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Re: Our Pastor Sided Him For "Punishing Me After Marriage" by ololo12: 10:53pm On Dec 08, 2014
I'm wondering how is it possible for a man to rape his wife?
Re: Our Pastor Sided Him For "Punishing Me After Marriage" by tintingz(m): 10:53pm On Dec 08, 2014
Sophyrocks:


Let him teach her. Simple!! men who have done that with their wives didnt die. The man no sabi do. shikena.
Do you know if the man has been trying to teach her??

In the story, the man asked the wife to bath him in the bathroom can't you see he's trying to start a romantic move but she declined.

A woman that loves her hubby will jump in the bathroom and start the bathing thing.
Re: Our Pastor Sided Him For "Punishing Me After Marriage" by Nobody: 10:54pm On Dec 08, 2014
Sophyrocks:


virgin indeed. i'm not angry. that statement you made is the typical mentality of a rapist. change your mentality. we are not animals. Men who are not patient enof to seduce their wives to bed are very poor in bedmatics. dnt use that excuse to rape a woman.
seriously......i dnt knw u ......am really liking u......tanx alot......bt plzzz no vex o.....are u a english teacher
Re: Our Pastor Sided Him For "Punishing Me After Marriage" by mystique18(m): 11:03pm On Dec 08, 2014
pweetixandy:
Hmmm..u and ur "husband" are not just compatible sexually. Ur not even romantic sef. What happend that morning would not have happend if u had just kissed him passionately and told him to wait until after service and u'll make him forget his name.instead u were doing like wood. Better divorce his silly behind and move on to the next phase of ur life cos as it is,100yrs of therapy will not help. U are not sensual and he is not patient. Hez a beast who shld be left alone,since u dnt know how to tame this beast. And u two dnt even have kids yet and u have a non existent sex life..incredible!
strong words wit contents....hitting d ryt points
Re: Our Pastor Sided Him For "Punishing Me After Marriage" by seangy4konji: 11:05pm On Dec 08, 2014
lies from the pit of hell....

rubbish.
Re: Our Pastor Sided Him For "Punishing Me After Marriage" by Nobody: 11:05pm On Dec 08, 2014
tintingz:
Do you know if the man has been trying to teach her??

In the story, the man asked the wife to bath him in the bathroom can't you see he's trying to start a romantic move but she declined.

A woman that loves her hubby will jump in the bathroom and start the bathing thing.

Jeeeeeeezzzzzzz at the bolded!!! commanding your wife to come and bath you is a romantic move? are you this unromantic to say so? OMG. No wonder you people are supporting the man here. Gadammit!!!! You all are sooooooooo unromantic!!! GOSH!!

This is what a romantic man will do;

Whisper into her ears sweet nothings, start kissing her, carry her up to the bathroom like a real man should, start undressing her slowly, prepare the shower or bath tub, make a foamy leather and start massaging her body slowly from neck to toe then whisper into her ears to do the same and it goes on and on and on. i dnt need to go into details. they could even start there and then continue in the bedroom. You better pay me for these tips.

Gosh. No wonder!!

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Re: Our Pastor Sided Him For "Punishing Me After Marriage" by Nobody: 11:07pm On Dec 08, 2014
dechandel:


I got your mail today and replied. Did you see it?
Re: Our Pastor Sided Him For "Punishing Me After Marriage" by xtervaganza(m): 11:07pm On Dec 08, 2014
Now you see why I said I don't wanna marry a virgin?




The dude really tried sef. She courted her for 3 years without sex? How's that even possible? Some guys get mind oooo



me wey my prick go don de hard d moment babe tell me on phone say she de come my place grin grin
Re: Our Pastor Sided Him For "Punishing Me After Marriage" by Nobody: 11:09pm On Dec 08, 2014
duduhemit36:

seriously......i dnt knw u ......am really liking u......tanx alot......bt plzzz no vex o.....are u a english teacher

I'm not angry. smiley smiley

I'm not an english teacher.
Re: Our Pastor Sided Him For "Punishing Me After Marriage" by mystique18(m): 11:10pm On Dec 08, 2014
cc: pwetixandy...both parties av dere issues bt 1 issue spanned 2 crazier issues...i can sense a hrt of love bt it got crazier coz of d past issues...nt a perfect match 4 eachoda just ok 4 eachoda...#LoveLevelApart
Re: Our Pastor Sided Him For "Punishing Me After Marriage" by TonYzeallY(m): 11:11pm On Dec 08, 2014
dechandel:
O Lord of mercy
You married a Dog
Better kill that man before he kills you

Seriously.. Get a divorce lipsrsealed
Wat's d bases of ur advice,biblical,Quaranic,Budish or id.iotic...i'm not saying d man resorting to rape is right...but..well,if say i no de France eeh
Re: Our Pastor Sided Him For "Punishing Me After Marriage" by Nobody: 11:15pm On Dec 08, 2014
Sophyrocks:


I'm not angry. smiley smiley

I'm not an english teacher.
xtervaganza:
Now you see why I said I don't wanna marry a virgin?
The dude really tried sef. She courted her for 3 years without sex? How's that even possible? Some guys get mind oooo
me wey my prick go don de hard d moment babe tell me on phone say she de come my place grin grin
Sophyrocks:


I'm not angry. smiley smiley

I'm not an english teacher.
ma guy i pray u dnt marry the one wey go ask u fo ten rounds in a day

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Re: Our Pastor Sided Him For "Punishing Me After Marriage" by decision01: 11:18pm On Dec 08, 2014
sunnydayasaba:
Lol....LWKMD.....The man thinks all Calabar girls are rogered in Bed, But he's so wrong....U both need to seek a gud sex therapist. Just look for away to put his libido in check, Cus i think he has a very strong sex appetite.....In as much as we knw sex before marriage is a sin, This are some of the reason some people think otherwise.


If only u both had it before marriage,that might have help u can ascertain if u can cope with his appetite. Just find away around it....Sorry for ur pains and let him knw not all Calabar babes are very rogered in BED.
bros my thought exactly..that means I will need to ask this calabar girl if she can dance kukere very well..am no rapist! @op don't really like the idea of sharing family affairs with pastors/rev. fathers..tolerance but no die in silence! quit if you can't take it..but are you sure you are from calabar? calabar babes no the fall hand..
Re: Our Pastor Sided Him For "Punishing Me After Marriage" by Nobody: 11:22pm On Dec 08, 2014
Sophyrocks:


I'm not angry. smiley smiley

I'm not an english teacher.

uve made ma day just to be honest.....making ma first smile in a whole day...tank u
Re: Our Pastor Sided Him For "Punishing Me After Marriage" by Nobody: 11:27pm On Dec 08, 2014
duduhemit36:


uve made ma day just to be honest.....making ma first smile in a whole day...tank u

Thats cool. if you say so. smiley

you are welcome.
Re: Our Pastor Sided Him For "Punishing Me After Marriage" by Readonee35L(m): 11:29pm On Dec 08, 2014
andromida:


I suspect its fake. But if by any chance its true the man is at fault he is an unkind and cruel person.


Agreed!!!
But the lady made him do all this .
for God's sake a man wont just turn to a beast for no reason
smiley smiley smiley
Re: Our Pastor Sided Him For "Punishing Me After Marriage" by Funjosh(m): 11:29pm On Dec 08, 2014
This person don watch HolyWOOD, BollyWOOD, NollyWOOD, GollyWOOD, ChinkoWOOD infact all the available WOOD on earth grin


Sophyrocks:


Jeeeeeeezzzzzzz at the bolded!!! commanding your wife to come and bath you is a romantic move? are you this unromantic to say so? OMG. No wonder you people are supporting the man here. Gadammit!!!! You all are sooooooooo unromantic!!! GOSH!!

This is what a romantic man will do;

Whisper into her ears sweet nothings, start kissing her, carry her up to the bathroom like a real man should, start undressing her slowly, prepare the shower or bath tub, make a foamy leather and start massaging her body slowly from neck to toe then whisper into her ears to do the same and it goes on and on and on. i dnt need to go into details. they could even start there and then continue in the bedroom. You better pay me for these tips.

Gosh. No wonder!!

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Re: Our Pastor Sided Him For "Punishing Me After Marriage" by Nobody: 11:33pm On Dec 08, 2014
Funjosh:
This person don watch HolyWOOD, BollyWOOD, NollyWOOD, GollyWOOD, ChinkoWOOD infact all the available WOOD on earth grin



If you like dnt go and watch oooo. be here forming african man macho feeling funky while your wife dey spread how you no sabi anything for bed!! only pounding you sabi. Press the right buttons, mbanu!! Una go watch p0rn tire and una go wan practicalise am. u different from me? Not at all. Go and learn o before your wife go dey shame for you. Man wey no sabi dey romantic na eyesore!! Gosh!!

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Re: Our Pastor Sided Him For "Punishing Me After Marriage" by Elsquidme(m): 11:34pm On Dec 08, 2014
Madam, am warning you, stop complaining and do the needfull thing. If you begin to hatch those nasty thougt then you yourself is not ready for marrage. Who told you marrage is a bed of roses? And because of sex, ure complaining? Had it been he maltreats u by not caring and treating u badly, i guess you would have bring the ocean on him. Now am telling you as a married woman, satisfy your husband, since you know how he operates be a step ahead of him and see. He will stop but if you do not do what is needfull, you will continue to blaa like a ram. Be a woman with a common sense.
Re: Our Pastor Sided Him For "Punishing Me After Marriage" by Elsquidme(m): 11:38pm On Dec 08, 2014
Madam, if you dont stop complaining i will side with ur husband and the pastor wallahi.

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Re: Our Pastor Sided Him For "Punishing Me After Marriage" by Funjosh(m): 11:42pm On Dec 08, 2014
When she was busy shaking her as.ss, doing yanga, shouting on the guy for ova 3yrs the guy na maga then abi
TomiwaDamola:


How is it stylish? I stated it outright. Why shouldn't she end the marriage? Just because she mistakenly married an animal does not mean she should suffer unnecessarily at the hands of said animal.

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Re: Our Pastor Sided Him For "Punishing Me After Marriage" by TomiwaDamola(f): 11:44pm On Dec 08, 2014
Funjosh:
When she was busy shaking her as.ss, doing yanga, shouting on the guy for ova 3yrs the guy na maga then abi

Does not matter. He has no right to rape her. End of story

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Re: Our Pastor Sided Him For "Punishing Me After Marriage" by Funjosh(m): 11:44pm On Dec 08, 2014
Hey the guy is not raping her, if she felt that is rape let her go and report to the apropriate quata


TomiwaDamola:


Yup. Completely agree. But the deranged animal she married must face consequences for his action. Rape is never justified.
Re: Our Pastor Sided Him For "Punishing Me After Marriage" by Funjosh(m): 11:52pm On Dec 08, 2014
Let her sit the man down and talk sense to him, both of them are husband and wife and if he doesnt change let her do what she feel is right to do. Marriage is not to be endure but to be enjoyed


The man is not raping her, he is having sex with his wife.


TomiwaDamola:


Does not matter. He has no right to rape her. End of story

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Re: Our Pastor Sided Him For "Punishing Me After Marriage" by soonest(f): 11:54pm On Dec 08, 2014
Op you better run for ur life. How many times in a day? Gosh! He's a beast o!
Re: Our Pastor Sided Him For "Punishing Me After Marriage" by Nobody: 11:55pm On Dec 08, 2014
LOL grin

I think this girl needs to unleash her inner sex goddess.
When he said he wanted something before church, you should have looked at him seductively and told him AFTER curch he will have more than enough to handle, wink etc.

A dumb harsh response like "let's not waste time" when a man is Hot will only do 2 things depending on his personality inside.
IF he is a mouse, he will will shrink and feel put down.
If he is a lion, he will demand it or take you.
If he is anything else in-between, he'll let you know you could "be sexier" with your attitude towards him.

But never in your phucking life should you ever think it is okay to tell your husband that him being Hot is a waste of time.
Una suppose don learn all these things by now. Don't be stupid.

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Re: Our Pastor Sided Him For "Punishing Me After Marriage" by sunnydayasaba(m): 11:56pm On Dec 08, 2014
decision01:
bros my thought exactly..that means I will need to ask this calabar girl if she can dance kukere very well..am no rapist! @op don't really like the idea of sharing family affairs with pastors/rev. fathers..tolerance but no die in silence! quit if you can't take it..but are you sure you are from calabar? calabar babes no the fall hand..




Abeg...quickly run go ask d calabar girl oh to avoid stories that touches the heart....lol
Re: Our Pastor Sided Him For "Punishing Me After Marriage" by xtervaganza(m): 11:57pm On Dec 08, 2014
duduhemit36:

ma guy i pray u dnt marry the one wey go ask u fo ten rounds in a day
a challenge I'll gladly accept grin
Re: Our Pastor Sided Him For "Punishing Me After Marriage" by Nobody: 12:02am On Dec 09, 2014
People can justify ra'pe on this Nairaland shaa. Smh! undecided

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Re: Our Pastor Sided Him For "Punishing Me After Marriage" by Nobody: 12:02am On Dec 09, 2014
xtervaganza:
a challenge I'll gladly accept grin
lolll....nd dat wat i will call the real xtravaganxa
Re: Our Pastor Sided Him For "Punishing Me After Marriage" by TomiwaDamola(f): 12:15am On Dec 09, 2014
Funjosh:
Hey the guy is not raping her, if she felt that is rape let her go and report to the apropriate quata



Rape is defined as the unlawful compelling of a person through physical force or duress to have sexual intercourse. Also any act of sexual intercourse that is forced upon a person.
Since she did not consent to have sex and he forcefully had sex with her she was raped. Rape is rape regardless of whether or not they are married.

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Re: Our Pastor Sided Him For "Punishing Me After Marriage" by satowind(m): 12:17am On Dec 09, 2014

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