blesie:
I just wish to share my honeymoon bitter and sweet experience for you and also get inspiration.

A little Intro to how it all started: So i met this guy during the course of work in my former office and he started chasing me, my colleagues then ask me not to agree that he looks like a player. He looks like one that never get a No for an answer, so me and my colleagues use him to have a good lunch, dinner or whenever we just feel like going to that cinema, he won't ever dissapoint, he'll take us there, a year after i left the company but he kept on chasing, so one day i was passing through some difficult times in my career, i felt like resigning but he came to me and advise me wisely, he told me how to tackle the challenges and when i did, it works perfectly so i started liking him, so i called him that we can date if only he will adhere to my conditions, he asked me to list the conditions and i did as stated below:
1) No Sex
2) No romance
3) No Kissing
Infact no touches.

He agreed with so much pains in his eyes, but after 6 months of dating, we begin to hug anyway and light kisses.

But through out the relationship, i was always walking with shoulders held very high up there, thinking that shebi he's the one begging me, i will scream and always want things done my way.

For a year, i misbehave alot but after i begin to be the girl he would want me to be, i wasnt really shouting or screaming anymore but i was still so full of pride, but i started loving him very well.

On the first week of August he proposed, and we got married over 2 weeks ago, the wedding went well everyone was happy but after all the happiness, dancing, eating and greetings by friends and family, i found out later i was left with him in the car and the driver.

We went into the hotel room that evening and he started answering calls, so i use that opportunity to rush to the bathroom and took my bath, after i finish bathing, lying down on the bed and thinking of how sex will look like, he tapped my leg and said i should come and bath him, i was like, bath you? how na, he said i should not waste his time, i wanted to say something again and he opened his eyes, the way he has not opened it before so i was scared, i jump off bed to the bathroom and started pouring water on him, he ask if i was in my right senses in a very fierce way, i shake my head saying yes, he said he doesnt think so that if i was i will be unclad by now, so i told him i wasnt going to bath him anymore, i left, went to the bed and lie, he completed the bath and came to meet me in the room.

He held me and said, yes i married you, he didnt say anything again he just stared at me, then dragged me closer and started kissing me, then he said i should UnCloth him, what was surprising to me though was that his stuff was now 300% bigger than what i saw while i try to bath him, i thought maybe he had used something on it so i started to shift back, he pulled me back and i never knew how powerful he was until that evening, cos his hands just seem to be pulling me like im an ant, at that point i tried to fight him but he practically raped me, i screamed and shouted my life out but it seems he is enjoying the shout so i started to remain calm and then he said hold me, hold me very tight and i remember my mom telling me, do whatever he says to make him happy, so i grabbed him with two hands very tight to my body and as i did, i also started enjoying the sex so i started calling him baby.

After the first round, it was like i had an accident, i was so tired i couldnt stand up, i couldnt even hold a paper i was breathing fast, it felt like i will die, i ask him to get me lucozade or something to regain my energy, he gave me drink and i just wanted to sleep off, he came waking me up and wanted to start another thing, i screamed at him and he said look at me very well, you see all that up shoulder you use to display while we were dating? you've got to drop it at the wedding reception because if you take it to the wedding, you will just be crying, do you know how many years you make me impotent, should i analyse the insult you gave me and all of that, now respect yourself, stand up and do the needful.

Fear crib me like i have made a mistake, i cried and ran down to the bed to UnCloth he said no way, now i want it standing, i tried to imagine how somebody will stand to have sex but before i could finish thinking, he's dragged me out of bed and there it goes, painful and annoying i was just crying.

After he finished that, i went on my knee to beg him for forgivenness for all the shout and scream i use to shout at him that i was ready to make a new turn, he said fine, that the new turn will mean that i will now respect and do everything he wants me to, i said yes i will do.

Then he said, come on suck this, you won't imagine what he ask me to suck , how in the world can a husband be so wicked

I said not this, he said ok, seems you are not ready to comply, he came for me and i bit him, fought him, he allowed me beat him after i finish beating him, he raped me and its really hurting me like i want to die.

Now everyday he made me suck him, all the bad things one could dream of is what he likes, if he ask me to do something and i refuse he wont beat me, instead he will come for me and rape me.

I am so tired, i don't know why one man will want to have sex up to countles times in a day, i was just wondering.

UNTILL HE CAME TO REVEAL TO ME TODAY THAT HE IS PUNISHING ME FOR WHAT I DID TO HIM OVER THE YEARS.

He finds joy in doing it and im so pained, is he going to change, should i report him to our pastor or my parent?

blesie:
I just wish to share my honeymoon bitter and sweet experience for you and also get inspiration.

A little Intro to how it all started: So i met this guy during the course of work in my former office and he started chasing me, my colleagues then ask me not to agree that he looks like a player. He looks like one that never get a No for an answer, so me and my colleagues use him to have a good lunch, dinner or whenever we just feel like going to that cinema, he won't ever dissapoint, he'll take us there, a year after i left the company but he kept on chasing, so one day i was passing through some difficult times in my career, i felt like resigning but he came to me and advise me wisely, he told me how to tackle the challenges and when i did, it works perfectly so i started liking him, so i called him that we can date if only he will adhere to my conditions, he asked me to list the conditions and i did as stated below:
1) No Sex
2) No romance
3) No Kissing
Infact no touches.




He agreed with so much pains in his eyes, but after 6 months of dating, we begin to hug anyway and light kisses.

But through out the relationship, i was always walking with shoulders held very high up there, thinking that shebi he's the one begging me, i will scream and always want things done my way.

For a year, i misbehave alot but after i begin to be the girl he would want me to be, i wasnt really shouting or screaming anymore but i was still so full of pride, but i started loving him very well.

On the first week of August he proposed, and we got married over 2 weeks ago, the wedding went well everyone was happy but after all the happiness, dancing, eating and greetings by friends and family, i found out later i was left with him in the car and the driver.

We went into the hotel room that evening and he started answering calls, so i use that opportunity to rush to the bathroom and took my bath, after i finish bathing, lying down on the bed and thinking of how sex will look like, he tapped my leg and said i should come and bath him, i was like, bath you? how na, he said i should not waste his time, i wanted to say something again and he opened his eyes, the way he has not opened it before so i was scared, i jump off bed to the bathroom and started pouring water on him, he ask if i was in my right senses in a very fierce way, i shake my head saying yes, he said he doesnt think so that if i was i will be unclad by now, so i told him i wasnt going to bath him anymore, i left, went to the bed and lie, he completed the bath and came to meet me in the room.

He held me and said, yes i married you, he didnt say anything again he just stared at me, then dragged me closer and started kissing me, then he said i should UnCloth him, what was surprising to me though was that his stuff was now 300% bigger than what i saw while i try to bath him, i thought maybe he had used something on it so i started to shift back, he pulled me back and i never knew how powerful he was until that evening, cos his hands just seem to be pulling me like im an ant, at that point i tried to fight him but he practically raped me, i screamed and shouted my life out but it seems he is enjoying the shout so i started to remain calm and then he said hold me, hold me very tight and i remember my mom telling me, do whatever he says to make him happy, so i grabbed him with two hands very tight to my body and as i did, i also started enjoying the sex so i started calling him baby.

After the first round, it was like i had an accident, i was so tired i couldnt stand up, i couldnt even hold a paper i was breathing fast, it felt like i will die, i ask him to get me lucozade or something to regain my energy, he gave me drink and i just wanted to sleep off, he came waking me up and wanted to start another thing, i screamed at him and he said look at me very well, you see all that up shoulder you use to display while we were dating? you've got to drop it at the wedding reception because if you take it to the wedding, you will just be crying, do you know how many years you make me impotent, should i analyse the insult you gave me and all of that, now respect yourself, stand up and do the needful.

Fear crib me like i have made a mistake, i cried and ran down to the bed to UnCloth he said no way, now i want it standing, i tried to imagine how somebody will stand to have sex but before i could finish thinking, he's dragged me out of bed and there it goes, painful and annoying i was just crying.

After he finished that, i went on my knee to beg him for forgivenness for all the shout and scream i use to shout at him that i was ready to make a new turn, he said fine, that the new turn will mean that i will now respect and do everything he wants me to, i said yes i will do.

Then he said, come on suck this, you won't imagine what he ask me to suck , how in the world can a husband be so wicked

I said not this, he said ok, seems you are not ready to comply, he came for me and i bit him, fought him, he allowed me beat him after i finish beating him, he raped me and its really hurting me like i want to die.

Now everyday he made me suck him, all the bad things one could dream of is what he likes, if he ask me to do something and i refuse he wont beat me, instead he will come for me and rape me.

I am so tired, i don't know why one man will want to have sex up to countles times in a day, i was just wondering.

UNTILL HE CAME TO REVEAL TO ME TODAY THAT HE IS PUNISHING ME FOR WHAT I DID TO HIM OVER THE YEARS.

He finds joy in doing it and im so pained, is he going to change, should i report him to our pastor or my parent?

ROZZAYY:

Lols. Honestly I wish d hubby will come here I for like know am. Jes to ask him some q oo make una no thimk anoda thin.

holluwai:
Leave pastor bimbo out of this one abegi!!! Let her apologize and I bet you things will change...

Bridgetown:





Just pay a prostitute and introduce her to him to reduce the distraction and constant banging. Shikena

SAMBARRY:
yes I believe everything she said because her life as a whole was a living testimony. Stop making the lives of women miserable because of a mistake . if that was the way God treated us, none of us will be alive

holluwai:
Hmmmm....which another thing we wan think? Say e dey scratch and you need the man service? Abi wetin?

Angeldemivida:

Nobody deserves to be r-aped. Ra-pe is still r-ape even if it was done by one's darling husband.
Even when you are screaming and shouting, he has the heart to be doing that.
If all husbands treated their wives like he is doing to you, nobody will remain married. Do something about it before you choke on your screams or even be ra-ped to death. It is not a good way for a man to treat his wife abeg. Pastoral or even family intervention may change his behavior. If he wanted to punish you for all the time you did not agree to s-ex, he shouldn't forget that he married you to love you unless he married you to punish you and send you out of his life when he is done with his punishment lovemaking sessions.

SAMBARRY:
haven't you read where she apologised and he didn't accept it.i don't even see this marriage lasting sef.this is not marriage or life. They will soon enter the list of divorces.


Pathetic

JoeCutie:
Looks to me like one of those fictions that Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie started with 80yrs ago.



But if it's true, I have these to tell you.

1.) To all those girls who would not like a guy but still wouldn't leave him alone just cos he has money, so that you & your friends could suck him dry & use him like a monthly pad, this "punishment" is befitting to you. Yes, I said it & I've no apologies for saying it.

2.) Op, I think you wanted some really pathetic "Awww", "Eeyah", "Chai", "Sorry" & what have you, other than advice & a way to make things work between you & your HUSBAND. Yeah, I put that emphasis on 'husband' so you don't forget he's your husband & not Nairaland girls husband. No matter what, you're suffering it alone. And you'r sure gonna get those comments that would make you wanna deactivate your account.

3.) You could have talked to your mum or your mother-in-law about this, & not to come here & open your husband's yansh & on the process, opening yours too. There's NO help on here. In such situation, Nairaland really does more harm than good.

4.) So if your husband's D is 100km long, you won't let him use it on you? Artificial insemination then? Babe, this place na Naija! No be Yankey. In your next life I'm sure you're gonna have a rethink when dishing out conditions in your relationship. "No sex"! Abi? At least you would have known that his D is longer than from Mile2 to Badagry before agreeing to walk down the aisle with him.

5.) Get serious! We no be pikin.

ROZZAYY:

Lolz I don't nid rape service o, btw d lady is a novice sha, gimme dat man for 1 week I go teach am lesson, na em go kneel instead.

Nayoanalytical:
I'm a realist,leave your pastor out of this.Your beast husband is using sex enhancer to punish you.No body on earth can help you except God and yourself.The only recipe now is to save your life first before any other thing.If you don't do the needful,then,be ready to face the music.The man doesn't like you rather he wants to balkanize your pussy and go for another pussy.

SAMBARRY:
Eranko ni e o.ikeji aja. pls I've no idea what this means



tufiaaaaaaaaaaaaa

holluwai:
Hahahaha.... You see what I'm saying!!! Come and teach me lesson nah

iceberylin:
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ROZZAYY:

Abeg no put me for trouble o, ayam marid. Lol

duduhemit36:

i really really love this..........i do av dat line dey musnt cross......dat if dey tell me dat am UGLY

Haywhymido:
no it is not. It would av been better if dey both had agreed on dat.Did u read d part where the hubby talked abt her going abt with her shoulders above head. It Only dumb people dat doesn't sense pride. Obviously, it part of why he is treating her dat way.He simply want her to lose dat pride.But, what he is doing is rung.It possible to av a sex free courtship but it shd be mutual between d partners

holluwai:
Which kin trouble be that? Married ke and you're saying all that? Hmmm, it's a lie jor!

holluwai:
She should continue begging then. Leaving him isn't the best thing she can do, like someone said she should step up her game and give him however he wants it, she should watch more porn, learn more styles and fu.c.k the living day out of him, that way she can satisfy him because they're so many ladies out there that wants it exactly the way he's giving it to her. Period!

Onyenna:


ma hommie......always on point!

Stelvin101:


Scientists are trying to figure out how long human can live without a brain. You can tell them your age. See the nonsense coming outta ur dirty mouth

smudge2079:
Why is everyone blaming d man here Abeg do ur duties as a wife & let us have some peace here o. U are d real sadist, not ur hubby.

ROZZAYY:

Lol ok I take bak my words. Is dat oki