Platnum1:
I have been married for 5 months now.I lost my virginity to my husband but he doesn't blv cos I didn't bleed. I was use to pleasuring myself with my fingers before now,maybe that's why I didnt bleed,I don't knw. D fact that i kept myself for my husband all these yrs and he doesnt even blv me hurts so bad. How do I get over this and not let it hurt me so much?

temitemi1:
What's big deal about virginity...

temitemi1:
What's big deal about virginity...

braine:



Men take things like this seriously. Did you explain to him that you pleasured yourself by yourself? I wonder how one can still claim to be a virgin after self service tho

Applaner:
I hate wasting my mb to read poo

Blayze007:
If he dosnt believe u now, it means he dosnt trust u. U need prayers cos TRUST isn't dat easy to get from someone... try and earn it. Dont flirt, dont give him any reason to believe he was right afterall.

You can also suggest that he does some research to know if every virgin bleeds after first s.3x. I dont think every girl bleeds tho.

Good luck!

braine:



Men take things like this seriously. Did you explain to him that you pleasured yourself by yourself? I wonder how one can still claim to be a virgin after self service tho

firstEVA:
are you for real? Isn't it about penetration anymore?

Evina:


But she was penetrated, by her fingers.

major466:
Just keep your cool and maintain a good marriage relationship. Lingering too much on it could derail your marriage.

firstEVA:
are you for real? Isn't it about penetration anymore?

iceberylin:
Thats cause you gave yourself your virginity

Platnum1:

I decided I won't bring it up again but sometimes like last night he asked me how far I went intimately wit my ex and that it's not possible I didnt sleep wit him...it pisses me off

iceberylin:
Thats cause you gave yourself your virginity

iceberylin:
Thats cause you gave yourself your virginity

chimerase2:
Op even tho u fingered ur self or not
Is not necessary u must bleed during disvirginity
Not all gals bleed

ammyluv2002:
Virginity is a big deal

Platnum1:
I have been married for 5 months now.I lost my virginity to my husband but he doesn't blv cos I didn't bleed. I was use to pleasuring myself with my fingers before now,maybe that's why I didnt bleed,I don't knw. D fact that i kept myself for my husband all these yrs and he doesnt even blv me hurts so bad. How do I get over this and not let it hurt me so much?

opeyeahme:

major466:

Yes. That can be very annoying. I think he has some trust issues. Both of you should find time and talk about it calmly. Every problem has a solution. Try not to linger on it. Him asking you about your sex life while single may be a good omen in disguise... That means he's jealous of you. A good indication that he still loves you.do I hear u say he still loves her? Taaar!!! Dat dude is tinkin of d Moni he has spent on d marriage tho