Hello! Single Guys and Single Guys wannabe!

Like I was saying before, I think its high time we formed a support group where we can encourage and inspire each other.

Because its not easy. With a lot of pressure, one can easily loose focus and later starts regretting it.

Do you know that some funny people claiming family, gathered for me last year and in extension January 5th this year, and my singlehood was one of their headache? Some people don't understand boundaries at all.

One of them raised the issue that was still single at 35+ and not even bothered, when all my mates are married.

Thank God I called one of my very spiritual single pastor and he was there. His presence gave me a lot of boldness to look them all in the face and tell them I WILL NOT MARRY.

As I have people that inspire me here and I draw strength from, its a bit easier. You know our society now. But I know a lot of you are not that opportuned, I will like to mentor anyone who is serious.

There is a herb my research digged up that can help with sexual urges, which is an issue too.

Meanwhile, immersing yourself and thought in the things of God through Christ Jesus is one of the biggest help you can get.

Because I just woke up one morning and found out that the urge to have close relationships with females are no longer there. I think grace took that one away.

Moreover, tackling challenges to build my business is another wonderful help because it consumes most of my time and thought.

What do you think?

I may not be coming here often because I have a conglomerate to build.

God bless you all!

Dapo777:


What do you mean by when men get a woman? Why not "when women get a man" ?

This is what happens when the society has made women believe they are of greater worth than men,women starts making sentenced like "when men get a woman" "the man had sex with the woman" "the man married the woman" why not the other way round.

If women don't feel they are more important than men,like you are doing,then the marriage would have been a good thing.

Nah I don't think I'm more important than a man. I feel like I'm just as important.

Well with my personal experience and those around. I've honestly never encountered a situation where a woman trys to get a man to be hers. I personally feel like the man does all that at the start of the relationship, due to my personal experience, and the woman is then trying to keep in at the end.

op us living up to his name

AfricanApple:
op us living up to his name

dats ryt

this post changed my life i though it was just me andi know the females will hate

MrsBreezy:


True. But you can make realism optimistic. After reading this(if I was a man) I wouldn't want to get married.

In all truth, I hav always thought of d impossibility of marryin n stayin hapi wit some1 4ever..largely thanks to d relationships I hav being in or witnessed...d truth is if u marry amiss, u wuld fall into all dis he mentioned....b d prob is hw can 1 marry d right person...I personally believe it wuld hav been easier if dr is somethn in a guy or gal indicatin who dey must marry as d only choice....n I hav concluded if ma wife bleeps up, lyk sleepin wit anoda man, I can't get it out of ma head 4ever N must divorce her....hopefully she shuld hav given birth 4 me n I 4get ever needin to marry

jmoore:
I will marry.
I will live long.
I will sleep with one woman(my wife) for the rest of my life.


He who finds a wife finds a good thing and obtains favour from God..

i believe marrige is not for everybody,

killjoy:

as a matter of fact, d good tins marriage has to offer to a man r tins he can enjoy while still single. wot I withheld r more downsides to marriage. my parents r separated n seem happier that way. my friends Dada died of heart attack caused by his wife, look marriage shud be a no go area for a man who intends to live eida happy or long or both.

bro i believe marriage is not for everybody some women are loyal those are keepers and the independent ones need to be single moms and shit, nawadays women are becoming dubious unlike den when dey did not go to school and they were loyal and our ancestors lived long



pls if u have a book or something recommend me pls

killjoy:


dats ryt

nobody must take u seriously

TDstarr:
bro i believe marriage is not for everybody some women are loyal those are keepers and the independent ones need to be single moms and shit, nawadays women are becoming dubious unlike den when dey did not go to school and they were loyal and our ancestors lived long



pls if u have a book or something recommend me pls

what kind of book are you looking for

TDstarr:
bro i believe marriage is not for everybody some women are loyal those are keepers and the independent ones need to be single moms and shit, nawadays women are becoming dubious unlike den when dey did not go to school and they were loyal and our ancestors lived long



pls if u have a book or something recommend me pls

read why men dont listen and women cant by allan pease, the manipulated man by esther vilar, sperm wars by robin baker. if u can get the rules by ellein fein(sth lyk day). im still lookin for dat one sha. i learnt it gives women rules hw to manipulate men

AfricanApple:
what kind of book are you looking for

dis not ask ur opinion

killjoy:


read why men dont listen and women cant by allan pease, the manipulated man by esther vilar, sperm wars by robin baker. if u can get the rules by ellein fein(sth lyk day). im still lookin for dat one sha. i learnt it gives women rules hw to manipulate men

thanks bro you dont realise it but you just changed my life , now i feel like a burden has been lifted off my chest, feel younger and wiser

A lot of times I wish I was not MARRIED!!! I can't stand certain things my wife does and I know one day I'll get my freedom again..... One way or the other!

killjoy:


read why men dont listen and women cant by allan pease, the manipulated man by esther vilar, sperm wars by robin baker. if u can get the rules by ellein fein(sth lyk day). im still lookin for dat one sha. i learnt it gives women rules hw to manipulate men

just got the manipulated man online now , am so happy, wow

AfricanApple:
nobody must take u seriously

the world actualy do take me seriously

TDstarr:
dis not ask ur opinion

sorry uhn, thought I might help

TDstarr:
thanks bro you dont realise it but you just changed my life , now i feel like a burden has been lifted off my chest, feel younger and wiser

the pleasure is all mine... same with me... im now ferrociously ambitious without getting distraction from girlfrend or crap... nw i feel lyk my lyf has a direction... not jst living it to please a woman, lyk it used to be... but striving to create a brand that wud stand d test of tym and remain long after im gone... brands lyk lipton, halley davidson, apple, microsoft... mehnnn my brand must live foreva

AfricanApple:
sorry uhn, thought I might help

lolzzzzz.... will u seriously tell him d books u read dat thought u hw to manipilate men n get d best out of demm?? will u tell him a book that teacches him about d schemes u ladies use against guys ofcos u wont, instaed u wud tell him to go read 1001 ways to make ur gal happy... or why ur wife is more important than ur mother... or why u shud marry and remain faithful to ur wife and ur wife alonee

killjoy:


the world actualy do take me seriously

the world can not take you seriously, only few unserious men would do that.
discrepancies in your list.

you think marriage makes a man miserable, what of those who aren't married, yet are fully miserable, what do u have to say about that?

holluwai:
A lot of times I wish I was not MARRIED!!! I can't stand certain things my wife does and I know one day I'll get my freedom again..... One way or the other!

hehehehehehe... abeg ooo. no go kill her ooo... cos dats d only way u can get a freedom u don enta one chance already... jst make the best out of it... look at d bright side

killjoy:


lolzzzzz.... will u seriously tell him d books u read dat thought u hw to manipilate men n get d best out of demm?? will u tell him a book that teacches him about d schemes u ladies use against guys ofcos u wont, instaed u wud tell him to go read 1001 ways to make ur gal happy... or why ur wife is more important than ur mother... or why u shud marry and remain faithful to ur wife and ur wife alonee

Lol, i didn't even know the kind of book he was looking for, that's why I asked him. I'm not stingy with knowledge, you know, so I can tell him those ones you think I won't

AfricanApple:
the world can not take you seriously, only few unserious men would do that.
discrepancies in your list.

you think marriage makes a man miserable, what of those who aren't married, yet are fully miserable, what do u have to say about that?

my dear, im not sayin u must be single before d world takes u seriously... ok? i said u must be successful, and one way to guarantee success on a biblical scale is to stay away from women and concentrate on ur career... women, both d good or bad ones, r only after a successful guy.

I must commend KILLJOY and COLINADUA, it's really not easy to make such a decision 'hats off to both of u'.

I have been following your post and I want u guys to know that u have made the right decision,just hold firm to it.

Both of u should always have these bible passage @ the back of your mind;
1 corinthians 7:26-28, 32-35, 38.

Christ wish for every man is to remain a lifetime celibate for heaven sake, but most men can't do this because of sexual drive. Mathew 19:3-12 buttress this.

The major problem every single man face is sex, but if u're able to condition your mind and build your self control, 70% Of the problem is gone. Pressure will definitely come,just be resolute.
U don't need to tell anybody, just keep it to yourself, cause the opposition is stiff.

He who finds a wife finds a good thing & obtains favour frm the lord. No doubt, but he will be anxious abt worldly affairs & how to pls his wife & his interests are divided. But the unmarried man is anxious abt the affairs of d lord, how to pls d lord,which gives peace of mind.
Marriage is good,but singleness is better.

Am not gay, neither am I a misogynist. Am just an easygoing celibate, who resides in d ancient city of benin.

Kill her? Nahhhhh, I'm better than that bro. There are better ways and as a matter if fact it won't bring any issues....like if we lived on separate continents and we only see once in a while....you see?! That's a better idea

killjoy:


hehehehehehe... abeg ooo. no go kill her ooo... cos dats d only way u can get a freedom u don enta one chance already... jst make the best out of it... look at d bright side

AfricanApple:
Lol, i didn't even know the kind of book he was looking for, that's why I asked him. I'm not stingy with knowledge, you know, so I can tell him those ones you think I won't

u definitely will nt tell him wot he wants to knw... dont lie jor... if guys actually knw d truth, dey wud stop bein slaves to women - buildin a house for her, takin care of her children, workin all his life to make her comfortable, den, die years before her while she enjoys d fruit of ur labour.... u wont want a guy to knw d truth my dear

skelefish:
I must commend KILLJOY and COLINADUA, it's really not easy to make such a decision 'hats off to both of u'.

I have been following your post and I want u guys to know that u have made the right decision,just hold firm to it.

Both of u should always have these bible passage @ the back of your mind;
1 corinthians 7:26-28, 32-35, 38.

Christ wish for every man is to remain a lifetime celibate for heaven sake, but most men can't do this because of sexual drive. Mathew 19:3-12 buttress this.

The major problem every single man face is sex, but if u're able to condition your mind and build your self control, 70% Of the problem is gone. Pressure will definitely come,just be resolute.
U don't need to tell anybody, just keep it to yourself, cause the opposition is stiff.

He who finds a wife finds a good thing & obtains favour frm the lord. No doubt, but he will be anxious abt worldly affairs & how to pls his wife & his interests are divided. But the unmarried man is anxious abt the affairs of d lord, how to pls d lord,which gives peace of mind.
Marriage is good,but singleness is better.

Am not gay, neither am I a misogynist. Am just an easygoing celibate, who resides in d ancient city of benin.

dat makes the two of us jare....

skelefish:
I must commend KILLJOY and COLINADUA, it's really not easy to make such a decision 'hats off to both of u'.

I have been following your post and I want u guys to know that u have made the right decision,just hold firm to it.

Both of u should always have these bible passage @ the back of your mind;
1 corinthians 7:26-28, 32-35, 38.

Christ wish for every man is to remain a lifetime celibate for heaven sake, but most men can't do this because of sexual drive. Mathew 19:3-12 buttress this.

The major problem every single man face is sex, but if u're able to condition your mind and build your self control, 70% Of the problem is gone. Pressure will definitely come,just be resolute.
U don't need to tell anybody, just keep it to yourself, cause the opposition is stiff.

He who finds a wife finds a good thing & obtains favour frm the lord. No doubt, but he will be anxious abt worldly affairs & how to pls his wife & his interests are divided. But the unmarried man is anxious abt the affairs of d lord, how to pls d lord,which gives peace of mind.
Marriage is good,but singleness is better.

Am not gay, neither am I a misogynist. Am just an easygoing celibate, who resides in d ancient city of benin.

LoL! You believe killjoy is single because he wants to be a better servant of God? ROTBLOL!

killjoy wants to bang chicks without any of the responsibility, very simple.

holluwai:
Kill her? Nahhhhh, I'm better than that bro. There are better ways and as a matter if fact it won't bring any issues....like if we lived on separate continents and we only see once in a while....you see?! That's a better idea

bwahahahaha.... u really got a plan.... nyc

traware:
All the books' versions are readily available on the net for free.It will shock you.I will give you the name of another book when you're ready.You have to be aware our views are very unmainstream so be ready to be labelled all sorts on this thread...homo...,psycho...weirdo...creep...sicko

plss give me the name of the book plsssss

LordReed:


LoL! You believe killjoy is single because he wants to be a better servant of God? ROTBLOL!

killjoy wants to bang chicks without any of the responsibility, very simple.

hahahahahahaha.... bad belle don showww... dats not entirely true my frend... i want to concentrate on my career and make lyf better for my family and the world... plus women are too complicated and demandin to live with... so im nt stayin single so i can bang difrent gals. do u knw hw many married men bang more gals dan single guys? u tink marriage stops a guy from sleeping with diffrent gals? r u a learner

TDstarr:
plss give me the name of the book plsssss

read why men dont listen and women cant by allan pease, the manipulated man by esther vilar, sperm wars by robin baker. if u can get the rules by ellein fein(sth lyk day). im still lookin for dat one sha. i learnt it gives women rules hw to manipulate men