always be a common ground to work on. Ask yourself, would you be happy in a relationship where you have to give up your hard-earned dreams? If he loves you, he will understand that your dreams and career are as important as his.

2. Modify your values

All of us have our own set of moral values and principles that we believe in. These values form our identity and individuality to a good extent. Never try to change your morals just because your man wants you to. Even if you two don’t share common values, he should always respect yours, rather than change them. This is not just about moral values; it is also about religion and beliefs. Such things cannot and should not ever be changed just because someone else wants you to do so.

3. Change Your Look

woman should never change her appearance or the way she looks only because her man desires so. Subtle changes are acceptable, like dressing and styling ones. But if he wants you to go for surgeries to change certain aspect of your appearance then never agree to it. He should admire your natural beauty and not work towards changing it. Just because he doesn’t like the way your nose looks or if he finds your ears too pointy, it should not guilt-trip you into going for something as drastic as a surgery.

4. Sacrifice your personal space

Even your family and friends need your time and attention, and this is something even you enjoy, right? So, never sacrifice your personal space and time that you should be spending with them just because he wants you to. Try to divide it and strike a balance. Just because you are in a relationship does not mean that you do not need anyone else apart from him. And, he should understand and respect that.

5. Forget Who You Are

Never try to act what you are not. Do not show that you are less intelligent than him just to boost his ego or only because it will make him happy. Men like independent women, so acting stupid is not going to help at all. Also, you should not change your likes and dislikes for him. These things make you unique. So, do not lose your individuality and identity for a man. At least, not when you are being forced to do so

6. Handing over the reins

Never give him the access to be in control of you. No matter how much you love him, the decisions should always be mutual. He should never make the final decision of what you should and shouldn’t do. Always discuss with him, but make your decision keeping your own lifestyles and choices in mind.

Ladies, keep these things in mind. There are certain aspects of your personality that you should not change for a man, even when you are in love. If you are not true to yourself, you can never be true to your relationship!

Source: copy and paste

samplet:


Op, u see urself? u are like a doctor dat can hipe a sickness and make d sufferer feel bad without you having any idea about d cure or how such sickness can be managed, do you know how many hatred, divorce and regrets dis your evil kingdom -made -post will cause to many ladies? i just posted wat you quoted to see ur advice on people who may have done such, without knowing is bad in ur own eyes. Ladies let me tell u all, open ur ears and eyes, d truth be told men dat are ready to marry are scarce now, cos dia is no good job d economy is bad, so if u ave money stop searching forMR. BIGGS HUSBAND, help ur suitor, pay more attention to ur suitor dan ur career, be submisive, be d good woman in all ur character towards ur husband and u will enjoy ur matrimonial home togeda. I used to tink like d op, until i joined dis thread: https://www.nairaland.com/1262082/how-conquer-barrenness-poverty-spiritually/15#17069669 and d creator of d thread opened my eyes, & I passed the messsage to my overdue female relatives to d glory of God two of them my relatives got married dis yr after they read frm the thread their way of thinking changed.

@op u can visit that thread am sure you will delet your post after reading from page 0 to the end of the thread, u need deliverance too so dat u can stop dis evil assignment.
My adage to d OP, I used to think dat ''WERE is an English word until I came to Yoruba land and saw d meaning''
u need serious deliverance bf u worsen d situation of overdue ladies who are waiting for MR BIGGS for marriage. mcheeeew.

BellaBambina:
why should a man be dependent on a woman for his daily living? Nobody has the monopoly of giving or receiving, it's a two-way-traffic my dear.. A reasonable man derives satisfaction and pride from holding his own and taking care of who he loves. Wait a minute! So you depend on your woman for your daily bread?

SAMBARRY:
o jo

Dreyl:
go and ...

SAMBARRY:
complete am na

DukeNija:


bold part, I hope you are aware you just contradicted your previous statement, thereby rendering this argument null and void.

A reasonable man derives satisfaction and pride from holding his own and taking care of who he loves(meanwhile she will not take care of him when necessary because she thinks he'll be razzling another babe with her substance)
Do your statements above make any sense to you? Pls think about this. All the above are your statements at various times.
And for your information, I date women who are independent minded, not heart tight, love tight, hating spend thrifts and "Silas manners" who believe that in the 21st century I.e 2014, a woman cannot offer her substance to her man when the need arises.
Anyway, just so you know, my girlfriend payed for our first outing as a couple simply because my ATM card got stuck in the machine. She payed for the full package which turned to be a great outing because she kept laughing and joking about my unfortunate ATM card. She also loaned me some cash till I was able to sortout that issue, without my asking.
She also payed for our last dinner outing.
Chew on that!

Dreyl:
go scuba dive in pacific ocean abeg.

dechandel:


Exactly.. But not a jeans pant something worth my wasted time with him.. Chocolate

all4naija:
Bwahaha... I think you are very funny! Only intelligence can save a guy from you.