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Re: Our Pastor Sided Him For "Punishing Me After Marriage" by Louislewis: 5:55pm On Dec 08, 2014 |
The problem is with you. Please you should know that, one of the reasons why majority of the ladies are yearning to have a matrimony home is the pleasure in sex. When you have that in mind, you will get yourself prepared for the act. The problem you are having is, you refuse to change your orientation about sex. That orientation of what sex is when you were single is still guarding your metality till now. The early you release that you are now married and change your orientation to face the fact, the better for you. Try in as much as you can to key in into the act of love making and the pleasure associated with it. This will help you out of your shell, enhance the preparedness of all your organs that is associated with love making. Cooperate with your husband as he makes some advances that will lure you into having sex with your full mind. Then, this will set your organs ready for pleasurable love making with less or without pain. In alternative, if his manhood is so big, advice him on vaseline gel lubrication on his manhood before the act, though, sometime it is difficult to see oversize manhood at your age (26) no matter how big a man's manhood is when compared with women vagina. Thank You! 4 Likes |
Re: Our Pastor Sided Him For "Punishing Me After Marriage" by kullozone(m): 5:55pm On Dec 08, 2014 |
you should analyse her story very well before shouting divorce... 1 Like |
Re: Our Pastor Sided Him For "Punishing Me After Marriage" by hungryboy(m): 5:56pm On Dec 08, 2014 |
RedBenson:oh boy shut up, i'm very sure that from her description of the man, the man won't be able to stay for 3yrs without having sex, dude was probably visiting brothels for his sex sessions and was waiting to pounce on this virgin pucci, he knew that his ticket to this virgin pucci's penetration was marriage, dude finally got his ticket, i know say ashawo boys like u go dey hail am say him be champion but the man is a maniac. If he tried this in a western country with a white woman, na 21yrs we for dey talk about now 7 Likes |
Re: Our Pastor Sided Him For "Punishing Me After Marriage" by OpraMenu(m): 5:56pm On Dec 08, 2014 |
WAIT LET ME ASK YOU DIS, HU R U DAT UR HUSBAND HAS TO BEG U FOR SEX? SO U WANT TO BE MARRIED AND REMAIN A VIRGIN? Y DIDNT U GO AND BECOM A NUN? MY NL PPL CAN YOU IMAGINE? SO IF UR HUSBAND COMES HOME SAD, YOU CAN'T EVEN CHEER HIM UP. U BE BAD MARKET. U BETA CHANGE . FOR ME I WON'T SUGEST DIVORCE. STOP THINKING OF DIVORCE COS IF U DIVORCE HIM, U WIL STIL DIVORCE UR NXT HUSBAND. 3 Likes |
Re: Our Pastor Sided Him For "Punishing Me After Marriage" by onihaxy: 5:57pm On Dec 08, 2014 |
Some comments here are just so funny. So many imbeciles advising her to divorce a wedding not up to a week?. Some lunatics are even advising her to kill the husband?. SMH. Why not teach her how to please her husband sexually?. This young man had endured a "no sex" relationship which I knew 99.9% of guys cannot accept, this same guy paid for bride price and ceremony? And you all expect the same guy to be begging his legally married wife for sex?. Is she not supposed to do her homework properly throughout the 3 years?. Why must she be covering herself?, sleeping with her back facing her husband? And even refusing to bath with her husband whom she is legally married to?. Common. That young man deserves a good sex for all his years of patience and endurance. Seriously, some people's brain needed electrocution. SMH 9 Likes |
Re: Our Pastor Sided Him For "Punishing Me After Marriage" by emiye(m): 5:58pm On Dec 08, 2014 |
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Re: Our Pastor Sided Him For "Punishing Me After Marriage" by PAGAN9JA(m): 5:59pm On Dec 08, 2014 |
[size=58pt]Death to christianity[/size]! 1 Like |
Re: Our Pastor Sided Him For "Punishing Me After Marriage" by Nobody: 5:59pm On Dec 08, 2014 |
From the stables of Wale Adenuga's Production 1 Like |
Re: Our Pastor Sided Him For "Punishing Me After Marriage" by sunnyflakes(m): 5:59pm On Dec 08, 2014 |
BOTH OF U VE DIFFERENT SEXUAL DRIVE. U GUYS RE NOT MATCH 4 EACH OTHER SEXUALLY. JUST KEEP UP WITH HIS PACE U WILL SOON B LIKE HIM 1 Like |
Re: Our Pastor Sided Him For "Punishing Me After Marriage" by geeudy(f): 6:00pm On Dec 08, 2014 |
[b][/b][center][/center] [/left][right][/right][left] blesie:pls don't listen to d advise some foolish pple put up here, they are not here to help you, they want to destroy ur marriage. I'm in d same plight, but tank God my man has a change of hrt now. U can call me for further details 08052314536 |
Re: Our Pastor Sided Him For "Punishing Me After Marriage" by gabicon: 6:00pm On Dec 08, 2014 |
There are three sides to every your side his side and the right side. First of all your pastor was surpose to counsel you both seperatly to get both sides and then jointly to give the right side I guess time did not permit him to do that. I think you should pray concerning this issue, for you both to marry you must have love for each other and love worketh no I'll against his brother not to talk of his own flesh, you both are making huge withdrawals from your love bank accounts and the reverse should be the case, you both have to rekindle your love for each other and make your marriage work. 1 Like |
Re: Our Pastor Sided Him For "Punishing Me After Marriage" by Readonee35L(m): 6:01pm On Dec 08, 2014 |
andromida: Andromida come to think of it, goto the first thread on her first post on there wedding night he demanded for a hot bath, which she denied him , can you just imagine ,shes suppose to be excited and happy, about the wedding but she's doing like she hates him or something you understand, he has been waiting for 3years From her story she hasn't even given him sex willingly ,more of like its a one sided thing needed by the guy only but its not meant to be so. that lady is not romantic, or she hates the guy or she dislikes sex completely ![]() ![]() S 2 Likes |
Re: Our Pastor Sided Him For "Punishing Me After Marriage" by kernel504(m): 6:02pm On Dec 08, 2014 |
pweetixandy: Look, even if you are a virgin , one knows if he\she is an emotional person or not. You cant starve a guy for three years, and after that you start giving him stories. Am not supporting the guy, but am saying her uncalculated crafts are producing negative effects. |
Re: Our Pastor Sided Him For "Punishing Me After Marriage" by Wallade(m): 6:02pm On Dec 08, 2014 |
If this story is true, these are my position: The man's concept of marriage is flawed - he is treating her like an asset he acquired, to the extent that he would rape her. How do you see such sex where the man is trilled & satisfied while the woman is sad, battered and wounded. Who enjoys such sex? The man being a lawyer is a trained liar. He probably used that to bail himself at the court of Mr & Mrs pastor. God dey oh! The man should forget the initial sakara she did for three years, it is part of the game and he might have had it hard but he needs to imbibe the spirit of forgiveness so that he can save his marriage. The man should try to understand his wife, give her opportunity to make up for the ish over the years, tolerate her and help her become a better woman. Rape is definitely not a show of love. The Lady might not be telling the whole truth but I have a lot of reasons to believe her side of the story, if true. She should involve her parents and his parents in the matter, the Pastor isn't helping matters. 2 Likes |
Re: Our Pastor Sided Him For "Punishing Me After Marriage" by jorlons(m): 6:05pm On Dec 08, 2014 |
one question OP are u intending to become a writer because if u are u'd better start looking elsewhere because writing is definitely not for you plus this story is dogsh8t didn't need to read much before i knew. 1 Like |
Re: Our Pastor Sided Him For "Punishing Me After Marriage" by dozieben2(m): 6:06pm On Dec 08, 2014 |
nice fiction... pilot test for your nollywood script |
Re: Our Pastor Sided Him For "Punishing Me After Marriage" by UjSizzle(f): 6:06pm On Dec 08, 2014 |
sunnyflakes:You don't think he should slow down his pace? ![]() If she's supposed to be catching up to him, then he's expected to slow down first and then carry her along. Abi sex na marathon? |
Re: Our Pastor Sided Him For "Punishing Me After Marriage" by Nobody: 6:07pm On Dec 08, 2014 |
pweetixandy: A monster that can be tamed with some good loving. You sound like a white gal ![]() |
Re: Our Pastor Sided Him For "Punishing Me After Marriage" by Nobody: 6:07pm On Dec 08, 2014 |
sarutobie:Nwanem dont quote me wrong, i never said she shudnt give him any.....but dat kind of punishment is extreme na. A nu ma like umuwoke like him! |
Re: Our Pastor Sided Him For "Punishing Me After Marriage" by Rilwayne001: 6:08pm On Dec 08, 2014 |
onihaxy: GBAM Indeed some people on this thread are ret.arded goons, infact i got infuriated by some comments here 3 Likes |
Re: Our Pastor Sided Him For "Punishing Me After Marriage" by snthesis(m): 6:08pm On Dec 08, 2014 |
Ggg |
Re: Our Pastor Sided Him For "Punishing Me After Marriage" by sarutobie(m): 6:08pm On Dec 08, 2014 |
onihaxy:THIS! |
Re: Our Pastor Sided Him For "Punishing Me After Marriage" by kernel504(m): 6:08pm On Dec 08, 2014 |
andromida: I lost my virginity @ 27, even while l was a virgin, l was sure l love Bleep. Even the woman l want to marry now, told me she's a virgin, since l've not had Bleep with her l wouldnt know, but l believe her. Look, l was quick to tell her this, '' l love xx much, so if you are not that type back-off, cos am not ready to play games. |
Re: Our Pastor Sided Him For "Punishing Me After Marriage" by harmlessphil(f): 6:09pm On Dec 08, 2014 |
Nawa oh,madam this your story get as e bi oh, anyway my advice is tat if you can't tolerate his sexual appetite pack your bag and run fast before you die. because anywhere you go complain na d same story wey your pastor talk na hin u go still hear, so dear na you Knw where e dey pain you no need complaining here pple will always be pple not many will come to your rescue na only you can rescue urself, but as for me oh its depends on how rough d guy does it u Knw some men like it rough and some women likes it rough too if u feel its too rough for you and its hurt your private I advice u to pack plenty lubricant put so d ting go just dey enter smoothly and without stress, and again its ur mind set you ve already set your mind tat ur husband is a beast if only you can channel tat mind set to accommodating him and trying to enjoy his sex you would gradually like d roughness sumting. 1 Like |
Re: Our Pastor Sided Him For "Punishing Me After Marriage" by Nobody: 6:09pm On Dec 08, 2014 |
Readonee35L: Possibly she has issues as well BUT he is her husband why that level of violence she was crying after the act and he just kept demanding for more what kind of man is that? Didn't i read "he said he was giving her hot sex" this man is not in tune with her feelings he can't be a good husband to her. About the hot bath maybe she was shy some gentle treatment would have yielded results he just jumped from no hot bath to raping her. 1 Like |
Re: Our Pastor Sided Him For "Punishing Me After Marriage" by Atk1nson(m): 6:09pm On Dec 08, 2014 |
blesie:without hearing from ur husband it may be difficult to tell his fault, but from ur own admission, It is pretty clear you did not really love him and so basic things like bathing with ur husband and being romantic is difficult. He may have his faults, but after dating for 3 years and going through rigours of marriage, having a wife that considers his sexual advances as rape is a big disappointment. Even if he is bruttish, it's up to you to make him a gentleman. I suggest u work things out with between urselfs, else he will still likely cheat on you when he is tired of fighting for sex everytime 3 Likes |
Re: Our Pastor Sided Him For "Punishing Me After Marriage" by Nobody: 6:09pm On Dec 08, 2014 |
You people are viewing it from the point of the huusband alone, let him come and narrate his own ordeal too. I partly blame the wife, as a virgin your wedding night should be d best nigght yet u turned it into something else cause of ur stubborness, u refused to bath with ur husband, u lied on bed like a log of wood, to kiss him na wahala, to suck dick self u no fit do! He has been faithful for 3ryears he doesn't deserve to be sex starved. If u had given him peacefully u wwunt be here complaning. A man dat bought u a car few days after wedding. He loves u, sex is only d problem, try to blend ehn. If you divorce him and starve ur next husband of sex na divorce go end am again. Improve ur sex life! Shikena 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Our Pastor Sided Him For "Punishing Me After Marriage" by Rilwayne001: 6:09pm On Dec 08, 2014 |
Even though the man should'nt have make it by force, but 70% of the blame is on that wife ![]() 3 Likes |
Re: Our Pastor Sided Him For "Punishing Me After Marriage" by pweetixandy: 6:10pm On Dec 08, 2014 |
Stelvin101:i m a nigerian jor..u like white girls? I can be white for u ![]() |
Re: Our Pastor Sided Him For "Punishing Me After Marriage" by jahbiz: 6:12pm On Dec 08, 2014 |
This kind of story will only touch the heart of weak men cos I know it's a ''make up'' tory. |
Re: Our Pastor Sided Him For "Punishing Me After Marriage" by baybiemee: 6:12pm On Dec 08, 2014 |
For goodness sake that man is sick. He said he has sex when he is angry in other to calm down, who does that. And he almost made you fainted like twice. ![]() 2 Likes |
Re: Our Pastor Sided Him For "Punishing Me After Marriage" by streetzdreamz(m): 6:12pm On Dec 08, 2014 |
Some ladies are just so f*cking annoying and outrightly silly!!!!goddamn dia sorry bottom to hell anyways!!,@op ur hubby needs love and affection nt just sex,he's only punishing u for ur short comings in dose two areas,ion see how ur hubby's gonna rape u if u d one leading him to d bedroom,ion see how he's gonna scream @ u wen u lavish him with kisses any chance u get,give him hugs,hold him tight show him u need him,lay on his chest,play around d house with him,stop being so rigid n annoying around him,make dis changes and enjoy ur relationship,and if u can't adapt to d new environment u find ursef in,or if he aint ready to change from his beastly behaviour den divorce his sorry ass!!marriage aint a must for petes sake,and please u nid to quit telling us dis tales u only tryna earn some cheap pity from d public,u aint here to learn or stick to d advice folks r giving u here,cuz if u r,u should have given us a diff story today bout d changes u made from d advice given last week,n his lack of change in attitude,peace! |
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