Why is it so easy for her to forget me?
This is a lady I love so much, play games together on laptop, drives her around the town, pet her like a baby, walk out together, a true part of me!
Always going extra miles to solve her problem and she respect me so much for that.
In the last 8months since I relocated to another city for training, she's yet to call me, if I don't call for one month, she won't call, its a day after christmas now and not even a flash nor sms from her, she just never care.
Am heartbroken
We should be getting married next year,
Why is it so easy for her to pretend I never exist?
Why?

Its simple.. someone else filled your shoes, and its clear she wasn't that into you, or perhaps she is too busy to make contact
or maybe, not to get your hopes up, she is not the calling type.
Its best you talk to her about it.

Dis is wot we call "stories dat touch d bum bum".

Even if she no gree miss ur person, she suppose try miss ur money na or ur weapon na, ders gat to be sth abt u dat she shd be missing in dis 8month's period.

Well, I think u shd revisit the tot of marrying dis chic dat is not even missing you, dats if u guys were eva in a relationship.

You have been a boring dude to her, she probably thanked her stars d day u left.
Everything you've listed above will never make her miss you.

shortgun:
You have been a boring dude to her, she probably thanked her stars d day u left.
Everything you've listed above will never make her miss you.

Lolzzz no make Op swear for u ooo

She was never really into you!





Sorry!




Try another damsel!

You might be dealing with a Gold digger

She's nt into u.

Period!!

these stories never seize to fill me with laugh..... dude.... she didnt call? not even flash heheheh...... maybe she is shy of calling

shortgun:
You have been a boring dude to her, she probably thanked her stars d day u left.
Everything you've listed above will never make her miss you.

Am I suppose to start saying things I have done for her? Supported her through school financially and morally for 5yrs, law school expenses, 8hrs journey every month just to drop stuffs for her when she entered law school(time factor)

She keep acting like their is no problem but am not happy and I just feel cheated, am seriously loosing hope , we should both love each other as usual and not one sided love.

Because you were never important to her

Bros, sit her down and let her know her actions hurt u, try and find out if that's her normal behaviour (there are pple like that), if there is no change; pls bounce b4 u lose your self esteem

islandbreeze:

Am I suppose to start saying things I have done for her? Supported her through school financially and morally for 5yrs, law school expenses, 8hrs journey every month just to drop stuffs for her when she entered law school(time factor)

She keep acting like their is no problem but am not happy and I just feel cheated, am seriously loosing hope , we should both love each other as usual and not one sided love.

You've just been a means to an end, nothing special to her.
Am sorry I have to be this blunt but d truth must be said.
Any man can give money to a woman, but it takes more than money and "caring" to be that man her soul will crave for.

get over her,u never counted just filling some space

Well here in syria where am learning terrorism 101..........we dont call girlz we ping them.

jrerico1:
You might be dealing with a Gold digger

gold digger? Smh @op nt calling doesnt mean outta mind, she might not be the type dat see it neccessery to always call. Actually i prefer ladies like dat buh u can call ha nd complain nd see r response

islandbreeze:
Why is it so easy for her to forget me?
This is a lady I love so much, play games together on laptop, drives her around the town, pet her like a baby, walk out together, a true part of me!
Always going extra miles to solve her problem and she respect me so much for that.
In the last 8months since I relocated to another city for training, she's yet to call me, if I don't call for one month, she won't call, its a day after christmas now and not even a flash nor sms from her, she just never care.
Am heartbroken
We should be getting married next year,
Why is it so easy for her to pretend I never exist?
Why?

Out of sight is out of mind.

Don't kill yourself with unfaithful ladies.. There are many..

islandbreeze:

Am I suppose to start saying things I have done for her? Supported her through school financially and morally for 5yrs, law school expenses, 8hrs journey every month just to drop stuffs for her when she entered law school(time factor)

She keep acting like their is no problem but am not happy and I just feel cheated, am seriously loosing hope , we should both love each other as usual and not one sided love.

You invested too much. There are ladies who naturally love seeing men get hurt.

Later, ladies will be like, you lost your girlfriend because you were no caring for her financially..

Hehe

She was never into you at all..she was just playing along not to hurt you,and she heaved a sign of relieve at your relocation,after all,that means you have backed out of her life,and a good reason to dump you.

Get used to that,one of the many mysteries of life..

Asper the marriage,bros,reconsider.

Most guys can relate. I don't know this lady so I'd pause a little. However, from what you have narrated, sorry man, used and dumped like tissue.

Many women who are not really into you use you as a means to an end. OP recall how you met, think back and reminisce about the times you spent together.

>You gave more without a bother
>You were more mushy and all
>She ran to you only when she needed you
>She started being strange the moment you said you were leaving and forgot you as soon as you left

She was never into you. You were her stepping stone. I guess this is why some guys become tough and hardened.

It is tough, move on brother!

/*******************/
PS: For the sake of truthfulness and objectivity, this lady's behavior is by no means gender specific. Some shameful guys also use and dump otherwise faithful and innocent ladies.

Sorry bro.
But did you call her this season?

Call her to see how she's doing.Invite her to your end.
See what she says.If no,read the signs;it might be time to move on.

Have you been intimate yet?

laimo:
Sorry bro.
But did you call her this season?

Call her to see how she's doing.Invite her to your end.
See what she says.If no,read the signs;it might be time to move on.

Have you been intimate yet?

Thank You Laimo, I feel so hurt, am just trying to be careful as this could be deadly, there was a time I complained about her only calling when she needs one thing or the other, I caught her cheating but I felt that was not enough to leave her, called her and warned her but when I travelled home and my sigma had problem in 2009, I left the car, even sold it later, I started visiting her with cab as I must get her dinner every night as usual , it was a tough time for me, and I could no longer cope with her bills, we had a big misunderstanding and she left.
I started seeing her on bike as she love eatery so much, she one time invited me to one eatery but I didn't go cos I was not happy with her, but I soon recovered and got another car, was trying to get gas in a filling station and the bike she took that day wanted to get gas too, so my friend called her and she joined us, that was how she followed us home that day and we reconciled , but after she left for law school, I started visiting, sending money and bought all books, buying clothes and never allowed her to be driven by any of those rough commercial drivers, I was always there to take her home with her parent waiting for her at home, I ensured she was posted to a peaceful state but when she went for NYSC she requested I should give her 200k for house rent but I was broke then, she threatened me that a guys was asking out and ready to give her the money, I was dump founded , she started giving me deadline to send the money but I couldn't raise it, so I told her if its all about money, she should just let me be , that was how she started calling, but as was looking for a way out of my financial problem, my uncle in the oil and gas field called me and said I should go for some oil and gas training stuff,..... (Am just heartbroken) I can't type right now.

If I start going offshore now, she will come and start showing me love then, why can't she show me love now? Why is she not calling me now? I love her so much but I hate the way she treated me, I do not want to forgive her.
Clash of interest within myself.
I love her and I hate her
I just don't understand!

Truth24:

Lolzzz no make Op swear for u ooo

it's the truth... Girls don't like guys who do those things...

islandbreeze:

Am I suppose to start saying things I have done for her? Supported her through school financially and morally for 5yrs,law school expenses, 8hrs journey every month just to drop stuffs for her when she entered law school(time factor)

She keep acting like their is no problem but am not happy and I just feel cheated, am seriously loosing hope , we should both love each other as usual and not one sided love.

Singing
Maga don pay, shout Halleluyah

Mugun don pay, shout Halleluyah oh oh oh oh oh

Halleluyah! Halleluyah!! Halleluyah!!!

Answer: she is just not that into you.

Look for someone who feels the same way you do for her and treats you the same way you would treat her.

islandbreeze:
Why is it so easy for her to forget me?
This is a lady I love so much, play games together on laptop, drives her around the town, pet her like a baby, walk out together, a true part of me!
Always going extra miles to solve her problem and she respect me so much for that.
In the last 8months since I relocated to another city for training, she's yet to call me, if I don't call for one month, she won't call, its a day after christmas now and not even a flash nor sms from her, she just never care.
Am heartbroken
We should be getting married next year,
Why is it so easy for her to pretend I never exist?
Why?

Bro, do you want me to tell you the truth? If yes... I will. If no, I wont.

Firstly, let me ask you this questions:

Do you guys define the relationship from the onset, as in did you woo her and she categorically accepted? Is she aware that she was ever in a relationship with you?

Have you had sex or romantic kisses? If yes, how many times? Did you hit the bull's eyes when done?

Does she allow you to touch her romantically and intimately?

I doubt the last 2 questions will return in affirmative.

But here is what you need and it's what I often recommend for cases like yours.

https://www.nairaland.com/396243/how-maintain-control-woman

if after reading this link... You still need an answer, your case has no cure!

islandbreeze:


Thank You Laimo, I feel so hurt, am just trying to be careful as this could be deadly, there was a time I complained about her only calling when she needs one thing or the other, I caught her cheating but I felt that was not enough to leave her, called her and warned her but when I travelled home and my sigma had problem in 2009, I left the car, even sold it later, I started visiting her with cab as I must get her dinner every night as usual , it was a tough time for me, and I could no longer cope with her bills, we had a big misunderstanding and she left.
I started seeing her on bike as she love eatery so much, she one time invited me to one eatery but I didn't go cos I was not happy with her, but I soon recovered and got another car, was trying to get gas in a filling station and the bike she took that day wanted to get gas too, so my friend called her and she joined us, that was how she followed us home that day and we reconciled , but after she left for law school, I started visiting, sending money and bought all books, buying clothes and never allowed her to be driven by any of those rough commercial drivers, I was always there to take her home with her parent waiting for her at home, I ensured she was posted to a peaceful state but when she went for NYSC she requested I should give her 200k for house rent but I was broke then, she threatened me that a guys was asking out and ready to give her the money, I was dump founded , she started giving me deadline to send the money but I couldn't raise it, so I told her if its all about money, she should just let me be , that was how she started calling, but as was looking for a way out of my financial problem, my uncle in the oil and gas field called me and said I should go for some oil and gas training stuff,..... (Am just heartbroken) I can't type right now.

If I start going offshore now, she will come and start showing me love then, why can't she show me love now? Why is she not calling me now? I love her so much but I hate the way she treated me, I do not want to forgive her.
Clash of interest within myself.
I love her and I hate her
I just don't understand!

Hmm d condition that have condition you have condition many leaving them with no option to auction their condition.You see Bro you are in a case of pishmal dishmal,uncertain of uncertainty,desperately confused,tactically deployed,radially oozing into deuphoria state,randomly zero centered. I pity ur condition but there is nothing i can do

islandbreeze:


Thank You Laimo, I feel so hurt, am just trying to be careful as this could be deadly, there was a time I complained about her only calling when she needs one thing or the other, I caught her cheating but I felt that was not enough to leave her, called her and warned her but when I travelled home and my sigma had problem in 2009, I left the car, even sold it later, I started visiting her with cab as I must get her dinner every night as usual , it was a tough time for me, and I could no longer cope with her bills, we had a big misunderstanding and she left.
I started seeing her on bike as she love eatery so much, she one time invited me to one eatery but I didn't go cos I was not happy with her, but I soon recovered and got another car, was trying to get gas in a filling station and the bike she took that day wanted to get gas too, so my friend called her and she joined us, that was how she followed us home that day and we reconciled , but after she left for law school, I started visiting, sending money and bought all books, buying clothes and never allowed her to be driven by any of those rough commercial drivers, I was always there to take her home with her parent waiting for her at home, I ensured she was posted to a peaceful state but when she went for NYSC she requested I should give her 200k for house rent but I was broke then, she threatened me that a guys was asking out and ready to give her the money, I was dump founded , she started giving me deadline to send the money but I couldn't raise it, so I told her if its all about money, she should just let me be , that was how she started calling, but as was looking for a way out of my financial problem, my uncle in the oil and gas field called me and said I should go for some oil and gas training stuff,..... (Am just heartbroken) I can't type right now.

If I start going offshore now, she will come and start showing me love then, why can't she show me love now? Why is she not calling me now? I love her so much but I hate the way she treated me, I do not want to forgive her.
Clash of interest within myself.
I love her and I hate her
I just don't understand!

1 sentence: You are just her ATM. That girl can NEVER love you. Please what's the name of the course you are doing, duration and cost? I may be interested.

starlingleanets:
Hmm d condition that have condition you have condition many leaving them with no option to auction their condition.You see Bro you are in a case of pishmal dishmal,uncertain of uncertainty,desperately confused,tactically deployed,radially oozing into deuphoria state,randomly zero centered. I pity ur condition but there is nothing i can do

ye ye ye ye... I just chocked on my ewa agonyi and garri. You will pay oooo

2sExy1:
ye ye ye ye... I just chocked on my ewa agonyi and garri. You will pay oooo

No be me cos am o.

Yes, countless time , the parent even know me, didn't you read that?

2sExy1:


Bro, do you want me to tell you the truth? If yes... I will. If no, I wont.

Firstly, let me ask you this questions:

Do you guys define the relationship from the onset, as in did you woo her and she categorically accepted? Is she aware that she was ever in a relationship with you?

Have you had sex or romantic kisses? If yes, how many times? Did you hit the bull's eyes when done?

Does she allow you to touch her romantically and intimately?

I doubt the last 2 questions will return in affirmative.

But here is what you need and it's what I often recommend for cases like yours.

https://www.nairaland.com/396243/how-maintain-control-woman

if after reading this link... You still need an answer, your case has no cure!

Please leave this woman. Do not marry her if by some strange happening she marries you I fear for you in the marriage. She is not into you if she comes back to you most likely all her plan A, B, C has failed.

You deserve better so look for better.