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Re: How Do U Handle Abused In A Marriage As A Husband? by gbaskiboy: 7:38pm On Dec 13, 2014 |
hian, women abeg make una park well |
Re: How Do U Handle Abused In A Marriage As A Husband? by Nobody: 7:38pm On Dec 13, 2014 |
![]() What's wrong with her U better run 1 Like |
Re: How Do U Handle Abused In A Marriage As A Husband? by hensben(m): 7:38pm On Dec 13, 2014 |
observing from corner.... |
Re: How Do U Handle Abused In A Marriage As A Husband? by ruuudboy: 7:38pm On Dec 13, 2014 |
alutacontinua: separation? ![]() what will the nxt person do if i divorce her and marry another woman? 13 Likes |
Re: How Do U Handle Abused In A Marriage As A Husband? by sexybash(f): 7:40pm On Dec 13, 2014 |
If I were you After a week that she has forgotten I will tell her let's travel to see her parents As we reach I will just tell her parents to read train her Before she would say jack another woman has moved in no time for radarada ![]() Even in marriage there are boundaries you should not cross Most people forget to set those boundaries If na me by this morning dem go think say na train jam her Rubbish 9 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How Do U Handle Abused In A Marriage As A Husband? by tayork(m): 7:42pm On Dec 13, 2014 |
Thank God for your life because you have a cool spirit but sometimes women do take the advantage over man, like slapping u,she dares not when she knows the man will react to that but I love the way you handled the situation because it would have been worst |
Re: How Do U Handle Abused In A Marriage As A Husband? by funnyme(f): 7:42pm On Dec 13, 2014 |
satowind: Happy birth day, increase on every side I pray! Amen . |
Re: How Do U Handle Abused In A Marriage As A Husband? by Nobody: 7:42pm On Dec 13, 2014 |
ruuudboy: I did not say divorce. I said SEPARATION. Truth is there will be no next person after she lands bottle on your head and kill you, will there? You need to show this woman some tough love, man! No offence but your manhood has been thrown in the gutter, you need to get it back WITHOUT DIVORCING HER! Send her back to her father's house for 2 months! Sagamite, shymexx, coogar, TV01 this is one situation where I wouldn't mind y'alls methods ![]() what arrant nonsense! ![]() 18 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How Do U Handle Abused In A Marriage As A Husband? by EfemenaXY: 7:43pm On Dec 13, 2014 |
ruuudboy: Bros you really tried. That woman is crazy and needs a total brain reset. Just send her packing to her people. No need for excessive drama and whilst you're at it, let her know that you want a separation. The silly thing needs to understand what she's done is serious. Violence in a marriage is an absolute no-no. 7 Likes |
Re: How Do U Handle Abused In A Marriage As A Husband? by funnyme(f): 7:44pm On Dec 13, 2014 |
Re: How Do U Handle Abused In A Marriage As A Husband? by Huzzie: 7:47pm On Dec 13, 2014 |
Sincerely, you handled it the right way. Women generally like to be victims in whatever situation they find themselves to get sympathy from observers; this is actually inherent in them. My advise is always know when to avoid the cause of the confrontation; I am also struggling with this,though, my wife has never confronted me neither have I but I keep falling into her trap, hence, making her the victim. Just keep praying for patience and calmness to handle such situation, "a strong man is one who knows when to walk out of an argument and apologize when wrong"-Huzzie 1 Like |
Re: How Do U Handle Abused In A Marriage As A Husband? by adrainuche(m): 7:47pm On Dec 13, 2014 |
lilreese: My brother fear God 2 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: How Do U Handle Abused In A Marriage As A Husband? by ruuudboy: 7:47pm On Dec 13, 2014 |
sexybash: Even though i hardly discuss my marriage issue with people, i called her dad this afternoon to explain what happened. He was surprised and later talk to her including her mum I know it could have been worse reporting her to my own parent |
Re: How Do U Handle Abused In A Marriage As A Husband? by redcliff: 7:48pm On Dec 13, 2014 |
damiso: Gone to where? |
Re: How Do U Handle Abused In A Marriage As A Husband? by Kirinwa: 7:49pm On Dec 13, 2014 |
Op you didn't stand up to her nonsense but rather locked yourself inside the room? Jeez. ![]() She still banged on the door probably to finish you off. Is it obvious some nuts were loose You had to beg? ![]() 6 Likes |
Re: How Do U Handle Abused In A Marriage As A Husband? by damiso(f): 7:52pm On Dec 13, 2014 |
redcliff: Getting a separation. I am not a fan of threatening your spouse with divorce or separation but sometimes it is inevitable. Good that you reported her to her family and not yours. |
Re: How Do U Handle Abused In A Marriage As A Husband? by ruuudboy: 7:53pm On Dec 13, 2014 |
Kirinwa: That was the only option cos are action will definitely lead to embarrassment if i didnt do dat. We have been staying on my estate over a year, have never heard of husband and wife fighting with neighbours separating them.so, mine shouldnt be the first in the neighborhood 12 Likes |
Re: How Do U Handle Abused In A Marriage As A Husband? by BE811APP: 7:53pm On Dec 13, 2014 |
First tell me the crime u committed first b4 ur wife will act like that... For u to run to another room... U must have fvcked up... U slept with someone abi ![]() Nonetheless, I bilv u got wat u deserved.. My wife won't slap me.. 1 Like |
Re: How Do U Handle Abused In A Marriage As A Husband? by emistephen: 7:53pm On Dec 13, 2014 |
When the foundation is weak, the building suffers structural defects. Though you did not state the misunderstanding. I suppose she must have been seriously offended by you, it is however not justified to react in such a manner. In any marriage misunderstanding must surely abound. Being married for four years, calls for some level of maturity from both husband and wife when a misunderstanding ensue. Both of you should seek couselling. 2 Likes |
Re: How Do U Handle Abused In A Marriage As A Husband? by hensben(m): 7:54pm On Dec 13, 2014 |
i smell something from comments here...you know urself ![]() 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: How Do U Handle Abused In A Marriage As A Husband? by lilmax(m): 7:54pm On Dec 13, 2014 |
As the spirit leads, I can't say for now |
Re: How Do U Handle Abused In A Marriage As A Husband? by ruuudboy: 7:55pm On Dec 13, 2014 |
BE811APP: slept with someone ke? Nah........Everly faithful to my wife |
Re: How Do U Handle Abused In A Marriage As A Husband? by Opiosko: 7:56pm On Dec 13, 2014 |
ruuudboy:Respect bro! My girl did same thing whn we were dating and i can tell it's so annoying seeing ur woman take advantage of ur 'gentleman gesture' to act the tough woman... In my own case, i was forced to hit her and threaten her with severe beating which worked.... We stayed up all night talking abt it and she apologised tearfully. I don't think such a thing will happen again (not cos of fear of beating), but cos of the talk we had later. She now understand that i can't beat her, and she has a boundary that can't be crossed without consequencies. 9 Likes |
Re: How Do U Handle Abused In A Marriage As A Husband? by passionate88: 7:57pm On Dec 13, 2014 |
damiso:You no ask am wetin him do wey make him wife react like that?. |
Re: How Do U Handle Abused In A Marriage As A Husband? by satowind(m): 7:57pm On Dec 13, 2014 |
funnyme:Thanks sweet |
Re: How Do U Handle Abused In A Marriage As A Husband? by damiso(f): 7:58pm On Dec 13, 2014 |
passionate88: Nothing justifies assault... 4 Likes |
Re: How Do U Handle Abused In A Marriage As A Husband? by blakky97(m): 7:59pm On Dec 13, 2014 |
ruuudboy:if my wife can do that and I didnt know before marrying her, then im blame worthy. as a human with intellect. I should know certain hidden aspects of my companion 1 Like |
Re: How Do U Handle Abused In A Marriage As A Husband? by sordique81(m): 7:59pm On Dec 13, 2014 |
oops! That will be an opportunity for me to practicalise the combunations i have learnt in my boxing class. I go beat her blue n black, n den send her back home to her parents for RETRAINING!!! 2 Likes |
Re: How Do U Handle Abused In A Marriage As A Husband? by zeb04(f): 7:59pm On Dec 13, 2014 |
Op don't listen to any of the advice here esp from the women. Divorce/Seperation because the woman was banging on his door? Didn't Op say he has settled with his wife and she promised not to repeat that again. You all giving such advice are sick in the brain. Since when did marriage become childplay. Nansense. 8 Likes |
Re: How Do U Handle Abused In A Marriage As A Husband? by raumdeuter: 8:00pm On Dec 13, 2014 |
passionate88: Is there any reason good enough to beat your spouse? I thought the mantra there's no excuse to hit a woman doesnt this apply to men also? 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How Do U Handle Abused In A Marriage As A Husband? by fhemyxXx(m): 8:00pm On Dec 13, 2014 |
How we wan know say you know retaliate ![]() 1 Like |
Re: How Do U Handle Abused In A Marriage As A Husband? by passionate88: 8:00pm On Dec 13, 2014 |
gurunlocker:Wetin concern him English teacher?. |
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