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Which Should Come First Between Career & Marriage In A Family? by Maamin(m): 10:11am On Dec 14, 2014 |
It has done on me that people have come to prioritise certain societal issues when it comes to having a successful and fulfilled lifestyle. However, there are two major institute which we are bound to categorise our life achievements solely Career and Marriage. Now in as much as this two is very important in the family which do you think should come first between Career & Marriage in a Family?. Please support your view with evidence and proof For me building a career should come before marriage. Having a successful career guarantees a healthy societal balance and lifestyle. Lets hear your views. 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Which Should Come First Between Career & Marriage In A Family? by okirewaju(f): 8:39am On Dec 15, 2014 |
Personal choice come in to play here. We have seen cases where a woman pursue her career until she's 30+ and ready to settle down while we have seem women get married by 18, give birth to all her kids and then focus on her career. There is no manual about stuffs like this, you make the decision on your own and stick to whatever comes out of it. I for one will prefer to get married, give birth to my kids and face my career! 14 Likes |
Re: Which Should Come First Between Career & Marriage In A Family? by bukatyne(f): 10:25am On Dec 15, 2014 |
Depends on individuals and what their goals are: Some are not interested in a career or a family 2 Likes |
Re: Which Should Come First Between Career & Marriage In A Family? by Nobody: 2:04pm On Dec 15, 2014 |
I have always wanted to get a job/start a career before settling down, because I have this fear that married women are discriminated in Nigeria Job market as a result of pregnancy issues, etc...Who wants to employ a pregnant woman or someone who will get pregnant within few months of employment? . So for me, career first, then family. .. But if work no come and my age is driving towards menopause, I go quickly marry ooo, can't lose on both sides 23 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Which Should Come First Between Career & Marriage In A Family? by KanwuliaJara: 2:13pm On Dec 15, 2014 |
Life is dynamic! No condition is permanent. . . .Career and family take turns to be priorities at different stages IN LIFE! Bottom line. . . there must be a balance! 18 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Which Should Come First Between Career & Marriage In A Family? by Okijajuju1(m): 2:44pm On Dec 15, 2014 |
#Subjective. .... 1 Like |
Re: Which Should Come First Between Career & Marriage In A Family? by moderatorr: 2:44pm On Dec 15, 2014 |
if you take career who go marry you? its not funny living single at 50 ask our actresses. 2 Likes
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Re: Which Should Come First Between Career & Marriage In A Family? by OasisofRefuge(f): 2:44pm On Dec 15, 2014 |
The two should work hand in hand. non should be left out as the two depend on each other. when you concentrate only on your career living your marriage aside, you'll have problem. To me, while planing and pursuing your career, do the same for your marriage. most times, when you are doing so well in your carrier, when its time to get married, you may not know who truly love you just for who you are. the love could be just because of your successful career. and when you pursue only marriage, you may end up in poverty. as marriage have so many responsibilities. 15 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Which Should Come First Between Career & Marriage In A Family? by Rexphobia(m): 2:44pm On Dec 15, 2014 |
My marriage to my career.... I am in love with what I do. 1 Like |
Re: Which Should Come First Between Career & Marriage In A Family? by deniyor: 2:44pm On Dec 15, 2014 |
It's an individual choice. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Which Should Come First Between Career & Marriage In A Family? by Nairalandar: 2:45pm On Dec 15, 2014 |
One of the above... |
Re: Which Should Come First Between Career & Marriage In A Family? by Nobody: 2:45pm On Dec 15, 2014 |
Career |
Re: Which Should Come First Between Career & Marriage In A Family? by oluseyiforjesus(m): 2:45pm On Dec 15, 2014 |
Pls 'hit Like' if u think Frontpage is rubbish nowadays 23 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Which Should Come First Between Career & Marriage In A Family? by jauntty: 2:45pm On Dec 15, 2014 |
marriage |
Re: Which Should Come First Between Career & Marriage In A Family? by tundeayo2020: 2:45pm On Dec 15, 2014 |
career for me any day, any time. But i think both can be worked on simultaneously. |
Re: Which Should Come First Between Career & Marriage In A Family? by Sharon6(f): 2:45pm On Dec 15, 2014 |
Marriage CHECK MY SIGNATURE!!! GIVE YOUR SKIN A TREAT!!! |
Re: Which Should Come First Between Career & Marriage In A Family? by Brightology2(m): 2:45pm On Dec 15, 2014 |
Carrier oooooooo. 1 Like |
Re: Which Should Come First Between Career & Marriage In A Family? by Nobody: 2:45pm On Dec 15, 2014 |
For me, career. If you have a stable career before marriage, you won't have issues adjusting after marriage. 2 Likes |
Re: Which Should Come First Between Career & Marriage In A Family? by mmaichel: 2:45pm On Dec 15, 2014 |
career for men, marriage for women 2 Likes
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Re: Which Should Come First Between Career & Marriage In A Family? by ellechrystal(f): 2:45pm On Dec 15, 2014 |
Personal choice. as 4 me My marriage o |
Re: Which Should Come First Between Career & Marriage In A Family? by akpur1(m): 2:46pm On Dec 15, 2014 |
A woman can't set a date she would marry but a man can set a date. For me ladies strike marriage if u have the chance 4 Likes |
Re: Which Should Come First Between Career & Marriage In A Family? by ammyluv2002(f): 2:46pm On Dec 15, 2014 |
Both....you just have to balance the two |
Re: Which Should Come First Between Career & Marriage In A Family? by toluleke(m): 2:46pm On Dec 15, 2014 |
Marriage before career helps you to be more mature and focus when you have *to feed yourself and some1..career is a long term plan you have to build till you die and marriage is a beautiful thing especially when God bless the marriage 1 Like |
Re: Which Should Come First Between Career & Marriage In A Family? by ellechrystal(f): 2:46pm On Dec 15, 2014 |
mmaichel:B it men or women, I think ur marriage is more important. Even d bible says it. After God, ur spouse if u r married .Marriage is one of d best gifts God has given to man. It's so beautiful, n that's y d devil does anything possible to fight it. That's y d rate of divorce is alarming. D state of Marriage affects d society either positively or negatively.because it affects the mentality of d children in it. Hence, builds their thinking ability n character.n these kids go into d society n act according to how they were trained. The state of our society today started from the families o.ppl display exactly what they were taught by who raised them. |
Re: Which Should Come First Between Career & Marriage In A Family? by Obiwannn: 2:47pm On Dec 15, 2014 |
career ten times over 3 Likes |
Re: Which Should Come First Between Career & Marriage In A Family? by AKMoney1(m): 2:47pm On Dec 15, 2014 |
Career of course, well speaking from my gender perspective as a male. You need to build your future before building your family. The future must be secured so your wife and kids won't suffer. 6 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Which Should Come First Between Career & Marriage In A Family? by tiswell(m): 2:47pm On Dec 15, 2014 |
No successful marriage without a successful career,don't get it twisted bruv 3 Likes |
Re: Which Should Come First Between Career & Marriage In A Family? by gbodimowo(m): 2:47pm On Dec 15, 2014 |
Career 2 Likes |
Re: Which Should Come First Between Career & Marriage In A Family? by gbolaskblog(m): 2:47pm On Dec 15, 2014 |
1 Like |
Re: Which Should Come First Between Career & Marriage In A Family? by JurassicPark: 2:48pm On Dec 15, 2014 |
bukatyne: Hahaahaa |
Re: Which Should Come First Between Career & Marriage In A Family? by SaiBuharii: 2:48pm On Dec 15, 2014 |
Man - Career, woman - Marriage (In Africa tho) |
Re: Which Should Come First Between Career & Marriage In A Family? by freezyprinzy(m): 2:48pm On Dec 15, 2014 |
career 1st so wen amu established have ample time 4 me family 1 Like |
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