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Re: ... by Missmossy(f): 8:46am On Dec 13, 2014 |
Wise decision-thumbs up ![]() |
Re: ... by veave(f): 8:49am On Dec 13, 2014 |
Who gives someone a ring without knowing any of her family members ![]() Ok o... I dey look una. |
Re: ... by angelsing(m): 8:51am On Dec 13, 2014 |
ireneony:That is like looking at one factor without considering other option..there might be other reason for his actions, it might not be a side chick. You can't rule out other possibility just because of what he did...The fact is how many guy or girl will boldly introduce his/her bf/gf to the parent without having that parental fear? |
Re: ... by Gelco(f): 9:04am On Dec 13, 2014 |
hazel01: And you still stuck with him after that? It's quite obvious where you guys stand and he has no iota of respect for you. Just imagine him telling you that crap! I hate that silent treatment iish! So wrong on many levels. Whatever happened to airing out your grievances so you both can trash out your issues. Anyone who cannot put aside his or her ego and speak out is not worth it. How will you survive being married to such a person? Communication is very essential in a relationship. Don't even think about calling him. The relationship is so one-sided. 2 Likes |
Re: ... by yomanovic: 9:08am On Dec 13, 2014 |
yorex2011: Na wa o!!! I feel your judgement is harsh on her. You didn't consider the fact that she was deeply disappointed that the imature guy didn't do what's expected of him. Yeah she is more mature than the guy because, in relationship of that nature, girls are already thinking of marriage while the guy still has a lot of hurdles to cross. I don't know if he is of a family background that can afford to help him out in area of means of livelihood(job). In most cases like this, he is likely to get married about 3 years after she must have gotten married. Yeah, that's the reality. @op, your decision to quit the relationship so fast might have been too rash. But the reality is that he is far from being ready. YOU ARE READY! |
Re: ... by lilmax(m): 9:19am On Dec 13, 2014 |
yorex2011:are you okay? |
Re: ... by lilmax(m): 9:21am On Dec 13, 2014 |
valdes00:another senseless comment 1 Like |
Re: ... by hazel01(f): 9:24am On Dec 13, 2014 |
yomanovic:wow......you just mentioned my exact fears, this was exactly what I thought of before breaking up with him.. I was extremely disappointed he could act like that after everything we shared,it showed immaturity and the fact that he was not ready.. |
Re: ... by sevantex(m): 9:27am On Dec 13, 2014 |
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Re: ... by sevantex(m): 9:27am On Dec 13, 2014 |
He isn't proud of u so move on already..,Even as just a friend.,he can't greet ur dad ni? talkless of bf..He is a kid for even suggestin u introduce ur self to his parents..Pls move on for u deserve better |
Re: ... by lilmax(m): 9:28am On Dec 13, 2014 |
From your write up I noticed 1.he is proud 2.he doesn't love you 3.he is still a kid 4.he will be a control freak we you guys are married So all you have done here is making the right decision, at least you saw these things before getting married |
Re: ... by hazel01(f): 9:29am On Dec 13, 2014 |
sevantex:thank u 1 Like |
Re: ... by AJ01(m): 9:43am On Dec 13, 2014 |
Childishness ![]() |
Re: ... by Nobody: 9:58am On Dec 13, 2014 |
Your decision was not rash at all. Keep it moving and brava to you for having the courage to do right by yourself. |
Re: ... by Maamin(m): 10:02am On Dec 13, 2014 |
Nooooo...My dear your decision was not even rash at all.. Now this is what we are going to do..you will get back with that your so called boyfriend of yours' to iron things out over a glass of juice or wine which ever you prefer. While he is not looking..sprinkle my special love portion recipe a.k.a [size=15pt]Otapyapya[/size] in his drink and stir quickly to dissolve. Then smile and make a big toast with him. Problem solve ![]() It works like magic..Thank me later for this. ![]() |
Re: ... by onegig(m): 10:33am On Dec 13, 2014 |
hazel01: What's with the ego? What happened to making millions of excuses for them? Just a simple sorry would have resolved this. Some people are very shy when in unfamiliar environment. He may have wished to do all that but reality is different from the corner of your room. The issue should have been what you guys should have made fun of yourselves and laughed over. It aint too late to resolve things and get back. Look at this as a minor clog in the wheel. EDITED.. Just read your later submissions... you should be able to make the deductions on whether to move on. You alone have the whole details and the best to make a decision on this Goodluck 1 Like |
Re: ... by hazel01(f): 10:50am On Dec 13, 2014 |
onegig:Yeah I thought of that too,I wasn't angry with him at all,I only brought it up to let him know it was wrong,But his response really threw me off balance, the fact that he could have tried to put the blame on me and play the victim card,showed me he is not sure of our future together...even after telling him of my disappointment in his attitude several times via calls and text he refused to reply or even accept his faults made me realize I should back out before it's too late,I was only shocked he could react like this because I thought we shared something rare and special. |
Re: ... by xtervaganza(m): 10:58am On Dec 13, 2014 |
hazel01:kids these days getting engaged no wonder the divorce rate is high. what happened to discussing it like adults? Na wa ooo |
Re: ... by xtervaganza(m): 11:01am On Dec 13, 2014 |
andromida:see this one mouth so you want her to break up with a man she truly loves and end up in the single and searching gang of yours |
Re: ... by xtervaganza(m): 11:03am On Dec 13, 2014 |
Missmossy:think straight na..... He wanted to use her as side chic but fave her a ring on their last day in skl? Think na, it would be much easier to leave her without any ring to commit him to her what happened between them is common between young adults absent your bad advise they will get back together and be happy |
Re: ... by xtervaganza(m): 11:05am On Dec 13, 2014 |
Gelco:haba auntie! Wetin dem do u? They will soon be back together . shame to bad ppl ![]() |
Re: ... by onegig(m): 11:11am On Dec 13, 2014 |
hazel01:Damn....that guy na wa. To be able to play the victim card out of this.? What!!! You know what you want and deserve sis. His actions is reminiscent of someone who lacks respect for you and the relationship. You are better off than being with someone like that. It maybe painful at first but you would outgrow it.. |
Re: ... by onegig(m): 11:15am On Dec 13, 2014 |
xtervaganza: Discussing it like adults.? How do you do that with someone who would accept no wrongdoing and play the victim card in such a situation like this? I guess you didn't see where she made several attempts to get in touch and resolve this. Doing anything more would make her look desperate. |
Re: ... by Nobody: 11:15am On Dec 13, 2014 |
hazel01: It is a fragile outcome of event. I would have advised solely based on what you wrote here, but I am not so sure if this is the truth as it occurred because from experience, some ladies are at fault without realising it or acknowledging to that fact. Let me just assume that this is the whole truth as it happened. If that is the case I can say that you arent wrong if you broke up with him based on that but it seems you were a bit too fast or could it be that he has something he is hiding from you? |
Re: ... by Nobody: 11:16am On Dec 13, 2014 |
xtervaganza: I want her to be happy with a man that appreciates her. She deserves a man who is proud of her. This S&S gang you know them? |
Re: ... by Nobody: 11:22am On Dec 13, 2014 |
boxer022:well said |
Re: ... by hazel01(f): 11:30am On Dec 13, 2014 |
2sExy1:that is what I am suspecting, he is hiding something and he is even refusing to speak to me...... |
Re: ... by Nobody: 11:39am On Dec 13, 2014 |
hazel01:Before now, had you seen any sign to doubt his disposition towards you? |
Re: ... by hazel01(f): 12:19pm On Dec 13, 2014 |
2sExy1:no.....that was Why I was extremely disappointed in his actions.... and his choosing to ignore me and blame me after I aired my disappointment in his actions really really hurt me... |
Re: ... by Nobody: 12:22pm On Dec 13, 2014 |
Dnt call him o,lets watch and see what he will do.Funny dude sha,make u go introduce urslf to his mother,wia in d world is that done. |
Re: ... by 100Cents: 12:45pm On Dec 13, 2014 |
hazel01: I don't know why you ladies act this way. Do you want him to start jumping up at seeing your parents ? You are always seeking to be reassured and pampered. He really meant it when he said he wants to see your parents. He might be a shy and quiet guy. I remember some ladies do this often, they will analyze how you spoke with and greeted her, her mum or her sister.. haba, take things easy.. Always fidgeting.. One girl too is always behaving this way in my presence. |
Re: ... by passionate88: 12:47pm On Dec 13, 2014 |
hazel01:You hastely jumped to conclusion |
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