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Re: He Is Punishing Me On Our Honey Moon by ericessien24: 10:05am On Dec 06, 2014 |
any woman that calls anybody into my marital affair is so gone 1 Like |
Re: He Is Punishing Me On Our Honey Moon by olmde(m): 10:07am On Dec 06, 2014 |
This is a classic Nollywood story (Unrealistic and 'almost touching'). You shld look into scriptwriting o. Add where the man has to go to work and where u also have to go to work buh can't walk properly and then ur colleagues at work notice... blah blah blah |
Re: He Is Punishing Me On Our Honey Moon by dahmie2013: 10:07am On Dec 06, 2014 |
OP, u really made me laff! |
Re: He Is Punishing Me On Our Honey Moon by anthoniaz(f): 10:08am On Dec 06, 2014 |
100Cents:No problem |
Re: He Is Punishing Me On Our Honey Moon by Nobody: 10:10am On Dec 06, 2014 |
contactmorak: Okay. Thank you. don't mind that guy, he's jealous lol. *pecks your Chin, hoping you've showered today tho*. |
Re: He Is Punishing Me On Our Honey Moon by Nobody: 10:11am On Dec 06, 2014 |
Away from the post, as it seems false. Some girls are not ready to learn the art of sex. They won't learn to enjoy it. They believe in decency even in sex. In this century if u still find sucking *ick disgusting, u are either a goner or a learner. Except ur husband is also an SU (most of dem arnt true). If u cnt give back, learn. If u cnt do it standing, learn. If he isn't the type then u can hide ur talent. Most importantly, if u don't enjoy it, learn. You might lose ur man or woman. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: He Is Punishing Me On Our Honey Moon by Nobody: 10:11am On Dec 06, 2014 |
1 Like |
Re: He Is Punishing Me On Our Honey Moon by zsch: 10:11am On Dec 06, 2014 |
Relax! Men like this are soooo easy to handle. They like the feeling of dominance and a sense of the hunt (why else do you think he chased you for a year and agreed to terms most people in our society won't). From your description, he doesn't hurt you so that rules him out as being a sado-masochist. I also believe that you are quite naive about sex. In summary. Pretend to be dominated. Let him have the time of his life. Submit. That is all you require to wrap people like these around your finger. |
Re: He Is Punishing Me On Our Honey Moon by Ucbiu(m): 10:12am On Dec 06, 2014 |
Hmmmmn
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Re: He Is Punishing Me On Our Honey Moon by SAMBARRY: 10:14am On Dec 06, 2014 |
GOD bless late pastor bimbo odukoya.she said marriage is two forgivers living together.even if he didn't like her behaviour before marriage there's nothing stopping the man from telling the wife that he wasn't happy with her behaviour before marriage and if she's reasonable she will apologise and they move on but instead he turned her to a sub human being and the unfortunate thing is that other people will be looking at her as iyawo.in her home she is nothing more than an animal tufiaaaaaaaaaa holluwai: |
Re: He Is Punishing Me On Our Honey Moon by Nobody: 10:15am On Dec 06, 2014 |
Re: He Is Punishing Me On Our Honey Moon by darlenese(f): 10:15am On Dec 06, 2014 |
U sound like a virgin.............but,,,,,, There was'nt blood stain on the bed sheet, or did u miss that part of the story/ N u he was able to do it standing? [color=#770077][/color] |
Re: He Is Punishing Me On Our Honey Moon by Nobody: 10:18am On Dec 06, 2014 |
SAMBARRY:this are the kind of people I dislike. Who thinks talking would solve everything. You are wrong. And u ar living in fantasy land. Pastor Bimbo(smart woman) wouldn't tell you things she had to do. Learn to be real in your life. Stop believing everything you hear. It is never as easy as it sounds. All this believers sef. |
Re: He Is Punishing Me On Our Honey Moon by SAMBARRY: 10:21am On Dec 06, 2014 |
akinsadeez:tjen that's a disgusting sadist pickabeau where are you. I know say na this kain thread you go pretend say you no see I hail una o.tufiaaaaaa |
Re: He Is Punishing Me On Our Honey Moon by Mathewa(m): 10:21am On Dec 06, 2014 |
hope dis story is true sha? |
Re: He Is Punishing Me On Our Honey Moon by Nobody: 10:22am On Dec 06, 2014 |
ChynoBEATS: Merci. 1 Like |
Re: He Is Punishing Me On Our Honey Moon by Haywhymido(m): 10:24am On Dec 06, 2014 |
carefreewannabe:no it is not. It would av been better if dey both had agreed on dat.Did u read d part where the hubby talked abt her going abt with her shoulders above head. It Only dumb people dat doesn't sense pride. Obviously, it part of why he is treating her dat way.He simply want her to lose dat pride.But, what he is doing is rung.It possible to av a sex free courtship but it shd be mutual between d partners |
Re: He Is Punishing Me On Our Honey Moon by cc150615(f): 10:24am On Dec 06, 2014 |
If this is true op should just leave the guy already, I mean take a break and go somewhere he can't find u to clear ur head nd decide way forward since u said you've apologized but he won't listen. reporting him to anybody will only get him more angry nd none of those ppl will be Wit u in the house wen he'll make u pay for reporting again. 2 Likes |
Re: He Is Punishing Me On Our Honey Moon by SAMBARRY: 10:24am On Dec 06, 2014 |
Pyrrho:communication solves79.9% or more problems in any human relationship.the rest is mutual respect, love and regard for each other. The rest is prayer |
Re: He Is Punishing Me On Our Honey Moon by dailywealth1967: 10:25am On Dec 06, 2014 |
Be the sex aggressor this time. If he sleeps wake him up at least 5 times between 12 midnight to 5am for sex.He go beg you to forgive am before him get heart attack.My sister try this therapy for 30days |
Re: He Is Punishing Me On Our Honey Moon by yinkeys(m): 10:25am On Dec 06, 2014 |
evegran:I don't want to derail, I'll pm you |
Re: He Is Punishing Me On Our Honey Moon by mechanics(m): 10:25am On Dec 06, 2014 |
[quote author=blesie post=28624298]I just wish to share my honeymoon bitter and sweet experience for you and also get inspiration. A little Intro to how it all started: So i met this guy during the course of work in my former office and he started chasing me, my colleagues then ask me not to agree that he looks like a player. He looks like one that never get a No for an answer, so me and my colleagues use him to have a good lunch, dinner or whenever we just feel like going to that cinema, he won't ever dissapoint, he'll take us there, a year after i left the company but he kept on chasing, so one day i was passing through some difficult times in my career, i felt like resigning but he came to me and advise me wisely, he told me how to tackle the challenges and when i did, it works perfectly so i started liking him, so i called him that we can date if only he will adhere to my conditions, he asked me to list the conditions and i did as stated below: 1) No Sex 2) No romance 3) No Kissing Infact no touches. He agreed with so much pains in his eyes, but after 6 months of dating, we begin to hug anyway and light kisses. But through out the relationship, i was always walking with shoulders held very high up there, thinking that shebi he's the one begging me, i will scream and always want things done my way. For a year, i misbehave alot but after i begin to be the girl he would want me to be, i wasnt really shouting or screaming anymore but i was still so full of pride, but i started loving him very well. On the first week of August he proposed, and we got married over 2 weeks ago, the wedding went well everyone was happy but after all the happiness, dancing, eating and greetings by friends and family, i found out later i was left with him in the car and the driver. We went into the hotel room that evening and he started answering calls, so i use that opportunity to rush to the bathroom and took my bath, after i finish bathing, lying down on the bed and thinking of how sex will look like, he tapped my leg and said i should come and bath him, i was like, bath you? how na, he said i should not waste his time, i wanted to say something again and he opened his eyes, the way he has not opened it before so i was scared, i jump off bed to the bathroom and started pouring water on him, he ask if i was in my right senses in a very fierce way, i shake my head saying yes, he said he doesnt think so that if i was i will be unclad by now, so i told him i wasnt going to bath him anymore, i left, went to the bed and lie, he completed the bath and came to meet me in the room. He held me and said, yes i married you, he didnt say anything again he just stared at me, then dragged me closer and started kissing me, then he said i should UnCloth him, what was surprising to me though was that his stuff was now 300% bigger than what i saw while i try to bath him, i thought maybe he had used something on it so i started to shift back, he pulled me back and i never knew how powerful he was until that evening, cos his hands just seem to be pulling me like im an ant, at that point i tried to fight him but he practically raped me, i screamed and shouted my life out but it seems he is enjoying the shout so i started to remain calm and then he said hold me, hold me very tight and i remember my mom telling me, do whatever he says to make him happy, so i grabbed him with two hands very tight to my body and as i did, i also started enjoying the sex so i started calling him baby. After the first round, it was like i had an accident, i was so tired i couldnt stand up, i couldnt even hold a paper i was breathing fast, it felt like i will die, i ask him to get me lucozade or something to regain my energy, he gave me drink and i just wanted to sleep off, he came waking me up and wanted to start another thing, i screamed at him and he said look at me very well, you see all that up shoulder you use to display while we were dating? you've got to drop it at the wedding reception because if you take it to the wedding, you will just be crying, do you know how many years you make me impotent, should i analyse the insult you gave me and all of that, now respect yourself, stand up and do the needful. Wow, wat a touching story, it was obvious dat u didnt knw d man u wanted to get married to, well d deed has been done, all u need do nw is to pray 4 him to change cos dats d only solution, and u can also tell ur pastor to pray along with u, al d best in ur marriage. |
Re: He Is Punishing Me On Our Honey Moon by Nobody: 10:26am On Dec 06, 2014 |
SAMBARRY:So they told you. |
Re: He Is Punishing Me On Our Honey Moon by ROZZAYY(f): 10:28am On Dec 06, 2014 |
KingTom:Lols. Honestly I wish d hubby will come here I for like know am. Jes to ask him some q oo make una no thimk anoda thin. 1 Like |
Re: He Is Punishing Me On Our Honey Moon by SAMBARRY: 10:28am On Dec 06, 2014 |
Pyrrho:yes I believe everything she said because her life as a whole was a living testimony. Stop making the lives of women miserable because of a mistake . if that was the way God treated us, none of us will be alive |
Re: He Is Punishing Me On Our Honey Moon by SAMBARRY: 10:30am On Dec 06, 2014 |
Pyrrho:so I know because I am also a living testimony of that. Communication solves many problems at work and with my friends |
Re: He Is Punishing Me On Our Honey Moon by MDelgado(m): 10:30am On Dec 06, 2014 |
blesie: Are you happy and satisfied now that your post have made front page??I am not buying this crap,the price is absurdly high.. |
Re: He Is Punishing Me On Our Honey Moon by valdes00(m): 10:31am On Dec 06, 2014 |
Lolzz,.....I jus dnt knw y I lik wot d husband did to her... Mayb because dats hw we roll |
Re: He Is Punishing Me On Our Honey Moon by 100Cents: 10:31am On Dec 06, 2014 |
tjskii: No mind them. Tear rubber never marry finish.. |
Re: He Is Punishing Me On Our Honey Moon by holluwai(m): 10:33am On Dec 06, 2014 |
Leave pastor bimbo out of this one abegi!!! Let her apologize and I bet you things will change... SAMBARRY: |
Re: He Is Punishing Me On Our Honey Moon by SweetyZinta(f): 10:34am On Dec 06, 2014 |
My dear i feel ur pain! Record what ever he is doing to you before reporting him to whoever you choose to report him to so he won't deny hurting you. Be very smart about it. Am guilty of dis yanga offence ooo! 1 Like |
Re: He Is Punishing Me On Our Honey Moon by SAMBARRY: 10:34am On Dec 06, 2014 |
valdes00:I know the answer. It's because you are a macho sadist.you feel good in other people's pain.as in other people's pain makes you feel more of a man probably because your family didn't make you feel like one |
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