kweendyvaar:
i dont know if to use my head or heart to think no man have been with has brought me joy like him

kweendyvaar:
it hurts to love but what is more painful is to love and not be loved in return.their is this guy i dated for months he was head over heels in love with me he made me understand what love is then he started changing to cut the long story short we had to part ways things werent going on fine am a proud person when it comes to guyz hey dis guy thought me lessons i was madly in love and did everything to get him back i even told him and he insulted me i vowed never to talk to him again but this strong thing bulging my heart made me to come back saying i was sorry after the insults.i almost ran mad i thought giving him my virginity will help he even declined asiv i was a piece of trash he called me names and i even got to memorise his numbers when he wont pick my calls all my friends thought i was charmed by him and hated him.i tryed relationships having many stalkers i couldnt maintain any men were lyk trash to me.i will beg many times the truth dawned on me when he told me he was engaged.i promised to keep to myself no matter how strong i felt for him i did this by first keeping my.distance i have suffered a lot including lack of.self esteem i did many.things to move on but i.couldnt.i cry and have sleepless nights but i told myself i was not going back at times he talks to me i try to act fine and talk casually while i might end up sucking the whole day.recently he has been putting up acts like his interested in me i try to hold back breaking down and telling him i love him he trys talking to me when i told him to keep his distance i still love him and his giving the green lights he wants me back one thing i know his that no girl can love him that way and he and his so-called fiancee have parted ways my heart is screaming for him i dont know if to use my head or heart to think no man have been with has brought me joy like him

3cycle:
Force yourself to hate him as much as you love him, accept his proposal and then dump him when you're sure he's inlove

Or


Just walk away.

Ksslib:

The Heart is solely for blood pumping, while the head houses the brain used for thinking. So choose between both, which should be the ideal for thinking.

I mean, cant you see it? Hes using you as a rebound option. If things had worked out btw him and his fiancee, he no for look your side atall. No one, I repeat, no one should settle as a rebound.

There's something we guys call a trophy and iam sorry to say, thats what you are to him. He knows how much you want him and this is him exploiting you emotionally. I know how such stories normally end---get back with him and you ll find out yourself.

How can you get over the guy when youve refused to move on and keep wallowing in self pity? Go out with friends, find something to do that brings you joy, dress well, attend events and lets see, if gradually, the feeling wont begin to get better. You also mentioned something about low self esteem and I believe that makes your case alot simpler. The key is to love yourself, become alot more confident, telll yourself youre not a rebound,that you deserve better [/b]and start meditating on the guys flaws, things you dont like about him, how he made you feel like trash and how you dont want to feel that way again cos youre awesome and deserve alot more better guy.

[b]Also remind yourself that you only dated him for months and have been very well surviving without him, so why cant you survive without him now? Yo just need little time to get back to your senses.

smileysmiles:
im sorry to say o but i think you are obsessed with d guy. the feelings u have are very unhealthy. "so called fiance" really?

have u tot of how that guy describes u to pple when dey ask him why he's not picking his calls?? he would most likely say "its one girl like dat jare" and dat is if he is a polite person. please stop disrespecting yourself and stop givin him the opportunity to disrespect u.

face d reality and move on. give urself time to heal, dress well... hang out, party, go on dates be happy. with time everything will fall into place

Ksslib:

The Heart is solely for blood pumping, while the head houses the brain used for thinking. So choose between both, which should be the ideal for thinking.

I mean, cant you see it? Hes using you as a rebound option. If things had worked out btw him and his fiancee, he no for look your side atall. No one, I repeat, no one should settle as a rebound.

There's something we guys call a trophy and iam sorry to say, thats what you are to him. He knows how much you want him and this is him exploiting you emotionally. I know how such stories normally end---get back with him and you ll find out yourself.

How can you get over the guy when youve refused to move on and keep wallowing in self pity? Go out with friends, find something to do that brings you joy, dress well, attend events and lets see, if gradually, the feeling wont begin to get better. You also mentioned something about low self esteem and I believe that makes your case alot simpler. The key is to love yourself, become alot more confident, telll yourself youre not a rebound,that you deserve better and start meditating on the guys flaws, things you dont like about him, how he made you feel like trash and how you dont want to feel that way again cos youre awesome and deserve alot more better guy.

Also remind yourself that you only dated him for months and have been very well surviving without him, so why cant you survive without him now? Yo just need little time to get back to your senses.

lokito:
Go for him like never before this time. Love and cherish him more. Men are meant to be treated like kings b/c there's a king in every man

satope1:
You don't love him. You just miss the attention he lavished on you while together and can't get someone to do that again for you.

You are bitter he is not there again for you to control. This is what happens when someone truly loves you but you decide to play kite with their emotions. He has moved on now and now you miss the power and control you have over him.

You so desperately want it back. You want that euphoria back. If you truly loved him. You would have reciprocated while you were together. But the loss is tormenting you.


It's psychopaths and emotional manipulators that do behave this way.

Excelboi:
Did you even read the post at all? You are saying the reverse of the matter at hand.

brito:




Tell me you are joking.

lokito:


No hun I'm not

brito:




Tell me you are joking.