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My Husband Doesn't Blv I Lost My Virginity To Him.it's Hurtful by Nobody: 9:49am On Dec 10, 2014 |
I have been married for 5 months now.I lost my virginity to my husband but he doesn't blv cos I didn't bleed. I was use to pleasuring myself with my fingers before now,maybe that's why I didnt bleed,I don't knw. D fact that i kept myself for my husband all these yrs and he doesnt even blv me hurts so bad. How do I get over this and not let it hurt me so much? 11 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: My Husband Doesn't Blv I Lost My Virginity To Him.it's Hurtful by temitemi1(m): 9:52am On Dec 10, 2014 |
What's big deal about virginity... 103 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: My Husband Doesn't Blv I Lost My Virginity To Him.it's Hurtful by braine(m): 9:53am On Dec 10, 2014 |
Platnum1: Men take things like this seriously. Did you explain to him that you pleasured yourself by yourself? I wonder how one can still claim to be a virgin after self service tho 174 Likes 7 Shares |
Re: My Husband Doesn't Blv I Lost My Virginity To Him.it's Hurtful by iceberylin(m): 9:54am On Dec 10, 2014 |
Thats cause you gave yourself your virginity ![]() 254 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: My Husband Doesn't Blv I Lost My Virginity To Him.it's Hurtful by Applaner: 9:55am On Dec 10, 2014 |
I hate wasting my mb to read poo 62 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: My Husband Doesn't Blv I Lost My Virginity To Him.it's Hurtful by braine(m): 9:55am On Dec 10, 2014 |
temitemi1: Its a big deal in this coz the man feels she's lying that he was the first. 26 Likes |
Re: My Husband Doesn't Blv I Lost My Virginity To Him.it's Hurtful by ammyluv2002(f): 9:55am On Dec 10, 2014 |
temitemi1:Virginity is a big deal 141 Likes 7 Shares |
Re: My Husband Doesn't Blv I Lost My Virginity To Him.it's Hurtful by Blayze007(m): 9:55am On Dec 10, 2014 |
If he dosnt believe u now, it means he dosnt trust u. U need prayers cos TRUST isn't dat easy to get from someone... try and earn it. Dont flirt, dont give him any reason to believe he was right afterall. You can also suggest that he does some research to know if every virgin bleeds after first s.3x. I dont think every girl bleeds tho. Good luck! 20 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Husband Doesn't Blv I Lost My Virginity To Him.it's Hurtful by Nobody: 9:56am On Dec 10, 2014 |
braine:I knw I self serviced but thats different from actual sex with a man.u knw d second entails alot 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Husband Doesn't Blv I Lost My Virginity To Him.it's Hurtful by braine(m): 9:56am On Dec 10, 2014 |
Applaner: Ok. |
Re: My Husband Doesn't Blv I Lost My Virginity To Him.it's Hurtful by Nobody: 9:57am On Dec 10, 2014 |
Blayze007:Thats helpful , thank u 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Doesn't Blv I Lost My Virginity To Him.it's Hurtful by Nobody: 10:02am On Dec 10, 2014 |
braine:are you for real? Isn't it about penetration anymore? 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Husband Doesn't Blv I Lost My Virginity To Him.it's Hurtful by Evina(f): 10:05am On Dec 10, 2014 |
firstEVA: But she was penetrated, by her fingers. 42 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: My Husband Doesn't Blv I Lost My Virginity To Him.it's Hurtful by Nobody: 10:07am On Dec 10, 2014 |
Evina:abeg jor, it's penis that disvirgins nothing else. 20 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Husband Doesn't Blv I Lost My Virginity To Him.it's Hurtful by lacasera14(m): 10:07am On Dec 10, 2014 |
Fingerworks 9 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Husband Doesn't Blv I Lost My Virginity To Him.it's Hurtful by major466(m): 10:08am On Dec 10, 2014 |
Just keep your cool and maintain a good marriage relationship. Lingering too much on it could derail your marriage. 8 Likes |
Re: My Husband Doesn't Blv I Lost My Virginity To Him.it's Hurtful by Nobody: 10:19am On Dec 10, 2014 |
major466:I decided I won't bring it up again but sometimes like last night he asked me how far I went intimately wit my ex and that it's not possible I didnt sleep wit him...it pisses me off |
Re: My Husband Doesn't Blv I Lost My Virginity To Him.it's Hurtful by braine(m): 10:23am On Dec 10, 2014 |
firstEVA: If you do it without penetration, I still think the value of being a virgin would be lost/defiled as a lady, maybe. The hymen may be broken in the process. 8 Likes |
Re: My Husband Doesn't Blv I Lost My Virginity To Him.it's Hurtful by okiezman(m): 10:29am On Dec 10, 2014 |
iceberylin: LoL....who loses virginity without bleeding ![]() |
Re: My Husband Doesn't Blv I Lost My Virginity To Him.it's Hurtful by major466(m): 10:31am On Dec 10, 2014 |
Platnum1:Yes. That can be very annoying. I think he has some trust issues. Both of you should find time and talk about it calmly. Every problem has a solution. Try not to linger on it. Him asking you about your sex life while single may be a good omen in disguise... That means he's jealous of you. A good indication that he still loves you. 6 Likes |
Re: My Husband Doesn't Blv I Lost My Virginity To Him.it's Hurtful by Maamin(m): 10:34am On Dec 10, 2014 |
First of all did u bleed when u used your fingers for the first time? ![]() Being dis-virgin is not all about poppin the hymen..is all about the first time something(be it finger or joystick) went inside your kitty-kat ![]() iceberylin: ![]() ![]() 4 Likes |
Re: My Husband Doesn't Blv I Lost My Virginity To Him.it's Hurtful by Infomizer(m): 10:38am On Dec 10, 2014 |
I don't have any intelligent response to this, I just feel your pain OP. It hurts!!! 2 Likes |
Re: My Husband Doesn't Blv I Lost My Virginity To Him.it's Hurtful by opeyeahme(m): 10:44am On Dec 10, 2014 |
Re: My Husband Doesn't Blv I Lost My Virginity To Him.it's Hurtful by chimerase2: 10:47am On Dec 10, 2014 |
Op even tho u fingered ur self or not Is not necessary u must bleed during disvirginity Not all gals bleed 10 Likes |
Re: My Husband Doesn't Blv I Lost My Virginity To Him.it's Hurtful by dyabman(m): 10:54am On Dec 10, 2014 |
chimerase2: oshey expert . . . ![]() 13 Likes |
Re: My Husband Doesn't Blv I Lost My Virginity To Him.it's Hurtful by chimerase2: 10:58am On Dec 10, 2014 |
Pls can sombori tell me de similarity btw finggeredd and manipulated before I provoke nw ![]() 23 Likes |
Re: My Husband Doesn't Blv I Lost My Virginity To Him.it's Hurtful by eightsin(m): 11:37am On Dec 10, 2014 |
You are giving the wrong thing priority in your marriage... this is something that can bring confusion so you guys should avoid it... and why should he be asking u how far u went with ur ex when u people hav gotten married? this is a question for d bf n gf stages. Shwoo 10 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Husband Doesn't Blv I Lost My Virginity To Him.it's Hurtful by karkel(m): 11:41am On Dec 10, 2014 |
ammyluv2002:what are the benefits 10 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Husband Doesn't Blv I Lost My Virginity To Him.it's Hurtful by xzodux07(m): 11:49am On Dec 10, 2014 |
Platnum1:can u plss give mi a perfect definition of virginity? |
Re: My Husband Doesn't Blv I Lost My Virginity To Him.it's Hurtful by christabeli: 11:52am On Dec 10, 2014 |
Another virginity thread? Atimes I wonder if people deliberately open this threads so that e-war will ensue between virgins and non-virgins. You don't keep your virginity just for a husband. Rather keep it for yourself.To Op can you stop this nonsense please? You are not married and you know it. I saw your post where you talked about your fiance less than 3 months ago. What is wrong with some people in this forum? 18 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Husband Doesn't Blv I Lost My Virginity To Him.it's Hurtful by iceberylin(m): 11:54am On Dec 10, 2014 |
Re: My Husband Doesn't Blv I Lost My Virginity To Him.it's Hurtful by xzodux07(m): 11:56am On Dec 10, 2014 |
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