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Re: Our Pastor Sided Him For "Punishing Me After Marriage" by balash(m): 5:20pm On Dec 08, 2014 |
50/50 Madness from the both of them.. 1 Like |
Re: Our Pastor Sided Him For "Punishing Me After Marriage" by Next2Bezee(m): 5:21pm On Dec 08, 2014 |
Chrisx1x: As in ehnn, e get as this toryyy be o ![]() I don't think there are any rich guys that are as patient as this sef, they would have thrown her a$$ out straight and collected back their bride price. ![]() If the story is even true then it would seem like the girl did the right thing by abstaining from sex till marriage but the truth is that she has no sex appeal or interest in sex at all ![]() Nna this thing tire me, both of them na bonafide mumu abeg. ![]() ![]() 1 Like |
Re: Our Pastor Sided Him For "Punishing Me After Marriage" by balash(m): 5:21pm On Dec 08, 2014 |
The both of them are to be blamed, its not like the dude is that bad a guy but i guess his peer groups of weird friends advised him to forcefully have sex with her on the platform that she is already his wife. The lady in question is just those lady that dont really have zeal for sex! everyone must not be sex slave some people dont just see it as something great but she just married a guy with high hormones for sex, this dude can change into a more loving husband if advised and couselled well but i doubt he wont cheat even when he changes. the lady in question just married someone opposite and sincerely if she cant succumb to sit this dude down and tell him why she hated this or that! it might even be that the dude in question have large tools and its painful to her but she can sit him down they talk about what she love or not but i sincerely feel this lady is also a weird lady. Who goes in a 3yrs relationship with a dude who dont have sex with you and u wont know his likes and dislike or have a way to tame him when he is going astray in some weird issues! maybe she never loved him truly and she was just advised to get married probbably cox the dude is rich or thereabout, bbut sincerely something is still going inbetween them? why have sex issues in less than days after marriage? who does that?? divorce is not the first solution because no guy would marry someone who brokeup after 1month of marriage on the instance that he forcefully have sex with her! first and foremost do u love this man ![]() ![]() 2 Likes |
Re: Our Pastor Sided Him For "Punishing Me After Marriage" by sarutobie(m): 5:22pm On Dec 08, 2014 |
frosbel:woman champion did you read the op first story? she admitted to conniving with her friends to spend the man's money on frivolities, the man abstained from having sex with her for THREE years...he still went ahead to marry her..and on the wedding night she refuses his advance? dude shut da Bleep up! even though the husband is not here to tell his own side of the story, the OP's own version has a lot of holes and fingers that point right back at her already. 7 Likes |
Re: Our Pastor Sided Him For "Punishing Me After Marriage" by cjeriia: 5:22pm On Dec 08, 2014 |
pweetixandy:mumu..!! C spiteful advice. I sure say u don old 4 ya papa house. 1 Like |
Re: Our Pastor Sided Him For "Punishing Me After Marriage" by stagger: 5:22pm On Dec 08, 2014 |
Igholize: Bastard. satan pepper that your mouth. Maybe that was how your dad raped your mum and conceived you. We are talking of a very serious matter here and you are talking this idiotic garbage. What do you want to do with the pictures? Feed your depraved mind with more filth, abi? ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() 2 Likes |
Re: Our Pastor Sided Him For "Punishing Me After Marriage" by yemmy98: 5:23pm On Dec 08, 2014 |
This is one of the reasons i think divorce was invented. From what you've said so far, i perceive you're a career woman, hence you don't need to build your life around a man talk less of a sexually abusive man. You should overlook the fact that the marriage is recent and just end it now while you can. Old habits are difficult to stop if not impossible in a number of cases. The fact that he has started it early in your marriage now and you're giving in because let's face it, you can hardly defend yourself, is a pointer that this would continue for a while. At the end of the day you'll resent men and may slip into depression because of the fear of what your "husband" will do to you. My dear this is the 21st century not some medieval era, get a lawyer and get a divorce forget counselling or any of those sh*t. I am a man, and the thought of men maltreating women sickens me... I didn't have the guts to even finish reading your story this time after reading the last one. Get out of the marriage and don't look back. There's lots of love in this world 4 Likes |
Re: Our Pastor Sided Him For "Punishing Me After Marriage" by treasuress: 5:23pm On Dec 08, 2014 |
stagger:define rape |
Re: Our Pastor Sided Him For "Punishing Me After Marriage" by Nobody: 5:23pm On Dec 08, 2014 |
I stated it in the former thread that the wife is the problem they are facing. I wont type much sha, but Madam, learn to advance in your mentality in issues of marriage. Saying "your husband rapes you" sounds ridiculous. He's only taking charge of what rightly belongs to him. As far as i am concerned, he never raped you. He only had sex with you as his wife. Simple! Change your mentality/orientation and you'll see you'll begin to enjoy your marriage. Give him that pusssy you've kept away from him for over 3yrs as much as he wants. E no dey easy to be starved of pusssy for that long and then opportunity comes, if na me sef, na devour i for devour d pusssy. Lol. 14 Likes |
Re: Our Pastor Sided Him For "Punishing Me After Marriage" by thorbar(m): 5:23pm On Dec 08, 2014 |
If a girl play hard 2 gt i lose interest asap But my cousin told if a girl play hard 2 gt..he ll endure till she done,n d moment he gain ground,she ll regret playin hard 2 gt...dat husband is sm1 lyk my cousin...its a free world anyway.. 2 Likes |
Re: Our Pastor Sided Him For "Punishing Me After Marriage" by Readonee35L(m): 5:23pm On Dec 08, 2014 |
andromida:but you are judging from one corner now why should she deny her husband of sex after 3 years of waiting it sounds more like she doesn't love him or she married him for another reason that girl is not even romantic 4 Likes |
Re: Our Pastor Sided Him For "Punishing Me After Marriage" by Nobody: 5:23pm On Dec 08, 2014 |
Hian!! Talk about beauty and d beast!.... if ur story is true (which i doubt) ur husband needs him some Jesus and prozac! Wat kind of a man punishes his wife with intimacy?!! If na me.....rat poison plenty for my area, na to form good wife, lace his wine and watch him die!!! #abegshiftmakebreezeblow |
Re: Our Pastor Sided Him For "Punishing Me After Marriage" by eedrees(m): 5:24pm On Dec 08, 2014 |
Story for the gods |
Re: Our Pastor Sided Him For "Punishing Me After Marriage" by Nobody: 5:24pm On Dec 08, 2014 |
ojeffo: How many times have we come across stories in Vanguard where women take their husband to court over this kind of issues, especially in Lagos a.k.a Gotham City. These things r happening everyday and this story whether true or false is a fracture of what is happening everyday, things women are going through in so called Marriage. 2 Likes |
Re: Our Pastor Sided Him For "Punishing Me After Marriage" by Nobody: 5:24pm On Dec 08, 2014 |
Op is prolly a lesbian. I once had a boring gf like that. She said kissing and sex irritates her. WTF! I dumbed her silly bottom at the speed of light. Your marriage is very boring, hence, your husband misbehavior. Your husband saw this coming and still go ahead to marry you. Gosh! The guy tolerated you all this while and instead of you to spice things up after your marriage and you were behaving as if its a sin to have s** with your hubby. It is your type that will tell their husband they should pray and ask for forgiveness for the s** they are about to have. Not to late to become a nun, sister....you hear. I can't even stand a boring gf not to talk of marrying her. mtcheew 4 Likes |
Re: Our Pastor Sided Him For "Punishing Me After Marriage" by drkay002: 5:25pm On Dec 08, 2014 |
Re: Our Pastor Sided Him For "Punishing Me After Marriage" by Nobody: 5:26pm On Dec 08, 2014 |
Tah! Lie lie ![]() |
Re: Our Pastor Sided Him For "Punishing Me After Marriage" by Rilwayne001: 5:26pm On Dec 08, 2014 |
[size=15pt] Nonsense thread [/size] ![]() |
Re: Our Pastor Sided Him For "Punishing Me After Marriage" by Funjosh(m): 5:26pm On Dec 08, 2014 |
I like this movie. |
Re: Our Pastor Sided Him For "Punishing Me After Marriage" by Ninilowo(m): 5:26pm On Dec 08, 2014 |
edmasta01:Fowowe Praise you say? No no and CAPITAL NO. The guy will complicate already complicated matter ni. In a case like dis, Mr and Mrs S. Y. Osewa are the best. They are good marriage counselors. |
Re: Our Pastor Sided Him For "Punishing Me After Marriage" by cococandy(f): 5:26pm On Dec 08, 2014 |
[b] he came back and raped me again till i agree i will go. So i dressed up and just ran into my own car, took off..... This guy is a special breed of psycho 2 Likes |
Re: Our Pastor Sided Him For "Punishing Me After Marriage" by Nobody: 5:27pm On Dec 08, 2014 |
I will comment when the story gets to part 3 |
Re: Our Pastor Sided Him For "Punishing Me After Marriage" by Nobody: 5:27pm On Dec 08, 2014 |
RedBenson:Mr.....u wicked o! Just because she wanted to keep her virginity......she shud die from kitten OVERWORK?! I av one word for u and Op's hubby......EVIL!!!! 4 Likes |
Re: Our Pastor Sided Him For "Punishing Me After Marriage" by 3coins(m): 5:27pm On Dec 08, 2014 |
Andy..is that you? |
Re: Our Pastor Sided Him For "Punishing Me After Marriage" by BuddhaPalm(m): 5:28pm On Dec 08, 2014 |
My Spidey-sense is tingling... This is a fake story. Writer is practicing. |
Re: Our Pastor Sided Him For "Punishing Me After Marriage" by treasuress: 5:28pm On Dec 08, 2014 |
upon all your acient behaviour the nigga still invested his money to buy you a car, and you have never bathe with your husband once ![]() ![]() 8 Likes |
Re: Our Pastor Sided Him For "Punishing Me After Marriage" by okiezman(m): 5:29pm On Dec 08, 2014 |
dechandel: He shouted i should let us go, and i refused. He came back and raped me again till i agree i will go. So i dressed up and just ran into my own car, took off. How can you believe this fake story? ![]() ![]() ![]() So he got to church and the pastor and wife ask him about me, he said i must be inside. The pastor sensed something. did you say she must be inside? Did you two not come together bla bla bla. After serious enquiries he opened up that we had an issue in the morning. Your at home and you know what the pastor asked him baa? 7 Likes |
Re: Our Pastor Sided Him For "Punishing Me After Marriage" by cjeriia: 5:30pm On Dec 08, 2014 |
Chaiii..!!!! @ OP, U can lie oooooo. 1 Like |
Re: Our Pastor Sided Him For "Punishing Me After Marriage" by arvinsloane(m): 5:30pm On Dec 08, 2014 |
aitop:Believing this story means you could believe anything. Oga Jona is from france.please believe me |
Re: Our Pastor Sided Him For "Punishing Me After Marriage" by sarutobie(m): 5:31pm On Dec 08, 2014 |
MsPat:Mrs....you wicked o! kitten OVERWORK even on her wedding night? after three years of abstinence between her and the husband? even your mama no go support you for this one.. 2 Likes |
Re: Our Pastor Sided Him For "Punishing Me After Marriage" by Eyop: 5:32pm On Dec 08, 2014 |
Ishilove: So Ishilove what do you advise her? If na you,will you stay and endure all the jabulani nonsense ![]() |
Re: Our Pastor Sided Him For "Punishing Me After Marriage" by Nobody: 5:32pm On Dec 08, 2014 |
Readonee35L: Romantic? he is inconsiderate of her feelings how can she be romantic? did he have to marry her? She is not denying him sex, he is raping her anytime she says no. I don't understand he is acting so cruel to his wife and its just one week i can't wrap my mind around this even if she acted pompous when they were dating he had a choice to leave why wait for three years just to rape your wife. Is he a psychopath, a sociopath? What a wicked man! 2 Likes |
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