Bad guys keep banging these girls, breaking thier hearts. and yet they will keep looking for good husband..

They need some fun, excitement nd adventure nd to be honest nice guys are boring

eistien:
They need some fun, excitement nd adventure nd to be honest nice guys are boring

dankeshon

Define "nice" guy.

And then tell me what makes a guy bad.

Girls need a good kick in the azz sometimes and good guys can't do it.

wierdpsycho:
Bad guys keep banging these girls, breaking thier hearts. and yet they will keep looking for good husband..

the concept of a 'nice guy' is social stigma against women from getting a good guy.
simple!
hence!the women keep going round and round in circles looking for someone that they themselves have been trained to hate!unless they open their eyes and see beyond what is in between a guys legs!

Someone is pissed .

Chillisauce:
Someone is pissed .

over what!

baralatie:

over what!

Ask the op

Chillisauce:


Ask the op

hmmmm!women and their complication!

the bottom line is, Nigerians girls HATE the truth. you bcom a fool if u decide to be nice and sincere. well as for me, I will never in my life,tell an aorta of truth to any Nigerian girl cos they love lies,its embedded in their DNA. they deserve to be treated like dogs that they are.

@chilli,
you are right!some boys are pissed!

them like someone wey go ride them like molue or trailer

Chillisauce:


Ask the op

ok i'm pissed, what do u think i should do?

holatin:
them like someone wey go ride them like molue or trailer

ride as in sēx or whatt?

carefreewannabe:
Define "nice" guy.

And then tell me what makes a guy bad.

the usual nice guyy, being calm gentle nice , etc

wierdpsycho:

the usual nice guyy, being calm gentle nice , etc

And the bad guy is who?

baralatie:
@chilli,
you are right!some boys are pissed!

you see. I was right after all.

wierdpsycho:
ok i'm pissed, what do u think i should do?

Calm down, move on while doing the right things. When you find the one you will know. Don't change your self to something you are not.

carefreewannabe:


And the bad guy is who?

ummm... party jumperr, saggy pants, nigger language, womanizer etc

Chillisauce:


Calm down, move on while doing the right things. When you find the one you will know. Don't change your self to something you are not.

graçias

wierdpsycho:
ummm... party jumperr, saggy pants, nigger language, womanizer etc

I don't think all girls prefer a "thug" to an introvert. I don't even think most girls do.

wierdpsycho:
ride as in sēx or whatt?

what do u think

carefreewannabe:


I don't think all girls prefer a "thug" to an introvert. I don't even think most girls do.

well.. i think it differs by location then

holatin:
what do u think

well, i'm not a mind reader

wierdpsycho:

well.. i think it differs by location then

What makes you think so?
Is that your experience?

carefreewannabe:


What makes you think so?
Is that your experience?

where i come fromm... its a whole different story............... Maybe you're talking from a cool/Rich neighbourhood point of view

eminentme:
the bottom line is, Nigerians girls HATE the truth. you bcom a fool if u decide to be nice and sincere. well as for me, I will never in my life,tell an aorta of truth to any Nigerian girl cos they love lies,its embedded in their DNA. they deserve to be treated like dogs that they are.

So you decided to be bad because of the "dogs" you despise so much?

Why would bad eggs determine the way you are? I don't understand.

wierdpsycho:

where i come fromm... its a whole different story............... Maybe you're talking from a cool/Rich neighbourhood point of view

Well, if you talk about 'ghetto chicks' then you are probably right.
It is part of their psychological make up, I guess. Ghetto chicks are often from homes where daddy was a bad guy himself and treated mummy in a certain way. This is how these girls grew up and this is their image of what a man should be like, how a woman is normally treated and this is what they consequently look out for in a man.

Only very few girls succeed to escape this circle, the very intelligent ones who know how to reflect and who are strong enough to break this cycle.

However, there are millions of girls out there who have no (unresolved) daddy issues and who are able to have healthy relationships with men who treat them right.

carefreewannabe:


Well, if you talk about ghetto chicks then you are probably right.
It is part of their psychological make up, I guess. Ghetto chicks are often from homes where daddy was a bad guy himself and treated mummy in a certain way. This is how these girls grew up and this is their image of what a man should be like, how a woman is normally treated and this is what they consequently look out for in a man.

Only very few girls succeed to escape this circle, the very intelligent ones who know how to reflect and who are strong enough to break this cycle.

However, there are millions of girls out there who have no (unresolved) daddy issues and who are able to have healthy relationships with men who treat them right.

Graçias señorita......... maybe i need to interact with real girls more

wierdpsycho:

Graçias señorita......... maybe i need to interact with real girls more

De nada

There are good girls out there, I am very sure and I wish for you to find a nice girl to have a healthy relationship full of love, friendship, support, trust, support and understanding and of course fun

My last piece of advice for you, a good relationship is balanced, pay enough attention but don't suffocate your girlfriend, give but don't forget to take, be forgiving but don't accept everything. Set healthy boundaries. Make sure you know what you want and go for it. You deserve it.

carefreewannabe:


So you decided to be bad because of the "dogs" you despise so much?

Why would bad eggs determine the way you are? I don't understand.

d 'bad eggs' seem to be prevalent everywhere.