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Re: I Have Five Suitors And I Let My Boyfriend Know by basit322(m): 10:22am On Dec 06, 2014 |
samflexxy: Just like that |
Re: I Have Five Suitors And I Let My Boyfriend Know by IzyLuv(f): 10:22am On Dec 06, 2014 |
Re: I Have Five Suitors And I Let My Boyfriend Know by Richy4(m): 10:22am On Dec 06, 2014 |
there are some discussion meant for 5:30AM on Saturday. meaning that you did not sleep and it is very important. Also both of you are not working on Saturday, you have the chance to reflect on the discussion through out the day and next. Wake him up and have a heart to heart discussion. what he says that morning will determine your next move. I know we don't like being disturbed at that wee hour of the morning but give it a go. good-luck 1 Like |
Re: I Have Five Suitors And I Let My Boyfriend Know by ichidodo: 10:23am On Dec 06, 2014 |
My people talk say wetin dey for Sokoto e dey for shokoto...You are ready to run off with Angels but you forget the devil you know and love very much.Marriage is an open ocean of life time committment,tis better to sail its waters with a known and trusted shipmate-even he if ain't sure of himself-As far as Marital committment is concerned,most guys come at the junction of mental hesistation,confusion....in France,guys have been known to run into a state of panic, but dont worry because it is just a rite of passage for men who are transisting from a single frame of mind to that of marriage...just give him a few moments to clear his head.Don't throw the bath water with the baby inside. 2 Likes |
Re: I Have Five Suitors And I Let My Boyfriend Know by tania28(f): 10:23am On Dec 06, 2014 |
Follow your heart dear,the heart never lies,take it to God in prayers.wish u success |
Re: I Have Five Suitors And I Let My Boyfriend Know by onegig(m): 10:24am On Dec 06, 2014 |
This is the result of dating without an aim. Be frank and straightforward from the start. Are we in this to play around or have a goal which is marriage.. If it were well defined from the start I doubt you would have such issues and no one would be feeling pressurised at the moment.. If that was sorted out you would have a realistic time by now for settling down and Working towards that goal would have been much easier. 3 Likes |
Re: I Have Five Suitors And I Let My Boyfriend Know by deeswitch(m): 10:24am On Dec 06, 2014 |
That your bf loves you isn't a guarantee that he would want to make you his wife...and don't be decieved by the marriage proposals, men now use marriage proposals to decieve ladies just to get what they want and when they're done you'll be dumped. + marriage is not something you rush into if u don't wanna rush out of it. So relax....you don't have to dump your bf because u wanna get married to someone else...whether or not ur current relationship works out the way u expect, you will still get married, more suitors will come.... definitely! So don't rush. But be sure ur bf isn't just using you cos he might be wasting your precious time and effort 1 Like |
Re: I Have Five Suitors And I Let My Boyfriend Know by paycash: 10:27am On Dec 06, 2014 |
OP tell us your age then I give you good advice. |
Re: I Have Five Suitors And I Let My Boyfriend Know by Nobody: 10:27am On Dec 06, 2014 |
Babymama1:Chai, Men don suffer for this thread! 1 Like |
Re: I Have Five Suitors And I Let My Boyfriend Know by Goodquestion(m): 10:29am On Dec 06, 2014 |
Yours is a joke, what about me that rightly told a girl that i have some1 in my life and she doesn't want to let go? But to your post. If he love you and you believe he will not forsake you at last, I'll advice you don't let him go. You know him already but other ones who are asking you for marriage you may not know them so well as your your present date. |
Re: I Have Five Suitors And I Let My Boyfriend Know by Fxwarrior: 10:32am On Dec 06, 2014 |
valdes00: Desperate ko, desperate ni. As a guy I can tell you that guys know when they have found the one and they will not only run to the aisle with her but fly as well. The truth which am the only guy bold enough to tell you is that he is still weighing his options to know if you are one. |
Re: I Have Five Suitors And I Let My Boyfriend Know by Classicalmusic: 10:32am On Dec 06, 2014 |
FavourGee:This is the kind of story that I want to read here. Okay, you love him which is very important but unfortunately he's not ready yet, so why wait when your time diminishes? Just tell him your concern and get married fast. Do not wait. I repeat, do not wait! |
Re: I Have Five Suitors And I Let My Boyfriend Know by Nobody: 10:34am On Dec 06, 2014 |
[size=16pt]Any man that comes straight with marriage proposals without dating you in this present dispensation is funny. You will be making a mistake accepting such. At worst break up with your boyfriend date you favourite suitor, don't have s.ex though. After few months you can marry. Marriage is not as easy as mere proposals. He can even get tired of you during the engagement, but ur boyfriend actually knows you and is still with you....... Those suitors just can't accept loosing you dats all, it not love, its competition! !!!![/size] 2 Likes |
Re: I Have Five Suitors And I Let My Boyfriend Know by joeace2020(m): 10:34am On Dec 06, 2014 |
aisha2: In order words.. na how goat stand for market, them dey price am. 3 Likes |
Re: I Have Five Suitors And I Let My Boyfriend Know by joeace2020(m): 10:35am On Dec 06, 2014 |
Now lemme tell u this about men. I know of a friends brother who has been dating but never marrying. He tells me all about the girls he has and you know what he says... he talks about all the reasons he hasn't bothered thinking of marriage with them. Their too many flaws ranging from being a bad cook, to dirty, to be a football betting freak. Truth is in my heart i know this guy is not just ready. All these things may be real bad with a lady but a man should really be able to at least put a leash on a lady's excesses and put a ring on it. We all have our own flaws Many men are only gonna concentrate on wat u can't do to evaluate u b4 marriage but u hv to spot the judgmental ones and pack your bags as quick as possible. A guy who's not gonna marry u yet is judging u by some lofty personal requirements and if you keep hoping on hope.. sorry is your case 6 Likes |
Re: I Have Five Suitors And I Let My Boyfriend Know by Nobody: 10:38am On Dec 06, 2014 |
FavourGee: Coogar did raise some valid points.!ut for how long do you wish to hold for him. How are you certain that he intended marriage from the onset? Much as you love him you need to be realistic.you are wasting your time if the love you have and desire to settle down is not reciprocal. Sit down and have a heart to heart talk with him.ask him to be sincere with you if he intends settling down. Be diplomatic, wise and matured in ur choice of words as we don't want him roping you round Be ready to walk out.what you feel is good for you is not what God has planned. Your husband might or might not be amongst those 5 men but when he comes he will clean off any pain you had with ur ex and you will wonder what u ever saw in ur ex. Don't use your hand to shut the doors of revelations that God opened for you |
Re: I Have Five Suitors And I Let My Boyfriend Know by Nobody: 10:38am On Dec 06, 2014 |
madridfc:lol. My bros. You sef don reach here? This topic hot no b small. It's very easy to know a commited guy. 1. How he relates with your family. Does he speak with your mum or dad? 2. How he relates with your siblings... And your family generally 3. When he makes plans, does he share them with you? |
Re: I Have Five Suitors And I Let My Boyfriend Know by bmoses(f): 10:41am On Dec 06, 2014 |
My Dear. remember that as a woman, we are like the flowers dat are beautiful in the morning n at night they fed away. age is not on any womans side especially when we click 25 upwards. from your story, he never mention marriage to u, he is not even thinking of it. perharps, must a man have heaven n earth b4 he get married, women are always d light in her huusbands home, who knows if he marrys u now, favours will come to him since u guys av been togther for a year. to me that guy doesnt love u and u may not even b his dream wife. one of ur suitors may be ur MR Right, dont want this opportunity because its come just once. dont cry had i known. a man of 40yrs can stil marry a girl of 24 but a woman of 40 done fed ooooo. bcare n beware. good luck. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Have Five Suitors And I Let My Boyfriend Know by Classicalmusic: 10:42am On Dec 06, 2014 |
chrisbaba1:Relationship is totally different from marriage. Would you marry her when she loses the chance? |
Re: I Have Five Suitors And I Let My Boyfriend Know by suxex4ever: 10:42am On Dec 06, 2014 |
Lovethlovesmike:my dear, dnt joke with your senses, follow it |
Re: I Have Five Suitors And I Let My Boyfriend Know by iyisco2001(m): 10:44am On Dec 06, 2014 |
FavourGee:I wish you well dear, just pray about it so you wont regret your decision also. the thing there is, the situation your bf has found himself and you both is simply cos of the fear of the future, I am a guy and I know what that means, marriage to us simply mean more than the wedding and engagement. I am not saying u should stay and waste your time o, but just be sure that your decision you wont regret, most pple advising you here might be embittered peeps who have been through trash from some guys, that doesn't mean your guy is also trash. you are grown up so you know what you want. 1 Like |
Re: I Have Five Suitors And I Let My Boyfriend Know by Nobody: 10:44am On Dec 06, 2014 |
Classicalmusic: Thats y I said she should date one at least. |
Re: I Have Five Suitors And I Let My Boyfriend Know by passionate88: 10:45am On Dec 06, 2014 |
FavourGee:In my little understanding when it comes to romance/dating, a guy will only propose to a girl when he has dated her for a period of time or knew her before... My question is this, "Did you double or triple date"?. For you to have 5 different suitors at once 6 Likes |
Re: I Have Five Suitors And I Let My Boyfriend Know by Emaprince: 10:45am On Dec 06, 2014 |
5 suitors trying to marry a girl they barely knows?...smh! This is the reason why some men marries women that will start comparing them to their ex boyfriends.. And why is nigerian women the most desperate for marriage? |
Re: I Have Five Suitors And I Let My Boyfriend Know by warrikid(m): 10:46am On Dec 06, 2014 |
@OP,I believe dude is still observing u o. And Hope u r not bleeping any of d so-called suitors cos some girls do dat hoping it wud seal a deal wit a suitor. My advise,be patient n show more love n commitment cos love is important o,money will come n go. My 2cents |
Re: I Have Five Suitors And I Let My Boyfriend Know by eightsin(m): 10:46am On Dec 06, 2014 |
Just follow that lil voice in ur head |
Re: I Have Five Suitors And I Let My Boyfriend Know by chronique(m): 10:46am On Dec 06, 2014 |
So this is all our miss NL can offer? She should date other guys while with him? Smh. Pls give me back my vote(the one I casted for u during the competition). I want to make use of it now. Jennimma: 3 Likes |
Re: I Have Five Suitors And I Let My Boyfriend Know by Emaprince: 10:48am On Dec 06, 2014 |
Jennimma:this is a very useless advice!!! So she should start hooking up with every guys in the name of trying to get married?...by the time the reality dawns on her,every guys musta known her as the cheapest target to get used and dumped 2 Likes |
Re: I Have Five Suitors And I Let My Boyfriend Know by Nobody: 10:49am On Dec 06, 2014 |
2sExy1:Hmm, all these ones na wash o 2sexy. All these doesn't make a man a 'husband' material. I seriously support the user that said "a lady that hopes to get married shouldn't be in a relationship for more than 6months" to avoid stories that touch. The bad part be say people like us no get hope be dat LOL Bottom line: Don't date Your age mates. |
Re: I Have Five Suitors And I Let My Boyfriend Know by Goodquestion(m): 10:50am On Dec 06, 2014 |
amunkita: You gave her the ring to keep in her box? If she didn't wear it you'll surely complain. Am in the same situation as you are, am ready to marry her but first of all i want to save out some money that she may start something after marriage. But she disturb more than the witch can concerning marrying her and i understand her because it is their way. |
Re: I Have Five Suitors And I Let My Boyfriend Know by Emaprince: 10:51am On Dec 06, 2014 |
chronique:I even wanted to say the same thing but thank GOD I never voted her.. |
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