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Re: Our Pastor Sided Him For "Punishing Me After Marriage" by Nobody: 9:03pm On Dec 08, 2014 |
Pyrrho: Fallacy!!! Men like you who make noise are usually scored very low. Its surprising to u men to see ur wives cheat because of this. men who are too concerned about women satisfying them are very poor, e.g, the Op's hubby. |
Re: Our Pastor Sided Him For "Punishing Me After Marriage" by Nobody: 9:03pm On Dec 08, 2014 |
Sophyrocks: ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() well its you that sabi |
Re: Our Pastor Sided Him For "Punishing Me After Marriage" by Wisegeek01(m): 9:05pm On Dec 08, 2014 |
blesie The truth is that you are not compatible with your hubby, but you ought to have known all these during your dating years . .. |
Re: Our Pastor Sided Him For "Punishing Me After Marriage" by Nobody: 9:05pm On Dec 08, 2014 |
This is just so sad, I pray the op gets out of this situation fast or her husband should be more gentle and patient on her. |
Re: Our Pastor Sided Him For "Punishing Me After Marriage" by phabulous88(m): 9:07pm On Dec 08, 2014 |
Sophyrocks: Girls sha! Nne it's not like that o! The way you guys are proposing divorce... it doesn't work like that. Little wonder the high number of divorce rates in the country. She should cool down and enjoy se.x with her husband, not being stubborn. |
Re: Our Pastor Sided Him For "Punishing Me After Marriage" by Nobody: 9:08pm On Dec 08, 2014 |
donnypool: It isnt only females that are to work on their marriages. Men should too. Marriage is two way street. Two hands have to wash each other well. The hubby should change his mindset, go for counselling and make his marriage work too. It doesnt pay to be a beast. The man isnt enjoying his marriage still. 1 Like |
Re: Our Pastor Sided Him For "Punishing Me After Marriage" by Tholuwaniey(m): 9:08pm On Dec 08, 2014 |
Sophyrocks:. I'm a perfect gentleman!! |
Re: Our Pastor Sided Him For "Punishing Me After Marriage" by Nobody: 9:08pm On Dec 08, 2014 |
Sophyrocks:I'm beginning to like you. We are getting to a resolution finally. How else do we end this argument? ![]() |
Re: Our Pastor Sided Him For "Punishing Me After Marriage" by Wisegeek01(m): 9:09pm On Dec 08, 2014 |
blesie In a way you brought this upon yourself. .. Because your hubby probably got the wrong impression that you'd be an Amazon in Bed* Sadly you can't starve the guy o oo* you got to give him what he wants, the way he wants it" 1 Like |
Re: Our Pastor Sided Him For "Punishing Me After Marriage" by Nobody: 9:11pm On Dec 08, 2014 |
phabulous88: It is like that o. Marriage involves two people working it out not one!! Being a beast doesnt pay. You mustnt rape your wife to prove a point. Unless you are a beast or demon. 1 Like |
Re: Our Pastor Sided Him For "Punishing Me After Marriage" by Nobody: 9:11pm On Dec 08, 2014 |
Sophyrocks: would you mind if i pm you ![]() |
Re: Our Pastor Sided Him For "Punishing Me After Marriage" by Wisegeek01(m): 9:14pm On Dec 08, 2014 |
blesie I'm Not tryn to lay blames on you tho* but you got to work it out with him now that you are married, don't try to deny him what he wants, Because you'd piss him off the more, don't even think of Divorce because it's not an option, Sit and talk with him, tell him what you want and let him say his, He said you used to be fierce, now is the time, look him in the eye, crying won't solve any problem" Take charge" WORK It OUT !!! |
Re: Our Pastor Sided Him For "Punishing Me After Marriage" by Nobody: 9:14pm On Dec 08, 2014 |
Tholuwaniey: No you are not. Out of the abundance of the heart, the mouth speaks. 1 Like |
Re: Our Pastor Sided Him For "Punishing Me After Marriage" by yinkeys(m): 9:15pm On Dec 08, 2014 |
@blesie I just want to ask you a question before I chose to support you on this case. Please be sincere. Where you sleeping with someone else while you guys dated for 3 years |
Re: Our Pastor Sided Him For "Punishing Me After Marriage" by Nobody: 9:16pm On Dec 08, 2014 |
Sophyrocks:I like your eyes, they tell a lot. Now I'm not willing to argue anymore. |
Re: Our Pastor Sided Him For "Punishing Me After Marriage" by opcon(f): 9:19pm On Dec 08, 2014 |
Lumpyy: I told her samething in her last post. Take charge. Treat him to a romantic dinner for God's sake from what she has been saying she has never done that. Then you guys should make love. Tell him to go slow on u, make u enjoy it. Ahh, no passionate kisses, no sexy lure, noting. And when he seeks outside, what is ur defense. Stop complaining and take charge! 1 Like |
Re: Our Pastor Sided Him For "Punishing Me After Marriage" by phabulous88(m): 9:21pm On Dec 08, 2014 |
Sophyrocks: Why'd she marry him if she wasn't gonna have se.x with him? 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Our Pastor Sided Him For "Punishing Me After Marriage" by Nobody: 9:23pm On Dec 08, 2014 |
donnypool:I smell something in the offing... Hmmmmmm! Carry on bro! |
Re: Our Pastor Sided Him For "Punishing Me After Marriage" by Nobody: 9:25pm On Dec 08, 2014 |
phabulous88: Its the way he handles her. He married her with the wrong mindset: to punish her!! Have you forgotten? HE RAPES HER. HE STARTED RAPING HER FROM THEiR HONEYMOON. she was even fantasizing how the s.ex would be like, meaning she was looking forward to it not knowing he was going to rape her. Read her earlier thread again. you check it. Is it right to rape her? Making love with your wife with the right mindset and raping your wife are two different things. 1 Like |
Re: Our Pastor Sided Him For "Punishing Me After Marriage" by Nobody: 9:25pm On Dec 08, 2014 |
Re: Our Pastor Sided Him For "Punishing Me After Marriage" by Nobody: 9:26pm On Dec 08, 2014 |
2muchopoTBdope: how u no say I be guy |
Re: Our Pastor Sided Him For "Punishing Me After Marriage" by Nobody: 9:30pm On Dec 08, 2014 |
Lol... Naaaaaah! You lie my dear. donnypool: |
Re: Our Pastor Sided Him For "Punishing Me After Marriage" by simdam500(m): 9:32pm On Dec 08, 2014 |
a normal girl that is promised a car will date the guy , while a girl that is promised a marriage will solemnly spread her legs wide without hesitation. what happened to u the married woman ![]() |
Re: Our Pastor Sided Him For "Punishing Me After Marriage" by Nobody: 9:32pm On Dec 08, 2014 |
Re: Our Pastor Sided Him For "Punishing Me After Marriage" by Nobody: 9:34pm On Dec 08, 2014 |
pweetixandy: hmm....making sense......bt neva advice a wife to divorce her man.....no be u she go marry my sister |
Re: Our Pastor Sided Him For "Punishing Me After Marriage" by Nobody: 9:35pm On Dec 08, 2014 |
donnypool:you didn't have to... |
Re: Our Pastor Sided Him For "Punishing Me After Marriage" by Nobody: 9:36pm On Dec 08, 2014 |
onihaxy:May God bless you with more wisdom! You are more than sensible and real! Stories like this are the reason(s) men develop more dislike for women; and seeing most females here support this psycho woman makes it more scary! I thank God for nairaland and other social medial platforms exposing things like this, I am learning a lot. To those thinking this story is fake, u better believe it and learn. I keep wondering why women are so selfish in everything, jeez! 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Our Pastor Sided Him For "Punishing Me After Marriage" by Nobody: 9:37pm On Dec 08, 2014 |
Re: Our Pastor Sided Him For "Punishing Me After Marriage" by ocelot2006(m): 9:40pm On Dec 08, 2014 |
@ OP, I'm sorry you were raped by your husband. It was a very wrong approach. BUT in all honesty, if what he said was true and he went through all that, then I understand his frustration. You have a lot to learn or you'll end up with a husband that sleeps outside since you cannot satisfy him sexually. You are no longer a kid. If I were in your husband's shoes, I probably would've walked out on the marriage. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Our Pastor Sided Him For "Punishing Me After Marriage" by simdam500(m): 9:40pm On Dec 08, 2014 |
yinkeys : she's a virgin got dis virgin ed by him |
Re: Our Pastor Sided Him For "Punishing Me After Marriage" by Usminous: 9:42pm On Dec 08, 2014 |
AKMoney1:my brother he go better for you.........nice contribution |
Re: Our Pastor Sided Him For "Punishing Me After Marriage" by Nobody: 9:43pm On Dec 08, 2014 |
onihaxy: guy GOD WILL ENRICH DIS UR WISDOM 2 Likes |
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